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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2005 3:13 pm Post subject: |
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I'd say that 'primarily' they are a teaching institution. But, I suspect that research sources from individual professors who are interested rather than policy. This is basically a women's college - from which the majority of graduates will marry and enter the hareem. Only a tiny minority will go on to get advanced degrees and few will actually enter the workplace.
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erma
Joined: 23 Mar 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Kuala Lumpur
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 1:19 am Post subject: |
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Hi Walt,
yes, I've researched ZU website. But I'm always wary about the way in which educational institutions represent themselves (there is always a lot of pompous and self-flattering chest beating). I wanted to hear from people who are or were there.
Veiled sentiments, there is nothing veiled about your words here. I don't know about joining harem, but I assume that these girls will have more opportunities in future. Times are a-changin'...
But yes, it could be a problem if these girls know they won't be able to work, then why work hard in the university, right? But, let's be optimistic. From my own experience, women in the Muslim world tend to be more hard-working than men... |
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Afra
Joined: 02 Feb 2003 Posts: 389
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 3:58 am Post subject: |
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Sorry - I didn't mean to imply that US citizens are unaffected by currency fluctuations. However, if you are sending money out of the UAE, it's become more expensive for non-US folks. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 4:36 am Post subject: |
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Erma
Good description of the ZU website... you are very right to be wary. Pompous is the perfect word.
You will soon enough learn the reality of what I have said. Times are not changing all that fast. Those of us with years of experience playing this game know that with any luck the daughters and/or granddaughters of these fascinating young women will get some real opportunities.
And yes, the women are certainly more hard-working and almost always much better students. The girls I taught in the Emirates worked unbelievably hard to stay in the colleges because if they failed, it was to disappear behind the doors of their father's or husband's home. When I was there, about 10% of a particular year's entrance students eventually graduated and only about a quarter of those entered the workplace. Those numbers have risen in the last 10 years, but not much.
That said, everyone plays the game. The students work hard and pretend that they will get to actually use their degrees and the teachers pretend that we believe them. And I enjoyed every minute of teaching them.
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 4:53 am Post subject: |
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veiledsentiments wrote: |
Erma
Good description of the ZU website... you are very right to be wary. Pompous is the perfect word.
You will soon enough learn the reality of what I have said. Times are not changing all that fast. Those of us with years of experience playing this game know that with any luck the daughters and/or granddaughters of these fascinating young women will get some real opportunities.
And yes, the women are certainly more hard-working and almost always much better students. The girls I taught in the Emirates worked unbelievably hard to stay in the colleges because if they failed, it was to disappear behind the doors of their father's or husband's home. When I was there, about 10% of a particular year's entrance students eventually graduated and only about a quarter of those entered the workplace. Those numbers have risen in the last 10 years, but not much.
That said, everyone plays the game. The students work hard and pretend that they will get to actually use their degrees and the teachers pretend that we believe them. And I enjoyed every minute of teaching them.
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VS, did you find the girls very envious of you? You being a professional woman and able to have a respectable job and not being told what to do and where to go. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Mar 30, 2005 3:48 pm Post subject: |
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VS, did you find the girls very envious of you? You being a professional woman and able to have a respectable job and not being told what to do and where to go. |
This is a huge topic and I could write volumes. But, the short answer is no, for the most part they pitied me. In their worldview I was a pathetic single woman... away from her family... no husband... no children... what could possibly be worse than that? They were mystified that I was not married as they felt that since I was 'attractive,' how can I not be married? Even though I assured them of the fact that I had chosen to not marry, I'm sure that they didn't believe me. They just can't imagine that I would, in effect, choose to not have children. It is a given in their world that the goal of life is children and the marriage that one needs to have them. Even more curious to them was that I preferred to live alone... completely out of their possible life choices. They can't imagine living alone.
Then there is the fact that these women feel sorry for Western women as we are obviously the most mistreated women in the world as our men have no respect for us at all. That is shown by the fact that even our husbands touch us in public - gasp, even kiss us (something that in their culture shows that the woman is a prostitute). The men allow their wives and daughters to run the streets with no chaperon to protect them... thus it is obvious that they do not love or respect us at all.
Therein lies the problem that all of us make in judging another culture by the rules of our own. A topic that I often tried to discuss 'carefully' in class... not that they should change their culture, but to be aware of the different rules in different cultures - and how it leads to misunderstandings.
Some of the more adventurous outgoing young women would admit that they would like a bit more freedom. Many of them had the maturity to want their families to trust them more. And a few of the truly bright sparks who were in very conservative families did regret that they wouldn't be able to work.
But the reality was that none of them wanted my life any more than I wanted theirs.
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erma
Joined: 23 Mar 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Kuala Lumpur
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 4:50 am Post subject: |
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VS,
that's one of the most interesting and revealing responses i've seen. it says a lot about pre-conceived notions that people in different cultures have about those from other cultures. your last sentence sums up the issue perfectly. i wish all of us had such sensitivity.
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whatgoesaround
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 33
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 11:12 am Post subject: |
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Afra wrote: |
Sorry - I didn't mean to imply that US citizens are unaffected by currency fluctuations. However, if you are sending money out of the UAE, it's become more expensive for non-US folks. |
Sorry to disagree with you again, but no, it hasn't become any more expensive for non-Americans than for Americans. If Americans sent all their money back to America and used it only to buy American-made goods that were made only with native resources, you might be on to something, but that isn't the case. American expats, on an individual basis, participate in the global economy just like everybody else, maybe MORE than everybody else. Whether exchange-rate movements hurt or help you is a complicated question involving what currency you're receiving, what currency you're holding, what currency you're investing, and where you're spending your money.
I think that you may be thinking of people who have fixed spending obligations in countries that don't use US dollars; someone who is working in the UAE and has to make payments on a house in New Zealand, for example, would be harder pressed than an American who is making house payments in the USA. But a big slide in any major currency comes back to hurt all of us, if not sooner, then later. It's the instability itself that causes shock waves. |
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younggeorge
Joined: 15 Apr 2005 Posts: 350 Location: UAE
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 3:46 pm Post subject: |
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veiledsentiments wrote: |
I'd say that 'primarily' they are a teaching institution. But, I suspect that research sources from individual professors who are interested rather than policy. This is basically a women's college - from which the majority of graduates will marry and enter the hareem. Only a tiny minority will go on to get advanced degrees and few will actually enter the workplace.
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For once, I beg to differ with VS. First, ZU has for the past two or three years had a strong emphasis on research and recently made a high-level appointment to oversee research programs. The extent to which you could expect to be involved in research depends on which department you work in. If you come to the English Language Centre, it's true you will only be expected to teach, but even English teachers manage to do a range of other interesting things as you can see by the number of ZU teachers on the TESOL Arabia committee and conference presenters' list.
Secondly, the reference to the "hareem" is uncharacteristically condescending. We have graduates working in good positions in a number of government departments and private companies. One of my first students, for instance went on to work in the office of the ruler of Abu Dhabi, now the President of the UAE: I met another just recently in a bank, where she was Acting Manager. Another is the sole supporter of her mother and is working full-time while completing her degree.
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younggeorge
Joined: 15 Apr 2005 Posts: 350 Location: UAE
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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erma wrote: |
Does anyone know if Zayed Univ. is primarily a teaching institution, or do they also invest in research? What is the teaching load in social sciences? |
Just re-read this, sorry I missed the "social sciences" bit. I think the teaching load there is 4 courses, or 12 contact hours per week. How far along the process of application/appointment are you?
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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Goodness younggeorge, feel free to 'disagree.' But, you weren't really disagreeing on the research issue as much as updating. We almost NEVER get a ZU teacher who posts here, so I can only pass on what friends teaching there have told me. And since all my friends are in English, they perhaps don't pay much attention to what the professors are doing.
I'm not sure why you consider the 'hareem' reference to be condescending. It is the Arabic term for the area of the house that is restricted to women only. It is certainly the term that they would use. It is only some Westerners who have a negative connotation to that word. The average Emirati family is still very conservative. When I first taught at HCT in the early 90's, out of an entry class of 185, only about 12 would make it to graduation, and of those 1 or less would make it to the workplace. In the last 10 years, the number of students, graduates and those entering the work force has increased - once could even say dramatically. You will find a larger percentage of women moving into the workforce now in Dubai, but the number in the rest of the country is still very small. We can all point to a few outstanding young women who have managed to become successful. But, my many friends teaching women in the Emirates still bemoan how it is often their best students whose family have said 'no' to their working. Perhaps they will have more liberal husbands.
Insha'Allah...
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younggeorge
Joined: 15 Apr 2005 Posts: 350 Location: UAE
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 2:45 am Post subject: |
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veiledsentiments wrote: |
Goodness younggeorge, feel free to 'disagree.'
I'm not sure why you consider the 'hareem' reference to be condescending. It is the Arabic term for the area of the house that is restricted to women only.
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I think I did know that but got sucked in by the westerners' connotations - as will other western readers of the forum. However, my point is that, even if it is still a "tiny minority" of women students who go into the workforce, it's not so tiny as you might think - I'll try to get some figures from our careers office - and it's a huge step forward from their parents' generation. |
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usool
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 147
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 9:14 am Post subject: How sad |
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Hi all
How sad that people view leaving the house and getting a job as 'progess' and the opposite as backward. This is typical of western 'braindead' syndrome. Western women did not leave the house for emancipatory reasons, it was pure economics. Recent reports in the UK suggest more and more young women are choosing the rewarding career of bringing up children to being a *beep* to the economy(http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk_news/story/0,,1434152,00.html) in some underpaid, part-time, over-worked job (http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk_news/story/0,,1433206,00.html). As for the comments that we Muslims pitty western women for the shallow and immature reasons outlined by veiledshadow, you're having a laugh. I grew up in the UK and in studies and work I can't ever recall a western man referrring a woman in anything other than a sexual way, it's one of the reasons that turned me off you're great way of life. Women in the west are nothing more than sexual objects, thats why you see them in advertisements for everything from soap to sofas, because in reality the executives view them as just one more studio prop.
Regards and best wishes |
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usool
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 147
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 10:00 am Post subject: Veiledsentiments-Take your emancipation message to the UK! |
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Women in their late 20s polled across the UK made clear that, after watching their exhausted mothers trying against the odds to balance work and home life, they are not prepared to attempt the same juggling act. Instead, the survey indicates, those who grew up in the 1980s want to "downshift", working in jobs that interest rather than overwhelm them, and spending more time with their children than their parents did.
The group dubbed the "don't want it all" generation by New Woman magazine, which commissioned the poll, appears to be turning back to a more traditional social model in which men are the main breadwinners while women have prime responsibility for raising children.
Seven out of 10 of 1,500 women questioned in the Young Women's Lifestyle Survey of Great Britain 2005, with an average age 29, said they did not want to work as hard as their mother's generation. Once they had children - which most said they wanted to have from age 31 and within marriage - only one in 10 said she wanted to work full time and put their child into nursery care.
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younggeorge
Joined: 15 Apr 2005 Posts: 350 Location: UAE
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Posted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 10:07 am Post subject: Re: How sad |
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usool wrote: |
How sad that people view leaving the house and getting a job as 'progess' and the opposite as backward. This is typical of western 'braindead' syndrome. Western women did not leave the house for emancipatory reasons, it was pure economics. |
I hope you didn't think I was saying that. I think it's a great thing that they have the choice and opportunity nowadays. I know from talking to our students that many of them have ambitions that they could not have fulfilled in earlier generations, but also that many, like you, will feel fulfilled in a more domestic role. Neither is "better" than the other but it's a wonderful thing to have the choice. |
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