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Veritas_Aequitas
Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Posts: 88 Location: Jalisco, Mexico
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Posted: Sun Apr 03, 2005 9:54 pm Post subject: |
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Have you dropped your wallet in one of Sao Paulo's slums to check that theory? That's why I say it's a stereotype. We guess at it.
Like MixtecaMike says over in the Mexico forum...Mexico City's Tepito neighborhood to me sounds dangerous, but he lived there and never had a problem. Calls it a great place to shop. Now that I think about it, having been warned so much about Tepito, I've never actually spent much time there...just listened to stories. |
Yes, experiencing things first hand is best. I actually hung around in a slum with a Brazilian friend who was teaching there. I met a lot of nice people as I knew I would, but the fact still remained that one had to be careful since people systematically got hurt and even killed almost on daily bases. |
You are absolutely correct that the favelas are dangerous places and people get killed there on a daily basis, however the amount of innocent people that get killed are a small percentage. The vast majority that do are involved with the gang (The Comando Vermelho, predominately in Rio), and owe them money from their drug habit, or perhaps are police informants or something of that nature. Most people that live in the favela are happy, non-violent, well-adjusted people. That is why countries such as Brasil, Nigeria, and Colombia report such high ratings of happiness, despite the fact that we might imagine that they live in virtual hell-holes. |
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Deconstructor

Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 775 Location: Montreal
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Posted: Sun Apr 03, 2005 11:36 pm Post subject: |
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How about Korea, guys? When I was there, I was treated so well and made so many friends so fast.
The unfriendliest country: Germany. After 6 months, I only knew my students (who were great people) but outside class I met almost no one. |
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jaytee
Joined: 28 Sep 2004 Posts: 16 Location: China
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 11:33 am Post subject: |
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| I am not terribly well traveled, I have only been to four countries, but I found that Thailand was the friendliest place. That isn't to say the happiest place, the people were not very happy with the conditions they had to live in, but despite this they were always smiling and always friendly. |
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basiltherat
Joined: 04 Oct 2003 Posts: 952
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Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2005 8:41 am Post subject: |
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i always find it amusing that many countries which claim to be the friendliest are those which seem, from my experience anyway, to have some of the most unscrupulous characters ive ever met. Indonesia, specifically Jakarta, comes immediately to mind. Thailand, Bangkok, is another place where ie found some of the most damning behaviour( sorry to disagree with the OP but i do refer only to my experiences in Bangkok). I agree that city residents in any country do not represent the population as a whole, but it reminds me nevertheless. I have never heard anyone say that British people are 'very friendly'. In fact, even British people themselves would generally not even dare to make this claim (rightly so, I suppose).
However, I have to say that Syrians, both those in the city and in the regions, seem to be extremely kind and helpful. I have spent around 3 years here in total and have never ever felt threatened in the way I frequently felt in Jakarta. Poverty and struggle for survival amongst a rapidly growing population are clearly among the reasons for this but, on the other hand, it does not mean that such damning and unscrupulous behaviouir should be justified.
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