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Opting for a mature female teacher - Act of Discrimination?

 
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Old Dog



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 12:45 am    Post subject: Opting for a mature female teacher - Act of Discrimination? Reply with quote

Some people have indicated to me that they think our school's decision to employ an additional female teacher of mature age is discriminatory against younger females and men in general. They argue on the grounds of "merit"; however, I believe that it's "horses for courses".

From many points of view, this would be a very desirable appointment. Nevertheless, I believe that in opting for a mature female, the school would be looking after its own interests as well as protecting others from a conservative social situation with limited opportunities for entertainment and social interaction with other foreigners that they may not feel altogether comfortable with after a month or two.

There is the belief here that an older female would be more content with a quieter life, would not be troubled by the absence of bars and discos and would be comforted by the fairly secure environment of the school.

It is true that general employment conditions here would be to the liking of everyone but it's my belief that, in limiting its options as it has, the school is protecting itself against restlessness and disillusion that could manifest itself among young people with greater demands for a more swinging life. Suzhou is close by, it is true, but not everyone wants to be secure and in bed by 10 p.m. five days a week.

I'd be interested in the views of others on this question.
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travelingirl68



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 1:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why would they just not make the living conditions very clear up-front? Then any individual could decide - no matter their age or gender - and the honesty would be appreciated by both parties.
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brsmith15



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 1:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I take it you are a young suckling only recently weaned from your mother's teat and regard "fun" as staying out late, drinking as much as you can and then collapsing into your rack then to face your morning class blearly-eyed, hungover and stupid which can only add to your total lack of life experience.

I did it myself!

N'est ce pas?
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Sinobear



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 2:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unless it's motivated by the school's desire to have someone that's thought of as complacent and easy to control - as was the case with the primary school where I taught previously.


Cheers!
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Talkdoc



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 4:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

travelingirl68 wrote:
Why would they just not make the living conditions very clear up-front? Then any individual could decide - no matter their age or gender - and the honesty would be appreciated by both parties.


This assumes, of course, that EFL teachers in China are predominantly emotionally mature, self-aware and honest with both themselves and others about their motivations and reasons for seeking employment at any given school. I could be mistaken, but that might be a false assumption.

OD, no one has ever accused me of being politically correct before, so I might not be the most representative source of feedback on this matter, but I see nothing wrong with the criteria you set forth, particularly for the reasons you delineated. Even in Western countries where academic institutions, for example, are currently being held hostage by PC militants (and where one cannot be discriminated against because of age, religion, sexual preference and gender), there do exist settings in which age and/or gender can be legitimately used as employment criteria (if the employer can satisfactorily demonstrate that these attributes are a necessary part of satisfactory job performance, e.g., tech or "counselor" in a group home for boys on the night shift).

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Suzhou is close by, it is true, but not everyone wants to be secure and in bed by 10 p.m. five days a week.


On the other hand, I can think of at least one fifty-year old man currently teaching in China who likes to be in bed by 10 p.m., seven days a week. Gender may not be as critical here as age and, by close proximity, current status and goals in life. An older man, especially one who was already married or coupled (or, in the cases of 'rwillmsen' and 'Jolly', with a canine companion in tow) should satisfy the concerns of the school administrators as well as any mature, older woman might.

Doc
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millie



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 4:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello Old Dog,

I like the idea of this sort of positive discrimination.
Should be a lot more of it.
OK, I may just be included in the "in" group.



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From many points of view, this would be a very desirable appointment.


I wonder if you could give us some more details as to why this particular doghouse might be a good one.
I know this is not a job ad. and salary apart, what are the virtues of this school and programme as compared to other Chinese educational institutions you have observed?

Does the school actually listen to your suggestions and regard your input in a positive manner?

Is the admin simply a pack of hounds that would forget the beer at an alcoholics’ picnic?
Or are they organised and exhibit some forward thinking?

Given affirmative answers, I think there might be many an old biddy straining at their leash.

But I really wonder….

When you say a conservative environment, do you actually mean this is some god-forsaken town out it the wild west of the pre-Mao era, light years removed from civilization as I understand it?

Seems to me that is where many FT’s end up and eventually suffer in this sort of isolation.

Some objective answers would be appreciated.
M
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Babala



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 4:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OD,
Speaking as a younger foreign teacher, I see nothing wrong in what the school is doing. They are a business, whatever they feel is best for the business, so be it. Right now my school is searching for an older American or British male by student requests. I think it is the school's right to hire who they want. There are quite a few posting for kindys that only want younger females.
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limits601



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

T and A will always win !
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Zero Hero



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have to agree with 'Babala'. Also, is there such a concept as 'discrimination' in China? Employers, if they so wish, can openly advertise for staff who, for example, wear read socks, can't they? It is their choice. If it is what their customers want, then that is what they will try to provide. I suppose you could argue it is a form of discrimination, though you would have to also argue that modelling agencies refusing to hire obvious non-model material constitutes 'discrimination'.

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latefordinner



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Agreed again, it is the school's prerogative to discriminate. I don't see how it is any more positive than deciding to hire white only or not over age 30 or whatever, but there you have it. I think though we have to turn TD's observation around. It would be nice to think that the schools are doing so in their own best interest, representing the wishes of the parents, and are honest about the reasons. That may be a questionable assumption. (Wasn't that one of your points, Millie?)
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Old Dog



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 30, 2005 7:03 am    Post subject: In defence Reply with quote

The general characteristics of this beautiful town (and this school) are that, while town and school are very rich, it's a small town and quite conservative. Even the young women on staff live the life of matrons of a certain age. But, I guess, the school is not all that narrow in its view. Retired female teachers are as rare as hen's teeth and I suppose, at a pinch, they'd opt from a clean Old Stinker in place of an Old Boiler. But you know what old men can be like. Some are drunks, some are lechers, some pi*ss on the floor and dribble their soup on their ties. Ladies don't so such things. Since it's difficult to vet these things in advance, a lady seems to the powers that be the best bet. In any case, competent, retired male teachers who are clean in their habits, aren't drunks or lechers, etc. are probably as rare as hen's teeth too. As for younger people, within in a month they'd be rearing to go to the bright lights or would want to come swinging in at midnight. I look at this beautiful place just now with its spring dress on - just made for that elusive, lively, good-natured, old school ma'am or just maybe, a continent lively, good-natured, old school master.
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Jolly



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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2005 10:05 am    Post subject: Re: In defence Reply with quote

Old Dog wrote:
The general characteristics of this beautiful town (and this school) are that, while town and school are very rich, it's a small town and quite conservative. Even the young women on staff live the life of matrons of a certain age. But, I guess, the school is not all that narrow in its view. Retired female teachers are as rare as hen's teeth and I suppose, at a pinch, they'd opt from a clean Old Stinker in place of an Old Boiler. But you know what old men can be like. Some are drunks, some are lechers, some pi*ss on the floor and dribble their soup on their ties. Ladies don't so such things. Since it's difficult to vet these things in advance, a lady seems to the powers that be the best bet. In any case, competent, retired male teachers who are clean in their habits, aren't drunks or lechers, etc. are probably as rare as hen's teeth too. As for younger people, within in a month they'd be rearing to go to the bright lights or would want to come swinging in at midnight. I look at this beautiful place just now with its spring dress on - just made for that elusive, lively, good-natured, old school ma'am or just maybe, a continent lively, good-natured, old school master.


I don't think that you school opting for older teachers is discriminatory against younger females. Your school and city are sounding more and more appealing to me!

You are so right about "competent, retired male teachers who are clean in their habits, etc. " and hopefully non-smokers, being as scarce as hen's teeth. I don't know that retired female teachers are all that scarce. Are they?

I'm not sure I'd opt for an "Old Stinker" as opposed to an "Old Boiler!" That expression escapes me! Just what is an Old Boiler anyhow? Wink an Old Stinker I know.

You have a high opinion of women, and I find that charming.


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travelingirl68



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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2005 11:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This assumes, of course, that EFL teachers in China are predominantly emotionally mature, self-aware and honest with both themselves and others about their motivations and reasons for seeking employment at any given school. I could be mistaken, but that might be a false assumption.



Oops, my mistake, I forgot about the Kia/Simon's of the world!
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