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Don't get married in Peru

 
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 2:40 pm    Post subject: Don't get married in Peru Reply with quote

What a pain. We were planning on getting married in June and found out I needed a document saying I am single and to translate my birth cert. Of course, I would need to get them legalised by the embassy, then translated, then legalised the originals and translations by the Peruvian Consulate in Chicago and then legalised by the Foreign Affairs here.So then we planned it for late August. So I could go during my vacations, now, and get the docs. Now I don't have my passport, so I ccan't get the single doc from the embassy.
HOpefully in October, when I go to the States for a visit I can get the docs and then fingers crossed we can get married in febrary.
WE also need a medical and police report saying where we live.
I would tell people to go to their own country and get married, because here it's nearly impoosible for foreigners to get married.
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moonraven



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 2:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is SOP all over Latin America for foreigners. In Mexico you also have to submit documentation showing that it has been a long term relationship, too.

Why do you not have a passport?
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 2:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah and according to the US state dept, it's super difficult here. I don't have a passport, because I'm staying for another eyar, so they are renewing my visa. I haven' had a passport since June 1st, I found out that it was sitting in someone's desk for three weeks before they sent it, hopefully I will get it back in Mid'August.
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moonraven



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 2:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Two and a half months without a passport?!!!

Are you working for a university or a white slaver?
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Justin Trullinger



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 4:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Are you working for a university or a white slaver?



Good question, except that I'm not sure that there's always a difference. Keep smiling.

Justin
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Michael Smith



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2005 9:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

moonraven wrote:
This is SOP all over Latin America for foreigners. In Mexico you also have to submit documentation showing that it has been a long term relationship, too.


I've been married twice in Mexico, the first time twelve or so years ago, the most recent four months ago, and I never had to submit anything like that, in fact, apart from having to get my birth certificate certified in the UK, the whole thing was fairly straightforward.
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MELEE



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 4:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm coming up on my 2 year anniversary.
While marriage in Mexico was a pain, it sounds worse in Peru. The thing is we COULDN'T get married in the US because my husband was dennied entry to the US for being a poor indio from Oaxaca. (I know that's an explosive statement, but when you strip down the thing to its essense it's true.)

We didn't need to show it was a long term relationship, but I did have to petition for permission and pay for the right to get married. Another wife refered to is as "buying a Mexican". But basically getting married is not one of the activities you are authorized to do with an FM3 so you have to get permission to do so whether the person you are marrying in Mexican or not. I think Mexico should streamline the process so they can bank in on the "destination wedding" craze.
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moonraven



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2005 11:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's up to the discretion of both the US and Mexican immigration folks.

I backed out of marrying my partner when we saw the list of b.s. we had to go through in the Registro Civil. But friends who got married a year before we were considering it did have to jump through some hoops because the guy was from the US and wanted to arrange for a visa for the woman he was marrying. Both governments looked at their courtship letters!
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Flo



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PostPosted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 6:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think I posted something before about that university sending off passports and not giving them back in a timely manner. It takes a week (3 business days) for the office in Lima to process a work visa. They need the passport to do this, apparently. The problem with the Uni is they have their "courier" transport it to Lima personally. While they are waiting for a "shipment" to be ready to send, the passports are misplaced or just left laying around for weeks or months at a time. I finally got mine back after calling OIM in Lima about 5 times and then going to the office on campus and sitting there until they gave it to me. They do this to everyone. It is ridiculous.
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moonraven



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PostPosted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 7:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It sure is ridiculous, all right. Not only that, but it is not legal for you to be running round in the country without your passport on your person or in your handbag!

All immigration offices that I have dealt with use a copy of the passport. For precisely the reason mentioned above.
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Justin Trullinger



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PostPosted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 3:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not sure about Peru- In Ecuador, my extension of visa proceedings, etc, have always required the original passport to be turned in. Usually for one or two days. Not weeks. Not months...

If you have local identification (here it's a "Censo" for short term legal foreign residents, and a "cedula" for locals and long term foreigners) then being passportless is no problem...

But it sounds like, more than the legal system, this is a problem with your university. Take it up with them. Let them know it is NOT acceptable, and that it will cost them, in terms of teachers, etc...

And good luck.

Justin
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2005 11:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I got mine back last week. It acutally arrived in late July, bit the woman who was supposed to give it to me was on vac. . .
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