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valley_girl



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sallycat wrote:
my studnets don't understand that "can you use chopsticks?" is a really *beep* dumb question.

my current answer is "no, and after six years in japan i'm really quite hungry".


Tell me about it! What's so incredibly difficult about eating with chopsticks? Rolling Eyes
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Cdaniels



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 9:02 pm    Post subject: Can you use chopsticks? Reply with quote

Well, I can't say that American tourists give Asians a high opinion of our abilities in this area. Often "I can't use chopsticks" from an American really means the person doesn't want to bother to learn. Confused
Can you really blame Asians for underestimating us?
Even forks are a relatively new invention for Westerners. Most of us just aren't very culturally sophisticated. Embarassed
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Deconstructor



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What I want students to understand is that I am not a teacher but a simple guide, in a sense that I am not someone who will readily give answers to every stupid question. I want them to understand that they must try to answer their own questions themselves and I am there only to help them learn skills and strategies as to how to deal with a new language. Don't ask me "What does this word mean?" I taught you already that there are number of ways of dealing with new vocab and unless you have applied all of them and failed, don't come to me! I teach them to be critical. I help them to discover their own special way of learning.

I am not Mr Spock! I will not put my fingers on your temple and upload English into your brain simply by saying, �my thoughts to your thoughts�.

Be your own teachers.
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valley_girl



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 11:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@Deconstructor - It appears as though we have very similar teaching styles. Ditto everything you said! Very Happy
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Deconstructor



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

valley_girl wrote:
@Deconstructor - It appears as though we have very similar teaching styles. Ditto everything you said! Very Happy


I'm glad there is at least one person out there who agrees. After all, what most teachers really do in class is chew the food and cram it down the students' throats, the same food that is often regurgitated right back on to the teachers' faces.
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Jizzo T. Clown



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 10:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deconstructor wrote:
I want them to understand that they must try to answer their own questions themselves and I am there only to help them learn skills and strategies as to how to deal with a new language. Don't ask me "What does this word mean?" I taught you already that there are number of ways of dealing with new vocab and unless you have applied all of them and failed, don't come to me! I teach them to be critical. I help them to discover their own special way of learning.


I heartily agree. It seems that in the West we learn to learn. Most Eastern cultures tend to equate learning with memorizing.
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ls650



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 3:19 am    Post subject: Re: Can you use chopsticks? Reply with quote

Cdaniels wrote:
Often "I can't use chopsticks" from an American really means the person doesn't want to bother to learn.

Or is just plain clumsy... Embarassed
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dyak



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 2:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

valley_girl wrote:
- that my job is to teach them the skills to succeed in their language goals, *not* to pour English into a funnel at the top of their heads.

I second that. If only there were schools offering English through osmosis! We'd be printing money. Learn English for the mere physical exertion of warming up a room!

My current pet peeve is students copying things down wrongly from the board. I mean, what happens during the (less that 2ft) journey from board to pen?
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Dragonlady



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 24, 2006 4:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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hlamb



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 7:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wish my students understood that I don't always know all the answers. I wish they realized that I am not a human translation dictionary. I wish the school understood it's not my job to translate everything. I wish my students knew that learning a language isn't easy and they need to work at it to succeed.

I love my job, but there are some days....! Rolling Eyes
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sickbag



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 9:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jizzo T. Clown wrote:
Deconstructor wrote:
I want them to understand that they must try to answer their own questions themselves and I am there only to help them learn skills and strategies as to how to deal with a new language. Don't ask me "What does this word mean?" I taught you already that there are number of ways of dealing with new vocab and unless you have applied all of them and failed, don't come to me! I teach them to be critical. I help them to discover their own special way of learning.


I heartily agree. It seems that in the West we learn to learn. Most Eastern cultures tend to equate learning with memorizing.


My experience in Mexico so far leads me to believe that most Mexican children equate learning with cheating.
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dyak



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 1:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sickbag wrote:
My experience in Mexico so far leads me to believe that most Mexican children equate learning with cheating.

Mine too unfortunately... or the surprised laughter when I suggest that copying is also cheating.
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hlamb



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 4:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

dyak wrote:
Mine too unfortunately... or the surprised laughter when I suggest that copying is also cheating.


Yeah, what's with that? Is there some kind of cultural thing going on here that I'm not aware of? In Canada cheating is not only frowned on, it's actively prevented. Here it seems to be completely normal.
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