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shuize



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

wolfman wrote:
alright, fine. be pompous and cynical ... maybe i'm being romantic, naive, and idealistic. but aren't those traits characteristic of youth?

Yes, and that type is a dime a dozen here. Thus my comment on falling salaries. If you want to measure your "spiritual journey" why don't you print out your post above and paste it to your refrigerator. Then come back after a couple of years living and working in Japan and tell me all about how 'pompous and cynical' I was.

As Abufletcher suggests:
abufletcher wrote:

Come to Japan. Enjoy your time. Just don't think of it as some magical land of mystery - that's just the marketing hype.
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wolfman



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shuize wrote:
wolfman wrote:
alright, fine. be pompous and cynical ... maybe i'm being romantic, naive, and idealistic. but aren't those traits characteristic of youth?

Yes, and that type is a dime a dozen here. Thus my comment on falling salaries. If you want to measure your "spiritual journey" why don't you print out your post above and paste it to your refrigerator. Then come back after a couple of years living and working in Japan and tell me all about how 'pompous and cynical' I was.

As Abufletcher suggests:
abufletcher wrote:

Come to Japan. Enjoy your time. Just don't think of it as some magical land of mystery - that's just the marketing hype.


i wasn't trying to make it seem like i think coming to japan is going to awaken some secret of the cosmos in my soul. none of that drivel. life is a spiritual journey. and if part of that journey for me includes life in japan, then i would undoubtedly feel a spiritual connection to the place. no different than if it were mexico, oman, or des moines. except that i'm more interested in the culture and life of japan and it's people.

from your perspective i probably sound naive and inexperienced. from mine your comments seem jaded and cynical. i mean no offense. it's just that from my point of view you're coming off as somewhat pessimistic.
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alexrocks



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wolfman, you ought to check out this thread if you haven't already:

http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/job/viewtopic.php?t=36404&highlight=positive
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

From our very own sticky:




Here is a quote (author unknown) from a net forum a few years ago, but still holds true today. It offers a humorous look at the promise and reality of the eikaiwa experience:

For the vocationless graduate with a penchant for travel, the call of TEFL is strong. For the penniless member of the same breed, unable to afford an RSA certificate, beware! A teaching job in Japan is yours for the taking, if you? Be prepared to, well...SELL YOUR SOUL.

Perhaps some will feel this is going to far. It is certainly true that there are some plum jobs amongst the cherry blossoms. And yet, without having an insider? view of the Japanese job scene, it is very likely that you will end up mesmerized by the rampant, glossy, advertising of the giants - Nova, Geos, Berlitz and the American-focused Aeon. These companies are the corporate face of the English teaching market in Japan and prey upon those of us who casually flip through the Guardian Education supplement of a Tuesday. Jostling for our attention in the classifieds are numerous small ads promising great opportunities in Turkey and Russia. Forget them. Allow your eyes to drift towards the reassuringly oversized and sophisticated box that promises: An Amazing Cultural Experience? and international promotion and career opportunities? and best of all TEFL experience is an asset, but not essential?. Wooo hooo! Lets go! And so many do.

In such a way I was lulled into sending an application form to one of the Big four?. A couple of months later I found myself staggering towards a big sign in Narita International Airport - ?ave a nice time in Japan, but don? break the rules? it both welcomed and cautioned. The barely registered twinge of uneasiness I felt on reading this slogan was a sensation I was to become familiar with in the following weeks and months. No, actually I take that back. The twinge of uneasiness at the airport was like an orgasmic shudder when I compare it to what awaited me at my new job. If I say I was misled by the London recruiters about my new life and work in Japan, I don? think I?e quite covered the magnitude of the situation. The following parable gets closer to how it was:A recruiter of a big English-teaching company is hit by a bus and dies. She is met at the gates of heaven by St. Peter who says, owing to an administrative hitch, they are unsure where to place her - heaven or hell. Instead she is to be given the choice herself by spending a day in each and then deciding.

Arriving in hell for her Easter-day, she is met by the friendly faces of colleagues from her company, dressed exquisitely in designer casuals. They greet her warmly and show her around hell, which is a beautifully landscaped country club with golf courses and tennis courts. She has a fantastic day playing sports, dining on lobster and steaks, dancing and getting drunk with her friends. Everyone laughs at her jokes and she even gets to meet the devil himself, who is, dare she say it, kinda cute?. It is with great sadness that she leaves in the evening.

The following day she spends in Heaven. Here she hops from cloud to cloud, plays harps and generally hangs out with the angels. Again she enjoys herself very much. St. Peter asks her for a decision the next day. After great deliberation, she chooses hell over heaven. To hell you will spend eternity, St. Peter decrees.

When she arrives the country club and golf courses are gone. In their place is a filthy, desolate wasteland. Her friends are still there, but they are dressed in rags, picking up garbage and putting it in sacks. The Devil comes up and puts his arm around her. "I don't understand," she stammers, "yesterday I was here and there was a golf course and a country club and we ate lobster and we danced and had a great time.

Now it's a wasteland of garbage and all my friends look miserable. The Devil looked at her and smiled evily. "Yesterday we were recruiting you; today you're staff."


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kdynamic



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hahahah wow Paul that was pretty intense. I wouldn't go that far... life if Japan is nice, for the msot part. Well I am not an English teacher and don't know anything first hand about life teaching in an Eikaiwai...

Anyway, wolfman, I am sorry I was a downer. I am, also young and for the most part, also idealistic. I have just been feeling very down on Japan lately because of the constant racism and xenophobia. It's really starting to wear on me for a variety of reasons. But if you think coming to Japan is for you, I saw go for it. Make the best of it, have a good time. If you keep your expectations somewhat realistic I think it might turn out great. I still chose to stay in Japan, after all, though I am getting the hell out of here as soon as my contract is up in 18 months. enough is enough. for now.
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 8:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kdynamic wrote:
Anyway, wolfman, I am sorry I was a downer. I am, also young and for the most part, also idealistic. I have just been feeling very down on Japan lately because of the constant racism and xenophobia. It's really starting to wear on me for a variety of reasons. But if you think coming to Japan is for you, I saw go for it. Make the best of it, have a good time. If you keep your expectations somewhat realistic I think it might turn out great. I still chose to stay in Japan, after all, though I am getting the hell out of here as soon as my contract is up in 18 months. enough is enough. for now.


Everyone is obviously different and I dont expect people will spend years and years in japan like me.

However I do think its somewhat funny to see people hold up these 'idealistic' pie-in-the-sky images, as though Japan is all geisha and little bamboo bridges and shakuhachi flutes.

the reality is more like large crowds, lots of concrete everywhere, vending machines, pachinko and noise. Throw in some xenophobia and racism, generally extortionate employers and you have the makings of some heavy duty culture shock.

I have been here a few years and need to get out of Japan to 'adjust' my bearings, take a breather as it can become a little claustrophobic and too much on the senses. You need to have a break or get out once in a while. If you read these forums you will see many people working on the JET program, as ALTs or at NOVA and after 40 hours a week at those jobs reality has a way of catching up with you.

I still enjoy Japan after 20 years here and recommend it for the newbie, I have good days and bad days, but as long as you are realistic and dont think Japan is like it is in the Hollywood movies you will be OK.

Dont read Lonely Planet or Dave Barry, more like Alex Kerr and Dogs and Demons.
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abufletcher



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 11:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PAULH wrote:
However I do think its somewhat funny to see people hold up these 'idealistic' pie-in-the-sky images, as though Japan is all geisha and little bamboo bridges and shakuhachi flutes.

the reality is more like large crowds, lots of concrete everywhere, vending machines, pachinko and noise.


The way I see it, both of these in their extreme forms are stereotypes. The first one's the post card Japan, the one your parents want to see photos of. The second is the "Blade Runner" view of the "future" that is equally popular with a younger crowd looking for the heights of urban hipness (see Lost in Translation). This is essentially Tokyo (and all the other little Tokyo's around Japan).

What your own individual "on the ground" reality is like will depend entirely on where you end up living and working. My own reality is neither of these (but with little dashes of both). I used to be frustrated trying to always photograph the former (matsuris, kimonos, temple gardens, etc.) and bummed out that I couldn't be using my Leica to be doing gritty angst-ridden street photography of the latter. Now I've realize that both are largely figures of our collective imagination and when I do photography now I just try to do photography that, rather incidentally, happens to get done in Japan.
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sallycat



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 12:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^^^the above bit about photographing japan could be taken as a parable for living in japan
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alexrocks



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 1:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PAULH wrote:
Dont read Lonely Planet or Dave Barry, more like Alex Kerr and Dogs and Demons.


Lonely Planet is incredibly useful for finding your way around and learning how to get things done in an unfamiliar place when traveling, but yeah it's for travelers, not residents. I was offended just skimming Dave Barry's book on Japan. I don't have a rational reason for feeling that way -- maybe it's 'cause my wife is Japanese and of course you have to stand up for your wife, right?

I read Dogs and Demons before I came and I arrived criticizing everything about the society. I wish I hadn't done that, and now I feel that book is too negative. Though of course in the introduction I recall Kerr stating that he meant his book to be a counterbalance to the glorified image of Japan portrayed elsewhere.

Anyway, is the "loser" part of this thread finished?
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angrysoba



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 1:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Dont read Lonely Planet or Dave Barry, more like Alex Kerr and Dogs and Demons.


I second the poster above who said Lonely Planet is useful. My one was so useful to somebody that it got knicked and now everytime I want to go somewhere in Japan I feel a bit sad that I can't use it as a jumping-off point.

As for Alex Kerr, his first book Lost Japan is about what people come looking for and explains that it's just not here anymore. Dogs and Demons is grim reading and is best saved for if you eventually go home. Just when you feel like you miss Japan pick up that book and you'll be glad YOU'RE not here anymore.

As for the loser part of the thread...well, we did mention Dave Barry (why did the Yomiuri ditch his 'hilarious' articles?)
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SEndrigo



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 2:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I find the overall negative tone of these posts to be amusing at best....coming to Japan can be a really great experience, but I think that it depends on each person to make it a good experience.

To the people complaining about the falling of salaries: deal with it. Right now I work 2 or 3 hours a day and make more than most people who work 8.

There are good jobs here if you come over, pay your dues for a year or so and in the meanwhile look around.

Japan may be rigid and hierarchical in some aspects, but there is plenty of money to be made here and good business opportunities if you are so inclined.

Quit whinging about racism and xenophobia, and deal with it. If someone doesn't like you because of where you're from, that's their problem and not yours.

Let's stop being melodramatic and instead try to help out these genuine people who are posting questions here, looking for sincere and helpful answers.
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abufletcher



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 2:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I used to use the Lonely Planet guides almost religiously! I could barely get on an airplane without one. But then somewhere between yogjakarta and Petropavlovsk I started to notice that I had somehow developed a nose for where the backpacker havens were going to be, I could almost just look at a city map and tell which funky backstreets housed the $5 a night guesthouses.

And then I started to realize that The LP guide just tell you where to sleep, eat, and visit once you arrive someplace and not why you might want to go there to begin with. Nowadays I'd rather just arrive and take my chances -- but then I'm also no longer playing the "I bet I can spend less than you" travel game.

As a photographer (in a previous stage of my life I worked as a photojournalist) I've always been partial to the Insight Guides for inspiration BEFORE I go.

There is still one LP guide sitting on my shelf though -- still unused: Iran.

BTW, this is WAY off-topic but has anyone else read Pico Iyer's Video Night in Katmandu?
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SEndrigo



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 2:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

abufletcher wrote:
There is still one LP guide sitting on my shelf though -- still unused: Iran.



That must be the shortest LP guide of all, at 2 pages: A table of contents and a DO NOT GO!

Or if you do, just wear a "Death to America" t-shirt !

Laughing
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abufletcher



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 2:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually all you need nowadays is a T-shirt reading "I'm not Danish!" Very Happy

Back when I was working in Oman, I actually went into the Iranian Embassy (in the lobby of which they played and replayed tapes of Ayatollah Khomeini's funeral) and filled out an application for a journalist's visa citing as my sponsor the Mexican magazine I had been working for. The staff were all very friendly and helpful...but somehow the visa just never materialized. When I'd go up to Dubai I'd inevitably end up sharing a couple of glasses of sweet tea with the Iranian dhow crews docked on the Creek and they almost invariable offered to take me across to Bandar Abbas with them saying "no problem -- everyone like Americans. Just American government don't like."

When I was first gettng into EFL Iran was THE destination in the Middle East. EFL journals were full of English-Farsi constrastive studies and case studies from Tehran. But all that fell apart in 1979 (my senior year in college). I had taken Arabic because my university didn't offer a Farsi course. As I said, I just missed out on the India Overland thing. But then I did get to be called "Hey Joe" by old ladies in the markets of Saigon! Cool
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SEndrigo wrote:
Quit whinging about racism and xenophobia, and deal with it. If someone doesn't like you because of where you're from, that's their problem and not yours.

Sometimes it's not as simple as that. Confused
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