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luckyloser700
Joined: 24 Mar 2006 Posts: 308 Location: Japan
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 7:37 am Post subject: |
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Jazz1975 wrote: |
and I am planning to be located in Tokyo (at least that's what I'm listing as my preference on my application form). So, as you said, it won't be a problem; I'm sure whichever school I end up with will be happy to put me in Tokyo. |
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Right now, I'm just focussed on getting in. Dating is the furthest thing from my mind. Really and truly, my preference of NOT wanting to date Asian men is really not as big of an issue as everyone on here seems to think it is . I'll be fine . |
OK. I hear ya. Keep up the positive attitude!  |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 7:43 am Post subject: |
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My wife and I are both Canadian. She spent the first 5 years of her life in the UK, so I guess she could be classified as a foreigner. |
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kdynamic

Joined: 05 Nov 2005 Posts: 562 Location: Japan
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 7:45 am Post subject: |
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How can you not see the deliciousness of Asian guys? Yum. If you don't want yours, I'll take em!
I am sitting here thinking the opposite things from you: I am headed to the US for a two week visit. How will I survive that long without being surrounded by Asian hotties?? Heheh oh well luckily I am going to San Francisco. There are a few Asian people there I think.  |
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Jazz1975
Joined: 14 Feb 2006 Posts: 301 Location: Zama, Kanagawa
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 7:53 am Post subject: |
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kdynamic wrote: |
How can you not see the deliciousness of Asian guys? Yum. If you don't want yours, I'll take em!
I am sitting here thinking the opposite things from you: I am headed to the US for a two week visit. How will I survive that long without being surrounded by Asian hotties?? Heheh oh well luckily I am going to San Francisco. There are a few Asian people there I think.  |
<----Taking Asian men and handing them over to Kdynamic. Knock yourself out!!
Why don't I see the "deliciousness" of Asian men? Probably cause I'm Asian myself so I like looking "elsewhere" . Besides, they aren't attracted to me either so it's a win-win situation. And yes, I know that for a fact.
There will be TONS of Asians to choose from in San Fransisco. Just go to Chinatown. |
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Jazz1975
Joined: 14 Feb 2006 Posts: 301 Location: Zama, Kanagawa
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 8:09 am Post subject: |
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luckyloser700 wrote: |
Jazz1975 wrote: |
and I am planning to be located in Tokyo (at least that's what I'm listing as my preference on my application form). So, as you said, it won't be a problem; I'm sure whichever school I end up with will be happy to put me in Tokyo. |
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Why r u so shocked? |
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luckyloser700
Joined: 24 Mar 2006 Posts: 308 Location: Japan
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 9:31 am Post subject: |
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Jazz1975 wrote: |
luckyloser700 wrote: |
Jazz1975 wrote: |
and I am planning to be located in Tokyo (at least that's what I'm listing as my preference on my application form). So, as you said, it won't be a problem; I'm sure whichever school I end up with will be happy to put me in Tokyo. |
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Why r u so shocked? |
As far as my experience goes, most newbies that go to work for the big eikaiwa companies end up sent to places other that the major cities like Tokyo, Yokohama, or Osaka. Usually after a year or so it's a lot easier to transfer to cities like those. That's just what I've seen, though. Your experience could be entirely different and I hope I don't come off as being negative. Just a little heads-up based on my experience. Don't think I could dampen your spirits, anyway (and certainly don't want to ) Sometimes I wonder if the reason why I and lots of other people got shipped off to smaller towns initially is that we just weren't cool enough to get assigned to a big city .
Take care, Jazz. |
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Jazz1975
Joined: 14 Feb 2006 Posts: 301 Location: Zama, Kanagawa
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:05 am Post subject: |
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From what I've heard about ECC, they are good at accomodating people's requests (heard it from someone who posted on another thread). Not sure about GEOS. With regard to ECC, their branches are mainly in Tokyo, Osaka and Nagoya. That was why I said that if I got in, I'm confident that I'll end up in Tokyo. However, when all's said and done, I am fully aware that I'll be placed based on where the jobs are available. So we will see... |
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gaijinalways
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 2279
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 12:16 pm Post subject: |
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Let's see, couples I know, Canadian with Canadian, British with American, American with American, etc. But of course, you see a lot of foreigners with Japanese as the majority of foreigners who stay on longer marry Japanese. |
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Montbell
Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 18
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 1:45 pm Post subject: |
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I know a Swedish/American couple, met and married in Japan. A Belgian/French couple, met and married in Japan. A Korean/American couple, and a few others. Most are scientists, and I guess those tend to hang out with their own kind. |
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Luna Chica
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 177 Location: Trujillo, Peru
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 2:12 pm Post subject: |
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Am engaged to a peruivan guy. There are heaps of hot and normal Peuvians or Brazillians there, they are there to work not because they are weird, have an obsession for asian girls or can't get laid in their own country unlike some (not all) male english teachers.
I know of plenty of Australian - Japanese matches, an Aussie - NZ match, an Aussie - US match heaps of mathces. |
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Hoser

Joined: 19 Mar 2005 Posts: 694 Location: Toronto, Canada
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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You mean meeting a native that speaks English with a British accent? Yeah it is sweet, you get all the benefits of J-nationality with the western mind-set.
Thanks Nomadder,
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P.S. Cool avatar! |
Just out of curiousity, what are the benefits of J-nationality exactly? |
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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Well Hoser in my case it means that I don't have to deal with all the day to day things associated with running a household, i.e.; paying bills, doctor and dentist appointments, childrens' schooling, banking, taxes, insurance, etc. Not saying that these things require Japanese nationality but being Japanese makes it easier. I couldn't imagine having to do those things myself. But I think the main benefit for me was being able to purchase property. That and I am able to shirk the responsibility of mastering the language.
If I may ask you a question Hoser, what is the American equivalant of a Hoser?
Enjoy,
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P.S. Almost forgot to mention the benefit of having a spousal visa. It is nice, particularly after having been deported and black-listed. |
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nomadder

Joined: 15 Feb 2003 Posts: 709 Location: Somewherebetweenhereandthere
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 12:55 pm Post subject: |
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Montbell mentions scientists working in Japan. What about other non-English teacher foreigners you've heard of?
I remember a Russian in Niigata though don't remember what he did. There was a German brewmeister, a British glassblower. Another British in some sort of business in Tokyo. There were Israeli jewellery sellers. |
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Montbell
Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 18
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 1:13 pm Post subject: |
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Other than scientists, I also know foreign journalists, chefs, designers, artists, and actually, very few teachers. My husband is a scientist, and my first teaching job was at his institute (oh, the power of connections!). I never did the Nova circuit, and the few ESL teachers that I met, avoided me like their lives depended on it.
And as for scientists, Japan is famous for its plant molecular biology research, and there are many foreigners working there in that field. |
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Synne

Joined: 06 Apr 2004 Posts: 269 Location: Tohoku
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 2:38 pm Post subject: |
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The first women I met and dated with for about five months here in Japan was a Canadian.
She was working as a photographer/stylist.
That being said, we were the only Canadian/Canadian couple that had met here that I've ever known. |
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