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Is "gaijin" a bad word? |
Yes, you shouldn't use it |
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JimDunlop2

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Posts: 2286 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:29 am Post subject: |
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nomadder wrote: |
Moral of the story seems to be that "sensitive" people should not leave home and they should also not have children that are half whatever they aren't. |
What's the opposite of sensitive? Insensitive? Yes, unfortunately I know many insensitive people running about! Precisely what contributes to the problem.
People never leaving home leads to ignorance of others outside of your own community, which leads to racism and hatred.
Precisely why sensitive people should have LOTS of children as sensitive they are -- people who basically have the cajones to go out and change the world for the better... Lest the insensive folk fill the world with closed-minded bigots.
That is the very reason why sensitive people SHOULD live in another country for a while.
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angrysoba

Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 446 Location: Kansai, Japan
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 4:41 am Post subject: |
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Personally, I find the word "half" - as used in Japan - to be far more offensive than "gaijin". It implies someone that is not complete. I have never had much patience with students stupid enough to use the term in class. "What makes you think English speakers use the term 'half' for people who are half JAPANESE. How much more ethnocentric can you be?" I say before sending them out of the room. |
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gaijinalways
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 2279
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 2:01 pm Post subject: |
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Tough love ! I haven't sent anyone out, but I have 'pulled a face' a few times. 'Half' is not much of an improvement, bi-racial or bi-cultural would be better .
Maybe we should start a campaign to call Japanese 'insiders' (inside what I will leave to your imagination )? |
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BradS

Joined: 05 Sep 2004 Posts: 173 Location: Tokyo, Japan
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 5:35 am Post subject: |
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Gaijin = non-Japanese. Fine. But when, in any intelligent conversation would you say "non-Australian" or "non-Canadian", etc? NEVER. Grouping everyone outside your country into one category is extremely offensive and childish and immature!
I hate when people introduce me as being Gaijin without actually saying what country I'm from. It's not important. Only the fact that I'm NOT Japanese is what matters.
My school recently had a kind of sales period and the sales staff would always tell the new students that "This school has lots of Gaijin". The new students would "wow" and "Sugoi", but all of us could have been from a non-English speaking country for all they know.
I would never refer to someone as an "outsider" or "non-Australian". Maybe "tourist" if anything but otherwise I'd call them their NAME and find out about where they're from (as a 4th or 5th question, not the 1st as seems to be the case in Japan).
The word "Gaijin" just isn't functional and is a dated concept. |
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luckyloser700
Joined: 24 Mar 2006 Posts: 308 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 8:35 am Post subject: |
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Enough non-Japanese use the term "gaijin" during their conversations with Japanese people that those Japanese people have become comfortable using the term around other non-Japanese people. If several non-Japanese teachers in a school got together and asked the Japanese staff not to use the term "gaijin" because it's found to be offensive, the staffers will probably stop using it. They're not as insensitive as you might think. And, I bet they really don't want to offend the people who help bring new students into their schools. Of course, I'm talking about eikaiwa schools here, but it's worth a try anywhere. |
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Nismo

Joined: 27 Jul 2004 Posts: 520
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:02 pm Post subject: |
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luckyloser700 wrote: |
If several non-Japanese teachers in a school got together and asked the Japanese staff not to use the term "gaijin" because it's found to be offensive, the staffers will probably stop using it. They're not as insensitive as you might think. |
I've tried it. It doesn't work. The staff at the eikaiwa I worked at didn't use the term "Gaijin", but they did use "Gaikokujin no sensei" (Foreign teacher). I flat out told them (and the students) to call us "Neitibu no sensei" (Native teacher). When you really sit down and think about it, the "Foreign [English] teacher" has to be from a non-English speaking country, i.e. the entire staff of Japanese teachers of English. In the end, nothing changed. |
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craven
Joined: 17 Dec 2004 Posts: 130
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 3:12 am Post subject: |
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Non-Japanese using the term "gajin" in this country is a lot like blacks in America or Canada using the term "*beep*" in my opinion. By taking possession of a term that has been used against you in a derogatory way, you can assign it new meaning and rob it of its negative connotations. However, in the same way it's NEVER cool for whites to walk around saying *beep*, it's not ok for Japanese to use the term gajin. From their mouths it has racist overtones. From mine, it means whatever I want it to mean!
Interesting side note...when I go to visit elementary schools, I almost never hear kids call me gajin. They'll use my name, or right off the bat ask me what country I'm from and then call me "Canada jin". In JHS though, where they really start teaching kids "how to be Japanese", I hear gajin and gaikokujin a LOT more often... |
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buddhaboyjp

Joined: 24 Jan 2006 Posts: 75 Location: Dai Po, Tai Wo
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 11:35 am Post subject: |
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craven wrote: |
Non-Japanese using the term "gajin" in this country is a lot like blacks in America or Canada using the term "*beep*" in my opinion. By taking possession of a term that has been used against you in a derogatory way, you can assign it new meaning and rob it of its negative connotations. However, in the same way it's NEVER cool for whites to walk around saying *beep*, it's not ok for Japanese to use the term gajin. From their mouths it has racist overtones. From mine, it means whatever I want it to mean!
Interesting side note...when I go to visit elementary schools, I almost never hear kids call me gajin. They'll use my name, or right off the bat ask me what country I'm from and then call me "Canada jin". In JHS though, where they really start teaching kids "how to be Japanese", I hear gajin and gaikokujin a LOT more often... |
Good post Craven. Mind if I address you as "gaijin-san" or would you prefer "gaijin-sama"? I really feel honored with that expression.
I tell some of my Japanese friends to address me as "gaijin-kamisama". |
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Like a Rolling Stone

Joined: 27 Mar 2006 Posts: 872
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 11:40 am Post subject: |
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Thankyou everyone or your thoughts. Domo arigatou gozaimasu.  |
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Big John Stud
Joined: 07 Oct 2004 Posts: 513
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:59 am Post subject: |
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[quote="angrysoba"]Personally, I find the word "half" - as used in Japan - to be far more offensive than "gaijin". It implies someone that is not complete. I have never had much patience with students stupid enough to use the term in class. "What makes you think English speakers use the term 'half' for people who are half JAPANESE. How much more ethnocentric can you be?" I say before sending them out of the room.[/quote]
I agree! Half is a lot worse because often a child is being referred as half. An adult like Nagoyaguy getting upset about a word just shows he is a cry baby! But calling a child a name to make him or her different from eveyone else is just wrong.
And no Nagoyaguy, I was not threatening you. How in the world could you assume that. I am just concern that you are doing too much drugs and wanted you to know the risk you are taking! |
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Big John Stud
Joined: 07 Oct 2004 Posts: 513
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 4:59 am Post subject: |
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[quote="angrysoba"]Personally, I find the word "half" - as used in Japan - to be far more offensive than "gaijin". It implies someone that is not complete. I have never had much patience with students stupid enough to use the term in class. "What makes you think English speakers use the term 'half' for people who are half JAPANESE. How much more ethnocentric can you be?" I say before sending them out of the room.[/quote]
I agree! Half is a lot worse because often a child is being referred as half. An adult like Nagoyaguy getting upset about a word just shows he is a cry baby! But calling a child a name to make him or her different from eveyone else is just wrong.
And no Nagoyaguy, I was not threatening you. How in the world could you assume that? Assumptions like that is what makes me concern that you are doing too much drugs and so I wanted you to know the risk you are taking! |
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craven
Joined: 17 Dec 2004 Posts: 130
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:39 am Post subject: |
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For some reason, gajin-san has a far more insulting tone to it than just calling someone gajin...something insidious about going beyond labeling me as "foreigner" and trying to replace my actual NAME with "gajin"!
I make my kids learn how to say "Canadian"  |
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angrysoba

Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 446 Location: Kansai, Japan
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 2:19 pm Post subject: |
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JimDunlop2 wrote: |
Sherri wrote: |
At the time, I was not insulted because I knew that those people did not intend to insult. |
So why do we no longer use words like "negro?" One could also argue that it was a perfectly acceptable term until it became taboo to use it. Eg. There are some nice negroes too. I even have a friend who has a negro friend... Sheesh! Nowadays we wouldn't even think that. (I would hope).
It is something reminscent of a middle-class African American family trying to rent an apartment...
Imagine: (fictional)
Setting: mid-1960s, an average American city
Apartment rental office: a well dressed African-American couple sits in chairs, while the building manager is speaking to the owner on the telephone.
MANAGER: Yes, Mr. Jones. I have a couple interested in unit 3B. They are negroes sir....(pause)... I understand sir... But they are good negroes. They have references... (pause)... Yes, sir. Very well.... I will... Goodbye...
MANAGER (to the couple): I've spoken to the building owner and he apologizes but I wasn't aware that... um... they will be renovating that unit starting next month.
What do YOU think really happened?
Now... Imagine THIS: (TRUE story)
Setting: 2005, an average Japanese city
Realty office: a well dressed non-Japanese couple sits in chairs, while the realtor is speaking to the landlord on the telephone. He speaks in Japanese because of course, foreigners cannot understand.
REALTOR: Mushi mushi.... Yes... It's Tanaka. Hello. I just wanted to call to ask if I could come by today to show the apartment. I have an interested couple.... (pause).... I have one question though.... Is it OK that they are gaijin? ...(pause)... I see. But they are good gaijin. Both are teachers. The husband works for the school board and his wife teaches in a private academy... (pause)... I see.... Yes, I'm sorry to bother you... I'll tell them.
REALTOR (to the couple): I've spoken to the building owner and he apologizes but I wasn't aware that... um... they will be renovating that unit starting next month.
Once again... What do YOU think really happened?
It's not a simple matter of usage here. To be perfectly honest, I don't give a damn whether you use gaijin or gaikokujin. It doesn't make any difference. Either way, it means you ain't gettin' your apartment because you're not part of the "IN" group.
Fact of the matter is, (in regards to the use of the word negro)... That was then and this is now. Times have changed.
Japan is becoming more and more of an international place... If they have any desire to be members of the international community, attitudes must start to change and such changes must permeate every aspect of the culture, including and especially language.
How many times do you use the word "foreigner" in reference to someone back home? Sure, we use distinguishing characteristics to specify someone (like in a group of people), e.g. the Asian guy standing next to the brown-haired girl.... But we usually wouldn't automatically assume that the "Asian guy" is a foreigner... That's a big part of the problem. As long as we don't LOOK "Japanese" you are a foreigner... Regardless of WHEN your predecesors came to the country. But recently, more and more people have been challenging these notions. People like Debito Arudo asking, "What does a Japanese look like?"
buddhaboy: poorish? Um, I think you meant to say boorish. |
Your analogy is poor Jim. The fact that you used the word African-American gives away the fact that the man is not a foreigner. If that particular person is discriminated against then it would be purely on a racial basis. However, the example you give of a "gaijin" walking into a real eatate agent and being refused tenancy could be down to other factors than the non-Japanese hue of their skin. It could be because the real estate agent is worried about the foreigner skipping out of rent and leaving Japan back to their home country.
In the case of an African-American, there are no grounds for the same discrimination as that person's home is (as the very nomenclature you use testifies) someone from the same country.
Why is it that gaijin (and so overwhelmingly white gaijin) are so often griping about their mistreatment and using such stupid rationale as "It's what they are thinking" to justify their greivances? Do you expect to get equal rights with Japanese citizens? Are you expecting to be able to vote? Do you really want equal rights as Japanese? Have you ever looked at the contracts your Japanese co-workers have? Do you not realize that if your belly-aching becomes too much for you to stand then you can get out of this country and have a fairly decent life somewhere else?
Your prospects in this world (a fairly indifferent world as far as your well-being is concerned) are higher for you than anybody that you may want to compare yourself to. You will get no sympathy from here. |
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Big John Stud
Joined: 07 Oct 2004 Posts: 513
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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 12:26 am Post subject: |
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Wow! Very well put angrysoba
Hopefully the people who posted on this thread will open their eyes! |
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JimDunlop2

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Posts: 2286 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 4:21 am Post subject: |
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I disagree.
My example is very valid. The fact that in my first story I identify a man as African-American (hence not a foreigner) is completely irrelevant.
Let's reason through this one logically. How can the realtor ASSUME that I am a foreigner? What does a foreigner look like?
I had a caucasian student in my class that was born to a Japanese mother and who didn't speak a word of English. In fact, compared to his classmates, I'd say he was a little behind. He was about as Japanese as Japanese can be...
Recently, a Filipina-Japanese woman was detained by the police and held without charge for several days... When they found out that she was IN FACT a Japanese citizen they released her immediately (but without apology).
Debito Arudo is a naturalized Japanese citizen who carries around his Japanese passport to prove to others that he is Japanese. Should he really have to do that?
Short of airbrushing my skin and getting cosmetic eye surgery, there is NOTHING I can say or do to alter peoples' view of me as a foreigner. Heck, even if I showed a Japanese passport, I'm sure I would be called a foreigner ANYWAY.
All the above people are examples of JAPANESE people who don't look Japanese even though they are. If you think that both of my stories in the previous post are NOT about race and race ALONE, then you are only fooling yourself. If you truly believe that, I've also got some slightly-damp real estate in Florida for sale...
For this reason, my example is no less valid.
Secondly, to answer your (rhetorical) question, soba: YES! I absolutely expect to be accorded the same rights, respect and consideration as a Japanese citizen.
You seem to be confusing two very different issues here.... The rights of a citizen versus basic human rights which should be respected regardless of citizenship.
I'm not asking to vote here.... But nowhere in the Japanese constitution or laws does it say ANYTHING about having to be a citizen in order to be given the same considerations... In fact, I can cite you several examples where foreigners have successfully sued for discrimination in such cases. A famous case in Osaka in 1993 saw a second-generation Japanese-born Korean man sue a landlord who refused him tenancy on the basis that he was not Japanese. The Korean man won restitution for this.
Again, for this reason too, my example is very valid.
Next, I cannot recognize the "foreigner might skip the country" excuse. While this may seem like a legitimate concern, anyone who has ever rented an apartment in Japan, knows that you usually pay 2 month's key money, 1 or 2 month's damage deposit, and your first AND last month's rent! Even if I did skip the country... I can guarantee you, the landlord would NOT have lost on the deal!
Lastly, the colour of my skin is completely irrelevant. Whether I am a white, caucasian, straight, young male, does not entitle others to reverse discriminate just to fill some long-needed historical grudge or "just-world" hypothesis. It may well be true that the doors are open far wider for a white, caucasian, straight, young male than for an underprivileged, African, gay, old female but discriminating against EITHER of them is wrong. Period.
We should have the courage to fight racism regardless of whether we are privileged or not. |
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