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[GabeKessel]

I have noticed that over the past 20-30 years or so more and more people speak English, and prefer to use it to communicate with foreigners. Also, what is becoming more and more common is that you have native English speakers who live in non-English speaking countries for decades, and who are doing just fine by using only English.

They have friends, do their shopping, attend to legal and bank formalities, and even get lovers and later, husbands and wives, without learning but a few token words in the language of the country. They do so with smug pride and conviction that it is the right thing to do. I can see them everywhere with confident looks and a proudly raised chin. �I am an American! I speak English!� Upon being asked: �Do you speak Spanish?� The reply is �Not a word! �, followed by another confident rising of the jaw in proud self-reveling.

�Yes, sir�, say the natives and accommodate the speaker for yet another decade. They are used to that. A mono-lingual American/Brit/Canadian/ Australian is simply like that. There is nothing you can do to change him/her. He/She thinks the whole world should speak English. And the whole world just might start doing just that. If you cannot make the mountain come to Mohammad, Mohammad will just have to go to the mountain.


I am an avid foreign language learner, and I seem to be a dying breed since I do not see many like me among the expat crowd in many countries. When in an Arab country, I was the only one studying Arabic, and when in Japan, I was only one of the two poor and lonely blokes studying Japanese. All the others were partying and having the time of their lives.

Somehow, while before, people would get mad that foreigners, particularly �Anglos� would come to their country and not learn the language, by now they have gotten used to it and have begun adjusting themselves to the English speakers, even though, ideally, it is the English speakers who should be adjusting to the cultures of their host countries. However, the accommodating nations have understood that the Anglo pride is incorrigible and now, the illusion that the entire world should speak English that is shared by many native English speakers has stopped being an illusion. English speakers who have been yelling abroad at the natives who did not understand them, have actually had a very powerful effect on their environment.

People have not rebelled, but began speaking English more and more. This way the illusion has become a reality. The world today is becoming more and more of an English-speaking place and foreign languages have become less and less useful for international travelers and residents in other countries. It used to be that if you took up business in 1980ies, you would take French or Spanish along with that. Now, most businessmen speak English, so when you have a negotiation or business correspondence, it is mostly conducted in English.

So, why rack your brains over a difficult language since people on the other end will just switch to English anyway? Somehow, the natives have finally accepted the idea that: �a Brit/American/Canadian, etc. will never learn my language, he/she is too stubborn and too proud and he/she thinks that they are kings of the world and they have money and technology, so we should be learning their language instead�.

Many of those who are in fact respectful of other cultures and their languages will be met with English again because of the other 90+% of expats who have imprinted upon the natives the fact that an American will never speak another language.

So, we are questioning the feasibility of spending years learning Arabic, Portuguese, German, etc. if the locals will just speak English to you, anyway. Why bother? I spent years learning Japanese and I am quite fluent in it by now. While I was studying my kanji and my verbs, I would often be puzzled by seeing other Westerners speaking English to the Japanese in a haughty way expecting them to understand and the Japanese doubling over backwards to please them. So, maybe I should be a pompous ass like that, as well?

It is true! In some countries, if you speak local languages, people start treating you condescendingly, but once you start speaking English in an authoritarian fashion, people stand at attention treating you like �The Boss�. So, sometimes I wonder if I have been wasting my time with all these languages as I have seen those who do not do it have a much better time in foreign countries than what I have been having. In fact, those who do not learn the languages of host nations have many advantages:

1) People treat them as guests; forever. That means: with deferment and respect.

2) They surround themselves with friends who speak only English. That means- cosmopolitan people who appreciate intercultural friendship and communication, who are broad-minded and international and relatively free from bigotry.

3) They do not understand what bad things are being said to them or about them, hence, they are protected from being insulted because they will not understand the insult, anyway. They are seen as cute and helpless by some and attract desire to help and general endearment from the population.

4) Seen as �powerful� or exotic Westerners, they also attract romantic admirers who will see them as something mysterious and worthy of discovery. I have seen it so many times- in Asia, in particular. American and British guys with Japanese and Thai girls; the girls are speaking in faltering English while falling all over the guys who sound strong and confident and �in control� by speaking a thunderous TV English. There is an aura of mystique and exoticism that is irresistible and it drives those women wild. The girls play the host and introduce the guy to their country- for tens of years- while learning English in the process. A very effective way to get a lover, if I have ever seen one.

5) As an English-only speaker, you will not have people get truly angry at you since they will not be able to express their anger, and will just keep quiet. And if they do, you will not understand what they are saying, anyway.

Your English-only status will effectively put a cushion between you and other people, a respectful distance of sorts. When in Thailand, I saw a couple- a Thai girl who could not speak English and a British man who did not speak Thai. And they seemed blissfully happy. They could not quarrel and were forever discovering each other.

6) You may revel in the illusion that you are a neo-colonialist who is superior to everyone and many people on the outside will feed and share your illusion as it, in fact, is becoming a reality.

With the advent of the Internet, English has become even more widespread and will be growing in popularity more and more. Foreign language studies will probably be relegated to scholastic hobbies, especially in native English-speaking countries. I think people should not be wasting their time learning other languages outside of a few words to make the natives laugh. They will enjoy life more, have more friends and get more respect from the locals who will be treating them as Gods.

[Glenski]

Just how much of this was intended as sarcasm, especially your last six points?

[valley_girl]

[Rin]

Considering the fact that you are out there teaching people a second language, you yourself must realize how hard it is to learn a second language. In Korea I attempted Korean, learned to read and write it, and knew when I was being insulted and knew how to insult back.

Arabic, however, is really escaping my grasp. Most of Qatar doesn't speak Arabic, if I wanted to learn the real local language I would learn Hindi. Unfortunately nobody teaches it! And most Arabs speak excellent English, even amongst themselves, since many of them are from different areas of the Middle East and each place has its own particular dialogue.

That being said, I have learned my numbers in Arabic. And I know how to tell somone to shut up.

[nomadder]

Perhaps the OP has a point. Either speak the local language very well or go with English perhaps throwing in hello, good bye, please and thank you in the local tongue. This is what I've done while travelling(except in Spanish speaking countries) and it worked well. Never tried it while living in Japan but should have. Don't think my attempts at Japanese improved things much come to think of it. Especially there where they are prepared to not understand you anyway. In fact it would have been fun watching the contortions-perhaps scare them back into studying English. In any other country, people who have studied English as long as they have would generally try to speak it with foreigners. It is the international language after all.

Ignorance is bliss re: insults etc. You can still study languages for a hobby and maybe practice with people you know well or in a class setting.

I have to admit that people who speak English really poorly do sound, dare I say it, stupid- so I'm sure it's the same when we speak another language badly.

Thanks for the ideas!