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CocoSchmargle



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 23, 2006 4:53 am    Post subject: female going to china alone? Reply with quote

Sorry if any of this has been asked elsewhere, I've been doing a lot of reading but didn't come across it in the posts...

I recently got offered what seems to be a reasonable contract from a private school, Da Qiao, in Changchun. Given that I'm completely new to this I need some advice.

First, if anyone has any info on the school I would really like to hear it. The contact is a British guy who has been so far very forthcoming, but we've only been emailing for about five days and we're already talking about the school getting me an apartment. Should I be worried that he's too eager to get rid of the job? I have read plenty on the city and I'm not really concerned with that, but rather what I should be expecting from the interview process. How long is appropriate to wait before accepting the job?

Secondly, I was originally going with a male friend but as it stands I'm probably going alone. I'm only 21, but I have lived abroad before in England. I know this is going to be a completely different experience and I'm looking forward to it, but I really need some positives about travelling there alone. Or negatives for that matter...
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Super Mario



Joined: 27 May 2005
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Location: Australia, previously China

PostPosted: Sun Jul 23, 2006 7:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Can't help on the first query. And I"m not female, so maybe I'm off target on the second.
However, I don't think China holds more risks for women than men. It's a safe country for Westerners, provided you follow normal precautions. The same applies to treatment by employers, and I've had female colleagues from 23 to 60.
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chinaamber



Joined: 06 Jun 2006
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Location: Guiyang

PostPosted: Sun Jul 23, 2006 10:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Again, can't help much on the first query but I am female and have been in China for 2 years. I have lived in and travelled through many countries and would rate China amongst the safest. The biggest problem safety wise is theft and this is the same whether male or female!! When travelling alone the most annoying thing is people wanting to practise their English skills whilst I am trying to read/sleep/listen to music, but I have also had some great experiences that began in this way.

Whilst I cannot guarantee your safety, with your eyes open and a little common sense you should be fine!!
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Songbird



Joined: 09 Jan 2005
Posts: 630
Location: State of Chaos, Panic & Disorder...

PostPosted: Sun Jul 23, 2006 11:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Coco,

Single female here- China is perfectly fine, and I know plenty over there right now! I spent my year last year in a village in Gansu Province living alone. I also did a bit of travelling, to Xian, Beijing and Tibet on my own (also with very little Chinese language skills!). Your students will be AMAZED, I find it amusing to tell them I live alone, they get really concerned for you, 'you need a man' etc etc Shocked Laughing .

I'm heading back, again on my own, in 3 weeks to Shaanxi Province, I can't wait! I'm taking to this like a duck to water!

The interview process generally goes like this:
-Do you have a degree?
-When can you come?

I kid you not! It's dead easy to get work if you have the degree, unless it's a very popular position or school/ college etc you're applying for, you can pretty much assume you have the job the moment you get positive feedback from someone there (ie the British guy)!

Have fun, China's a blast!
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karminpdx



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 3:25 am    Post subject: go for it! Reply with quote

i just returned from doing a teaching stint in china, alone. really, if you find some foreigners for friends...you will be fine. i found it safe enough as a female- just keep your wits about you! i found the men very respectful...well, more respectful than some of the college guys you find in the states!

have fun.
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ColinA



Joined: 31 May 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 1:37 am    Post subject: Re: female going to china alone? Reply with quote

CocoSchmargle wrote:
I was originally going with a male friend but as it stands I'm probably going alone. I'm only 21, but I have lived abroad before in England. I know this is going to be a completely different experience and I'm looking forward to it, but I really need some positives about travelling there alone. Or negatives for that matter...


For a personal assessment on working and living in China please see the post "Travel the world and get paid for it". Some posters feel that it's a bit on the negative side and u may like to keep that in mind. But there are a number of less savoury experiences I could have brought up but didnt.

One think for sure, u'll never forget the experience. Whether it is positive or negative is unfortunately not always in your hands. I worked with a young Welsh girl in 2003 who did it a bit tough, so I'd be interested in hearing your own reflections in 6-12 months hence.
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moderntime



Joined: 27 Mar 2005
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Location: Changchun, China

PostPosted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 9:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Coco, I came to Changchun as a solo female as well and I've never had any problems there or anywhere else in China. I think that in a lot of ways China is much safer than the West--but then, I used to live in New York City!

Just bring along a healthy supply of tampons if you use them. Smile
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cj750



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PostPosted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 10:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Changchun is a great city and on the move to modernization...but it does get cold...and check the location of the school..anything out of town may be a bit far for comfortable living..there is nothing out side the city but farmers...

Changchun is ratted by many Chinese as a dangerous city and after the antics of the Hammer gang in the late 90s..it got the rep of a city you could get killed in..but most of the injuries I have seen were fueled by alcohol and Russian women..however..the use of beer bottles and an unlikely knife has graced the sene at Mayflower from time to time..

There are the occasional muggings..usually against older woman..one a couple of years ago ..against one of the female teachers in Raffles..PR was her first two initials...and she left..not due to the muggins but due to getting screwed by the school...

I would say that you are more likely to get pawed by the Germans Auto Workers than by the all the young Chinese dudes...who by the way find it fashonable to carry purses, but still use beer bottles in a fight..
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tw



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PostPosted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

moderntime wrote:
Hi Coco, I came to Changchun as a solo female as well and I've never had any problems there or anywhere else in China. I think that in a lot of ways China is much safer than the West--but then, I used to live in New York City!


Not quite the same when you have a Chinese face when the OP has a distinct foreign face. Laughing Wink

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Just bring along a healthy supply of tampons if you use them.


My wife says they can be bought in China. You just have to know how they are packaged.

cj750 wrote:
the use of beer bottles and an unlikely knife has graced the sene at Mayflower from time to time..

who by the way find it fashonable to carry purses, but still use beer ottles in a fight..


Typical dongbei people -- fight with whatever you can get your hands on, be it a beer bottle, an axe, a meat cleaver, or a chair. Laughing
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