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Outsida



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 2:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

vikdk wrote:
it doesn't mean others have to put up with what they perceive as very- yes even sensationaly - bad conditions, just because you've decided to buckle down and show the proverbial stiff upper lip.


you contradict and agree with me at the same time. Their "bad" conditions are often just sensationalised. Meaning, that they're not actually very bad. I'm not buckling down because there was nothing to really complain about. A few small problems, but not enough to worry me any.
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 3:10 pm    Post subject: Poor Taste Reply with quote

shuize wrote:
From Super Mario's linked article:

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According to Chaivetta, the attacks were fuelled by allegations on ESL Cafe that he relentlessly harassed 32-year-old Matthews and his ex-girlfriend with derogatory e-mails and online postings until the English teacher was forced to take his own life.

Does the statement above strike anyone else as poorly written?

How exactly is one forced to take their own life? (Wouldn't that be murder?) Especially by something posted on the internet? (I expect driven was the word the author couldn't remember.) Oh, and is she his "ex" girlfriend now because he's dead? That's what it sounds like.

By the way, here's my advice for anyone who feels like the internet is driving them to suicide:

Turn off your computer.


Shuize,

Considering that a human life was lost here, your posting is in extremely poor taste and should be either removed or edited. I hope that there will be a Moderator follow-up here. Never, ever, ever mock or make fun of anyone who has lost his or her life. It is calloused beyond measure.

Hunan Foreign Guy
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rexgardn



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 3:13 pm    Post subject: Thank you for your concerns Reply with quote

Hello All,
I leave in late August to teach in what I hope will be an ethical and humane university setting. I want to thank all of you for your encouragement and the frankness of your suggestions and comments.

I regret that I must point out that some of the unfeeling judgments of the suffering of some teachers as dramatic is nothing new on this particular bulletin board. But some attention must be paid to the callousness of some posters presuming to judge the reality of some one else's pain by as in one example inventorying the victims' dvd collection .

Perhaps it is time for Dave to distinguish posters as recruiters, owners, managers and so on as having financial interests in protecting schools and employers and the rest, the teachers, students, and anyone simply interested in education.

But in the main I have learned to view the vicious jabs and ravings for what they are, the sad effusive pustulence of the lonely, unfit, and unbalanced for whom the Net has given both refuge and anonymity; and so I ignore them.

Yet some of the comments in this particular thread step over some kind of threshold and I want to go on the record with my sympathy to those teachers who suffered and to the families that mourn for them.

All vicitims are equal.

Sincerely Yours,

Rex
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vikdk



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 3:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

outsida - are you now trying to tell us that your percieved standards of what are acceptable norms as far as working conditions for the FT are concerned, can be used as something that defines the quality of employment here - a kind of, I kan stick it out so it must be good logic Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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vikdk



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 3:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I've got news for you: We're all headed to the same place. It's just that some of us are leaving a bit earlier than others.

dearest shuize - i think you'll find that some of us are just trying to point out that we beleive that working as an FT in Asia shouldn't be the kind of occupation that speeds up this process - whether on the slow lane of depression and general discomfort - or indeed via some far faster exit - but then of course, maybe, a tough living on the edge sort of person like you doesn't have much time for that kind of cry-baby sentiment Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

vikdk wrote:
dearest shuize - i think you'll find that some of us are just trying to point out that we beleive that working as an FT in Asia shouldn't be the kind of occupation that speeds up this process - whether on the slow lane of depression and general discomfort - or indeed via some far faster exit - but then of course, maybe, a tough living on the edge sort of person like you doesn't have much time for that kind of cry-baby sentiment Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

Hey, vikdk, that's three in one thread. Admit it. You're sort of attracted to my rugged, living-on-the-edge mystique, now aren't you? Of course, your use of "dearest" gives it away.

Working in Asia is what it is. Some, less rugged, can't hack it. Others thrive on the drama. I don't need to point out who is who, do I?
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 4:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Working in Asia is what it is. Some, less rugged, can't hack it. Others thrive on the drama. I don't need to point out who is who, do I?

and some say you only need the quality of possessing a good character to be an FT in China - a sensational advert to deter the meek and mild if ever i saw one Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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frank d



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 5:18 pm    Post subject: I had no idea... Reply with quote

And to think this entire cacophonous calamity was borne from someone posting a legitimate article from the Associated Press about the plight of a rising number of foreign English teachers working in China!!! I can understand a certain percentage of ESL discussion issues yielding some nasty exchanges, but I didn�t dream this AP article would trigger such cynical swaggering.

The lack of empathy from some is troubling. If not these, I can�t imagine what circumstances would be required to produce such emotions� Makes you wonder how effective some of these folks are as teachers...?

I had no idea my ruggedness (or lack of) was the most essential element for working in China. All this time, I�ve been operating under the misguided notion that dedication to students and interest in effective teaching was paramount in the equation. Instead, it now seems to be almost solely about one�s true level of �manhood.� What a fool I�ve been!
Thanks for the boot-camp, �tough love� enlightenment!
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no_exit



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 6:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are rougher places to work than China, but there are certainly cushier countries too. If anyone thinks power outages and cold weather are intolerable conditions then maybe China might not be the place for those people, don't you think? Afterall, these are conditions that the entire population has to put up with, not just FTs. I think a few people on this thread were simply trying to point out that while there are legitimate gripes with schools, the reporters for this article (not the teachers themselves, this article wasn't written by them!) chose to go for the "sensational" angle, and focused on things that they probably felt would tug on the heartstrings of their readers. For pete's sake, no one is suggesting you have to be Indiana Jones to work in China, however you do have to have a thicker skin than some who come here seem to have. Why should this even be up for debate?
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 10:42 pm    Post subject: Suggest Reply with quote

I've just deleted or edited several postings on this thread.

I would suggest everyone refrain from personal insults or confrontational postings.

Otherwise, this thread will no longer be available and responsible parties will be sanctioned.
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shuize



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 12:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

no_exit wrote:
There are rougher places to work than China, but there are certainly cushier countries too. If anyone thinks power outages and cold weather are intolerable conditions then maybe China might not be the place for those people, don't you think? Afterall, these are conditions that the entire population has to put up with, not just FTs. I think a few people on this thread were simply trying to point out that while there are legitimate gripes with schools, the reporters for this article (not the teachers themselves, this article wasn't written by them!) chose to go for the "sensational" angle, and focused on things that they probably felt would tug on the heartstrings of their readers. For pete's sake, no one is suggesting you have to be Indiana Jones to work in China, however you do have to have a thicker skin than some who come here seem to have. Why should this even be up for debate?

Exactly. Pure drama.
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cartago



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 4:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honestly I do feel a lot of sympathy for teachers in a bad situation. I think most of us do. But without knowing more about the situation it does seem overly dramatic that they thought they would be held their against their will. And I never took an inventory of their DVD collection, I just mentioned that it seemed odd that they had over 200 DVDs and they complained about not having electricity. You need electricity to use a DVD player. If I took an inventory I might have said, hmmm they had a limited edition copy of White Chicks, the first season of Desperate Housewives, a copy of Beaches, the Indigo Girls live in Sydney, etc.

Perhaps they really were in danger, I don't know. I'm just giving my first impression after reading the article.
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cj750



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 5:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think the important part of this story is that they felt intimidated...whether or not they had to endure hardships or not is illrelevent..not all pull runners because they don't want to work hard..

frank'd

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All this time, I�ve been operating under the misguided notion that dedication to students and interest in effective teaching was paramount in the equation.


Creature comforts also play to the equation of satisfaction with your work situation. Sometime the employer plays to this "its all for the students" routine to manipulate the FTs.

At any rate the goal of all working in this industry should be to improve the lot for all..but sometime we get bogged down with attacks against school that a least provide the basics..where as other schools create a sweatshop environment, use intimations to control employees and provide substandard living arangements.

I can tell you from 4 years in china I have encountered every kind of shady adventure in education..from schools that falsify paperwork, to being ripped off for taxes never paid, threatened by a school attached to Geely University in Changping, where to get my final pay after the school had closed out TIC's office (A singaporean company that tried to offer 0 level instruction to highschool students but was fu*ked over by Geely when they broke the contract) I sat on the safe and would not let any one approach until the authorization to pay me was hand delivered by the president..and man no teacher should have to go though events like these just to get their digit..
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Outsida



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

vikdk wrote:
outsida - are you now trying to tell us that your percieved standards of what are acceptable norms as far as working conditions for the FT are concerned, can be used as something that defines the quality of employment here - a kind of, I kan stick it out so it must be good logic Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


dude, if you had read my original post properly, we wouldn't be debating this. I was talking about that Welsh couple in the article, who wimped out over a few small problems and had their story sensationalised by the writer. Can we just agree on this instead of you poking me with a stick?

I also pointed out later that people with truly bad conditions - and I think we all know what they are - should not have to suck it up and should make efforts to change things (the Chinese way) or just leave.
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PostPosted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 6:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Welsh couple in the article, who wimped out over a few small problems

outsida - you seem to know a lot about this specific episode - where you by any chance there, have you talked to this couple Question
What ever we think about the reporters writing style, through their investigations, they must know about this perticular episode than some of the eminent spin-doctors who have been contributing to this thread - but then again putting a tough-guy spin on some of the krap we have to put up with here seems to be type of payment in itself for a certain kind of FT Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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