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A Problem with having a Pet
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lost-in-translation-again



Joined: 10 Jan 2005
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Location: Sichuan

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 3:38 am    Post subject: A Problem with having a Pet Reply with quote

Hi everyone
well im a long time reader here, but seldom post until now !
to star this off, i recently changed employers, to what i thought was a pretty good place to work.
the pay scale is a bit low for a college and the work load a little high, but never the less acceptable for the time being.
the problem im having here will affect my employment, but im a person that lives by what i believe in . Principles, fairness, right and wrong !
here's the problem i have i have a Dog, now im not the only teacher that has a Dog. but the only foreign Teacher that has one so i guess i stand out like a sore thumb here taking him for walk's
we live in an apartment building that is not on campus, their are two buildings actually another school has Chinese teachers living here and of course they have dog's!
so one day im walking my dog outside on the street, low and behold the president on the college see's me. which i never have met the man but his first reaction is to make a mad rush to the foreign affairs department and demand in no uncertain terms that that foreigner has to get rid of his dog ! university rules blah blah .
now other uni teachers here have dogs" Chinese Teacher's " but they blend in so their dogs i guess are not a problem
my dog is a small breed, well behaved doesnt make problems for anyone
but my dilemma is i wont be pushed around by rules tht are made when they seem to suit an individuals spur of the moment thought
oh and nothing on the contract says anything about prohibiting having a pet. so next week the foreign affairs staff will tell me that no teacher here can have a dog , and sticking to my gun's my response will be that the only way i will get rid of my dog .is if you fire me
am i being unreasonable here ? caring for a pet that provides companionship and affection? i think not
well thanks for reading my post here , any comments feel free to reply here. have a great day !!!!!!
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wailing_imam



Joined: 31 Mar 2006
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Location: Malaya

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 3:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

...and just what do you intend to do with this dog when it's time to pack your bags and head home?
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lost-in-translation-again



Joined: 10 Jan 2005
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Location: Sichuan

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 4:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good question you asked
i have been here 3 years now, the dog is 10 months old.
i dont plan on going back home anytime soon if ever and if and when the time ever arose that i would go back, of course my dog would go as well , i would not abandon him !
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cj750



Joined: 27 Apr 2004
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Location: Beijing

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 4:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I went through the same thing with Jackson and my first motorcycle...the School all of a sudden came up with a rule after I got my first bike and dog that no teacher could have pets..of course other teachers already had them..I had a pet licence and a drivers licence and all tag paperwork associated with being legal..so I said..I am very close to my dog and bike and I do understand the need for rules..so if the school really think that they need to enforce this rule..OK, but if the dog goes ..so do I...just give it to me in writing and a release letter..and me and Jack will be on our way...I was allowed to keep the dog (..but later they did give me a code of conduct, which of course, I followed strictly, well OK ..maybe I strayed a little) anyway, he, the dog, had a code of conduct presented to me in written form..which did him no good cause..after all he is a dog and cannot read..so he did have a few code violations (bones left in the hall, poker games with his cat buddies til well after midnight) but no one noticed..
Sometimes the Chinese cannot stand that you would assume that life in china can be your life and not just a foray into Chinese culture for the benefit of the school...power to the puppies
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cj750



Joined: 27 Apr 2004
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Location: Beijing

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 4:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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...and just what do you intend to do with this dog when it's time to pack your bags and head home?


askin this kind of question..you must not have a dog!
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BlakeS



Joined: 07 Aug 2006
Posts: 87
Location: Xian

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 5:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

cj750 wrote:
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...and just what do you intend to do with this dog when it's time to pack your bags and head home?


askin this kind of question..you must not have a dog!


Many FT's try to leave them with other staff when they find out how expensive and how much of a hassle it is to bring an animal overseas (back home).

There aren't always people willing to take on an animal. Dogs and cats have been left homeless by travelling FT's.
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cj750



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 5:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Dogs and cats have been left homeless by travelling FT's.


hasn't been my experience with "dog people"..maybe with cat folk..but then again they are as finicky as their pets..no seriously..haven had that experience...most folks that I know with pets here..brought them from home...and every dog owner I have known has "put the dog on" and gone home...
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clarrie



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 6:52 am    Post subject: neibourhood b-b-q Reply with quote

If you didn't want to TAKE it back home with you, what's wrong with a neighbourhood b-b-q?

Get some evidence! Get some shots of the other people with their dogs to present at the right time. If the concept of having a pet doesn't wash, tell the powers that be that it is a temporary situation and you're working as part of a collective which intends opeining a dog restaurant in the local area!
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NathanRahl



Joined: 31 Aug 2006
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Can't you take the animal back to the states with you? People do bring pets overseas often enough. They have to travel with the baggage og course, and have special requirements, and it would cost a fair amount, but I would think it is not impossible. Likely it is a real hassle though, guess it depends on how attached you are to your pet.
I had thought about getting a dog here, but how doe's one go about it? I see them everywhere, but I don't know what dogs belong to someone, what dogs are strays, and it's impossible to even think about taking one home. Thats because the chinese here watch every little move I make. It gets old after a while, but you get used to it. I went into a restauran the other day though, and they refused to serve me, because I would not purchase some of the more expensive items, and only wanted soup, wtf. Now, that ticked me off.
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