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vikdk



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 1:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

As a postscript to my post advertising part of the Danish solution to combating the problems of youth violence and crime I�d like to write the following - after the kindergarten years - for all children there is a nationwide network of state-run after-school clubs (afternoon clubs - school usually ends at 12.00 - where kids between 7-11 can participate in sport, crafts, drama kind stuff or just play) and youth clubs (evenings for 12-18 - where you can do the kind of stuff teens do - but where drugs/violence and crime and definitely prohibited) - all these places include staff who are trained pedagogues who work together with teachers and local authorities and indeed even police when the situation warrants it. They also have the authority to be able to call parents in for consultation and can forward serious problems to an appropriate higher authority. These clubs are not free - but local authorities will give grants to deprived families (those in the "social danger zone") so they can send their kids. Youth who have had brushes with the law are strenuous encouraged to attend these clubs and keep off the streets - and in most big cities there is a network of street workers - which include a good number of "street-savvy" pedagogues - who can try and "cater" and monitor that group who have fallen through the social safety nets and are posing problems on the street.
No way is this system 100% effective - crime, violence and drugs (drugs being a particular problem) still exist - and the system is darn expensive on the taxes - three year ago I was paying 48% in tax on my taxable income (Danish taxes are the worlds highest - or at least up there in the top three � but then again you should see the roads, hospitals, schools etc etc � even though the Danes are always saying they're sub-standard) and anyways the population is only 5 million - so it stands to reason that it should be a more easily manageable society (or is that another absurd generalization) ! This system is also not easily exportable (maybe I should change that comment to impossible) - since it not also takes money to set it up, but also social trust - imagine all those folk poking their noses in on how kids are being brought up!!! But believe me the training needed to be able to enter this system as a pedagogue is very vigorous - an is an education that not only deals with developmental aspects of children - hitting on both schooling with regard to academic and health issues - but also encourages the worker to find a purpose for her work - studying philosophical argument regarding the nature of knowledge, social norms and morals and the concept of "good-life". The whole thing may look to the outsider as a bit big-brother like, but in my book it seems to be quite effective in demoting the big-slap principle to that place where it rightly belongs - the garbage bin Exclamation
By the way - altogether I worked within this system for 5 years - 3 years in primary schools - and a couple with special-needs teens in a half-way house type home and on the street. I�ve also had experience within Danish schools of special-needs classes/teaching � but that is a whole other story
And how does all this bull help the FT with an unrully chinese class - well at best it can only indicate that in some far off utopia there is a real alternative to those 5 minutes alone with the kid - but at least an alternative that is not focused on suffering and degradation - but one of focusing on possible possitive developement and resources - which after all - in my bleeding heart world - should be the message of all aspects of education Idea


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 2:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Motormouth Vik from DK,
you have unsuccessfully hijacked this thread to make a pompous and self-show of your righteous andf pedagogically-hypercorrect attitude; you have blissfully ignored the topic at the core of this thread: should we or should we not interfere in a "proceedure" (your spelling) enacted by our employer and our colleagues.

I still hold that you overstepped the boundaries of your province by exploding in the face of a Chinese teacher you found "guilty" of physically disciplining a Chinese kid.

That - and not anyone's personal attitude to physical punishment is the issue here; meanwhile you sound more like an ayatollah berating the infidels than a truly enlightened education guru. We know you derive all your intelligence from very knowledgeable manuals; well, surprise for you - there is also LIFE, and life often teaches us lessons no book has prepared us for! I am reasonably sure you lack practically relevant experience. YOu are a polemicist - and a lousy one at that! Your character shows too well - and that's not the ideal character of a person entrusted with educational goals for children of others.
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vikdk



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 2:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Motormouth Vik from DK,
you have unsuccessfully hijacked this thread to make a pompous and self-show of your righteous andf pedagogically-hypercorrect attitude; you have blissfully ignored the topic at the core of this thread: should we or should we not interfere in a "proceedure" (your spelling) enacted by our employer and our colleagues.

I still hold that you overstepped the boundaries of your province by exploding in the face of a Chinese teacher you found "guilty" of physically disciplining a Chinese kid.

That - and not anyone's personal attitude to physical punishment is the issue here; meanwhile you sound more like an ayatollah berating the infidels than a truly enlightened education guru. We know you derive all your intelligence from very knowledgeable manuals; well, surprise for you - there is also LIFE, and life often teaches us lessons no book has prepared us for! I am reasonably sure you lack practically relevant experience. YOu are a polemicist - and a lousy one at that! Your character shows too well - and that's not the ideal character of a person entrusted with educational goals for children of others.

Steppenwolf another tip with regard to teaching in difficult situations is that of trying to hold an air of calm - since inappropriate outbusts in these type of situations can sometimes be taken as a sign of loss of control.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 2:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

vikdk wrote:
As a postscript to my post advertising part of the Danish solution to combating the problems of youth violence and crime I�d like to write the following - after the kindergarten years - for all children there is a nationwide network of state-run after-school clubs (afternoon clubs - school usually ends at 12.00 - where kids between 7-11 can participate in sport, crafts, drama kind stuff or just play) and youth clubs (evenings for 12-18 - where you can do the kind of stuff teens do - but where drugs/violence and crime and definitely prohibited) - all these places include staff who are trained pedagogues who work together with teachers and local authorities and indeed even police when the situation warrants it.
And how does all this bull help the FT with an unrully chinese class - well at best it can only indicate that in some far off utopia there is a real alternative to those 5 minutes alone with the kid - but at least an alternative that is not focused on suffering and degradation - but one of focusing on possible possitive developement and resources - which after all - in my bleeding heart world - should be the message of all aspects of education Idea


YOur depiction of the DANISH education system is illustrative of many things, yet you fail to point out the truly relevant differences between China and Denmark.
You think that punishment is "painful and degrading" - but that is a typical WESTERNER'S, and in this trhead's case: YOUR own idea; not everyone condemns punishments in this way even if subjectively speaking, we all would want to avoid being punished.

That is the purpose of punishments - to discourage socially inadaptated youths or children from giving in to their antisocial urges. A "punishment" is seen as a corrective means, not as punishment per se. It's what rules the lives of all people in organised socieites - there is a price to pay for disregarding the social order.

Even so, we could still disagree on what means of punishment are acceptable, and what are not; what is not acceptable is that you start preaching against teachers who do not want to interfere in a local social network in which they are total strangers. If you have a holy mission of eliminating child cruelty around the globe you can do a much better job by setting up a dedicated N.G.O. It would seem to me, however, you do not have the stamina for that; making money while living in China is of at least as much importance to you as is the wellbeing of your young charges, and maybe making money is of the highest importance?

Besides, selectively comparing certain factes of Danish kindergartens and elementary schools to Chinese schools isn't illustrative enough.
You have failed to show the most fundamental differences between Danish kindies and Chinese ones.

In a Chinese kindy, kids are treated much more as regular pupils, subject to rigorous schedules and rules that run the whole gamut of subjects to teach to patriotic education to...
I doubt the Danish kiddies have to sing the national anthem and watch the Danish flag go up the mast in the kindergarten yard!

What's more, parents in European kindergartens and schools are invited to meetings held by parents and teachers associations where common goals and strategies are discussed and parents get feedback from teachers on their own child. Does that happen in China??? Why not??? That's my beef - Chinese parents here expect the kindergarten and school to do a job without parents shouldering any responsibility for the results of those efforts.

Parents do have extreme and unreasonable expectations; they want their kid to achieve 90 points out of a 100 in every subject and if their own child fails they blame it on the child and the teacher(s) but never on themselves. COnsequently many Chinese fathers resort to spiteful punitive actions when the child brings home a poor school report. The pressure is on the kids and their teachers and no one else.

Are you still maintaining it is a teacher's sole fault if the kids misbehave, and the teacher should impotently watch as his class goes berserk?

You obviously do not know that Chinese teachers have a far more stressful job than you have, and it's less generously remunerated than yours is! That kids burn out is a fact even schools recognise but do nothing about.
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vikdk



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Are you still maintaining it is a teacher's sole fault if the kids misbehave, and the teacher should impotently watch as his class goes berserk?

Have I ever said that - try reading my posts again - they are all to do with the teachers being the social educator � somebody who acts appropriately with regard to a situation � but most definitely a role that does not have to resort to using corporal punishment. An out of control class is situation where the teacher caters for the mass by looking out for the individual - and indeed vice versa. In the worst scenario find those who are making that trouble and eject � but afterwards make sure you talk to those pupils to discuss the situation and find a solution for future lesson (TA�s are so necessary) � if there was a reliable backup system here of head teachers � indeed any teacher � I would also recommend employing this network - but that seems not to exist in most cases
What I do believe is that the berserk Chinese classroom as found by the FT could be indeed be a symptom of teaching that merely focuses on the mass and its control through dictatorial power � and when the tin-pot general goes all hell can break loose. If that�s a things you feel easy with - all that mitigating circumstances stuff - then fine, but there are possible alternatives -
.making education fun
.showing compassion rather than blind strength
.being a role-model for humanity rather than blind authority
.being a person supporter rather than a pusher
Of course the teacher bringing such a namby-pamby philosophy into the rioting classroom can't expect the same kind of instant respect afforded to the stick-banger - especially if the kids have been brought up on the stick - but then effective teaching is a difficult game and takes time energy and above all patience - but like all weaning processes could be seen as another important step of positive development - and, at least in my book, a relevant message for all educators in any part of the world!!

Good to see you regained your calm again steppenwolf - my next tip for difficult teaching situations is to always talk in nice simple easy to understand language - always the most effective way of getting your message over.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 7:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

In both Chinese schools I've worked at, it is "illegal" to toss a kid out of the classroom. And sending the child to the principal is practically unheard of! A principal (and, indeed, even vice-principals) run around to meetings all day creating new rules and regulations, but rarely and truly interact with the student body.

These so-called "head teachers" seem to hide in their offices when not teaching their own classes and rarely, if ever, visit classrooms on a whim just to see "how things are going". They don't want to know!

What I do now as one of my punishments is to move the student's desk to the front doorway (I have two doors to my classroom) and his chair/butt is parked out in the hallway, the desk at the the threshold and the door is open so he can still see and hear the lesson. He has no chance at all to interact with the other kids. I'm following "their" rules while modifying it enough so it can work for me. The kid doesn't like sitting out there all alone and the other kids may or may not chide him for it afterwards. A little humility can work wonders.

The point being there ARE creative ways to punish a child without resorting to physical force - - it's just in China the powers that be make it much more difficult to work together as a team to overcome these obstacles by not setting up parameters and establishing some tried and true methods. When I was having such EXTREME difficulty at my last school, the problem wasn't bad students rather I wasn't a good enough teacher, so I was told. Perhaps . . . but I don't think I was the problem, really.
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vikdk



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 8:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kev your posts just point out what nightmare chinese education has concoted with regard to school discipline - but then again prehaps i should be quiet since steppenwolf tells me -
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This arrogant belief that you as a Westerner have a mission in a Chinese environment that no local can do as efficiently as yourself...is stunning!

But then again surely I havn't studied the system hard enough - maybe there is a wealth of efficiency hidden somewhere in its rather rusty workings!!!
Thinking about the following case -
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VICDICK, what would you recommend then as a form of punishment when a student pulls a knife on the teacher that stops him from laying a beating on his ex girlfriend. I have seen this happen in china. and guess what the kid was back in class the next day
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those rusty workings don't give me too many options - no profesional network I can fall back on to here with regard to getting some help for this pupil - no here the teacher must take the safety first - safety for those he is responsible for - himself and his students.
So in these circumstances I personaly would not take a class if the pupil returned the next day - unless the headmaster or some security personel took on the spot resonsibility for mine and the class's safety while I was teaching with the violent student present in the classroom (if the incident was realy bad I'd also have to think what I'd do if he was in the school let alone my classroom). I know this throws up all sorts of problems - how long would this action go on - it's legality - how does it play into contract etc etc - but I realy think I would feel that I must make some type of action to indicate that I felt this was a serious situation and not mearly a teenage love-tiff. Just going back to work without making the incident an issue would be something that I would loath to do. Indeed if the incident was extremly serious and no action was taken (the school authorities confronting the incident and taking some kind of approriate action) - then eventualy I think there would be case for leaving (ideally after attempting to explain my position to pupils and staff) - since although this does look like abandon boat tactics - I feel my absence and refusal to blindly follow abismal orders would also communicate a very strong message - hopefully one of I will not turn a blind eye to violence and just carry on as if nothing happened. And even though this move could be confused with cowardice - I certainly don't want turn this post into a fairytale where a naive Robin hood once again steps out and puts everything right with his fine pedagogical arrows.
And if I would be brave enough to follow up on my words with action if I realy did go through an incident like this - I hope so, but I know I would be so so much tempeted to find an easier way out of it (turning the blind eye is so sensible so many times here) - especially if the law of the land actually turned out to be in the pupils favour - and even though my fairytale instinct tells me I should really be trying to confront the incident - the violent pupil - head on.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 10:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually half of me was serious when I said I thought it was okay to smack the children around. I'm tired of reading the news and learning of yet ANOTHER high school student bringing a gun to school and killing someone and themselves. Something has to be done about this and I think it has to start with discipline at home and at school.
Now I have ZERO idea what teaching in China is about so I can't rightfully comment on whether or not the punishment fit the crime, but I can tell you from an American school teacher point of view that I have seen stuff happen in classrooms that make you want to haul the little 10 year old outside and smack the crap out of them and then do the same thing to their parents.
We can't hit the children and it shouldn't even be allowed to come to that but it does. I liked something I read here a little bit ago, and it's a common idea passed on many different forums, "Who are we to walk into a different culture and judge them on what we believe is right and wrong?"

This whole topic is going to be one vicious circle. I say put a mechanism in line to ensure that the punishment fits the crime, but there are always exceptions. The you will say, �Who will ensure that those guidelines you institute will be followed by letter?� I will reply �We must have controllers� and you can rebuff, �Who will control the controllers?�

Nothing ever will really get solved, and we have every right to comment to EACH OTHER in regards to things we deem to be inappropriate, but I do not feel we ever have the right to interfere and try to change another culture to suit our belief systems. If we succeed in changing everyone and culture to what we feel is appropriate we will have a lot of countries with our cultural values and that would be depressing.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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"Who are we to walk into a different culture and judge them on what we believe is right and wrong?"

culture is unique - but because humanity is a common factor to all peoples who ever they are and where ever they be, and is a factor that can be related to the human physiological norms that are associated with human suffering and pain and their affect on well being - then its very difficult to accept any cultural tollerence of pain and suffering when these two factors are so easly associated with a concept of wrong, especially when that pain and suffering is meted out to children in the name of common schoolbook education. In my book no culture is so unique to merit an exception with regard to this rule!!!!
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

We are all entitled to our own opinion.

We are not entitled to tell another culture they are wrong.

If we do not like what is going on then we need to change our situation.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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We are not entitled to tell another culture they are wrong.

If we do not like what is going on then we need to change our situation

like if we run into a culture that practises cannibilism then because of it's unique nature societies best action is just live and let live, but of course remembering to change our situation by running (that is if we want to share in the living bit) Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 1:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think we're not going to come to a consensus on this and that's fine - - that's what forums such as these are for. However a few closing thoughts from me:

1. In my home city of Topeka, one school district started to use metal detectors at the high school (in one of the "safer" school districts). Some parents were up in arms about this situation citing that THEIR children were being discriminated against due to the actions of others (in other districts and even other cities . . . Columbine anyone?). Those metal detectors came down after a few short weeks. To date, as far as I know, there have been no shootings at that high school, but a metal detector would seem to be a greater deterrant than "hoping" nothing happens. It only takes one incident . . .

2. In my youth, teachers were allowed to paddle students with a wooden paddle. In my old-zheimers mind, I can't recollect if I was ever on the receiving in of said paddle, but I DO remember my brother was a couple of times (he is a fine, upstanding citizen these days, by the way). I also remember the threat of seeing that paddle hanging by the classroom door as a reminder of what COULD happen if we were to ever get out of line.

3. In 3rd grade, I remember being one of those smart-assed, show-offy kids who seemed to know the answer to everything and I'd shout it out rather than raising my hand. I'm sure I was a spunky little kid who thought he was so very clever. My teacher at that time did not and she (gently, I'm sure) smacked my cheek once - - after verbally warning me several times I'll bet - - and told me to be quiet. I was SO embarrassed, more than hurt, and laid my head on my desk for the rest of the afternoon. Guess who was still a clever kid . . . but didn't shout out answers any more?

I don't think we as teachers should have to resort to a physical punishment system. But when there is NO system or when the threat is not followed up by action, the kids catch on. And that's the problem IN CHINA with the current crop of little emporers and empresses - - they know they have the power in most cases. I feel it's only going to get worse before it (possibly) gets better.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 2:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no metal detectors in Danish schools (even if they are not totaly free from problems), but then again a discusion like this among a group of qualified Danish educators - would probaly never hit on the merits of beating with a paddle or slaps across the face.
By the way Kev is your brother the type to take to the streets to march against social injustice such as race segregation - or is the mental image of an Uncle Sam with his paddle ready to smack the unruly boy who steps out of line still strong enough to make him keep his ass in line Question
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sorry kev my last post was pretty unfair in parts - but does raise the point why rigerous dictatorial discipline in the classroom - may be looked upon through certain high-placed eyes - as something that has not so much to do with nuturing the fine upstanding citizen - but also making sure society is trained to stay within that place that was intended for it. But then again we who travel - especialy us happy-campers of one big party China - know that this could be well said to be just part and parcel of that, which has been so prettily described as cultural uniqueness Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 02, 2006 1:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Last week, a kid that I would justly diagnose with ADHD (the real deal) simply refused to sit down and ran around the room. I picked him up and put him back in his seat, called another teacher to come, and finally made him stand in the corner; to no avail. I found a little piece of plastic that's supposed to be used for a binder that goes around books, I often use for pointing at the board...the next time he came up to the front of the classroom and put his hand on my desk, I smacked his hand with it. I didn't do it extremely hard, but I am sure it stung for a while. It sounded worse than it was; a really loud smack.

Results:

Kids became silent, boy went and sat down and didn't get up for the rest of the class. Maybe there is something to this corporal punishment thing. I never tried it before that day. I have seen Chinese teachers come in class and snatch a kid up by his ear...
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