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Smitman



Joined: 16 Sep 2006
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Location: Guangzhou, China

PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:07 pm    Post subject: A Good Ol' Thank You Reply with quote

Hey everyone,
I just wanted to say thanks a bunch for all the information and help everyone has given me in my hunt for a job in China. I've been teaching here in Guangzhou for about a week now, and have found almost exactly as I expected. Although my mood was slightly ruined just now when reading troll posts (KidfromBrooklyn comes to mind), I still wanted to throw out my heart-felt appreciation for all of the more helpful posters.

That being said, since my mood WAS slightly bent by the "Bachelor's Degree or Higher" flame post earlier, I wanted to comment on quite a few discoveries that I have found here. I have travelled to a few countries before, and, being born in America, I can truly say that some people are simply not cut out to live and teach here. I've met about fifteen foreign teachers in the short time that I've been here and have learned quite a bit, and I generally agree with most of the veterans here that attitude is simply everything.

Some people come here to experience the culture, which is a great idea since typical weeks only have 13.3 hours of teaching or so. Some people come because they can never be loved as much in their home country. Some people come because they want to change the world. Some people come for every other reason, and that's really all there is to it. Although many people will tell you it is wise to lie about your reason for coming to China (and they do as well), the fact is that there are many different reasons for coming to teach here for less pay than they feel they may "deserve." Why do they still come? My answer is, who cares!?!?!? It doesn't mean that people should avoid coming here just because the pay is much less.

There have been a plethora of surprises that I was not quite expecting, such as a complete lack of curriculum, or a school full of invincible rich peoples' children, but I've dealt with it and will continue to deal with it--I'm here for a reason, and that reason doesn't include running away from all the troubles I would ever need to deal with. I've learned quite a bit from my short time here, talking a great deal with the locals and the teachers, and perhaps when I become more experienced I can return the favor. But for now, I just wanted to say thanks to all the great forum posters out there--and a nice, big "man shut up already" to all the self-righteous posters out there who think that their experience in China is the only one in existence. Warning people is one thing--extending your crappy experience to every teaching experience in China is another, albeit ignorant, thing. And for goodness sake, if you can't even spell or use correct grammar when saying "they're" instead of "their" then maybe the posts aren't even worthy of reading.
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phis



Joined: 10 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good post Smitman. I agree wholeheartedly.
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prof



Joined: 25 Jun 2004
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Location: Boston/China

PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's called the "Honeymoon" stage.
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NathanRahl



Joined: 31 Aug 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have to agree with Prof, sorry.
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tw



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You might want to read this from www.voyage.gc.ca/main/living/culture_shock-en.asp

Quote:
Many people who travel or live overseas experience what is commonly referred to as �culture shock.� Although its intensity varies from one individual to another, most people experience a period of adjustment.

During the first stage, often described as the "honeymoon," most encounters are perceived as exciting and positive. But in the second stage, known as "culture shock," foreigners feel a sense of dislocation and general unease. Symptoms include:

feelings of anger, discomfort, confusion, frustration or irritability and loss of a sense of humour;

withdrawal, spending excessive amounts of time alone, spending time only with Canadians or other foreigners and avoiding contact with locals;
negative feelings about the people and culture of the host country;
compulsive eating and drinking or a need for excessive amounts of sleep; and boredom, fatigue and an inability to concentrate or work effectively.
During the third and final stage, called "adjustment," foreigners start to accept their new surroundings and make a compromise between the �honeymoon� and �culture shock� phases.

To cope with culture shock, learn to recognize its symptoms.

Also be aware that you might experience �reverse culture shock� after living abroad. Be prepared for a period of readjustment when you return to Canada.

Coping Strategies

Probably the best strategy for coping with the various impacts of culture shock is to make a conscious effort to adjust to the new culture. Here are some suggestions on how to make yourself feel more at home in your new surroundings:

Admit frankly that these impacts exist. It is not a sign of weakness to admit that you feel uncomfortable, tense or confused.

Learn the rules of living in your host country. Try to understand how and why the local people act the way they do. Their behaviour and customs may be different from your own, but they are neither better nor worse than what you are used to.

Get involved in some aspect of the new culture. Whether you study art or music, or learn a new sport or martial art, being an interested student will make a world of difference.

Take time to learn the language. It always helps to understand as much as possible of what people are saying. They will appreciate your effort to communicate with them in their language, even if it is just a few simple phrases, and it will make your daily life much easier. Carry a small notebook and jot down a couple of new words each day. Use a phrase book to learn the vocabulary you need to cope with real-life situations.
Take care of yourself. Eat well, exercise and take the time to sleep. Limit alcohol consumption to moderate amounts.

Travel. Take the time to be a tourist and explore the country�s sights.
Make friends and develop relationships. Getting to know local people will help you overcome cultural differences and understand the country. It will also show you how to be more sensitive to cultural norms and expectations.

Maintain contact with friends and family back home. Writing home about your experiences and problems can help you sort through them. It is also a good idea to keep a journal of your feelings and thoughts.

Do something that reminds you of home. Listening to your favourite music or practising a familiar hobby can boost your spirits when you are feeling homesick.

Avoid idealizing life back home. Try to make the most of your stay and consciously adopt an open mind.
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clark.w.griswald



Joined: 06 Dec 2004
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:57 pm    Post subject: Re: A Good Ol' Thank You Reply with quote

Smitman wrote:
I've met about fifteen foreign teachers in the short time that I've been here and have learned quite a bit, and I generally agree with most of the veterans here that attitude is simply everything.


Despite the fact that you have only been here for a short time I don't think that you will find a much more accurate summation than this.

You are absolutely right that we as individuals decide whether our time spent here in China is enjoyable or not, and that this is based upon ones attitude.

You could be living in some tropical paradise and still find things to complain about if you really wanted to. China is certainly no paradise and there are plenty of things to complain about if you want to be negative, but then you can always choose to concentrate on the positive things that keep you here. To do otherwise just seems to lead to the question that is often directed to those who habitually complain and that is 'why stay if you don't enjoy it?'
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China.Pete



Joined: 27 Apr 2006
Posts: 547

PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 1:24 pm    Post subject: You're Welcome Reply with quote

Only yesterday, it seems, you were dispairing of ever finding a job. Now, you've got one. It seems that China agrees with you so far, as you seem to have gained a good perspective on things for this stage in your experience. But please read TW's quote carefully, as I'm sure you will go through other stages as well. Otherwise, given the rapidity with which you landed a job and got yourself to China, I fear we might be reading a rant by YOU, oh let's say, next week! Wink
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Steppenwolf



Joined: 30 Jul 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 1:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Few people remain permanently optimistic but a postiive worldview is a huge mental spring and moral boost that no professional cynic can wipe away with his biased proclamations that the Chinese employers are all greedy slave drivers and bloodsuckers. You will find such employers quite especially in western countries too.

I am sure you will eventually get a somewhat cracked vision here in China but you can survive here quite well and an open mind will carry you much further than it would in a western country.

Those negativists and nihilists that trot out their class war rhetoric are only green with envy of those who don't feel cheated for a few fen fewer.
The degree of liberty we enjoy is quite remarkable, and the standard of living we enjoy is decent enough. The fewer complaints you actively seek to make, the better for your mental wellbeing! See those cranky, prematurely ageing bean counters!
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WordUp



Joined: 05 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 4:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I totally agree with you.
But you should wait three weeks to post until after you get past the culture shock that is sure to follow..

Sounds like you have the right attitude, keep rolling with that and you will be fine.

Cheers!
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Tessio



Joined: 31 May 2005
Posts: 140
Location: In a New York state of mind.

PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 4:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Positive Thinking is the key.

"The sun will come up tomorrow. Bet your lucky bottom dollar that the sun will come up tomorrow! Tomorrow, Tomorrow, I love you tomorrow, you're only a day away!" - "Annie"

I'll do it tomorrow.

God Bless the late Norman Vincent Peale.


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vikdk



Joined: 25 Jun 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 4:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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The degree of liberty we enjoy is quite remarkable

Liberty - China Laughing Laughing Laughing
Please could you tell us in what form this liberty is most commonly dished out - through neglect, disinterest, trying to keep us at the proverbial arm's distance - or is that liberty designed to allow us really to devise new progressive teaching method that will be used to the advantage of the Chinese educational system Question
Is that liberty remarkable because - it is intended to be the catalyst of something new and good - or because it often smacks of the most amazing professional incompetence Question
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China.Pete



Joined: 27 Apr 2006
Posts: 547

PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 11:42 pm    Post subject: Keep It Up Reply with quote

"Those negativists and nihilists that trot out their class war rhetoric are only green with envy of those who don't feel cheated for a few fen fewer." --Stephen Roger Wolf

It is so ironic when a prol feels the need to vociferously defend the interests of his betters, and supposes that OTHERS are "green with envy." Laughing

OP, not having received any signs of appreciation from Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, et. al. recently, Roger is probably hoping YOU could give him some ego-boos.

Example: That's just the best Gorgeous W Shrub impersonation I've heard in a really long time, Roger!

Barring that, he will just have to be content with whatever attention he manages to draw on this board. You're welcome, Roger.


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NathanRahl



Joined: 31 Aug 2006
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 11:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm, I think to assume that because someone vents here that they do not like china is making a rush to judgement.

It has been my experience that many posters, besides the ones who just want some info, come here simply to vent, and there is nothing wrong with that.
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China.Pete



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 12:07 am    Post subject: Stages of Culture Shock Reply with quote

"I think to assume that because someone vents here that they do not like China is making a rush to judgement." --Nathan Rahl

Agreed. And, getting back to the stages of culture schock analogy, different people are at different stages of their experience in China. The fact that some of us may have become a bit jaded doesn't negate the value of the information offered along with the attitude. Just as I don't think it's fair to slam those of us who are still in our "honeymoon" or "adjustment" stages.
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Steppenwolf



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 12:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

vikdk wrote:
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The degree of liberty we enjoy is quite remarkable

Liberty - China Laughing


Liberty, simpleton, yes, LIBERTY - not freedom. Your freedom extends to the privilege of going back to your own country if you can't adapt to China, a freedom Chinese don't have.
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