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[gregoryfromcali]

Let's just say that Ewa is common name in Poland.

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[jeffra]

The basic facts of human nature apply here as elsewhere: when parents give their child a firm foundation of love and importance in this world, the child has a better chance of achieving true maturity when they reach adulthood. A home that is safe and sound with parents giving plenty of emotional energy and love to the child is a pretty cool deal. Look at the family background of the girl and look at the way she handles her life to know about her.

Decades of Soviet Era politics in, and the newly developing democracy and market economy does impact the individual and family in Poland. I believe in balance and so much historical 'instability' has caused many imbalances in the lives of families and individuals. Challenges overcome make for a stronger person, and challenges not handled make for weaknesses in the person. Having said this I think that the governmental patterns of this century have increased the scheming and conniving aspect of some women to get ahead in the 'game of life'. Lack of opportunity and fairness in life has had an effect upon society that must be acknowledged.

Cultural differences I assume are of greater interest to someone wanting to know 'how the girls are in Poland'. I am divorced from one, and am embarking upon a relationship with another, therefore I feel that I have an opinion to share. One paradigm that I use to see differences is that of comparative ratios. I think that Polish girls are more likely than American girls to believe in staying married for the rest of their lives. More likely to believe in God, more likely to serve their man, more likely to agree to have children, more likely to be patient towards their man, more likely to do what their man asks of them. I think that Polish women are more fiesty and strong willed than American women. They stand the ground of 'their side' moreso than standing the ground of what is logical or objectively right. They are the best to have on your team, see. I think it is more important to let them know they are number one in your life, more important to acknowledge that they are smart and right. It is more important that they have the say in what happens in the kitchen and with the children. If you can assure their financial and emotional safety and security you will have the best woman at your side that you could imagine. These are some of the things that I have learned for myself.

In Poland compared to the states, the male female relationship is more asymmetrical; not evenly balanced in shared power. The duty is upon the man to be responsible to himself and to what is right. He must not take advantage of the girl who may have unreasonable hopes in safety and well-being through him. If she does not know to care and respect herself, the man must do this for her. He must have self dignity at all times or suffer the personal consequences until he does conduct himself with integrity towards the feminine personalities he encounters.

So, what are the girls like in Poland? They are the way that you treat them, and they have a cultural foundation to be very very good to you.

[jeffra]

"feisty" and "more so"

( I was moving along at a fast clip in the above rant )

[gregoryfromcali]

Nice one.

What I always like to say is that unlike "some" girls from English speaking countries, Polish girls usually want to take the time to get to know the guy first.

But once they say they love you, if you play your cards right that can easily be for a life time.

I know I like having moja Polka on my team.

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Okay, then.
Look, bottom line, and without patronizing anyone, inside every Polish girl there is an American crying to get out.
But for the fun of a lifetime, Poland shall be your place. Look no more.

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