Site Search:
 
Get TEFL Certified & Start Your Adventure Today!
Teach English Abroad and Get Paid to see the World!
Job Discussion Forums Forum Index Job Discussion Forums
"The Internet's Meeting Place for ESL/EFL Students and Teachers from Around the World!"
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

A disturbing tread??
Goto page 1, 2  Next
 
Post new topic   This topic is locked: you cannot edit posts or make replies.    Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> Oman
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
steppy-boy



Joined: 22 Jul 2005
Posts: 61

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 5:39 am    Post subject: A disturbing tread?? Reply with quote

Have any teachers here in Oman or the Middle East in general noticed that our students have many strange ideas and beliefs?

For example, two students came up to me and with all seriousness warned me not to eat pork because - and get this - it will make me less jealous when someone sleeps with my spouse. I laughed at this and thought they were joking, but to my utter amazement, they weren't.

I can cite many other examples of such silliness. It seems that this whole region and Muslims in general have many way out ideas! I suspect they live in a fantasy world of their own making. Their ideas about the West are particularly strange, far-fetched an ill-informed.

Has anyone else had similar experiences? I would love to hear them.

Steppy-boy.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Stephen Jones



Joined: 21 Feb 2003
Posts: 4124

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 9:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
It seems that this whole region and Muslims in general have many way out ideas! I suspect they live in a fantasy world of their own making.
Yea, I mean they don't believe in sensible things like UFOs, ESP, auras, homeopathy, the American Way of Life, the UN conspiracy to take over the world, Scientology and so on.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
steppy-boy



Joined: 22 Jul 2005
Posts: 61

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 10:16 am    Post subject: A disturbing tread Reply with quote

Maybe or maybe not. But they do believe that Mohammad went to the moon and split it in half, that it was the CIA that crashed the planes into the Twin Towers, that it was a Zionist plot, that all the Jews stayed home that fateful day, that its quite acceptable to kill those who want to leave their religion, that all science and technology was invented by them, that Jacque Costeau was a Muslim, that all the great thinkers were really Muslim but didn't know it, that its OK to bury women up to their waist, put a sack over their head and crush their skulls with stones, etc,. Believe me, the list can go on much longer. In the Hadith, there are literally hundreds of impossible and implausable stories that are more bizarre than the above I have quoted. It seems that Muslims are very frustrated because deep down they know they are dominated and rely so much on the West (And now the East) for their own progress and they don't unberstand why.

Stepy-boy.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
veiledaccoutrements



Joined: 31 Oct 2006
Posts: 3
Location: Europe

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 11:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

But they are happy, which is more than can be said for many in the West.

Leave thou thy sister, when she prays,
her early heaven, her happy views,
nor thou with shadow'd hint confuse
a life that leads melodious days.

Tennyson.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
grahamb



Joined: 30 Apr 2003
Posts: 1945

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 12:25 pm    Post subject: Strange days Reply with quote

And they pay tax-free salaries! That's really disturbng!
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Stephen Jones



Joined: 21 Feb 2003
Posts: 4124

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 2:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Maybe or maybe not. But they do believe that Mohammad went to the moon and split it in half, that it was the CIA that crashed the planes into the Twin Towers, that it was a Zionist plot, that all the Jews stayed home that fateful day, that its quite acceptable to kill those who want to leave their religion, that all science and technology was invented by them, that Jacque Costeau was a Muslim, that all the great thinkers were really Muslim but didn't know it, that its OK to bury women up to their waist, put a sack over their head and crush their skulls with stones, etc,. Believe me, the list can go on much longer. In the Hadith, there are literally hundreds of impossible and implausable stories that are more bizarre than the above
But Christians do believe that the world was created six thousand years ago with everything complete, that Jesus died and came back to life three days later, that Moses split the sea in half, that Noah lived to eight hundred-odd years, that the preparations for 9/11 were carried out in Afghanistan and Iraq and not Germany and the US, that it is quite acceptable to bomb all Afghanis who won't give up their patriotis, that all science, philosophy and technology was invented in the West and that the West wasn't an undeveloped backwater compared to India, China or the Ottoman Empire for most of the last two thousand years, and that it's OK to bomb houses, hospitals and schools full fo innocent children and crush their skulls with the rubble. Believe me the list can go on much longer. In the Bible there are literally hundreds of implausibole stories that are more bizarre than the above.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
veiledsentiments



Joined: 20 Feb 2003
Posts: 17644
Location: USA

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No religion has beliefs that will withstand analysis or thought. That is why they invented the word 'faith.' It is usually best preceded by the word 'blind.' Have you ever bothered to read the "Bible" or the centuries of analysis written by the Jewish and Christian interpreters? These are the fellows who seriously debated such things how many angels can dance on the head of a pin...

You need to keep in mind that in 1970 there were no schools in Oman except for 2-3 tiny madrasas teaching the Quran. The first batch of university students arrived at SQU about 1986... and almost none of them had literate parents. Folk beliefs are still strong...

To be honest, your post says as much about you as them...

VS
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Bindair Dundat



Joined: 04 Feb 2003
Posts: 1123

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 3:48 pm    Post subject: Re: A disturbing tread?? Reply with quote

steppy-boy wrote:
Have any teachers here in Oman or the Middle East in general noticed that our students have many strange ideas and beliefs?

For example, two students came up to me and with all seriousness warned me not to eat pork because - and get this - it will make me less jealous when someone sleeps with my spouse.


But if no one else comes along and sleeps with your spouse, then it's good that you don't get jealous, right? I mean, that sounds like a pretty good argument for eating pork, assuming that you have a faithful spouse.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
omanized



Joined: 04 Jun 2006
Posts: 152

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 5:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Regarding one's domestic situation and eating pork, it is also not recommended to fry up bacon while naked. I believe this advice is alluded to in the Muslim faith and it is certainly a well known bit of home-spun commmon sense in the west - you see, there is plenty of common ground that we can share with our colleagues and hosts in the Gulf.

Celebrate differences ! The OP's post reminds me of several newbies I have encountered over the years who are shocked that life is vastly different to our own, east or west - what does one expect ?? It boggles my mind........

In Thailand, they eat bugs, in India, they poop in the river and wash their clothes downstream, in Africa, they pierce their lips with discs to enlarge them, in Canada, they build hotels out of ice, in the States they build trucks with wheels the size of small cars and drive them over other small cars.........what a wonderful world !

omanized
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Gordon



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Posts: 5309
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 5:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whoops. I thought this thread was about a massive Goodyear recall.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
Stephen Jones



Joined: 21 Feb 2003
Posts: 4124

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 9:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Whoops. I thought this thread was about a massive Goodyear recall.
There are no good years in TEFL in the Gulf.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
eha



Joined: 26 May 2005
Posts: 355
Location: ME

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 10:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
'In Thailand, they eat bugs, in India, they poop in the river and wash their clothes downstream, in Africa, they pierce their lips with discs to enlarge them, in Canada, they build hotels out of ice, in the States they build trucks with wheels the size of small cars and drive them over other small cars.'


And in all these places, not to mention in Europe, Asia, America, Africa and Australia, some people smile in your face while stabbing you in the back. Which seems to me a far, far worse thing than believing that eating pork makes you jealous, etc. What's that one about motes and beams?
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Aliskander



Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 50

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 11:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

And in all these places, not to mention in Europe, Asia, America, Africa and Australia, some people smile in your face while stabbing you in the back. Which seems to me a far, far worse thing than believing that eating pork makes you jealous, etc. What's that one about motes and beams?


And here they don't stab you in the back - get real. Any student will smile in your face and tell you how much they love you and how great you are - then tomorrow they will go to the principal of the college / school / university, sheikh or Wali and tell them how bad you are!!!!
Face life - this is one of lifes' unpleasant realities - across the world, all religions and all cultures.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
eha



Joined: 26 May 2005
Posts: 355
Location: ME

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 4:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I didn't exclude 'here' -- if by 'here' you mean the Muddle East. I said 'Europe, ASIA, (and I meant every square inch of it) Australia, etc.
I also intended the 'motes and beams' reference to extend to ANYONE who thinks s/he's superior to those s/he's sneering at--- and that means expats, inpats, outpats, cowpats, etc. In fact, I personally have no time for so-called 'positive thinking' at the expense of reality.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
veiledsentiments



Joined: 20 Feb 2003
Posts: 17644
Location: USA

PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 4:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

"cowpats" hee hee

VS
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   This topic is locked: you cannot edit posts or make replies.    Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> Oman All times are GMT
Goto page 1, 2  Next
Page 1 of 2

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


This page is maintained by the one and only Dave Sperling.
Contact Dave's ESL Cafe
Copyright © 2018 Dave Sperling. All Rights Reserved.

Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group

Teaching Jobs in China
Teaching Jobs in China