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cheryl
Joined: 01 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Japan
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 2:37 pm Post subject: What do "seasoned" ES/FL teachers think about this |
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Hi everyone,
This is a LONG one so grab a cup of java!
I'd like to get your thoughts on this thread i found on Big Daikon. I'm posting it here because i want to get the opinions of people who: A) aren't fresh out of university with no training/experience whatsoever, B) who won't dismiss this "teacher's" (i don't know for how long he's taught or what training he's had) actions on the basis of, "he sucks as a teacher, or he's an egomaniac", C) people who are teaching in countries other than Japan.
Thanks for reading! Here's the original post: "today's lesson-respect"
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Okay. Today I had to play bad guy and chastise my high school ichinen students for their disrespectful behavior. Nothing so bad, I suppose; last week I told them to bring the worksheet we'd worked on. Twenty-nine out of thirty-five didn't. Sleeping in class. Doing homework. Talking. Uniforms all rolled up and unbuttoned to look cool.
So, I chose today to do a lesson on respect. You can pretty much guess how it went.
Bottom line- You don't have to like me. Hell, you can even hate me. But you WILL respect me. |
this was his "lesson". (i know, i know, the desk turning was overboard!)
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I think I've almost got my chastisement badge. Here's how it went down. First, I took a nice heavy book and woke up a sleeping student by ever-so-gently swinging the book full-force at an arc toward his desk. After the initial shock was over, I turned his desk over. That got the attention of the entire class. Then I dropped the book and went to the board. I erased the assignment and wrote 'respect' in big, bold letters. I tossed the eraser over my shoulder and tossed the chalk over the other. I looked at the students and said, "You have dictionaries. Look it up." When they grasped the concept of 'respect', I wrote the prefix 'dis' and the suffix 'ful' in their proper places. I pointed at the class.
"You....are disrespectful," I said.
Then I made them stand up and adjust their uniforms. Some of the boys were only wearing t-shirts, which is way, way, WAY off the scale. Pointed to them and said,
"Hey, that's cool...no,no...don't put your jackets on. Let me do that, too."
I removed my tie and unbuttoned the top button of my shirt. "Wow, that's nice," I said. Then, I took my shirt off and untucked my undershirt.
"This is even better!"
I rolled up my pants legs. I essentially looked like a student.
"This is nice. I think I'll come to work like this every day. Would you like that? Me coming to work like this every day? Yeah? Well, I think so, too, but Noguchi Sensei, Kocho Sensei, won't like it. He'll say, 'Brian Sensei, you're FIRED,' and then I wouldn't have a job.
See, I like teaching you, because you are smart boys. Just disrespectful. Why? Why are you disrespectful to me? To Nikki Sensei? Why didn't you bring your worksheets? Huh? All of you forgot? Why do you sleep in class? Why do you do homework in class? Why do you talk while I'm talking? Still?! Are you still talking?! Be quiet! Have some respect!
Why do you disrespect this school? This is the best high school in Kiryu. This is the best high school in Gunma. Why are you so disrespectful? You wear the uniform of Jutoku! In this class you will wear it properly! I don't care what you do outside of this class, but in here you will respect the uniform. I like this school. This is MY school. This is YOUR school, too. Why are you so disrespectful of it?
Next week. Bring. The. Work. Sheet. See? We'll have to do this again! One more time we'll have to look at this worksheet. Why? Because you show no respect to me. *sigh*
Look, I want to do interesting things. I want to do fun things. I want to bring music and I want to play games. I want to make Oral Communication interesting. Don't you want to have an interesting class?
Respect is a two way street. It runs both ways. If you show me respect, I will show you respect. Right now, you have none of my respect because you don't show me any. You don't have to like me. You can even hate me. That's fine. But you WILL respect me. You WILL respect Nikki Sensei. You WILL respect Jutoku.
I want this class to be the best. I want this class to be the ichiban BEST. You have to help me. You have to be respectful. *sigh* That's all. Sit down."
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J-Pop
Joined: 07 Oct 2003 Posts: 215 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 2:51 pm Post subject: sad |
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Cheryl,
Firstly -- I'd be interested in hearing your comments!
Then (assuming this happened, in the way the account says):
--I wonder how well he REALLY understands the students,
--it sounds like the teacher (guy?) needs a break,
--if the students were really THAT bad (at English) I really wonder how much they understood?
--overall, I think this teacher is (sadly, perhaps, but true) not as important in the whole scheme of things as he thinks he is.
--maybe some training in "stress management" might help?  |
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Steiner

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Posts: 573 Location: Hunan China
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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I remember my English teacher in Jr. High used to go on these rants about how bad our class' behavior was. He was fond of the phrase "chicken manure." We all just stared at the ground and tried to look contrite and bit the insides of our cheeks to keep from laughing. And then it was back to business as usual, except you couldn't make eye contact with your friends for the next thirty minutes or you'd snicker and set him off again.
It do feel good to give 'em what fer, but it jus' make ya look plum silly. |
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Capergirl

Joined: 02 Feb 2003 Posts: 1232 Location: Nova Scotia, Canada
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:03 pm Post subject: |
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I don't think I'm a "seasoned" teacher yet, but I'll respond anyway.
OK, the turning over the desk thing was a bit melodramatic. However, I am with the teacher on this one. It sounds as though his students needed a little lesson about respect. Given the circumstances he described, I would have done something similar (minus the scare tactics, but with a scary voice nonetheless).
What I am wondering is how long the students had been behaving like that before he decided to make some changes. It's best to nip these things in the bud early, IMHO. Expect respect...get respect.  |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:14 pm Post subject: Respect begins with self-respect |
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R-E-S-P-E-C-T
How do you get it? Well, I don't think it's by doing what that teacher did. In fact, if it's gotten to that point, well, clearly you haven't been handling the class the "right way" from Day 1. My rather muddled thoughts on this subject are - 1. You have to have a lot of self-confidence when you first walk into that classroom; if you do, it'll "transmit" itself to the students. You have to give the impression of being totally at ease and relaxed ( even, or especially, if you're not ). You have to "project" the impression that, while you're a nice guy/gal, you absolutely will NOT tolerate any c r a p. I think you also have to "lay down the law" on Day I, and tell the students how it's going to be in YOUR classroom. That old axiom: "Always start off hard; you can get easier later. But, if you start off easy, you'll never be able to enforce discipline" is, I'd say, pretty accurate. I'm not so sure anyone can specifically define how you inspire respect - it's ineffable. But I am sure that you can learn how to, if you don't automatically have it from the start.
Regards,
John
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cheryl
Joined: 01 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Japan
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:14 pm Post subject: |
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J-pop,
I thought it'd be better to cut the post off where i did because it had already become a short novel!
What i think is that the teacher must have been driven to take the drastic measure he did. I don't think he's a bad teacher, but rather a teacher who was frustrated. I think you're right about questioning how much the students understood. It probably would have been better if he could have taken the oral communication part of the class and throw it out the window and do the "respect" lesson in Japanese, but then, we don't know whether he's proficient in Japanese or not.
I also really really really disagreed with him throwing the chalk, the eraser, the book, and overturning the desk. He showed major disrespect while asking for respect. I think his underlying idea was good, but he implemented it wrong. That's just my half cent...
Capegirl: It's curious that no one...NOT ONE person (who posted a reply thread in BigDaikon) thought about what led to this teacher choosing to do this lesson. They called him a bad teacher, or a Nazi (sheesh)..blah blah blah. |
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J-Pop
Joined: 07 Oct 2003 Posts: 215 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:14 pm Post subject: most important |
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Capergirl wrote: |
What I am wondering is how long the students had been behaving like that before he decided to make some changes. It's best to nip these things in the bud early, IMHO. Expect respect...get respect.  |
Capergirl,
From a classroom management perspective, this is perhaps the very most imporant observation--excellent. Exactly.
I had wondered the same thing. Like--hello--did this just start bothering the teacher on that day?
It is so important--from the beginning--to establish CLEARLY a few simple basic rules--then consistently reinforce them.
The interesting thing, IMHO, the teacher HAD (indeed) already established & reinforced the "rules," now he's having to deal with results. |
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Wolf

Joined: 10 May 2003 Posts: 1245 Location: Middle Earth
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:24 pm Post subject: |
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Hmm. Unorthodox perhaps. Last year, for the unrliest class, I would climb up on the desks and glare down at them until they were quiet. Or I'd kick the podium. Even a mild kick makes a pretty good noise. It worked. They settled down and learning took place.
I don't know if it's fair to judge him until we walk a mile in his shoes. How many of us teach large high school classes? That the kids don't take seriously? Some of us, to be sure, but not all. He overturned a table. If he hadn't "lost his cool" but was rather just being dramatic to try to focus attention, then it wouldn't be the most desparate thing I've heard a teacher do. And I'm comparing him to liscenced teachers I knew back in Canada. My mother once grabbed a junior high school student and shouted into his face (for setting another kid's hair on fire) before physically propelling him out of the classroom and into the principle's office. She has been an edcuator for more than 20 years.
Understanding every word? Here's a classic example of that not being necessary. The word "disrespectful" and his rolling up his trousers etc would be clue enough as to why they were being chewed out.
I'm interested to know if his motivational speech was effective. |
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J-Pop
Joined: 07 Oct 2003 Posts: 215 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:32 pm Post subject: your mom |
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Wolf wrote: |
Hmm. . . . He overturned a table. . . it wouldn't be the most desparate thing I've heard a teacher do. And I'm comparing him to liscenced teachers I knew back in Canada. My mother once grabbed a junior high school student and shouted into his face (for setting another kid's hair on fire) before physically propelling him out of the classroom and into the principle's office. She has been an edcuator for more than 20 years.
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Wolf,
Based on those circumstances--I don't think anyone would consider second-guessing your dear mother I mean, setting another kid's hair on fire? Wow. |
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cheryl
Joined: 01 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Japan
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:38 pm Post subject: |
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I have a class like his. That's why i think i can relate to him. The only difference is that i have a collar on me by being in the JET program and being and ALT. |
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Shonai Ben
Joined: 15 Feb 2003 Posts: 617
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 3:56 pm Post subject: |
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I taught in the public school system in Canada and I can relate to this teacher's frustration.I feel he did the right thing.He had to regain control of the classroom and by doing this I feel he did.
I don't know how long things were out of control and maybe he caused the problems by not being strict enough in the early classes,but you have to put your foot down and take control again.
It's all part of classroom management.Sometimes it is not pretty.You do what you have to do. |
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MacMahon
Joined: 04 Oct 2003 Posts: 39
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 4:22 pm Post subject: |
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How did it get to this???
Is this just 1 real bad day or an accumulation of days/months/years?
Sounds like he may have perpetuated the whole thing and it eventually came to this. Start as you mean to continue would be the first advice that comes to mind. Some Teachers are either just to "cool" at School and they reap variants of the above post from students. Or you get the other extreme, the millitary type who's up for flogging students and their parents and anyone else who's up for it.
One things for sure, RES-PECT is painfully hard to regain once it withers and fades, hence the overturned desk instead of a tap on the desk and gentle cough?
I had an American colleague who, whilst teaching in New Jersey, tried to detain 3 students after class for a pep talk. They refused to this. So he stood by the door and funnelled the rest of the class out. He said they were stood by the door facing him, twitching, f'ing and blinding... Shall I stop here?
Quick ending: Light switch, pepper spray and chair in hand.
Oh, and resignation letter. |
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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 9:13 pm Post subject: Re: sad |
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J-Pop wrote: |
--overall, I think this teacher is (sadly, perhaps, but true) not as important in the whole scheme of things as he thinks he is.
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Very unfortunate, but true. (From what I've heard from more experienced folks here in Japan.) Will the administration support him? What are the other teachers doing in their classes in terms of discipline and respect?
I can understand his need to just blow up (I've never done it, thankfully...), and I certainly don't think he's a bad teacher--just human!--but unless he's got some support from the school, I doubt things will change. If anything, he'll just earn himself a bad reputation among the students. Not that reputation is crucial, but when next year's students walk in already thinking that this guy is prone to explode, the worst case scenario might involve them trying to see just how far they can push him...
I hope I am wrong.
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leeroy
Joined: 30 Jan 2003 Posts: 777 Location: London UK
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 9:16 pm Post subject: |
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Bloody hell... And I thought I had it bad in London. At least my students want to learn... |
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guest of Japan

Joined: 28 Feb 2003 Posts: 1601 Location: Japan
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2003 10:26 pm Post subject: |
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I've got nothing bad to say about the teacher. In fact I've been quite tempted to do a few of those things myself. As the old history teacher who I did my student teaching with said, "Who gives a beep if they like you? Do they learn from you?" His classroom control techniques were almost mythological. About 15 years ago he threw a desk across the room. Every year the students passsed down the story. His classroom control was phenomenol.
I'd be interested to hear the outcome of the teacher's efforts. I'd also like to know how the Japanese teacher reacted. The danger of doing such a bold act of classroom management is that if it fails, you have very few other options. |
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