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huntjuliehunt
Joined: 09 May 2007 Posts: 87
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:19 pm Post subject: muttawa |
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Do they ever have friendly conversation or smiles with foreigners, do they leave them alone mostly, do they look for ways to harrass them, or what?
I want to know what to do about prayer times. If I'm in a coffee shop or restaurant, or mall, do I just go and sit outside and that's considered respectful? Can I walk around outside, leisurely? If not, can I walk outside trying to get myself home?
If I'm not close to home, I don't want to be trapped outside and harrassed, so please inform me on what to do during the prayer times.
When are the prayer times anyway? |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:33 pm Post subject: Re: muttawa |
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| huntjuliehunt wrote: |
Do they ever have friendly conversation or smiles with foreigners, do they leave them alone mostly, do they look for ways to harrass them, or what?
I want to know what to do about prayer times. If I'm in a coffee shop or restaurant, or mall, do I just go and sit outside and that's considered respectful? Can I walk around outside, leisurely? If not, can I walk outside trying to get myself home?
If I'm not close to home, I don't want to be trapped outside and harrassed, so please inform me on what to do during the prayer times. |
As far as you are not a Muslim, the above does not apply to you, and anyway, during prayer times, all shops are closed, and it is up to you if you want to seat on the pavement, or under any tree, waiting until the shops are open.
Alternatively, you may go to one of the �black� internet boxes where the muttawa cannot see what is happening inside!
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When you hear the call to prayer from a speaker in a mosque, that�s the time for prayer! |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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These days, the mutaween mostly keep a low profile, and in any cases they have never been much in evidence in cities like Jeddah or Al Khobar.
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I'm not sure that the mutaween make a habit of making small talk with anybody, let alone non Arabic-speaking foreigners. Despite what you may read here or hear in compound parties, the mutaween are far more concerned with the 'morality' of their fellow Saudis than they are with the antics of expats. The most common reason for them to approach foreigners is to reprimand 'improperly' dressed women, although very occasionally they do ask foreign couples to show proof of marriage. This, however, is rare.
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| If I'm in a coffee shop or restaurant, or mall, do I just go and sit outside and that's considered respectful? |
The whole 'closing during prayer times' thing is, to be honest, a bit bizarre. Most restaurants have no objection to patrons eating during 'salat', although they can't order food or pay for their meal during that time. Most, supermarkets (though not smaller shops) allow patrons to go about their shopping during 'salat', but they cannot check out, nor can they have their vegetables weighed or order chicken curry from the deli. So, yes, you can happily sip your coffee or wander around the mall looking at the shuttered windows during prayer time.
Having said all that, your user name indicates that you are a woman, in which case you won't be allowed to sit outside coffee shops anyway, at least not in Riyadh.
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| If I'm not close to home, I don't want to be trapped outside and harrassed, so please inform me on what to do during the prayer times. |
Taxis operate normally during prayer times, so, aside from the fact that traffic is usually extra busy at this time, getting around is no problem.
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Times vary from city to city, and from one time of the year to the next. Get a prayer calender for the city you are in when you arrive. |
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globalnomad2

Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 562
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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I'm not convinced by claims that the muttaween are less visible nowadays. Some colleagues of mine set up our university booth at an education fair in Damman a couple of weeks ago and the muttaween went around intimidating everybody and confiscating things like gold chains from local students. Same old story--religious insanity.
When I was in Saudi it was extremely common for not only the real muttaween but also the self-appointed ones to harass foreigners. It happened to us in Jeddah all the time, although more commonly by the self-appointed ones.
The US embassy often sent circulars describing beatings of westerners in the streets by mutaween in Riyadh. That was 15 years ago, so I'm sure all the apologists in this thread will claim this never happens nowadays and has never happened. |
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Stephen Jones
Joined: 21 Feb 2003 Posts: 4124
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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| They screamed at a load of Canadian women in abayas and closed down a Canadian educational institutions stall and the Canadian embassy stall in an exhibition in Jeddah a couple of days ago. |
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Van Norden
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 409
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 12:25 pm Post subject: |
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In my 4 years in KSA I've had just one encounter with a muttawa. I popped out to do some shopping without realising the shorts I was wearing didn't cover my knees (funny, this bothers them, but my gut sticking out my t-shirt is completely acceptable.)
I don't know if this guy was a real muttawa or not (he didn't show me his badge) but he pointed at my shorts and said "A bit longer please." Well, no one talks to me like that. I went right up to him, my nose centimetres from his, and said "Who the *beep* are you to dictate what I wear?! Go *beep* yourself beardy wierdy!"
A small audience gathered round. To my surprise they started clapping. One man came up to me and, clasping my hand, said "Thank you. It's about time someone stood up to these infernal busy bodies." I became something of a folk hero in that neighborhood after this performance.
That's a true story, all except for my volley of expletives and the rapturous response I got from the crowd. In fact, I just nodded my head sheepishly and said something like "OK." I know which side my bread is buttered on. I view the muttawas in the same way as Halliburton must view Saddam Hussein. Dig?
Anyone else have a good muttawa story? |
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globalnomad2

Joined: 23 Jul 2005 Posts: 562
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 2:02 pm Post subject: |
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Indeed ah do, suh. Well--semi-good. A big brawny lecturer named Jim and his wife were shopping at Safestway in Jeddah during the approximately 8 1/2 seconds when the store was actually open between prayer times. Jim was in another aisle while the wife was closing in on the checkout counter when some bearded nitwit, a self-appointed muttawah, disapproved of visible hair on her head. He yelled at her and soon began to shove while yelling. This was a big mistake...because...here comes Big Jim! "'EYYY! That's my wife you're got your hands on, you f****** dumb sonofa*****! Why you *^&%$%..."and so on, and Jim's next move was an attempt to send the guy flying through the wall....but you know how people usually restrain fighters in the kingdom (which I admit is not a bad thing).
Some things never change in the relationship between man and woman, and one of those things is...you do not push around another man's wife. I don't care what kind of half-baked flea-bitten country I'm in either...that's the rule.
My wife got her belly stroked in a supermarket once, by a teenage halfwit, when she was pregnant, but that wasn't a muttawah, just an idiot. They find pregnancy pretty sexy there. Ah, good woman--make 12 babies! |
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dmb

Joined: 12 Feb 2003 Posts: 8397
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 2:22 pm Post subject: |
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| but he pointed at my shorts and said "A bit longer please. |
I'd be a tad upset by that comment too Van. |
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TABING
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 123 Location: right behind you
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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| I've had mutawas in my classes in both the UAE and Saudi. Now while some were rabidly anti anything not Muslim (like putting up posters around the school warning other students that it was "haram" to wish us infidels a Merry Christmas), the majority of the ones that I encountered were usually nice and friendly. Of course this was in educational institutions and maybe they are a different type than the dirty thobed rabble that wander the souk looking for vice. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 5:46 pm Post subject: |
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| putting up posters around the school warning other students that it was "haram" to wish us infidels a Merry Christmas |
The only people from whom I've encountered similar behaviour have been American 'reverts' - the very same people who, just a few short years ago, would of course have been having a very merry Christmas themselves. Ironic - or maybe not. |
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Queen of Sheba
Joined: 07 May 2006 Posts: 397
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 8:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Van Norden wrote: |
In my 4 years in KSA I've had just one encounter with a muttawa. I popped out to do some shopping without realising the shorts I was wearing didn't cover my knees (funny, this bothers them, but my gut sticking out my t-shirt is completely acceptable.)
I don't know if this guy was a real muttawa or not (he didn't show me his badge) but he pointed at my shorts and said "A bit longer please." Well, no one talks to me like that. I went right up to him, my nose centimetres from his, and said "Who the *beep* are you to dictate what I wear?! Go *beep* yourself beardy wierdy!"
A small audience gathered round. To my surprise they started clapping. One man came up to me and, clasping my hand, said "Thank you. It's about time someone stood up to these infernal busy bodies." I became something of a folk hero in that neighborhood after this performance.
That's a true story, all except for my volley of expletives and the rapturous response I got from the crowd. In fact, I just nodded my head sheepishly and said something like "OK." I know which side my bread is buttered on. I view the muttawas in the same way as Halliburton must view Saddam Hussein. Dig?
Anyone else have a good muttawa story? |
This was an amusing story of SuperVan to the rescue of the neighborhood amoral society. So what you are saying is that the threat of the mutawa keeps you employed because such "extremism" keeps the really qualified and capable people out of KSA? |
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Van Norden
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 409
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 11:38 am Post subject: |
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That's right Queenie. Hence my ambivalent feelings toward the muttawas: I'm miserable because of them, but I wouldn't be here without them.
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| but he pointed at my shorts and said "A bit longer please. |
I'd be a tad upset by that comment too Van. |
He wishes he were young . . . a little better hung / And he's paranoid you feel that way too
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Queen of Sheba
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 12:12 pm Post subject: |
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| but he pointed at my shorts and said "A bit longer please. |
I'd be a tad upset by that comment too Van. |
Welcome to the dress code of the kingdom and the fact that men are not entirely exempt from it! They are not supposed to wear revealing clothing, just as women are to dress modestly, which by definition in KSA means wearing the abaya. Oftentimes, men forget that they too have standards that can be used against them, admittedly Muslims forget that at times as well. However it is a reality that there is an unspoken dress code for men as well as women, and arms and legs should not be revealed. Its not so strange that men are asked to dress modesty and by the Islamic the standards that KSA is governed by. |
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cmp45

Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 1475 Location: KSA
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 4:03 pm Post subject: double standards of dress |
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| I am amazed at the double standards with men and women's appropriate dress in public. There are lots of men walking around wearing tight T-shirts and tight jeans and heh nobody seems to make a fuss about that...or do they? Do you think the Mutawa harass men for wearing tight clothing? I think not, if so they would be too busy to bother harrassing the women. Have any men been approached and told that your jeans are too tight man! well maybe not on this forum LOL That would be embarrassing to say the least, but what about all these youngsters? |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 4:11 pm Post subject: |
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| I am amazed at the double standards with men and women's appropriate dress in public |
You mean like the way in which in the "West" men can go around and bear their hairy chests in public, but for a woman to do the same would be considered offensive, obscene and possibly illegal? Is that what you're referring to? (Get your laddish 'jokes' over with asap, please). |
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