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huntjuliehunt
Joined: 09 May 2007 Posts: 87
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 7:47 pm Post subject: Teaching Topics for Men |
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What can a teacher talk to Saudi men about?
They don't have movie theaters because the very religious find movies offensive. So I can't talk about movies, can I?
They don't play music (not even background music in coffee shops) for the same reason, so it's a risk to discuss music, isn't it?
I have no knowledge or interest in cars or sports, and I'm afraid that's what they'll want to talk about. Politics - forget it.
Muslims don't discuss their families, since that's considered private.
So, what are safe and engaging topics for class? It seems that every interesting topic is wiped off the board.
Food? What, the different methods for pinning chicken fat on top of a rotisserrie for shawarma?
I almost wonder what the point is in knowing a language at all, when there isn't anything to talk about. I'm hoping I'm wrong, and that you'll give me some good discussion material that can be used day after day... |
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sheikh radlinrol
Joined: 30 Jan 2007 Posts: 1222 Location: Spain
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Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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From the name it appears that the OP is a woman. If so, she needn't worry about topics for teaching men since she won't be allowed to do it.
If, in fact, the OP is a man then we might be able to offer some tips. |
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cmp45

Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 1475 Location: KSA
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 3:39 am Post subject: topics for saudi men |
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Finding topics for discussion can be problematic, but this is the reality of teaching in Saudi Arabia.
I also think that if the students are interested in cars and sports then so be it...do some research and come up with somethings to talk about/ discuss. Come on>!...you are a professional; who cares if you aren't interested, the idea is to engage the student in what THEY are interested in talking about! But I guess...that may not always be possible...
The other day while in the computer lab, one of my Saudi Students asked me what I thought about Paris Hilton? I was a bit suprised and told him, I didn't think much about her and asked the student why he wanted to know? He told me that he was giving his "talk" - "speech" in oral class on Paris Hilton.
I had to laugh and after some inquiries as to what other sort of "speeches" other student's were giving; I discovered alot of the guys were talking about famous people; especially female movie stars like Catherine Zeta Jones...which by the way, I said was a much better choice than Paris Hilton. As I don't really know what Ms.Hilton is famous for other than having money and a pretty face! Which by the way was the very reason the student chose her!!! ha!
There were other students that were doing their talk on other people, like Terry Fox, The Canadian who walked accross Canada to raise money for cancer research. I asked them who their 'Oral' teacher was and it turns out he is a Saudi teacher! So there ya go...who knew? Some Saudis can be open minded...to a degree...
The point of this story is that there are Saudi colleges/ schools that are less than strict when it comes to discussing various topics...I also think it varies from class to class. Also a certain amount of tact on your part to stear discussions away from controversy.
Other sort of topics I would suggest are:
The Environment: such as pollution, global warming, noise, traffic, deforestation...depending on the student's level you may need to simplify the vocab etc.
Health issues....arts and crafts of various cultures?
Anyone else have any great ideas? |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 5:23 am Post subject: |
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No cinemas here but many Saudis are familiar with Hollywood movies. Many Saudis( but not the pious ones with short thobes and long beards) watch TV and dvd's.
Have a look at the Arab News or Saudi Gazette. They mirror to a certain extent what is in the Arabic-languiage media here. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 6:58 am Post subject: |
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Since the OP, without ever having been here, appears to have decided in advance that he can't talk about anything with his students, then there seems little point in telling him that he's all wrong. |
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sheikh radlinrol
Joined: 30 Jan 2007 Posts: 1222 Location: Spain
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 10:45 am Post subject: |
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Cleopatra wrote: |
Since the OP, without ever having been here, appears to have decided in advance that he can't talk about anything with his students, then there seems little point in telling him that he's all wrong. |
Why ''he'' and ''him''? On May 11 Cleo told huntjuliehunt that her user name suggested she was a woman. ??????? |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 11:26 am Post subject: |
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Yes, indeed.
But read the OP: the poster definitely seems to believe he (?) is a man:
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So I can't talk about movies, can I? |
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I have no knowledge or interest in cars or sports, and I'm afraid that's what they'll want to talk about. |
Seems we are dealing with a case of gender ambiguity here? |
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huntjuliehunt
Joined: 09 May 2007 Posts: 87
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 3:45 pm Post subject: |
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Cleopatra,
I decided in advance what I cannot discuss, based on fact, and based on fact, wondered if there are any viable topics remaining. I asked what I can talk about. Someone mentioned a good idea - the environment. What did you offer me? Is there a respectful word I can use in Arabic to discuss "bitc*y people" and their effect on the environment?
Cars and sports... I'm sorry, but I'll fall asleep in the middle of class.
As far as inquiries on my gender, the Saudi Embassy did not reject my visa application due to my transexuality - I hope to be a light, and a counselor, for those in the country who are considering taking the great leap as well. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 3:55 pm Post subject: |
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I decided in advance what I cannot discuss, based on fact, |
What 'fact' are you talking about? I discuss films, music and - with some caution - even politics with my Saudi female students. I know many of my male colleagues do the same with their male students. So I'm curious as to the 'fact' you are basing your post on.
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What did you offer me? |
I don't believe it is my place to 'offer' you anything. Nor do I believe that it is the place of a newcomer to this board, whose posts clearly indicate that (s)he has no knowledge of KSA other than what might be obtained in a dull Washington Post article, to go around telling other posters how they should behave on this board. Plus, since you used highly dubious 'fact' to 'decide in advance' what you could and could not discuss with students you have never met, in a country you have never been in and are ignorant of, then I wonder why you are bothering to seek advice from other people. And if you want me to 'offer' you something, I suggest that you use the same thing that led you to 'decide in advance' what were suitable topics of discussion. Your imagination. |
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cmp45

Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 1475 Location: KSA
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 3:32 am Post subject: |
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huntjuliehunt wrote: |
Cars and sports... I'm sorry, but I'll fall asleep in the middle of class.
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Well.....which would you prefer...the students falling a sleep or YOU falling asleep??? Truthfully however, no matter what you discuss you will probably have some students falling asleep regardless of what you talk about...
You should be able to discuss all sorts of acceptable topics; given the limitations, I think it might make sense to utilize topics which interest the students. The most probable situation is that you will have a curriculum to follow and for the most part will have little choice in what you may or may not want to discuss.
As a professional you develope the ability to detach yourself from your own personal tastes anyway regarding topics...sort of like acting in a way...you muster the enthusiasm for any topic and make it interesting...as one "well known poster" stated: use your imagination!
But as most will agree, you won't really know until you get to Saudi and actually start teaching.
Huntjuliehunt wrote: As far as inquiries on my gender, the Saudi Embassy did not reject my visa application due to my transexuality - I hope to be a light, and a counselor, for those in the country who are considering taking the great leap as well."
??? If you mean discussing transexuality in Saudi Arabia???~ perhaps in private, you may be able to discuss such a topic, but doubt that you will get very far discussing 'transexuality' in the classroom. Good luck on that if you decide to...I for one, would be interested to hear how that goes! |
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lotsa
Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 68 Location: Oman
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 4:06 am Post subject: Re: Teaching Topics for Men |
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huntjuliehunt wrote: |
I almost wonder what the point is in knowing a language at all, when there isn't anything to talk about. I'm hoping I'm wrong, and that you'll give me some good discussion material that can be used day after day... |
Do not concern yourself, once the poor (and sometimes rich) minions get out into the big wide world (out of KSA I mean), they will discover how to use the language that you have most usefully provided them with the tools to use.  |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 11:22 am Post subject: |
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huntjuliehunt wrote: |
As far as inquiries on my gender, the Saudi Embassy did not reject my visa application due to my transexuality - I hope to be a light, and a counselor, for those in the country who are considering taking the great leap as well. |
I do not think Saudi Embassy did not reject your visa because of your transexuality! Because in the Visa form, you have either male or female, and there is no in-between.
In addition, the use of term �transexuality;� in the Saudi culture is very sensitive and is considered a kind of �taboo� , and may lead you into troubles with the Saudis culture and laws. Just to let you know that in Islamic religion is not acceptable for a man to turn into woman by desire, or vice versa.
(of course I am not discussing here the case of a woman who feel she is a man, because of hormones problems!).
And, as you may very well know that, any person who has changed from the sex which God originally gave them cannot be accepted into Christian congregations, and the same applies in Islamic religion.
Now, if you think you are in-between, then you will have a very big problem teaching students (male or female) in Saudi Arabia, and I guess you end up by becoming a �mannish� or �womannish�, and this may bring you a lot of troubles. |
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huntjuliehunt
Joined: 09 May 2007 Posts: 87
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Posted: Thu May 31, 2007 1:14 am Post subject: |
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Thank you guys, for your information.
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