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upchuckles
Joined: 11 Jan 2007 Posts: 111
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 5:37 am Post subject: |
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| I was Horny for a job.. // I took the money and ran.. // I wasn't supposed to be working for them // I am just gonna hide out in my apartment until then. |
Pal, you are a joke. By your own admission you are a liar, a thief.. You don't illustrate how you have been lied to or anything about what this school did to deserve this.. You've been there TWO MONTHS, and you are flaking out.. You don't get my sympathy.
How can folks defend this guy.. Are you sure you were lied to or perhaps were you suffering from a bad case of missing mommy?
Sound like you profited from this school good though.. Good for you.. Propetuate the stereo type.
What is their number, I want to tell them where you are hiding out..
scumbag. |
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tw
Joined: 04 Jun 2005 Posts: 3898
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 6:04 am Post subject: Re: In a huge mess - NEED HELP ASAP |
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Come on now, upchuckles, cut the guy some slack will ya? I think he's learned his lesson and is under enough stress already without needing anymore insults.
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After getting paid on June 29th, I decided not to go back. My girlfriend called them this morning and told them I had a family emergency and that I left to go back home. Now they are threatening to call the police and call the Passport authorities to see if I really left the country. Since I was working on a tourist VISA, meaning my contract was as good as toilet paper, what can happen to me? Are they allowed to have the authorities come here and look for me? Also, the apartment is in my gf's name therefore it is not tied to the school.
I am just gonna hide out in my apartment until then. What kind of scenario am I looking at? Is this gonna get messy? My gf is scared but we also believe they can't do anything because I wasn't supposed to be working for them. |
OP, what needs to be said has already been said. The only thing I want to say is this, you keep making more and more mistakes and keep screwing up more and more. I thought you'd already learned your lesson from your posts a couple weeks ago, but good God almighty! I mean, getting yourself into trouble is bad enough already. But now you have dragged your girlfriend into this as well? What on earth would possess to get her to call the school??? *shaking my head in disbelief* Now she can be in danger too. Are you aware that if she'd registered her cellphone number with the carrier, then her identity can be easily found? You have now placed danger on not just yourself, but on someone you love (I think) too. I hope the school has never met your girlfriend, or she could be in physical danger as well. If I were you, I'd quickly skip town in the dark on the night and hop on a train to an undisclosed location with the girlfriend. You have done yet another very silly thing, young man.
Let me ask you this: was any the money paid for hours you have not worked yet? If so, then I would get someone to quietly and quickly drop off the amount at the school and then make a dash for it. Forget what another poster has suggested, do NOT meet with the school under any circumstances -- not even with a SAFEA official. They will not do anything for you since you were working without the proper document, i.e. the FEC. Get your girlfriend to get the friend of a friend, and with a couple other friends, to go to the school and drop off the money. Put the money in an envelope and make it look like some kind of a delivery. I think they are more angry about the money than anything else now. So, at least try to cool them down a bit by giving back whatever money doesn't belong to you. Remember the old saying: two wrongs don't make a right. |
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Shan-Shan

Joined: 28 Aug 2003 Posts: 1074 Location: electric pastures
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 6:06 am Post subject: |
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| By this time next year, most folks without 2 years teaching experience wont even be able to get into the country to teach english |
If you have two years teaching experience elsewhere, what would the attraction to China -- bottom of the barrel ESL work -- necessarily be?
Should there be one, many ways to skirt around the two years teaching experience requisite exist. One being to lie on your resume. Will Mr. Li call all your references to ensure that you are who you say you before he offers you a 6000RMB per month job at his language sweat shop? |
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therock

Joined: 31 Jul 2005 Posts: 1266 Location: China
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 8:36 am Post subject: |
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| Should there be one, many ways to skirt around the two years teaching experience requisite exist. One being to lie on your resume. Will Mr. Li call all your references to ensure that you are who you say you before he offers you a 6000RMB per month job at his language sweat shop? |
And if you are really lucky they might offer you 4000 to 5000RMB. |
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Shan-Shan

Joined: 28 Aug 2003 Posts: 1074 Location: electric pastures
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 9:15 am Post subject: |
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And if you are really lucky they might offer you 4000 to 5000RMB.
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And then perhaps around an extra 25RMB per month for each year of experience! |
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cj750s

Joined: 26 May 2007 Posts: 701 Location: Donghai Town, Beijng
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 9:54 am Post subject: |
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| cj750 is NOT wrong when he writes about the thugs...that is an all too common occurence here in many matters. |
I dont think he has told the whole story yet...
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| That being said, any contract that was entered into while you were working on a tourist visa is null and void because no contract can bind you to an illegal act and additionally any teaching contract in the PRC is predicated on an entire set of legal values |
while in a criminal court ( working on a l visa is a crime in china) the lack of a visa may be cause for a conviction and a fine, deportation or even lockdown..if both parties willingly enter into a contract with full disclosure..the contract can be upheld by a civil court court ... Safea may have nothing to do with this (as a volunteer org, they have little or no power)...labor department ...not sure...I have received mixed signals from them in the past...law suit..no question ..all they have to do is file...and if the worker doesnt show up in court...win by default...
Never sign a contract when working on an L...
now for the trick..the PSB can file charges against the worker and not against the employer...also companies can and often do hire private police (thugs)to deal with company problems...
Recently a bank customer was shot by a guard (bank delivery truck) as he refused to stop and not cross the line when money was being delivered to a bank in ShenYang....even though many are upset ..no charges have been filed at this time...apparently he had the law on his side... |
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jonathanj
Joined: 09 Mar 2005 Posts: 93
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 3:16 pm Post subject: |
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To all those bashing me because I ran: screw all of you. They lied to me on many occasions, and I am the 6th person to leave in a matter of two weeks. First off, my contract says two days off a week, I get one. My contract says no more than 10 students in a class. I get sent to some Junior high schools that combine classes and I have 90 students. That is 9 times more than what it states in my contract. They told me I would be teaching 20, 45 minute classes. I have been teaching for 28 hours a week, with no extra pay. I asked them before I started work, if I was being farmed out to different schools, they said no. I teach at 4 different schools in a week. They also told me that they would never give me morning classes if I had night classes the night before. Well, I have classes end at 10, and then start at 8 the next morning. I also have some friends that are owed money from the school, and they refuse to pay.
If all of this is not lying, then I don't know what is. I also didn't steal any money from them. I get paid on the 1st of the month for the previous month's work. I returned all my books, and anything else that had me tied to the school.
And about me "missing my mommy"...give me a break. I have been teaching in Japan for over 2 years, and finally decided to give China a chance. The cheating here is unbearable. I know people will say I am cheating as well, but I see it as trying to get away from working illegally, for a company that doesn't give a shit about me or my hard work, as well as being lied to on a daily basis, not knowing if I'll even get my pay next month. To me, my decision is justified.
I agree with tw that I shouldn't have dragged my gf into this, but she wanted to help me out and we both believed at the time that this was the best approach. I never imagined a company would hire goons to do their dirty work. It seems like the worst is done, but, it has only been a few days since. [/b] |
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A Token of My Extreme

Joined: 14 May 2004 Posts: 76
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 4:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Three weeks ago they called me in and said I had been seen with prostitutes and they weren't interested in me any more. |
Oh this is a simply great quote! I think the "crime" was you did not buy a hooker for the fao...
I can tell you that if any of my past employers brought me a hooker occasionally I would never of left the job... |
A happy conceit smoothly executed, this is one of those outstandingly entertaining posts that's so pleasing to the eye you'd have to be a genuine Scrooge to struggle against it. Like some of My Extreme's own unclassifiable posts that bounce between sleaze and paradise, it's a wonderful mess. ... giving readers that wouldn't normally sit through an entire paragraph the chance to understand and be amused by something so consistently intelligent that seduction is inevitable! |
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jeffinflorida

Joined: 22 Dec 2004 Posts: 2024 Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two
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Posted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 10:58 pm Post subject: |
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| To all those bashing me because I ran: screw all of you. |
Op don't take these people seriousely at all. Some posters on this board think they are holier than anything else and are better than most.
So if you are not happy at your job and they are doing the typical chinese lying and cheating business prectices then by all means SCREW THEM BEFORE THEY SCREW YOU MORE.
So you left a school that treated you like crap, allowed you to work illegally, and had no future. Not an issue at all in my book.
You did the right thing, just be a little more careful in the future and make sure you understand what you are getting into and by all means get a correct visa.
My only regret on reading your post is that you didn't soak them for xxxxxx yuan instead of letting them soak you...
In china it is cheat before you are cheated...And don't forget it. Those are the rules of engagement. Beat them at their own game baby!
Maybe some you posters should read your bible instead of thumping it in others direction... |
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kev7161
Joined: 06 Feb 2004 Posts: 5880 Location: Suzhou, China
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 1:41 am Post subject: |
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I've said it before and I'll say it again: If a job is truly horrible and the employer is not playing by the rules (contract) then I support anyone's decision to leave. However, I'd be curious to know:
First off, my contract says two days off a week, I get one. What did your employers say when you pointed this out in your contract and asked them to follow what they promised you in writing?
My contract says no more than 10 students in a class. I get sent to some Junior high schools that combine classes and I have 90 students. That is 9 times more than what it states in my contract. What did your employers say when you pointed this out in your contract and asked them to follow what they promised you in writing?
They told me I would be teaching 20, 45 minute classes. I have been teaching for 28 hours a week, with no extra pay. Was this an ORAL agreement or written in the contract somewhere? If in the contract, what did your employers say when you pointed this out in your contract and asked them to follow what they promised you in writing? By the way, "teaching" and "working" are two different things. Were you teaching for 28 hours or did you truly have 20 classes but had to spend extra time in lesson prep, office hours, commuting, etc.?
I asked them before I started work, if I was being farmed out to different schools, they said no. I teach at 4 different schools in a week. Was this an ORAL assurance or written in the contract somewhere? If in the contract, what did your employers say when you pointed this out in your contract and asked them to follow what they promised you in writing?
They also told me that they would never give me morning classes if I had night classes the night before. Well, I have classes end at 10, and then start at 8 the next morning. Was this an ORAL agreement or written in your contract somewhere? If in the contract, what did your employers say when you pointed this out in your contract and asked them to follow what they promised you in writing?
See, I think the OP's been in China long enough (2 years or more, right?) that he should know that written contracts are practically worthless but ORAL agreements are NOTHING here. Lying has become an artform here. So to anyone coming to China and reading this thread, remember to get EVERYTHING in writing. If they are screwing you over like the OP apparently has been, document the date and time and incidents, make copies of course, present said copy to your employer along with a copy of your contract with sections highlighted pointing out how they are breaching the contract and things need to change or you will take legal action. If you let them do these things to you for 3, 4, 5 months or more, then they are going to do it more and more and think it's alright to do so. If you nip it in the bud after the 1st or 2nd incidence, then you may actually be able to establish a professional working relationship with them.
Now, back to the OP -- DID you point all these things out to them and, if so, what were their responses? Did these things become issues before or after you decided you didn't like the city in which you were working? Again, I'm just curious, not pointing fingers or anything. |
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jeffinflorida

Joined: 22 Dec 2004 Posts: 2024 Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 1:50 am Post subject: |
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| Lying has become an artform here. |
This is an understatement if I ever heard one...
Artform? more like the religion that they don't have... |
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HunanForeignGuy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 989 Location: Shanghai, PRC
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 2:11 am Post subject: Jeff in Florida |
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to the OP,
Of all of the posts in this thread, some of them sanctimonious, some of them acrimonious, none is more accurate IMHO than the post Jeff made about two or three posts above this one here.
He is completely on the mark with what he writes -- completely.
Don't think that China is a parlor game in Savannah, Georgia around afternoon tea and crumpets. It's as vicious as it gets around here.
Almost everything that the OP writes about I have endured in this hellhole of school that I am leaving.
18 classes, 40 minutes each...contract can only be changed in writing...orally changed to 18 classes, 50 minutes each...we point out breach of contract and they sign an agreement that they will pay us and they still don't...over a year, it figures out to be nearly 6 weeks pay.
Paid on time? What a joke... Benefits paid or paid on time? What a joke...
Living conditions? Not bad if you can scream enough and often, etc.., etc., etc...fires in the teachers' apts, assaults, robberies, snakes, etc.
There were 14 teachers here. 5 bailed the first semester...some just pulled runners...some were terminated on trumped up charges...at the end of the year, all of the teachers are leaving except one...Lies and lies and lies and lies and threats and threats and threats...
one foreign teacher here was actual struck and beaten by a "leader"....
end of contract? a battle to get the letter of release and letter of recommendation...
and then, if this school learned where the foreign teachers were going, they would call the new school and sleaze the foreign teachers.
and this is a so-called "government school".
Our solution? A costly adventure to the people's court for sure...
one teacher just pulled a last minute runner at the end of the term on Saturday...didn't turn in any paperwork, grades, nothing...probably will not be the only one..simply couldn't take it anymore.
So is Jeff correct? Yes, absolutely, for sure 100%. Like Dorothy said in the Wizard of Oz, "this ain't Kansas anymore". |
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jonathanj
Joined: 09 Mar 2005 Posts: 93
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 2:31 am Post subject: |
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DID you point all these things out to them and, if so, what were their responses? Did these things become issues before or after you decided you didn't like the city in which you were working? Again, I'm just curious, not pointing fingers or anything. |
I pointed this out to them the minute it started going wrong. They kept showing me other contracts that seemed to have my photocopied signature on it. All of the "rules" in the new contract were not there when I first signed it.
About the 28 hours. It was actually 28 hours of class time. They told me it was getting busy and they need someone to teach the classes. That's fine, but pay me extra for it.
About the 90 students in the classroom. They told me it would only happen once, after the first time. It happened every week. I kept telling them it was "not cool", but they kept insisting it was the last time.
About the days off. Same as the hours worked, they need to teach more classes cause it was busy season. Sure, but give me more money!
To all the other complaints, they just brushed them off and showed me contracts that I "supposedly signed". It was all BS. I showed them the contract I had at home and they said I signed new ones afterwards. Why the hell would I do that!!!!
As I'm here to learn Chinese, I am sad that I now have to resort to cheating to play an even field with schools. Maybe this is a Southern China thing. My gf always warned about Fujian's people. I brushed it off as typical Chinese racism. I think I now know the truth as I was being cheated by my school, my landlord, and about every vendor on the block. |
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kev7161
Joined: 06 Feb 2004 Posts: 5880 Location: Suzhou, China
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 2:42 am Post subject: |
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I think you had/have every right to leave that school if what you say is true (and I have no doubt it is). But I guess my main point to you and to any "newbie" reading this thread is not to put up with the BS beyond a couple of times of incident. Sadly, I know it's hard to just pack up and leave if you don't have the money, but these guys were really pushing you around with those fake contracts and telling you one thing yet doing another. I don't know what I would've done had I been in your shoes but after that first paycheck where I DIDN'T get paid for the extra work, I probably would've done my 20 classes and then not a one after that.
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| I kept telling them it was "not cool", but they kept insisting it was the last time. |
See, after the SECOND time, it would've been my last time.
Once again, if you let these crooked schools/companies take advantage, they'll gouge you as much as they can! Let's hope your next employer is much better. |
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Teatime of Soul
Joined: 12 Apr 2007 Posts: 905
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 3:02 am Post subject: |
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| Don't think that China is a parlor game in Savannah, Georgia around afternoon tea and crumpets. It's as vicious as it gets around here. |
I take it you have never been to Savannah Georgia.
In Savannah, they serve SWEET TEA! No crumpets, but maybe some moon pies.
And parlor games in Savannah can be every bit as vicious as those in China - including the insincere smiles. When someone in Savannah says, "Bless his heart" an insult is sure to accompany.
Check out the movie "Midnight in the garden of Good and Evil" for an insight into Savannah social culture.
Cheers and Mint Julips... |
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