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spinelli35
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 23
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 9:04 am Post subject: Leaving Korea coming to Japan where to begin? |
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I thought about how expensive Japan was so I ruled out Tokyo, but there are cheaper cities to live, but I also have to consider the number of teaching opportunities as well. I did all my research already but I want to get a second opinion. So I will share in my research based on my findings and maybe the folks living already in Japan can tell me if this is true or not.
Before I begin please take this post seriously, if you are just a troll or have nothing nice to say please keep it to yourself. I really need an honest opinion as it can really determine my success in my second stint in Asia. Thank you
So I have a few questions and was wondering if anyone can shed some light here.
1) What's the cheapest city in Japan
I found out that Fukuoka is the cheapest city to live...and Okinawa was reasonable?
Is this true or not?
2) It is hard to get a public school position in Japan.
My research indicates that they don't advertise these type of jobs, but they are out there, you have to go in person and meet with them directly.
3) Japanese accomodations are generally not equipped with bath tubs.
My research indicates that the more expensive accomodations actually do have bath tubs (sorry this is my biggest form of relaxtion)
4) Japanese women are generally more open to dating and being friends with foreigners than Koreans.
My research indicates yes.
5) Japanese kids are easier and more keen to learn English than Koreans.
My research indicates that this is true.
So basically my two options were Taiwan and Japan and I felt if I wanted to make more money and have a better lifestyle and standard of living than Korea I should go with Japan, even if the costs are higher I should take my chances and hope for the best.
The reason I didn't choose Taiwan was because
1) It was very polluted, and I heard that althoough they are more open to foreigners than Koreans they can be quite rude.
2) They own your visa which means they have the same power over you as Korea.
3) Although it is cheaper to live it's almost just the same as Japan when you consider pay ratio and cost of living.
4) You are mostly likely going to end up stuck teaching kids.
5) Typhoon seasons can be very deadly
6) Parents can come and peek or walk into your classes whenever they like.
These are my findings I hope someone out there that knows the ESL/EFL industry well can lead me on the right track because at the moment I am still a bit confused.
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Khyron
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 291 Location: Tokyo Metro City
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 10:29 am Post subject: |
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I used to live in Korea, and now I'm in Tokyo. Maybe I can answer a few of your questions.
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I thought about how expensive Japan was so I ruled out Tokyo... |
Why? Tokyo's as expensive as you make it, just like living anywhere in Korea.
I pay 47,000 a month for an apartment, WITH a bathtub. It's about a 20 minute train ride from the central Yamanote line. That translates to about 350,000 won a month. That's not too bad. I make about 2,100,000 won a month at my regular job.
#$%%# it, I'm moving back to Korea. Well, if I break up with my girlfriend and get a job in a Korean University, I really might!
1) What's the cheapest city in Japan
-They're all expensive.
2) It is hard to get a public school position in Japan.
-Yes. You have to be at the right place at the right time, basically. Or, you could work for them through a dispatch company for a fraction of the wage.
3) Japanese accomodations are generally not equipped with bath tubs.
-Where the heck are you doing your research? Most Japanese apartments I've been in have them. Most Korean apartments (the ones foreigners live in anyway) do not.
4) Japanese women are generally more open to dating and being friends with foreigners than Koreans.
-Having a dry run with the K-girls? I had no problem finding dates in both countries, and I had an even easier time making friends in Korea.
5) Japanese kids are easier and more keen to learn English than Koreans.
-Your research deceives you. There are good students and bad students; good school and bad schools in both countries.
I felt if I wanted to make more money and have a better lifestyle and standard of living than Korea I should go with Japan
-How do you think you'll make more money in Japan than in Korea??? The ONLY advantage Japan has here is that you can't get thrown in jail, fined and deported for teaching privates. If you plan on making your money doing private lessons, or other side jobs, and don't want to risk immigration ruining your life, then Japan is the place to be!
As for a "better lifestyle and standard of living"... well, that's relative. Japan is cleaner than Korea, for sure, as well as more "professional." If that's your idea of a better lifestyle and standard of living, then you're making the right decision!
This, in my opinion, is the reason why Japan may be better than Korea:
YOU own your visa, not your boss!!!! You can quit and find a new job (in the same field) without fear. You are free. Just DO NOT live in a company apartment, or your "freedom" isn't really there. Save your money and get your own place.[/b] |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 11:02 am Post subject: |
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Khyron, you make no sense with your first statement. First you say that Tokyo is as expensive as one makes it, then you say all cities are expensive here. Totally screwy to me.
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1) What's the cheapest city in Japan
I found out that Fukuoka is the cheapest city to live...and Okinawa was reasonable? |
You're going to have to define city in terms of population, as opposed to town or village. Yes, Fukuoka and Okinawa (an island, not a city) are probably among the cheapest around, but if you go smaller than Fukuoka, you will also get cheaper. And, cheaper cost of living may also go hand in hand with a lower salary, so keep that in mind. For example, NOVA offers a lower salary for cities with a lower standard of living.
Moreover, Okinawa has the US military base there. That often means discrimination or at least feelings of animosity towards foreigners (especially Americans). Okinawa also has a lot of people trying to find work as teachers, but the market there seems to be pretty poor.
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2) It is hard to get a public school position in Japan.
My research indicates that they don't advertise these type of jobs, but they are out there, you have to go in person and meet with them directly. |
Public school positions come in 2 flavors: ALT (whether through a dispatch agency or JET Programme) or direct hire. The latter are rare. "Hard" has certain connotations, too. JET hires 6000 ALTs a year (half of which are returnees), but the application process is lengthy and full of paperwork in the beginning. Is this hard? Dispatch ALTs can get hired much faster, but the working conditions are different, and many people complain about dispatch agencies for ripping them off. To interview for JET, you must return to your home country around February. For dispatch positions, most of the time you have to interview in Japan. Which one is harder for you?
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3) Japanese accomodations are generally not equipped with bath tubs.
My research indicates that the more expensive accomodations actually do have bath tubs (sorry this is my biggest form of relaxtion) |
Where did you hear that Japanese apartments don't have tubs? Japan thrives on people taking baths compared to showers. Price is not involved at all.
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4) Japanese women are generally more open to dating and being friends with foreigners than Koreans.
My research indicates yes. |
I have no idea about Koreans vs. Japanese. I hope dating is not a major prerequisite in your search for employment. You will find that many Japanese women are enthralled with foreign men, some are fearful of foreigners, and some could go either way. For the enchanted ones, you might have sincere ones, golddiggers, or the type who just want a foreign showpiece for their friends to see.
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5) Japanese kids are easier and more keen to learn English than Koreans.
My research indicates that this is true. |
Again, I don't know enough to compare. You're going to have to state an age bracket, perhaps. Junior high kids get excited at first, then peter out a bit, while high school kids' motivation is pretty low on average. Small wonder considering the teaching they face here from Japanese teachers and the goals of learning English (only to pass college entrance exams). As for younger kiddies, I have little info to pass along, but my colleagues who teach them say they are quite full of energy and enthusiasm. How this compares to Korea, I don't know.
You're also going to find typhoons in mid- to southern Japan, so keep that in mind when you consider Fukuoka and Okinawa. You might want to look back a few weeks in online issues of The Japan Times to see what has hit those areas recently.
Pollution? Depends on the area in Japan. Some places have pretty bad atmosphere as a result of diesel fumes and/or incinerators. Beaches are pretty bad, too, due to litter and other stuff that washes up on the shore.
Khyron is right in saying that the visa is yours here, and you keep it until it expires. Standard of living? Well, you usually get rent paid by your employer in Korea, don't you (bigger cities, anyway, as far as I've heard). Not in Japan (although many JET ALTs get subsidized or free rent). Standard of living is pretty good in Japan, but it will depend on where you go. Smaller city or more rural area = lower standard of living.
As for making more money in Japan, Khyron said it himself when he said you can teach private lessons. Supplementing your income is probably a lot easier here, but whether it is enough to make up for that rent issue is up to you, your stamina, and the students you choose. Private lessons are not always the most stable option. |
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ironopolis
Joined: 01 Apr 2004 Posts: 379
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 11:57 am Post subject: |
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I understand why glenski queried the apparent contradiction of those statements, but at the same time I think I know what khyron means. Tokyo, like all Japanese cities, can be expensive, but Tokyo, like the rest, is only as expensive as your spending makes it - is what I thought he meant. Even if not, that's what I think!
OP, at present exchange rates you'd very, very likely find that your starting salary in Japan is a bit lower than what you got in Korea; and when you factor in accommodation that probably won't be paid for in Japan, you're going to be considerably worse off financially on pay days.
But having said that, those current exchange rates together with Korea's inflation vs. Japan's long term DEflation do increasingly mean that there are starting to be quite a few things that are now cheaper in Japan than in Korea. Be warned that some of your Japanese students mightn't be very happy to be told this and probably wouldn't believe it either!! |
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spinelli35
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 23
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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I gotta be honest..these posts are very discouraging. I thought Japan was the place to be to make money and it seems like it's worse than Korea. Meanwhile in Korea the jobs although plentiful if you factor in the amount of bosses that are likely to screw you is 9 out of 10. So what am I getting really?
If I have to pay rent and living expenses i'm not going to save a dime in Japan unless I work at a Uni and get a higher salary but as a basic teacher making something like 250,000 to 275,000 yen it's not going to be much difference than Korea.
If I go to Taiwan the cost of living will be lower but i'm gonna get stuck teaching kids and the pollution is eventually gonna make me sick.
So as far as Asia goes there's nothing really happening here except xenophobia.
If anyone has any other country in mind besides the arab emirates please do feel so inclined.
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Khyron
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 291 Location: Tokyo Metro City
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 2:35 pm Post subject: |
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Khyron, you make no sense with your first statement. First you say that Tokyo is as expensive as one makes it, then you say all cities are expensive here. Totally screwy to me. |
Yeah. I checked the exchange rates between the yen and the won while I was writing that post. I went through quite the mood change!
Well, Tokyo doesn't have to be the most expensive city in the world. It's fairly affordable if you don't go out all the time. But, after comparing to Korea, it's true that every city in Japan is expensive.
Spinelli, Dok-boki is 4000 won here, instead of 500 in Korea. Taxis are 5-10 times the price. Beer in bars is often 1.5 to 2 times more.
So, Tokyo isn't much worse than any other city in Japan if you're smart about what you spend your money on. But compared to Korea, every city in Japan is more expensive.
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Again, I don't know enough to compare. You're going to have to state an age bracket, perhaps. Junior high kids get excited at first, then peter out a bit, while high school kids' motivation is pretty low on average. Small wonder considering the teaching they face here from Japanese teachers and the goals of learning English (only to pass college entrance exams). As for younger kiddies, I have little info to pass along, but my colleagues who teach them say they are quite full of energy and enthusiasm. How this compares to Korea, I don't know. |
What Glenski said for Japanese students could easily apply to Koreans as well, although the deal with high school students changes depending on what the atmosphere is like. I've taught high school students in both an actual school, and in an eikaiwa/hagwon. Generally, they don't have a lot of motivation in a school setting, but are more enthusiastic in an eikaiwa/hagwon. I found all age groups to be extremely similar in both countries.
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Pollution? Depends on the area in Japan. Some places have pretty bad atmosphere as a result of diesel fumes and/or incinerators. Beaches are pretty bad, too, due to litter and other stuff that washes up on the shore. |
From my point of view, having lived in both countries, the worst beach in Japan is wayyyy nicer than the worst beach in Korea (not that that's saying much...). A beach is never going to be nice when it's next to a nuclear power plant. |
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markle
Joined: 17 Jan 2003 Posts: 1316 Location: Out of Japan
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 3:06 pm Post subject: |
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spinelli35 wrote: |
If I have to pay rent and living expenses i'm not going to save a dime in Japan unless I work at a Uni and get a higher salary but as a basic teacher making something like 250,000 to 275,000 yen it's not going to be much difference than Korea.
If I go to Taiwan the cost of living will be lower but i'm gonna get stuck teaching kids and the pollution is eventually gonna make me sick.
So as far as Asia goes there's nothing really happening here except xenophobia.
If anyone has any other country in mind besides the arab emirates please do feel so inclined. |
Wait up, you came to Asia and did ESL to make money?!? Is this myth still doing the rounds back home?
Seriously, either be smart and be one step ahead of the game in Korea (I don't know how to do it but I'm sure there's a way); come to Japan and work your butt off and save accordingly; or head to Taiwan and deal with the obstacles there; hell even check out Vietnam for opportunities; or go home and get a job there. Really regardless of where you live there are people who find the way to make the most amount of money from the opportunities present and there are the rest who beetch and whine that everything is so hard here maybe it's easier somewhere else. |
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Khyron
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 291 Location: Tokyo Metro City
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 3:08 pm Post subject: |
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spinelli35 wrote: |
I gotta be honest..these posts are very discouraging. I thought Japan was the place to be to make money and it seems like it's worse than Korea. Meanwhile in Korea the jobs although plentiful if you factor in the amount of bosses that are likely to screw you is 9 out of 10. So what am I getting really? |
Spinelli, if you have a good job in Korea and you don't bother with privates, you might as well stay there... to be frank (why do Koreans love the word "frank" so much???). For a regular hagwon/eikaiwa job, you will make more money in Korea. The downside of that is if your boss is a jacka$$ (there's a good chance of that!), you don't have any easy legal option. As has been mentioned, your loving Korean boss owns your soul. If you are caught making ANY money without his permission, the penalty is mindblowingly severe. In theory, working for a Korean hagwon/eikaiwa is a better deal than working for a Japanese one. In reality (due to the terrible visa situation), it's a better deal in Japan. Also in Japan, you'll have an easier time finding an eikaiwa/hagwon that gives you decent holidays (4-6 weeks worth a year at some places). Seriously, that is a real plus! In Korea, I had 10 days all year... (and national holidays, at least at my second job!). Do not work for NOVA. The joke is that NOVA stands for NO VAcation. You will see less vacation, less pay, and as much BS as NOVA as you would at your average hagwon in Korea. For a first-time teacher who's starting off in Japan, NOVA can work. It provides a visa. For you, someone with a bit of experience, don't even consider them. There are other places which offer nice holidays. I'd suggest that ECC and Shane are the two best chain schools for this. ECC has you working on Christmas from what I hear, and at Shane, as a trade-off for nice holidays, you have to do cover when other teachers call in sick... making for a few 6-day weeks. If you are American, you probably won't get hired at Shane. Only citizens of British Commonwealth countries need apply. Also look into the smaller mom & pop schools. You might find a gem.
A Korean job at a regular school (elementary, jr. high, high school, etc.) is a much better deal than being an ALT through a dispatch company in Japan. Working directly for regular school in Japan is better than working for one in Korea (but very difficult to find). The only issue is with working directly is that you might end up attending school functions on weekends, teaching summer school during the summer holidays, having to attend mandatory staff parties (could be good or bad), and pulling 10-12 hour days for no other reason than "everyone else stays, so you must too." I've been there before.
Getting a job in a Korean university is possible with just a bachelor degree and some contacts and/or experience. In Japan, as far as I know, you need at least a masters (if not a doctorate). For someone with a BA and no formal ESL educaton, working in a Korean university is possibly the best ESL deal in Asia.
In Korea, there are plenty of private lessons, editing jobs, etc. available, but do so at risk of deportation, immigration fail and large fines. In Japan, privates are no problem. Technically, you should report your income for tax purposes, but I've never heard of anyone bothering with that. Nor have I heard of anyone being punished for not doing so. Some eikaiwas have "you shall not work anywhere else" stipulations, but they are not legal clauses. They cannot (legally) enforce them.
In Japan, you are free to walk away from your job and fine a new one. In Korea, you cannot without your current employer's permission (or with the special permission of Korean immigration).
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If I have to pay rent and living expenses i'm not going to save a dime in Japan unless I work at a Uni and get a higher salary but as a basic teacher making something like 250,000 to 275,000 yen it's not going to be much difference than Korea. |
You'll have a few hundred US$ less a month in Japan making 250,000 yen. On the other side of it, you can legally teach privates.
At least you'll probably get a raise in Japan. After a couple years in an eikaiwa, you might be making around 300,000 yen/month, depending on where you work. In Korea, you'd still be stuck around 2.0-2.2 million won (which isn't bad, due to current exchange rates!!!)
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If I go to Taiwan the cost of living will be lower but i'm gonna get stuck teaching kids and the pollution is eventually gonna make me sick. |
Don't forget that 6-day weeks are common in Taiwan, from what I hear.
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So as far as Asia goes there's nothing really happening here except xenophobia. |
If xenophobia concerns you so much, you have no business in Asia. People say that there is less in Japan, but I haven't noticed much difference at all!!! People express themselves more openly in Korea, but I think xenophobia is just as high in Japan as in Korea. A quick scan of debito.org should confirm that for you.
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If anyone has any other country in mind besides the arab emirates please do feel so inclined. |
China? Go to Shanghai and stock up on businessman privates, or get in with an international school there. You'll do just as good there as in Korea/Japan/Taiwan.
Seriously, if it's just about the money for you, and you're not worried about getting caught teaching privates there, then stay in Korea. If you have a strong desire to be in Japan, not having your soul lent to your boss, or want to be able to work on the side without fear of immigration, then Japan is your place![/quote] |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 10:46 pm Post subject: |
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I gotta be honest..these posts are very discouraging. I thought Japan was the place to be to make money |
Get on the JET Program and you'll make more than the average newbie eikaiwa teacher or dispatch ALT. 300,000 vs. 220,000-250,000. Plus, as I wrote, JET ALTs often get reduced or free rent, and since most of them live in rural areas, you have the chance to spend less. It all depends on you, really.
Make more money than Korea? Khyron seems to have a very good handle on the situation. Nice comparisons. I learned a lot. The main point here about money is twofold:
1. What I told you about JET.
2. Taking on supplemental work. A practical peson would get used to the lay of the land in a new position, find out discretely what can be done and where, then make plans to get outside work. Once that is done, you can really make a lot more than 250K, but you will obviously have to put in the extra time for it. If you are here only to make lots of money, you can, but you will have to have a frugal (or semi-frugal lifestyle) and work a lot of hours. People have come on these boards and reported pulling in 400,000-700,000 yen/month, and they inevitably admit (especially at the higher end of that range) that they work 6-7 days a week. |
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Khyron
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 291 Location: Tokyo Metro City
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject: |
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Just a reminder about JET. The hiring period for them is only ONCE a YEAR, and you MUST be In your HOME COUNTRY. I can't stress that enough. So, unless you are prepared to go back home and apply for a job, during the small hiring period (February, did someone say?), that you MIGHT get, forget about it.
If you do actually go back to your home country in hopes of a JET position (and I think it would be a stupid idea, due to cost of flights, lost working time, etc.), it's not worth it at all. Add to that the fact that you should not be working at home*, and you'll just be losing money.
*if you work at home, then you are paying taxes at home. If you're paying taxes, then, depending on your home country, you go back to being a resident of your country. That means that you will have to claim your earnings from Korea and/or Japan!!! You will be taxed on them!!! Well, if your boss in Korea actually paid tax, that is. If you're from Canada, for example, that could literally mean you'll be owing thousands of dollars to the government. However, if you've been living in abroad for a few years, you can declare non-residency in your home country for that time (as long as you have minimal ties back home). Therefore, you don't have to pay tax on your money earned abroad. For anyone working abroad, if you plan on moving back home one day, you ought to read up on this stuff. |
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cafebleu
Joined: 10 Feb 2003 Posts: 404
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As others have pointed out, your research has turned up some wrong 'facts' but I am not slating you for that. Just pointing it out.
I lived in Kyushu and yes, Fukuoka the chief city there is cheaper than many other cities. You can have a good lifestyle there in terms of living space etc if you live in inaka - the rural area. The downside?
The Japanese are just as nosey as the Koreans yet less forthcoming about admitting it. Their wish to invade your privacy is usally wrapped up in a number of excuses which do nothing to hide the xenophobia of much of this invasiveness.
In rural areas you might very well get fed up with having no interesting neighbours who are relatively young but instead get stuck with harridans who have little to do except bitch about you and slag you off for having a sex life when you are not married. Oh yes, these people watch you and your partner's comings and goings just as carefully as the Koreans do!
If you are a male then the xenophobia/racism will be less overt in Japan. As a woman I could appreciate why foreign men prefered Japan as it is virtually unheard of for them to be pursued in Japan by nasty pieces of insecure work who accuse them of stealing our women and slag off their girlfriend. That kind of behaviour is a very ugly aspect of Korean culture.
The Japanese are also less puritanical in their behaviour and their females are much freer to have a lifestyle in every respect of the word that doesn't depend upon their reputation and their being seen to wait until marriage. That is another disagreeable aspect of life in Korea. There is however a lot of hypocrisy in Japan and older people especially in rural areas can be obsessive about other people's lives.
As for baths - they are everywhere in cheap, middling or expensive Japanese accommodation. A lot of places lack showers, not baths. A relative few lack bathrooms but the rent is dirt cheap for Japan and it is assumed you will go to a public bathhouse.
As for money - Japan will shock you after Korea. You're on a great financial wicket in Korea as an English teacher unless you are really being cheated. If you want to have a good social life and do a lot of things you are going to have to scrimp in other ways. And public transportation is shockingly expensive compared to Korea and other places I've taught in such as Australia.
Korea Rail and the bus companies beat Japan anyday for price and have just as good service. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 9:36 am Post subject: |
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If you are a male then the xenophobia/racism will be less overt in Japan. As a woman I could appreciate why foreign men prefered Japan as it is virtually unheard of for them to be pursued in Japan by nasty pieces of insecure work who accuse them of stealing our women and slag off their girlfriend. That kind of behaviour is a very ugly aspect of Korean culture. |
Didn't you see or hear of the magazine that was recently published then pulled off the shelves because aside from the wild claims it made about "gaijin crimes", it also slagged foreigners (mostly males) for stealing Japanese woman?
As for being "pursued", there are plenty of hopeless Japanese women who become enthralled with foreign men and hound them to the point of being stalkers. |
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ironopolis
Joined: 01 Apr 2004 Posts: 379
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 11:43 am Post subject: |
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cafebleu wrote: |
If you are a male then the xenophobia/racism will be less overt in Japan. As a woman I could appreciate why foreign men prefered Japan as it is virtually unheard of for them to be pursued in Japan by nasty pieces of insecure work who accuse them of stealing our women and slag off their girlfriend. That kind of behaviour is a very ugly aspect of Korean culture.
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I very much agreed with most of the rest of cafebleu's post, but the above bit had me chuckling to myself ironically. In well over a decade with my Korean partner, I've never had any such "hands off our women" problems at all, either when I lived there or on the many times I've returned to visit. The only time that has ever happened to me was actually just after we came to Japan, when we were showered with abuse by a drunk in a park who had wrongly assumed my partner was Japanese!! - hence the irony I referred to. We've also had the juvenile, drunken "how big is his d**k then?" a few times from Japanese people we've encountered in bars, which we never had in Korea.
The park incident was 8 years ago, and that 'few times' is in almost a decade of otherwise no problems, so it doesn't make any significant impact on our impressions of Japan. And I also wouldn't dispute at all that others in Korea have had more problems of this nature than me. But as glenski also pointed out, this CAN be an issue for people in Japan, however little you might have heard of it yourself. And anyway, surely "as a woman" you're LESS likely to be aware of the extent that foreign men with local female partners get hassled. |
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Khyron
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 291 Location: Tokyo Metro City
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Glenski wrote: |
Didn't you see or hear of the magazine that was recently published then pulled off the shelves because aside from the wild claims it made about "gaijin crimes", it also slagged foreigners (mostly males) for stealing Japanese woman?
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I've seen it, as I live here, but....
...I've never had e-mails from Japanese men visting my blog telling me to "get the fu^ out of our country and stop stealing our women." Neither have I had drunken Japanese university aged guys stop me at night, while I'm minding my own business, and tell me in mixed up Konglish to "get the fu^ away from "our" women" (when I was in a group with some Korean female friends, no less!). I have experienced both in Korea. Not often mind you, but it's there.
I don't really think there's more of these feelings in Korea, just that they're more open about it from what I've seen... unless alcohol is involved! Then I'm sure it's about even. |
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