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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 9:14 pm Post subject: |
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gordogringo wrote: |
So what to do? |
Accept the fact that you are living in a country and culture that is foreign to you; spend more time observing and less time judging; don't be quick to criticize what you don't understand; realize that more things are shades of gray than black and white . . . okay, I'll stop now. Sorry.  |
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Samantha

Joined: 25 Oct 2003 Posts: 2038 Location: Mexican Riviera
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Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2007 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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Excellent observation and a good reminder for all of us. |
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junkyak
Joined: 21 Jul 2007 Posts: 24 Location: LA Cali
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Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 2:26 pm Post subject: |
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Guy Courchesne wrote: |
I noticed a certain coolness in people in Guadalajara towards me...something I've not seen in other places in Mexico. I hadn't seen it as racist, but simply as being cold people, in contrast to Chilangos in particular. Maybe it's for the huge ex-pat community nearby.... |
I thought places like guadalajara and mexico city had a ton of "light skinned" people, particularly those of european descent. In fact I thought they were the majority in those cities. |
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Samantha

Joined: 25 Oct 2003 Posts: 2038 Location: Mexican Riviera
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Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 5:04 pm Post subject: |
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There are light skinned and dark skinned Mexicans throughout the country; they don't just congregate in big cities. The people of Guadalajara may be more reserved until they get to know you, as is common in some areas. We have family and friends living there but haven't noticed "coolness" from strangers either, in fact a complete stranger approached me on the street and warned me to be careful of my purse in the big market nearby. That was a nice gesture. |
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MO39

Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: El ombligo de la Rep�blica Mexicana
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Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 5:19 pm Post subject: |
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gordogringo wrote: |
. There are things I hear in casual conversation in Mexico that shock me. I have a beginning student in the afternoons. is a h I often hear other students, my own gf, and the secretarial staff refer to her as "that little brown girl". Not by her name or unusual hairstyle ( short hair in a country where the women are in love with thier long flowing hair). It is enough to make me hit the roof but does not offend the student or anyone else.So what to do? |
I'm assuming that this student has been called "morenita" ("little brown girl"). As someone who has spent lots of time living and traveling in Mexico, I see this a way of identifying her according to her skin color, nothing more. That could be why it doesn't offend the student in question. While in the US, mentioning someone's skin color (unless acquired from exposure to the sun!), is usually a put-down, and can be tied to racism, or stereotyping, whichever term you prefer.
I have to admit, though, that I was once taken aback by a comment from a Mexican woman I sat next to on a local bus. She told me that she couldn't understand how a certain"gringo" could have "fallen in love with and married her niece, who was "morena"and therefore "fea" in comparison to his white good looks. |
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Phil_K
Joined: 25 Jan 2007 Posts: 2041 Location: A World of my Own
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 4:27 pm Post subject: |
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The oriental "fresas" want to look western. The Europeans want a tan and the Mexicans want to be blond like the Europeans.
�As� es la vida! |
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chola

Joined: 07 Apr 2004 Posts: 92 Location: the great white north
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El Gallo

Joined: 05 Feb 2007 Posts: 318
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:21 pm Post subject: |
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My adopted nephew calls his little son "negro". I was shocked at first until I realized this is not considered racist here. |
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MO39

Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: El ombligo de la Rep�blica Mexicana
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:24 pm Post subject: |
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El Gallo wrote: |
My adopted nephew calls his little son "negro". I was shocked at first until I realized this is not considered racist here. |
On the contrary, it can be a term of endearment, as is obviously the case with your nephew and his son. |
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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MO39 wrote: |
El Gallo wrote: |
My adopted nephew calls his little son "negro". I was shocked at first until I realized this is not considered racist here. |
On the contrary, it can be a term of endearment, as is obviously the case with your nephew and his son. |
One should still be careful...the term 'negra' can be sexist, even if it sounds racist. Try it out on your Mexican wife or girlfriend if you want to find out. |
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MO39

Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: El ombligo de la Rep�blica Mexicana
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 11:29 pm Post subject: |
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Guy Courchesne wrote: |
MO39 wrote: |
El Gallo wrote: |
My adopted nephew calls his little son "negro". I was shocked at first until I realized this is not considered racist here. |
On the contrary, it can be a term of endearment, as is obviously the case with your nephew and his son. |
One should still be careful...the term 'negra' can be sexist, even if it sounds racist. Try it out on your Mexican wife or girlfriend if you want to find out. |
Guy, could there be negative connotations if a woman called her husband or boyfriend "negro" ? |
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thelmadatter
Joined: 31 Mar 2003 Posts: 1212 Location: in el Distrito Federal x fin!
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 1:55 pm Post subject: political racism? |
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OK, if as Freddy says, racism is a social contruct, then one can conclude that an individual person cannot be racist, as Guy alludes to. Honestly, Im not sure if that is true, because there are people who truly believe that their "race" (which I agree is a socially-constructed thing) is somehow superior. However, I do take exception to the whole idea of "its not racism unless someone has "power" bit. Why? Because violence has been perpetrated by members of just about every race against every race (For example, attacks against Asian shopkeepers in Los Angeles during the riots in 92) which happen when someone of a group feels they DO have that power in that situation... its a kind of bullying, even if they dont have power in the wider social system.
What drives me crazy really is the use of "racism" politically, esp. to shut up dissenting opinion. If you are white and you say something non-PC (or Goddess-forbid conservative!), you are racist. If you are non-while and you dont tow the liberal line, you are somehow a traitor. Ask Condolezza Rice and Michelle Malkin about this. And while Freddy's social science definition of racism has merit, I noticed how he stated prominently that it was how he was taught. Unfortunately, my stint in graduate school left me with a bitter taste for academia. Too many professors, esp. in the humanities, do NOT know the difference between education and political indoctrination. See FIRE's website for a myriad of cases. Or even better look up the case of Ward Churchill, who just got fired from the U of Colorado after 3 years. It was proven that he faked his "Indian" heritage to get a job he was clearly unqualified for, and plaguarized consistently... and yet he is still defended. Why? Because he espouses the "correct" political philosophy of villifying whites.
On a more personal level, I was branded a "racist" by a professor in my grad program and basically ostracized. My crime? Challenging her assertion that Spanish was in danger of disappearing from the U.S. in 3 generations and needed to be protected. Her argument (a valid one) was that immigrant languages tend to disappear in 3 generations. Certainly happened in my family. But my rebuttal was that Spanish has some advantages that languages like German, Norwegian and Polish (my family's roots) did not have. Nationwide media, large numbers of English speakers learning it (55% of those who take a "foriegn" langauge in the US take Spanish), and Spanish-speaking communities spread nation-wide, not just regional. I did not argue that Spanish would necessarily survive, just that it might survive better than other immigrant language did. She stared at me (this was in class) and her only response was an ad hominem "Well, obviously you have a problem with Spanish being spoken in the US." Honestly, I was shocked. I thought I was having an intellectual discussion. I didnt realize that I was not suppose to contradict my professor's political views. By the time I graduated, it got back to me several times by several of my classmates how this prof had bad-mouthed me to them (they were Asian BTW).
Where is the social power of being white in this instance?
I do not deny Freddy's assertion that being light-skinned can and probably often does lead unfair advantages like the one he mentions at his school. But as soon as the tables are turned, being white can be just as much of a disadvantage as advantage. That means that being "racist" is a sadly human quality ... whites really do not have a corner on that market, but you seem to have to believe that somehow whites are more inherently racist than anyone else -- meaning they are inferior? Would that belief be racist in itself? |
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MELEE

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2583 Location: The Mexican Hinterland
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 2:29 pm Post subject: |
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Okay, this is going off topic, but
OMG!thema, that women obviously has no idea what it means for a language to be in danger! Which is exactly what I would have told her if I'd been there. |
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thelmadatter
Joined: 31 Mar 2003 Posts: 1212 Location: in el Distrito Federal x fin!
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Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 2:38 pm Post subject: ji ji |
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*snicker* and said woman is a professor in linguistics! |
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MELEE

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2583 Location: The Mexican Hinterland
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:49 pm Post subject: |
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Thema and others,
The BBC recently ran a feature in which a pair of their correspondants traveled from coast to coast (across the south) and Speaking only Spanish
http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/spanish/hablas_espanol/
to get a feel for the state of Spanish in the US.
A language that is truely in danger has little or no media. People generally are ashamed to be heard speaking it. The realms in which is it used are reduced. The language begins to show features of the dominate contact language, not just loan words, but gramatical features. It's people may be in physical danger. If you ever see that Professor of Linguistics again, you should recommend that she reads up on the subject. David Crystal has a nice little book, called Language Death, that summerizes most of the work on Endangered Languaes. |
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