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englishgibson
Joined: 09 Mar 2005 Posts: 4345
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 5:27 am Post subject: |
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i haven't read the whole nine years of this one and forgive me if i've jumped to any conclussions below but...
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| From what I understand in your contract you agreed to wear a tie so if you refuse to wear one then you can be held in breach and your employer could end your contract. |
have you seen his/her contract
contracts sometimes (especially at private mills) come with attachements and one of them might be "the job duties"..so OP, have you got anythin' in your employment agreement that states you should adhere to a dress code???
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Ping Jing other than this issue of the tie are you otherwise happy with the position? If so then my advice would be to just wear the tie.
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a good advice there
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| Do you have a problem with wearing a tie per se or is this a matter of feeling that you are being railroaded? |
rethorically speaking , i'd say that he/she has a problem wearin' a tie...believe it or not that FTs who actually work (not just post on forums) may have a real hard time wearing uncomfy clothes in high temperatures and humidity...feelings then are different than posting in airconditioned rooms
peace to some that may never have worked either as teachers or in china
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cheers and beers to those that know so much  |
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Babala

Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 1303 Location: Henan
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 7:38 am Post subject: |
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I notice the OP's post just referred to the male teachers. Are the female teachers receiving an equal dress code or can they get away with anything?
I ask this because I have worked at places that were very strict about the male's clothing but a woman could get away with anything. |
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brsmith15

Joined: 12 May 2003 Posts: 1142 Location: New Hampshire USA
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 11:17 am Post subject: |
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| So, obey the rule. Wear a tie. That's all. Just a tie. No shirt. No jacket. Pants optional. |
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jeffinflorida

Joined: 22 Dec 2004 Posts: 2024 Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 12:36 pm Post subject: |
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| To tell you the truth I�m often confused by the purpose of these fines � are they used a tool to persuade the FT to hold to the rules (do our employers really care about rules � if so, why do they often break so many of them with regard to our employment) � or maybe they�re another means of docking wages (and into whose pocket does this money go). In the distant past I experienced mysterious smallish reductions in my wage packets, because of obscure this and that�s � and I suppose for some managers/ company accountants its quite a normal practice to use the rule book as an extra source of income. |
These rules are enacted soley to put some money in someone's pocket or back into the owner's slush fund.
It's a game for the mill owners to play to see how much they can cheat and push the FT...And what do they care when the FT threatnes to leave? If the FT does leave they can just cheat and steal more of the FTs salary and there is always a line of more FT monkeys waiting to continue this cycle... |
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Neilhrd
Joined: 10 Jul 2005 Posts: 233 Location: Nanning, China
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 12:43 pm Post subject: Do you want to be taken seriously? |
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Dress codes have long been a contentious issue on here. My view is:-
1. If you don't like the dress code specified in the contract then don't sign it. FTs can't complain about breaches of contract by Chinese schools if we do the same.
2. As for what is appropriate dress it depends on what you consider your role to be. If you are happy to be eye candy, or if your school insist that you are eye candy and don't allow you to teach proper English in a proper way then dress like eye candy on the beach. It's their problem.
3. If, on the other hand, you intend to be taken seriously as a teacher by your students, the parents and your Chinese colleagues then dress as a professional Chinese teacher would be expected to dress. In my city, which is hot from April to November, this does not mean a tie but it does mean a collared shirt, pressed trousers and shoes not jeans, shorts, a T-shirt and sandals. I see nothing wrong with complying with these norms.
4. If you are expected to wear a tie in summer ask if that rule also applies to Chinese teachers. If it doesn't then tell them what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. |
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vikuk

Joined: 23 May 2007 Posts: 1842
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 12:53 pm Post subject: |
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| . If, on the other hand, you intend to be taken seriously as a teacher by your students, the parents and your Chinese colleagues then dress as a professional Chinese teacher would be expected to dress. |
Problem is though that many Chinese parents consider the skill levels of the average Chinese teacher to be very close to a total joke!!!!! I've got a feeling that many of them have already sussed-out that tie and suite dont always equate to good professional teaching. |
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Ping Jing

Joined: 29 Jan 2007 Posts: 112 Location: In a peaceful state of mind.
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Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject: |
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Babala and Neil had keen observations, which I raised in my chat the other day. As a result of the chat, I'm now only being asked to wear a tie when I do the DEMO class for prospective students. They think it will help the school's image.
I recall teaching at a university and never seeing any of the male Chinese teachers wearing a tie. Besides that, I can count on 1 hand how many times I have seen a Chinese business man wearing a tie. It seems that wearing a tie is not a Chinese custom, so why should foreigners wear one? When in Rome...
As for the women, they wear colored jeans (red, pink, black and tan) and that seems OK. The contract states - no jeans. The contract also states that pants must be worn. According to my dictionary, pants are ankle length. A few ladies wear the "pants" that reach just below the knee.
My point was the uneven application of the rules and the added fines without mutual agreement. The problem is behind me. Thanks. |
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Babala

Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 1303 Location: Henan
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 9:09 am Post subject: |
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| Glad it worked out for you. I have found that dress code applies to men and not to women here. Works in my favour but definately not fair. |
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Neilhrd
Joined: 10 Jul 2005 Posts: 233 Location: Nanning, China
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 2:38 pm Post subject: Where are you working Vikuk? |
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I am curious about where Vikuk is working. I don't doubt what he says but it is certainly not the case in Nanning that the parents have totally lost faith in Chinese teachers.
The vast majority of parents here still want their children taught as they were taught thirty years ago, by rote. These parents and their supporters in the government often resist foreign teachers and some believe that having foreign teachers in a school harms the teaching of Chinese. This can, and does, severely inhibit the more enlightend Chinese teachers who know the old methods don't work and are looking for alternatives.
However there are also a small but growing number of parents who have studied, or done business, in the West and who want a western style education for their children. At the moment these children are mostly still in primary schools.
The tension betwene the two groups of parents is a serious problem in many primary schools and the school managers, who are generally clueless, change the objectives of English classes every week depending which group of parents bent their ear last.
Where there are foreign teachers all the parents and many students appear to believe that the students have a lid in the top of their heads. The foreign teacher only has to open this lid and pour in English and hey presto little emperor/empress will speak perfect English the next day. Without any effort on his/her part of course!
Overcoming these kind of prejudices and misconceptions will be a long, slow process. But if the FTs forfeit the right to be respected and listened to by ignoring cultural sensitivites about things like dress codes then the process will be even longer and more difficult. |
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vikuk

Joined: 23 May 2007 Posts: 1842
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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| The tension betwene the two groups of parents is a serious problem in many primary schools and the school managers, who are generally clueless, change the objectives of English classes every week depending which group of parents bent their ear last. |
The above statement - that indicates that at least in one Chinese city there�s developing a group of parents who are becoming more and more dissatisfied with the standards of Chinese teachers, and who are in conflict with supporters more traditional Chinese educational methods - seems to back up my statement of -
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| Problem is though that many Chinese parents consider the skill levels of the average Chinese teacher to be very close to a total joke!!!!! |
By the way I've used the word many, because I haven't the foggiest on what kind of percentage of parents are dissatisfied - and can only generalise after my own personal contact with Chinese people who have told me about their loss of faith in many aspects of Chinese education - where the poor standards of Chinese teachers and the method they employ are a major gripe.
An indication of the parents dissatisfaction with the home-grown product was their almost blind faith in the performance of the FT - but alas now this product has been on display for some time some have discovered that this product may lack some training and experience, and, more often than not, is right at the bottom of its own learning how to be a teacher curve (that is if its actually interested in learning how to become a teacher).
I'm afraid all the "professional" neck-ties in the world aint going to sort this problem out!!!!!! |
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SnoopBot
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 740 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 9:42 pm Post subject: |
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I figure if they want me to wear a $1000 3 piece suit they need to do the following things first.
1. Pay a higher wage so I can afford to clean and maintain these suits after being covered with white chalk and other stains teaching in unclean classrooms.
2. Fix the air conditioning so I don't pass out in 100 degree rooms.
If they can manage these small details I might consider wearing a suit and tie.
(I actually wore a suit and tie the first month in China before I figured out that nobody cared and having nice clothing/style got me volunteered for various English corners.)
Once you learn the game... it only takes once. |
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