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Odango



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 8:16 am    Post subject: Divorce Reply with quote

Another tough question, but need advice.

I've been married for 5 years and currently have a spouse visa.
I live and work in Japan.

My marriage at the moment is rocky to say the least. I think it could be coming to and end...

Legally, where does this leave me with regard to being in Japan?
I have just under 2 years left of my current spouse visa to run, but if I divorce what happens? Will I get booted out of Japan even after creating a life here?

I'm really worried about the future.

If anyone has been in a similar situation and could offer advice I'd be extremely grateful.

Odango
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matador



Joined: 07 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 10:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I remember that when my ex-wife and I divorced back in 2000, that I still went on using my spouse visa until it expired about a year later.

I then went over to Malaysia for about 6 weeks...came back to Japan...arrived on a tourist visa...and found a new school to sponsor my working visa.

Don't worry, dude. It is a lot easier than you think!

If you have any other concerns, pls post again.

Believe me, there ARE better days ahead...
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southofreality



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 12:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you do a divorce by mutual consent at your local shiyakusho/kuyakusho/yakuba, immigration might not be informed. Of course, if you try to renew the spouse visa after two years, immigration will try to verify that you're still married so I suggest not taking that route as such deception may get you booted. Other than that, you should have no problems remaining here under your spouse visa until it expires.

There are certain things that are easily done with a spouse visa, such as starting a business. If you have something like that in mind, you might want to get going with it while you still have the spouse visa.

Good luck.
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Glenski



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Even after divorce, you keep the visa until it expires.

I suggest you file for permanent resident status now. With that, a divorce is meaningless.
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Hoser



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So even if you get married you still have to keep applying for visas? I thought you would get some sort of permanent resident thing or something.
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southofreality



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 4:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What I've heard most often is that if you hold a spouse visa and live in Japan for 5 straight years, you can get PR. Without being married, it's usually 10 straight years in J-land.

Glenski, do you know of any unusual cases where PR was granted to someone whose situation was different than the above? I've heard it happens, but I don't know of any specific cases.
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Glenski



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you marry a Japanese, you can apply for a spouse visa. You don't have to. You can still just live off a work visa. But, whether you have a work visa or spouse visa, you still need to renew it every year or 3 years, depending on what its length is.

Immigration is case by case on how many years you need to attain permanent resident status. They have guidelines, but I've heard they are somewhat flexible. The key there is "somewhat", and that makes up the case by case thing.
http://www.immi-moj.go.jp/english/tetuduki/zairyuu/guide_residence.html

So, southofreality, I think (but am not sure) that I've read posts from people who have gotten PR with a year less than the guidelines (or so), but I can't recall any specific details.

It's not just about how long you have been here, either. Some people get PR after a thorough background check. Mine was pretty simple and took about 6 or 7 weeks, while I have read about others who waited far longer (a year or year and a half in some cases).
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taikibansei



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
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Location: Japan

PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 12:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

southofreality wrote:
What I've heard most often is that if you hold a spouse visa and live in Japan for 5 straight years, you can get PR. Without being married, it's usually 10 straight years in J-land.

Glenski, do you know of any unusual cases where PR was granted to someone whose situation was different than the above? I've heard it happens, but I don't know of any specific cases.


I just got PR after living in Japan (this time) only one year. Of course, I've lived in Japan about eleven years total since 1988--but could not put that information on the application. However, and this is just one of the many exceptions, if you've been married to a Japanese national over three years, lived together at least two years overseas and lived together in Japan at least one year, then you also can qualify. Here's a link (in Japanese) delineating some of the different rules and exceptions:

http://homepage3.nifty.com/takehara/eijyukyoka.html

Unfortunately, the OP will not be able to get a PR--regardless of his length of stay--without his current wife's assistance. This is because the wife's koseki must be submitted as well--again, there are exceptions to this, but in his case, immigration will see his spouse visa and wonder why the wife's koseki is not there.

Glenski and others are right in pointing out that the spouse visa, in theory, is good until it expires. However, I know of one individual whose spouse called up immigration at the time of the divorce and, like the good citizen she is, dutifully reported her former husband's change of status. The husband in question (who had been fighting for custody of his children) had to leave the country....

So, it depends on just how nasty this divorce is shaping up to be. Now, just so you know, it's almost impossible to divorce in Japan without mutual consent (e.g., see http://www.debito.org/index.php/?p=9 ). Hence, if she really wants the OP gone, a deal might be struck where she supports his application for PR, and she gets, say, the house and her freedom. Otherwise, assuming the OP has the proper qualifications, why not just go for a working visa? For instance, if your relationship with your current employer is good, you might ask if they'd help you convert your spouse visa to a work visa. Unless, you got the job because of your wife, that shouldn't be much of a problem, I would think.
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ironopolis



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 1:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

taikibansei wrote:
Now, just so you know, it's almost impossible to divorce in Japan without mutual consent (e.g., see http://www.debito.org/index.php/?p=9 )



I know that's how rules stand, that it's so much harder to do it if one party is not consenting to the divorce.

However, I've heard that it's NOT necessary for BOTH parties to go to the city/ward office to submit the paperwork for a rikon todoke (divorce), same as for the kekkon todoke (marriage). I think both parties' consent is shown by the completed form with their respective inkan stamps and that signatures are not used. So if someone else has used your inkan......... Can anyone confirm or correct this for certain?

I have heard stories of people who were divorced without their actual consent, because their inkan had been used without their knowledge or agreement to show their "consent" to the divorce. I stress that these stories I've heard are all second hand and I've no idea how accurate they might be.
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Brooks



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yep, that is right. Both spouses need the hanko on the form. Only one of them has to submit the paperwork to city hall. They don't have to go in together.
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taikibansei



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 4:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

To prevent the kind of fraud ironopolis mentions, they now require the signature and contact information of two witnesses over the age of 20. This requirement is mentioned here:

http://www.moj.go.jp/ONLINE/FAMILYREGISTER/5-3.html

and here,

http://www.tetuzuki.net/life/devorcereport.html#_02

The second site includes a link with a sample of a completed form:

http://www.tetuzuki.net/life/devorcereport_b.html

Of course, without a formal protest from the "divorced" spouse, I doubt they'd check up on whether the witnesses actually exist.....
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Yona Yona



Joined: 20 Jul 2007
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 4:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I managed to get my permanent residency after being here less
than 5 years.At the time I applied for it I was actually unemployed.
I got it in about 6 weeks, no questions asked.
Even though my marriage was already on the rocks, my wife, in a rare moment of generosity helped fill in all the paperwork.
A few years later I was divorced.A messy affair which ended up going through the courts (saiban) and leaving me millions of yen in debt.
If it is at all possible, try to get your PR as soon as you can.
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The_Prodiigy



Joined: 01 Apr 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 6:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The spouse visa is useable until expiry date, irrespective of the relationship you have with your wife. As others have suggested, if you want to continue to live/work in Japan it is best to asap begin the application for a permanent residency visa.

When I was in Japan the rules of this were not concrete - Immigration made a decision based on individual circumstances. The length of time spent working in Japan influenced their decision. I heard that after 5 years they would mostly grant residency as they consider that you have become accustomed to life in Japan. Under 5 years and it was less likely but if you had dependants, particularly children then this would have a large influence.

Best o' luck.
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ironopolis



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

taikibansei wrote:


Of course, without a formal protest from the "divorced" spouse, I doubt they'd check up on whether the witnesses actually exist.....


Exactly!

Or surely it could also be quite possible that they do exist and have willingly allowed their names to be used, just that the other spouse still has no idea of what is going on.
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Odango



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks people.

Looks like PR would be the way to go.
Unfortunately I got the job due to having the spouse visa.
As far as qualifications go I only have a CELTA for teaching and job getting skills.

If anyone thinks it would be possible for me to obtain PR with these details:

Got married in June 2002, lived in Japan for just about 3 years. Then moved back to the UK for two years with wife. Then came back to Japan in 2006 September, making it exactly one more year spent here.

Have worked at an Eikaiwai for two years from 2002.

Got my CELTA at the British council in Tokyo.

Then started working for an Eikaiwa only just recently.

I know it may be a case by case thing, but has anyone obtained PR with that or less?

To be honest my head is spinning and I'm not sure what's going on in my life at the moment. From next week I will be heading back to the UK for a month or so to clear my head. At this point I still have the spouse visa and the signed divorce paper hasn't been handed in.

I just don't want to be kicked out in the street so to say just because we get divorced...

Once again thank you so much for helping me...
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