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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Many have never used a dictionary and need to develop basic reference and study skills. |
Well, Uncle Scott, I guess that is the duty of the respected English teachers to teach the poor Saudi students how to use an English dictionary and how to develop study skills.
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| Don't expect them to bring a pen and notebook ! |
And expect them to bring the latest Toyota car model and latest Nokia mobile phone!! |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 8:09 pm Post subject: |
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well of course numerical seven
That is part of the duty of a teacher - but you can imagine the resistance from the students ! To them the teacher is a walking dictionary - and a subsitute for the servants they had at home ! |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 8:51 pm Post subject: R-E-S-P-E-C-T |
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Perhaps they need to be reminded"
"One of the rights of the scholar is that you greet people generally and then greet him with a special greeting; sit in front of him; do not point with your hand in his presence, nor wink with your eye; do not quote someone else who said opposite of what he said; do not backbite anyone in his presence; do not hunt for his faults, and if he makes a mistake accept his excuse; dignify him for the sake of Allaah; if he needs anything, rush before everyone to serve him; do not whisper in his presence; do not grasp him by his garment; do not insist for answers when he becomes tired; do not ever feel you have accompanied him enough, because he is like a palm tree from which people wait for fruits to drop from�."
"Respect for teachers and scholars.
The Fourth Imaam has said, " Your teacher has the following rights. Firstly, total respect from you. Secondly that you listen attentively when he speaks. Thirdly, that you never raise your voice in his presence".
"Respect to (and Duties towards) Teachers
The respect towards a teacher is as great as that of a parent. A person who teaches you is giving you something more valuable than any other wealth, because knowledge is the greatest of all treasures. One should never insult a teacher, and should talk little in his or her presence.
All the Prophets (A) and Imams (A) were all teachers and guides. Even your parents are your teachers because they spend so much time bringing you up. You should obey a teacher the way you obey your father and mother.
This respect can be shown by standing in the presence of teachers and by remaining silent while they are speaking. Make best use of your teachers, and ask them questions while they are still around. This applies to all your teachers, whether they are at Madressa, school or elsewhere." |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 11:42 pm Post subject: |
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Well, John, the above is an �idealistic� view of the relationship between the student and the teacher. And most of what you quoted above was basically in the context of the relationship between students and teachers of �faith� and religion. Of course, as principle, and idealistically, it applies to any teacher. BUT, you have to remember we are not living in an �idealistic� world, and the �mentality� and 'culture' of the students of this 21st century, culture of WiFi and HipHop ( ), is different from that of your or my generations.
Nowadays, the concept of �respect� as you described above does not exist in the proper sense of the word, and the relationship between the student and teacher is not anymore like the relationship between a father and his children! The relationship is based on the concept of �customer� and �provider�, and the teacher these days can be challenged by students and society as whole if he deviates from the requirements of the �customer�! |
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lall
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 358
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 12:04 am Post subject: Business |
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| The relationship is based on the concept of �customer� and �provider�, and the teacher these days can be challenged by students and society as whole if he deviates from the requirements of the �customer�! |
You are spot-on, 007.
I come from a family of teachers and notice with concern how matters have deteriorated to a customer-provider relationship. |
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Imdramayu

Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 394 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 4:26 pm Post subject: Where's my magic wand? |
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Ghost,
In 2003, I came to Riyadh to teach EFL after teaching for 6 years in Korea. Now I'm returning to KSA after a 4-year stint in Qatar. To be honest, I miss Korean students. I'd love to return to Korea b/c of the Ss but the housing & salary is too small. I recognize hangul and can mouth out the words in a book. I know maybe 50 words but that's it. But I've hang onto this level...it must be fossilized by now. It's not worsening but its not getting better.
The shocker in KSA: poor study skills/habits and immaturity of students. I worked in a school in Riyadh which took in nationals who hadn't finished high school. Our school was to give them work skills (after a foundation of English). We were given the textbook (SideBySide, Basics in listening, Keep Writing, or Basic Reading Power) and told to make classroom magic. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 4:44 am Post subject: |
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| You think Saudi students are bad ? Try teaching a foreign language to secondary or post-secondary level students in the UK !!! |
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Imdramayu

Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 394 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 5:11 am Post subject: |
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Scot47, it seems that you and I are both typing on a keyboard at this moment and hanging around Dave's: one in Qatar and one in KSA. Brilliant minds think alike (and do alike)!
I suppose the problem with teaching a foreign language to UK teens is they think English rocks. |
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desultude

Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 614
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 5:27 am Post subject: |
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| scot47 wrote: |
well of course numerical seven
That is part of the duty of a teacher - but you can imagine the resistance from the students ! To them the teacher is a walking dictionary - and a subsitute for the servants they had at home ! |
Exactly.
"Miss, give me a pen." "Miss, my books is too heavy to bring." "Miss, you didn't teach us that."
The attitude towards western instructors is not respectful. You can earn some respect with them, but, in the end, you are hired help from abroad- like the Bangaldeshis and Philippinos. It isn't just that we are not Muslim (they will try to convert you) but we are not Saudi.
Don't expect your students to bring you a juice or rice cakes when they come to your office! In fact, if you have closed your office door to have a private moment, expect a student to open it, walk in, and demand that you print their paper from their (infected) flash drive. Or demand to know where another instructor is.  |
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Imdramayu

Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 394 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 7:21 am Post subject: 15% |
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Please encourage me by telling me this (even if it's not true):
This disrespectful attitude to foreign Ts is reserved for public school and not post-secondary institution -- especially an institution which says it takes only 15% of the students who apply there. I assume that would weed out the lazy students with bad study habits. What admission process is used to find the top 15%? |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 1:45 pm Post subject: |
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| Don't expect your students to bring you a juice or rice cakes when they come to your office! In fact, if you have closed your office door to have a private moment, expect a student to open it, walk in, and demand that you print their paper from their (infected) flash drive. Or demand to know where another instructor is. |
I certainly agree with the second part of this quote. Many students seem to have a "Me me me!" attitude and demand that you drop everything just to instantly cater to their whims. Such students think nothing of interrupting teacher mid-lunch or mid-conversation. And no matter how clearly ever teacher's name is posted over their door, they will still insist on interrupting you to ask where Miss So and So is, as though you were their personal secretary....
However, I can't say I agree with your first statement. I find students here to be very generous towards their teachers, bringing in huge cakes on teacher's birthdays and inviting them to their very plush weddings. I'd have to agree that I've yet to be offered a rice cake by a Saudi student, but somehow I think I'll manage to live with that. |
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 2:14 pm Post subject: it's not |
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| This disrespectful attitude to foreign Ts is reserved for public school and not post-secondary institution -- especially an institution which says it takes only 15% of the students who apply there. I assume that would weed out the lazy students with bad study habits. What admission process is used to find the top 15%? |
Sorry, but even the top 15% (and maybe especiallythe top 15%) will have this attitude. They are not all disrespectful, and I don't think most of them mean to be disrespectful, but this is just the way they have been raised.
The worst part is that they look for any fault in a teacher who is failing them to get the teacher fired from her job. A serious teacher who actually tries to get the students to work is constantly under scrutiny from these young women (and the young men to a lesser degree). Students will even fabricate incidents to get rid of a troublesome teacher who gives them a low grade.
On the other hand, many of the students are as respectful as they know how to be, and most of them are fun to be around even if they are only half-hearted students. |
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personae gratae

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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 12:21 pm Post subject: |
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Hi
Apart from suffering from chronicle extreme laziness, Saudi tertiary students are generally very well behaved...Not the brightest students I have taught, but certainly among the nicest...that is just from my personal experience...
P.G |
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lall
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:48 pm Post subject: Chronic |
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| personae gratae wrote: |
Hi
Apart from suffering from chronicle extreme laziness, Saudi tertiary students are generally very well behaved...Not the brightest students I have taught, but certainly among the nicest...that is just from my personal experience...
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Chronicle! New usage? I guess you meant "chronic". No offence.
Regards, Lall. |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 2:15 pm Post subject: Re: Chronic |
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| lall wrote: |
| personae gratae wrote: |
Hi
Apart from suffering from chronicle extreme laziness, Saudi tertiary students are generally very well behaved...Not the brightest students I have taught, but certainly among the nicest...that is just from my personal experience...
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Chronicle! New usage? I guess you meant "chronic". No offence.
Regards, Lall. |
He is a chronicler who writes about the chronicles of the magic kingdom!
No offence, lall!  |
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