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johnslat



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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

We're going all subjective here - one man's "freedom fighter" is another's "terrorist."
So, who is (or isn't) a fanatic is, of course, going to depend on the subjective point-of-view of whoever is regarding the person/people in question.
I think one way we can narrow it down is by restricting my definition a bit:

A fanatic is someone willing to deliberately kill non-combatant individuals in order to advance whatever cause (usually religion or politics) it is that he/she espouses.

Even that doesn't solve the problem, though, because then the obvious question arises: What about Dresden, London during Battle of Britain, Hiroshima and Nagasaki, etc., etc.?

These days, with the advance of technology, what the military usually euphemistically calls "collateral damage" can be extensive. I suppose I could point to the adverb "deliberately" in my definition above, but that doesn't satisfy me, either.
So, to paraphrase the famous quote of Judge Potter Stewart regarding pornography:

I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of people I understand to be fanatics . . . but I know them when I see them .

Yup, it's a cop-out, but when subjectivity comes through the door, definitive definitions go out the window.

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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 2:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think a good point has been made that a teacher's values are always going to influence his or her teaching.

But it's worth pointing out that this isn't mostly what we get hired for. I believe I have a lot that is valuable to share: about my culture, both good and bad; about my international experiences, which are especially relevant for my students who have never lived internationally, and are about to; about myself, what I know, and what I hope to learn from my students.

But mostly, they hire me for my experience, expertise, and skills in teaching the English language. I'm not so naive as to think that language without culture is possible- but many of my students start out thinking it is, and wanting language only.

What does this mean for me as a teacher? First, it means that I have to gradually introduce students to the idea that we have to include cultural elements as well as "plain" English.

It also means that, however certain I am of my own beliefs (and I have plenty that are VERY certain, some others less so) I need to be careful to avoid imposing them in the classroom. There are some issues towards which I have strong views which my students often don't share, and they have a right to that. They aren't backwards, ignorant, or rubes, they're just expressing a view different than mine. As it happens, in many cases they're wrong, in my opinion. I'm afraid that that opinion simply has no place in the classroom, as it wouldn't serve student learning. Not making an issue of corrolary points when they don't serve your students' needs is part of my job.

So in that sense, I feel a need to be pluralistic in the classroom, even about issues where my own views are absolute. Because, as the teacher, I have too much power to impose. Rus pointed out that being sure of your beliefs doesn't necessarily mean imposing them on others. I strongly agree. But, from the position of teacher, I have to be careful to avoid exactly that. In some cultures, at least, teacher is a power position. And that carries some responsibilities...


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 2:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Justin,
In the immortal words of Spiderman:

"With great power comes great responsibility."

But, jocularity aside (if the above can even be deemed as such), I agree completely.

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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 3:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That sums up the ideal well, Justin.

I'm really just kicking against the prevalent "we westerners know better with our tolerance, diversity, et al" attitude.
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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I'm really just kicking against the prevalent "we westerners know better with our tolerance, diversity, et al" attitude.


Understood and understandable. And given the merry mess "we westerners" have made of some things (not all, but a fair few!), we obviously should be in the market for learning as well as teaching!

Remember, though- tolerance is an attitude. One I endorse in many situations, but that's my opinion.

But diversity is real. It's not somthing you believe in or not, it's just there, both between cultures and within cultures. And if we're gonna teach internationally, our attitudes, and our student's attitudes towards diversity are a big part.


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 6:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Justin Trullinger wrote:


But diversity is real. It's not somthing you believe in or not, it's just there, both between cultures and within cultures. And if we're gonna teach internationally, our attitudes, and our student's attitudes towards diversity are a big part.


Best,
Justin


I think the word "diversity" has become so trendy and hence overused, that its meaning has become obscured. Justin, what is your definition of "diversity"?
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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 11:03 pm    Post subject: diversity Reply with quote

If "diversity is real" as Justin asserts means that differences exist, then I do not argue his point. But if by "diversity" he means 'to consider all these differences equally valid'.... then that is a belief. As I do not consider absolutely all differences that humans have to be completely equal. Values... for example. I value being on time or early to class. Most of my students do not. (Even though my school requires this as well).

I find myself frustrated at times with this as it can interfere with my doing my job. So I have to adapt... but adapt does not mean I should have to abandon my principles completely. So I made a compromise.... if students are a couple of minutes late (I must shut the door at 35 after the hour) I let them in on the condition that they tell me some fantastic story (the truth doesnt count here) about why they were late. I tell them this after a couple of weeks into the semester when I can drop the drill sargeant act a bit. (I tried it once from week one but found that students began to take advantage of this flexibility) I tell them this ahead of time and suggest they prepare a story mentally (they dont but they are warned). To be fair, the same rule applies to me if Im late, but my story has to be in Spanish.

In this way, I not being a complete hard-@$$, insisting on doing things completely my way, but at the same time they know that my values count too.

However, if I have to worry about being reprimanded, fired or even jailed just becaused I offend someone (esp. with no intention of doing so) by being who I am, then that is not a teaching environment I should be in. I am not willing to completely submit myself to a completely different value system, losing my own sense of identity. Negotiate a compromise... always... but negotiation does not mean capitulation.

I think many on the diversity/multicultural bandwagon are too quick to assume the Westerner/white person is always at fault when there is cultural conflict. The OP got trashed at the beginning of this thread as an example. I dont think he was an idiot because, as was noted, even within a belief system there can be variables (Some Muslims think music is a sin and some dont) so perhaps all the "knowledge" in the world wont prevent all missteps, as such knowledge is nothing but generalities learned outside of actually growing up within that belief system/culture.
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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 11:25 pm    Post subject: "Cultural relativism is a trap" Reply with quote

I came across an interesting statement on the subject of "cultural relativism": the acceptance speech by Adraan Van Der Staay on being presented with the International Humanist Award, given on 3 July 2002 at the International Humanist and Ethical Union.

"IHEU is the world union of over 100 Humanist, rationalist, secular, ethical culture, atheist and freethought organizations in more than 40 countries. Our mission is to represent and support the global Humanist movement. Our goal is a Humanist world in which human rights are respected and all can live a life of dignity."

Here's the excerpt:

"Cultural relativism
As I said, cultural identity is a restrictive concept, a stepping back from commonality, which for me is basic to humanism. It would be less dangerous if it were not sometimes linked to conflicts of interest. If it were only a restricted view of the world due to natural forgetfulness or parochialism it would not matter so much. But when it is also linked to conflicts of interest between groups of people, the implications can be grave. These conflicts are of course the stuff of life. But they may also contribute to intellectual obtuseness and moral cynicism.
Just consider a few examples of conflicts of interest and their effects on cultural identities.
What else can the terrible conflict in Palestine be called than a conflict over land between an indigenous population and newcomers? This vicious war of interest is today cloaked in every kind of special pleading including the historical rights of two populations, and mutually exclusive claims to one city. But this conflict of interest, rapidly changing into a conflict of cultural identities, is breaking up any sense of moral or intellectual commonality. People will accentuate their cultural differences until these relative differences change into absolute differences and all sense of commonality is lost.
This conflict is not of course limited to the unhappy populations of Palestine. In its self-destructive past of nationalism Europe has been equally confused. How many learned disquisitions have there not been written about differences between Kultur and Civilisation, the one being characteristically German and the other just as characteristically French? This subject has bedevilled some of Europe's best minds.
Another conflict of interest is less obvious than the conflict between populations calling themselves nations, namely conflicts within society. When migrants or former slaves do not find a commonality with the indigenous or majority population, for whatever reason, what is more natural to them than to fight not for commonality but for their self-interest? Self-interest becomes the motor for cultural identity thinking. This may translate into multiculturalism, black studies, ethnic thinking or victimhood thinking. But it remains basically a conflict of interest.

This could still be regarded as wholesome if it were simply another phase in a process of emancipation towards some form of commonality. This was the illusion under which Dutch society laboured, both on the left and on the right, when it started subsidizing mosques for migrants: that national unity would always be the natural outcome of emancipation. But this type of multicultural struggle has also laid the foundations for that debilitating concept: cultural relativism.
I call this concept debilitating because it does not grapple with the problem of how to understand other cultures and pass judgement on them. Relativism lays down its arms at all too early a stage. Cultural relativism is a trap. It abolishes intellectual and moral commonality with the other. If cultural identities are assumed to enclose populations and there is no common framework, what can one do but accept the idea of cultural relativism?
If, right or wrong, my culture becomes the rule, what sense does it make to discuss right and wrong? How can one judge between competing identities? How can one show real respect to the other if one has no real respect for oneself? I have no doubt that all this has been amply discussed by you.
I would merely suggest that there is no future for humanism if it does not take into account the commonality of humankind as a whole and discard the constraints that the concept of cultural identity places on our minds.


For the full speech, please go click on the link below:

http://www.iheu.org/node/193
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 12:56 am    Post subject: Re: diversity Reply with quote

thelmadatter wrote:
If "diversity is real" as Justin asserts means that differences exist, then I do not argue his point. But if by "diversity" he means 'to consider all these differences equally valid'.... then that is a belief. As I do not consider absolutely all differences that humans have to be completely equal. Values... for example. I value being on time or early to class. Most of my students do not. (Even though my school requires this as well).

I find myself frustrated at times with this as it can interfere with my doing my job. So I have to adapt... but adapt does not mean I should have to abandon my principles completely. So I made a compromise.... if students are a couple of minutes late (I must shut the door at 35 after the hour) I let them in on the condition that they tell me some fantastic story (the truth doesnt count here) about why they were late. I tell them this after a couple of weeks into the semester when I can drop the drill sargeant act a bit. (I tried it once from week one but found that students began to take advantage of this flexibility) I tell them this ahead of time and suggest they prepare a story mentally (they dont but they are warned). To be fair, the same rule applies to me if Im late, but my story has to be in Spanish.

In this way, I not being a complete hard-@$$, insisting on doing things completely my way, but at the same time they know that my values count too.

However, if I have to worry about being reprimanded, fired or even jailed just becaused I offend someone (esp. with no intention of doing so) by being who I am, then that is not a teaching environment I should be in. I am not willing to completely submit myself to a completely different value system, losing my own sense of identity. Negotiate a compromise... always... but negotiation does not mean capitulation.

I think many on the diversity/multicultural bandwagon are too quick to assume the Westerner/white person is always at fault when there is cultural conflict. The OP got trashed at the beginning of this thread as an example. I dont think he was an idiot because, as was noted, even within a belief system there can be variables (Some Muslims think music is a sin and some dont) so perhaps all the "knowledge" in the world wont prevent all missteps, as such knowledge is nothing but generalities learned outside of actually growing up within that belief system/culture.


Thank you, Thelma! Smile
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 10:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jerry
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Religion is the best tool for all mans base instincts
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If this is true, then i would submit it is also the best tool for man's most altruistic goals. Here in China, the only remnant of the Outside possesion from a hundred years ago ... Some German architecture in Qingdao (and beer Laughing ) and some french influence in Shanghai ... and some charity hospitals started by "organized religion", Since "organized Chrisitan religions" (and all westerners) were told to skadaddle, there have been no new Charity hospitals in CHina.

John
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A fanatic is someone willing to deliberately kill non-combatant individuals in order to advance whatever cause (usually religion or politics) it is that he/she espouses
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I think you will get widespread support of that definition here at Dave's. The question to me is equating this to being willing to die for a cause. Do you think Martin Luther King would have stopped what he was doing if he knew it would be likely to cause his death? Would we give him the negative connotation of "fanatic"

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Even that doesn't solve the problem, though, because then the obvious question arises: What about Dresden, London during Battle of Britain, Hiroshima and Nagasaki, etc., etc.?

A question well worthwhile considering. We have both served, there are fanatics in the military. Perhaps more in the marines then the air force? When i joined in 1987, there were lectures on this.
But I think what happens more often in the miltary ( and civilian and military leaders of the miltary) is what happened in the prison in Iraq. Sorry, so un PC, what was the name? Abu Gharib? Only a fanatic could keep from becoming evil in a place like that. This had nothing to do with fanaticism but the dark side of human nature we all have?
There was a great, I mean really great research project done in Stanford that shows what happen to ordinary people when you give them total power without proper training or oversight.. they become gestapo animals, all of them. This should not be confused with fanaticism?

http://www.prisonexp.org/faq.htm

The Stanford Prison Experiment: A simulation study of the psychology of Imprisonment

Wouldn't be something if we were pretty much the same as fanatics if subjected to the same conditions?

Check out The Lucifer effect by Zimbardo, the guy who started the Staford project , later APA president (American Psych Association)
http://www.lucifereffect.com/
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 4:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I think the word "diversity" has become so trendy and hence overused, that its meaning has become obscured. Justin, what is your definition of "diversity"?


From Websters:

Quote:
Main Entry: di�ver�si�ty
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural di�ver�si�ties
Date: 14th century
1: the condition of being diverse : variety; especially : the inclusion of diverse people (as people of different races or cultures) in a group or organization <programs intended to promote diversity in schools>
2: an instance of being diverse <a diversity of opinion>


I guess I meant "diversity" as a synonym of "variety." And with that definition, it exists in everything. Given the context of the thread, I was thinking of cultural diversity, including diversity of languages, religion, values, attitudes, manners, and social behaviour. And inarguably, these diversities are part of the world that we all have to deal with.

I mentioned "tolerance" as a value, or a point of view. Like many values, it is a good one as long as it doesn't get too absolute; all of us tolerate differences we find insignificant. Likewise, we all have some things we won't or perhaps can't tolerate.



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But if by "diversity" he means 'to consider all these differences equally valid'.... then that is a belief.


Of course- and a fictitious one. Nobody considers all differences equally valid- even though some people may try to say that they do.

I'm vegetarian, and while I try not to evangelize about it, I do believe that eating meat is, in most situations, incorrect. People sometimes accuse me of cultural intolerance for this, especially when it means that I am unable to partake in traditional local foods. But most of those who find my dietary decisions intolerant also have dietary limits: some won't eat veal, knowing about it's production; Some refuse insects. Whether you refuse to eat veal, bugs, dog, burro, rat, human flesh, whatever, most people have some limits in this area. And because all the foods I mentioned are accepted in some culture, you could argue that those limits are intolerant, or at least not accepting of one of the values, of a given culture. (I use diet as an example, because I think it's a not overly confrontational area to explore the idea that we are all to some extent "tolerant," and to some extent "intolerant." And I don't mean to imply that either tolerance or intolerance is a superior. )

Deciding how to adapt, and how far to adapt is one of the unique challenges us intercultural types face. And I like your lateness analogy, TD- In many things, it's a question of deciding how to accomodate the new culture, while holding on to the parts of the old one, or of ourselves, that we wish to. (Or that we feel we must.)

I'm sorry if I came across as trashing the OP- I realize that I called him a mingmong, but I did wink, and meant it in a very tongue in cheek way. Embarassed ANyone who's been in this game very long is guilty of a long string of cultural hilarity, and anyone who says otherwise is lying.

No amount of preparation avoids the cultural mis-steps, though good preparation can reduce their frequency. But some cultural "mis-steps" aren't really errors at all. THey're just the natural consequence of two cultures coming together. It's not a mis-step when I refuse to eat cuy (roast Ecuadorian guinea pig ), though it may offend some. It's a decision on my part that, while I know it may be ungracious to refuse, I am not willing to eat rodent in order to be gracious.

But what I've found most interesting about this thread is that two currents are running paralel within the same conversation.

On the one hand, we're getting very academic in areas of diversity; on the other, there are still some sweeping generalizations running around.



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I think many on the diversity/multicultural bandwagon are too quick to assume the Westerner/white person is always at fault when there is cultural conflict.


My sincerest apologies if there is anything I've said to lead you to believe that I'm in this category. I certainly DON'T believe that you're wrong because you're western or white. (Erm, are you? I am. But online, one doesn't know.)

I do believe that you're wrong to make sweeping generalizations about an almost incomprehensibly large number of people, though. While there may be individuals in any culture who would challenge your equality, or your right to exist, I know of know culture where such a view would be general.

We do have a right to decide to what extent we will (perhaps can) accept the values of others. But to be fair to all concerned, before we reach this decision, we should endeavour to accurately understand what those others truly think and believe.


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Justin
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 6:00 pm    Post subject: found a place to work Reply with quote

Justin... nothing I wrote was directly aimed at you or anyone else specifically. There are plenty who seem to do these things... sometimes it can feel like a pile-on!

BTW, found a Muslim country I can work in! http://www.commentarymagazine.com/viewarticle.cfm/this-is-a-kosovar-muslim-11372

Gotta love a Muslim country that has a Jewish bakery run by a real Israeli! (dang! my bagel craving is coming back!)
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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 11:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear aroich36,

"Only a fanatic could keep from becoming evil in a place like that."

I'm afraid I disagree. I think that an honorable person who has integrity could "keep from becoming evil in a place like that."

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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 11:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Glad to hear it, Thelmadatter-
I think that most of what I've been trying to express (clumsilly, verbosely, perhaps preposterously) on this thread can be summed up with that- The whole Muslim world isn't just one place! (Nor the "Christian World" nor anything else.

If you could please send me one of those bagels...

Wink

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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 8:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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BTW, found a Muslim country I can work in! http://www.commentarymagazine.com/viewarticle.cfm/this-is-a-kosovar-muslim-11372

Gotta love a Muslim country that has a Jewish bakery run by a real Israeli! (dang! my bagel craving is coming back!)
Yea, the fact that the government is composed of gangsters whose main hobby is ethnic cleansing, and that the country's two chief economic activities are heroin pushing and white slavery is just a minor contretemps.

At least you won't suffer the depredations you have suffered from those malicious Mexican Muslims that have so traumatized you you refuse to talk about them.
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