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YankeeDoodleDandy
Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 428 Location: Xi'an , Shaanxi China
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Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 1:22 pm Post subject: Contracts in China |
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| To the OP, when you sign a contract in the West, for most of the time it is a done deal. In the Middle Kingdom, after you sign a contract, the Chinese side, will try their best to renegotiate the contract to their advantage. Most of the world operates on bargaining for goods and talking on for hours. Welcome to China ! Be steadfast and keep a stiff upper lip or bend over. |
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suanlatudousi
Joined: 10 Oct 2008 Posts: 384
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Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 1:50 pm Post subject: Re: Lessons Learned |
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| YankeeDoodleDandy wrote: |
| Living off campus is one alternative, if your school will agree to this. |
Let all be clear - there is absolutely NO legal requirement that you live on campus or in school provided accommodations. You have every right to live elsewhere. The school may or may not be obligated to provide a stipend if live off campus. You are required to provide your actual living address to the PSB. |
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Mister Al

Joined: 28 Jun 2004 Posts: 840 Location: In there
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Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 2:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Sorry mate, but you live on campus and if that's the rule, that's the rule. You can't really argue that it doesn't apply to you, even if you think it isn't being enforced in respect of others or if you think it's just to control you. The school does have a right to impose rules of entry/exit to the premises. If you can't live with that then the best idea is to move of campus. |
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PattyFlipper
Joined: 14 Nov 2007 Posts: 572
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 6:27 am Post subject: |
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It's a losing battle. |
It is only a losing battle if the laowai refuse to enjoin battle in the first place, and simply give in to these unwarranted intrusions on their privacy (and yes, I am aware that the concept of privacy barely exists in China).
I worked for a university which provided housing, but slightly off campus. The building for the foreign teachers had a janitor/watchman/odd-job-man/laowai-sitter. This little jobsworth took it upon himself to deny entry to residents' guests. The other FTs bitched and griped about it to each other, but otherwise did nothing. The first time he tried it with me, I marched straight to my apartment, picked up the phone, and told the FAO politely but in no uncertain terms that if this incident was ever repeated, they could provide a car to take me to the airport. End of problem (for me, at least). In my experience, Asians will try to get away with all kinds of cr*p, but will almost invariably back down when challenged.
'Cultural sensitivity' is a two-way street. If the Chinese, for whatever reason, wish to employ laowai (and manifestly they do), then they need to be made aware that Westerners value privacy and the sanctity of the abode - however humble and temporary said abode may be. |
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evaforsure

Joined: 26 Jun 2004 Posts: 1217
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:03 am Post subject: |
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| It is only a losing battle if the laowai refuse to enjoin battle in the first place, |
No battle if he just cops a squat on another piece of Real Estate....then they dont have his "crib" to hold over his head....this is why FT should haggle seprate housing....you learned the golden rule from your fathers...when u have your own place you can do what u want.. but while you live under my roof..... |
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Fred Smith
Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 77
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Mister Al wrote: |
| Sorry mate, but you live on campus and if that's the rule, that's the rule. You can't really argue that it doesn't apply to you, even if you think it isn't being enforced in respect of others or if you think it's just to control you. The school does have a right to impose rules of entry/exit to the premises. If you can't live with that then the best idea is to move of campus. |
You miss the point there Al. No rules were ever given, discussed, or included in my contract.
And sometimes these girls just knock at my door and I don't know what to do... |
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YankeeDoodleDandy
Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 428 Location: Xi'an , Shaanxi China
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:41 pm Post subject: Fred Smith, You are a lucky man. |
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| In the contracts that I have signed with four schools , there is always a clause or comment to uphold Chinese values or moral standards, or something to that effect. |
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Fred Smith
Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 77
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 1:48 pm Post subject: Re: Fred Smith, You are a lucky man. |
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| YankeeDoodleDandy wrote: |
| In the contracts that I have signed with four schools , there is always a clause or comment to uphold Chinese values or moral standards, or something to that effect. |
And that means nothing because that's such a general statement. And did I mention a foreign teacher has his unmarried Chinese girlfriend living with him full time? |
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YankeeDoodleDandy
Joined: 17 Aug 2004 Posts: 428 Location: Xi'an , Shaanxi China
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 2:11 pm Post subject: China Girl |
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| Welcome to China. |
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bradley
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 235 Location: China
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 2:16 pm Post subject: |
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I think every contract has the "morality" clause.
When I first came to my university I was told that overnight guests were not allowed and then saw other teachers doing this. And I realized that this rule was not enforced. Teachers who came after me were not even informed of this rule.
Sometimes these things get brought up that have nothing to do with you or even more likely at least at this university, is that the students start gossiping that you have too many girls going to your room. |
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sharpe88
Joined: 21 Oct 2008 Posts: 226
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 2:30 pm Post subject: Re: Fred Smith, You are a lucky man. |
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Since she's actually living there, they know who she is and don't have a problem with that.
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And that means nothing because that's such a general statement. And did I mention a foreign teacher has his unmarried Chinese girlfriend living with him full time? |
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kev7161
Joined: 06 Feb 2004 Posts: 5880 Location: Suzhou, China
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 11:03 pm Post subject: |
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| How should I handle this situation? My feeling is my friends don't have to show id to come to my room - and they are not students in this school by the way. |
I wonder if the OP could give us more information (and I'm not talking the sordid behind closed door details!)? For example: Are all of his "friends" female? Are they all cute-young-things? Are there a large variety/quantity that come visit? Do they come alone or in couples or triples? What is the average age difference between the teacher and the "friends"?
Here's my point: Personally, I could care less if the OP is living the life while in China. That's one reason many people come here. However, if your "friends" are many and varied, THAT is probably why the school is concerned or has suddenly started enforcing certain rules. The colleague with the live in girlfriend is a whole different scenario. If your life is this fun and interesting, it's time to move off-campus. |
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chengdu4me
Joined: 19 Feb 2009 Posts: 120 Location: Chengdu, Sichuan, China
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 12:41 am Post subject: |
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| Fred, I hate to say this, but, if there were no rules in the contract, then they get to make them up as they go along. It is your fault that you didn't ask for the rules beforehand. It is not their fault that you were naive. You are accepting their pay and you are living in a home that they provide. Sounds to me like the golden rule has been invoked. |
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bradley
Joined: 28 Mar 2005 Posts: 235 Location: China
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 1:20 am Post subject: |
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I would just obey their rules for a month or two.
This is quite normal in China. For one month they crackdown on one thing: prostitution, illegal DVDs, pirated electronic goods. And the next month this cause is forgotten. |
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Hansen
Joined: 13 Oct 2008 Posts: 737 Location: central China
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Posted: Wed Mar 11, 2009 1:21 am Post subject: |
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Flipper, You are correct. Sometimes things like that do work out; however, in your case, it was the little man at the gate causing problems. The bigger man did not care. Lots of little people like that in China. They cause problems simply because they think they can. And they do back down.
In Fred's case, it is not the little man at the gate. It is the bigger man who objects to his behavior. Different situation entirely.
As I said earlier, people do lose their jobs over this issue. There are easier ways to handle this than direct confrontation. There are alternatives. |
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