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cheryl



Joined: 01 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 07, 2003 7:12 pm    Post subject: Women in SA Reply with quote

Hi everyone,

since i've been browsing Dave's Cafe, i've noticed that in the SA forum most of the posters are male. (since i AM a lazy butt, i'm not going to read every single post ever made in here therefore i won't say that there never ever was a female post)

My question is: How prevelant are women teachers in SA? are there many female EFL classes or are EFL classes mainly focused on men?

I'm an applied linguistics honours student with a CTESL graduating in a month...what are my chances for a job in SA??

Cheryl
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scot47



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 08, 2003 10:24 am    Post subject: women in KSA Reply with quote

There are jobs for women here. You would be teaching in a women-only environment. There are not so many jobs and a lot of competion from Saudi women. Teaching and nursing are about the only careers open to them here.

You would find living conditions rather restrictive. One place to try would be Dar Al Hekma in Jeddah.
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veiledsentiments



Joined: 20 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 08, 2003 1:43 pm    Post subject: not recommended Reply with quote

You could probably get a job, but I don't think that you want to. Especially if this would be your first teaching experience in the Middle East. (and I'm not sure from your message if it is your first experience at all) Unless you are Muslim and married, it can be extremely restrictive and often unpleasant. Even my Muslim women friends who have been there, either working or not, disliked it.

If you wish to experience this part of the world, there are lots of places that are much more pleasant and interesting. If the money is what attracts you, the Emirates has many places that pay as well. But, most of them require experienced teachers.
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cheryl



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 09, 2003 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Scot47 and Veiledsentiments,

Sounds like SA is not for me, but i'll keep researching. Yes, this would be my first experience teaching in the Middle East, it would be my first experience teaching anywhere overseas actually. So far i've only taught in an outreach program (immigrants and refugees) where the students and lead teachers are more than happy to have me there.

One part of my lure to SA was the money, but the other part was the culture. I understand the restrictions women face but i feel i can deal with it. For me, (and i hope this doesn't sound too much like OPRAH) the only way to experience/know a culture is to live in it. Whether the experience is good or bad, it's the experience that counts. Anyways, thanks again for both of your responses, i'll keep them in mind.
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Alobar



Joined: 04 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 09, 2003 9:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cheryl wrote:
For me, (and i hope this doesn't sound too much like OPRAH) the only way to experience/know a culture is to live in it. Whether the experience is good or bad, it's the experience that counts.


You might be a little bit starry-eyed, but this isn't a bad sentiment. Still, there are some experiences I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy, much less myself. The worst experiences you can imagine as a presumably middle-class Canadian are nowhere nearly as bad as some experiences that actually happen to people. I don't want to make you feel stodgy or paranoid, but I think a certain amount of rational fear is healthy.

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I understand the restrictions women face but i feel i can deal with it.


My fiancee, a Pakistani, grew up in Saudi as the daughter of a Pakistani expat. Her restrictions were so severe that she feels she had absolutely no contact with or understanding of the culture she spent twenty years in. Your experience might well be nothing more than seeing only your home and your classroom. And you might be so lucky as to have this as your only experience.

I would worry, especially if I were a woman, about the requirement for an exit visa. I'm categorically disinclined to place myself in a situation without a clear path of retreat. Furthermore, I don't know the policy of the Canadian government, but the US government has been spectacularly unhelpful about helping American citizens--often wives and children of Saudis--leave the country even in the face of unspeakable suffering.

I admit I am probably at least a bit unfairly biased, and my opinion is definitely second-hand, so take it with a grain of salt.
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veiledsentiments



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2003 2:50 am    Post subject: Learning the culture... Reply with quote

Hi Cheryl

If you really want to experience the Middle Eastern culture, the Gulf is really not the best place. About the only contact you have is your students. Gulf Arabs have so many family obligations that their social lives are almost completely tied up with their families. Saudi would be the extreme of an almost impossibility of really learning and experiencing the culture. Expats tend to spend their lives with other expats. People work there for 20 years and never even learn any Arabic!!

If you really want to live in the culture to learn about it from the inside, you need to go to a place like Egypt or the Levant (Syria, Lebanon, Jordan). They are also much more relaxed and comfortable with foreigners. Women can go out and about and you can even meet with a local woman and have tea in one of the hotels or go shopping. This is very unlikely to happen in the Gulf.

Of course, the drawback is that there are very few jobs that pay all that well. There's always a catch. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk more specifically. Smile
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cheryl



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2003 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Alobar,

i'm still fairly new to Dave's Cafe and haven't yet learned how to "cut and paste on here", i hope this works.

The worst experiences you can imagine as a presumably middle-class Canadian are nowhere nearly as bad as some experiences that actually happen to people.
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i've seen suffering (i've lived in Brasil before, not just with the upper class but also with the poor albeit it was my choice) and i'm not totally naive to what could happen to a female. i hope i didn't come across as someone who'd jump blindly into a situation she couldn't get out of. I'm feeling less and less inclined to work in SA now since i've been doing more research...

I would worry, especially if I were a woman, about the requirement for an exit visa. I'm categorically disinclined to place myself in a situation without a clear path of retreat.

this is exactly the kind of information i was looking for. i heard SA was an option and wondered why i hardly saw any women posting about their experience.

thanks for taking the time to read my posts and respond to them Alobar. Although i will take what you say with a grain of salt, i'll also keep in mind that you have a female contact who's experienced SA firsthand. [/list]
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2003 3:59 am    Post subject: Why didn't you TELL me? Reply with quote

Dear cheryl,
Before my ( second ) wife came over here to Saudi Arabia, I spent weeks playing " Devil's Advocate ", telling her what it would be like for a woman,
deliberately painting the worst possible picture. Though all of this, she kept smiling, nodding her head and saying, " Well, I can handle that ". Two weeks after she arrived in the Kingdom, she came and asked me: " Why didn't you TELL me what it would be like? " . Some environments, it seems, can't be " fully appreciated " second-hand; only when you are actually IN them are you able to comprehend how they affect you. So forgive this " cautionary tale ", but it's meant to put you on your guard about what women here have to endure.
Regards,
John
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Stephen Jones



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 10, 2003 8:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Cheryl,
As has already been pointed out, the main problem an expat woman will have in Sauid is being allowed to experience anything at all, pleasant or unpleasant.

Try Kuwait, Bahrnain or the Emirates, though if you want "different cultures" avoid the Gulf altogether.
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