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desultude



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 3:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

scot47 wrote:
I think Saudis have mixed feelings about us. Quite complex ones !



Diplomatic and generous.

I think this may be true for Saudis in general, but for Saudi administration, I stand by my statement.
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 3:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear desultude,

"I think this may be true for Saudis in general, but for Saudi administration, I stand by my statement."

Much as I agree with the content of almost all of your posts, it's my opinion that you're off-base on this. I'm sure that the statement above was true where you were employed, but to state that ALL Saudi administrators do not respect the teachers in their employ, in my experience, mistaken.

I taught at the IPA for quite a while (nineteen years,) and, during that time, some of my students (in the early years) went to the States, got their graduate degrees, returned to the IPA, and rose through the ranks to high administrative positions.
These Saudis - and others that I had never taught - were and still are my friends. I'm still in touch with many of them, and even now, thirty years later, these ex-students, who now pretty much run the IPA, address me as "my teacher."
I think that I can safely say that there's a lot of mutual respect in our friendships.

Regards,
John
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scot47



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 4:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

People are sometimes fooled into thinking that Saudis are the same because they all wear that same uniform. they are in fact very diverse. Rather like those of us from the Rest Of the World !
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desultude



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 4:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If I had met a few of them, I may have a different impression.

I have the experience of the university I worked for there, and now of the university I work for here. There is no comparison.

I do yield that my experience in the Kingdom was limited (blessedly) to 2 years at one institution. I wasn't looking for the chance to disabuse myself of the opinion formed by the regular abuse I experienced at PMU. (In case someone is doing a search, that is Prince Mohammed bin Fahd University.)
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Dominic-Pax



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am going to teach in Saudi Arabia for the first time starting in February. I would like to dress properly to avoid problems at work and in public places.

Here are my questions:

1.) Are short sleeve shirts (i.e. polo shirts) acceptable in public places?
2.) Are khaki pants acceptable in public places?
3.) No shorts?
4.) Are there any colors to avoid?
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 10, 2010 11:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Dominic-Pax,

1.) Are short sleeve shirts (i.e. polo shirts) acceptable in public places?
Yes.
2.) Are khaki pants acceptable in public places?
Yes.
3.) No shorts?
No shorts.
4.) Are there any colors to avoid?
Hmm, pink, maybe (just kidding - I've never heard of a "taboo" color.)

Regards,
John
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desultude



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

johnslat wrote:
Dear Dominic-Pax,

1.) Are short sleeve shirts (i.e. polo shirts) acceptable in public places?
Yes.
2.) Are khaki pants acceptable in public places?
Yes.
3.) No shorts?
No shorts.
4.) Are there any colors to avoid?
Hmm, pink, maybe (just kidding - I've never heard of a "taboo" color.)

Regards,
John


A little off topic- but some of the men in Oman seem to favor pale lavender pink dishdasha eith pink and purple caps. I guess this is why they feel the need to carry kanjars (knives) around their waists.
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The Lathe of Heaven



Joined: 02 Sep 2009
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Location: drifting from dream to dream from future to future

PostPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

WAKE UP
PUT CLOTHES on body of teacher that works in Saudi Arabia for credit account payments that are way overdue and maybe even in default.
GO TO WORK

NEXT DAY

WAKE UP
PUT CLOTHES on body of teacher that works in Saudi Arabia for credit account payments that are way overdue and maybe even in default.
GO TO WORK

NEXT DAY

WAKE UP
PUT CLOTHES on body of teacher that works in Saudi Arabia for credit account payments that are way overdue and maybe even in default.
GO TO WORK

NEXT DAY

WAKE UP
PUT CLOTHES on body of teacher that works in Saudi Arabia for credit account payments that are way overdue and maybe even in default.
GO TO WORK

NEXT DAY

WAKE UP
PUT CLOTHES on body of teacher that works in Saudi Arabia for credit account payments that are way overdue and maybe even in default.
GO TO WORK

WEEKEND

WAKE UP
GO TO BED

anything other than this routine becomes a stress code for men.

TLOH


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scot47



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Put clothes" ? Put them where ? Or do you mean "Put clothes on".
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lazycomputerkids



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TLOH really must invest in a wider monitor.
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Sheikh N Bake



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 12:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ha! A funny thread at last!
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The Lathe of Heaven



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 12, 2010 8:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear LZCOMPKIDS

"Holy graffics Batman"!!! Your avatar takes to long to load on my monitor.
My PSP can't handle it.

TLOH
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trapezius



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Location: Land of Culture of Death & Destruction

PostPosted: Tue Jan 12, 2010 12:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dominic-Pax wrote:
Here are my questions:

1.) Are short sleeve shirts (i.e. polo shirts) acceptable in public places?
2.) Are khaki pants acceptable in public places?


No to both.

Either you have to wear a full formal suit in public, or just your underwear. Anything in between is illegal.
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desultude



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

trapezius wrote:
Dominic-Pax wrote:
Here are my questions:

1.) Are short sleeve shirts (i.e. polo shirts) acceptable in public places?
2.) Are khaki pants acceptable in public places?


No to both.

Either you have to wear a full formal suit in public, or just your underwear. Anything in between is illegal.


It is a very formal society, after all.
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 12, 2010 2:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ahem - ladies and gentlemen,

Sometimes we may forget that those who have not yet been to Saudi are often not very attuned as to what is permitted and what is not.

And I think we who have been there will likely agree that there are a lot of taboos in that society which an "outsider" might likely be unaware of.

Is the slack machine broken? Be gentle with the inexperienced, please. Were we not all once in the same situation?

Regards,
John
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