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WellRoundedSquare
Joined: 07 Aug 2009 Posts: 28 Location: New York
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 10:49 am Post subject: The Rose Colored Glasses need to shatter |
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I read a lot of posts and information on this forum before I came to Oman. I was incredibly excited to touch down in the Middle East and dive into a new environment.
However, I think that much of the advice offered on this forum (albeit genuine, encouraging and done with the best of intentions) is becoming increasingly out of date with the reality on the ground.
The idea that Oman is the last vestige of traditional tribal friendliness is a myth. That the students are the best in the gulf is a slope that is sliding more toward unjust arrogance with every day that goes by.
Oman is moving along the same trajectory that the Emirates, Kuwaitis and Bahrainis have slid down.
15 Years ago the Emirati's were encouraging, friendly, and genuine.
10 Years ago Oman took up this mantle.
I expect now it is in it's death rattle or has been entirely extinguished from the Gulf. I believe the only thing anyone can say about the facilities, faculty, or students in Oman is that "they're better than Saudi Arabia" which is in effect saying nothing.
The Recruiting Companies in Oman are the same bottom feeding, greedy *beep* you'd find tricking teachers into working into the abominable f aux schools in Vietnam and China. But most people don't have many illusions about them coming in.
In the end though the most tragic thing about teaching in Oman, is that the government run schools are completely fake. Whether the ministry of manpower is complicit in the facades created by the recruitment middlemen I do not know. What I do know is that these kids that desperately need fair education are getting nothing of the sort. Anyone who has been to China, or Taiwan, or Japan or really anywhere outside of the Gulf understands immediately that if the future of Oman rests in the hands of the children who show up at their secondary schools, this country will be swallowed whole.
The fact that the administrators are complicit to the whims of the recruitment companies, and simply laugh off the insane policies of Oman's government ministry as they pass off the burdens to their underlings is the most frustrating aspect of teaching here.
If you are a teacher at the end of your rope, who just wants some money for retirement by all means come to Oman and zone out for a couple of years. If anyone is thinking of coming here in their prime, for the love of the job, for the chance to experience a culture through communicating in the classroom, or to have a better idea of the greater middle east. Stay home, or take a pay cut and go back to Asia.
For teachers, the job here carries the same possibility as the landscape between Sohar and Salalah, rocky waste. |
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Neil McBeath
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 277 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 12:05 pm Post subject: The rose tinted spectacles need to come off |
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This is a bad case of culture shock.
What you expected has not lived up to what you have found, but the brush with which you paint is far too broad.
Perhaps you would be happier elsewhere.
But I would not.
And I am not a teacher at the end of my rope, who needs money for retirement. |
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balqis
Joined: 30 Jul 2006 Posts: 373
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 12:40 pm Post subject: |
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There is nothing basically wrong with painting that uses broad strokes of the paint brush. It is just a matter of taste, whether someone likes Manet or expressionism of, say, Schiele or Munch.
What matters is the amount of thruth a picture conveys.
I'm still thinking of Oman before I shut my decade in the Middle East, and its tribal allure and landscape still appeal to me.
If there is little difference between Kuwait and say Salalah, then maybe I should stick to where the money is, and turn a blind eye and ear to the Empty Nothing Else that surrounds me where I am now?
So for me this posting is interesting and important.
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jdl

Joined: 06 Apr 2005 Posts: 632 Location: cyberspace
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 1:07 pm Post subject: |
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Ah the stages of culture shock....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culture_shock
Although there is no set time allowed for one to move through the natural and inevitable process of change whether it be a new job, new land, new relationship, new family status etc., the process being a process is measured in months and years rather than days and weeks for most individuals.
It is said we learn the most about our selves when we are under some stress; that is not to say that more stress equals more learning but rather that each individual must manage his or her response to stress in order to take advantage of the learning opportunity.
Our responses to a situation say more about ourselves than the situation. |
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WellRoundedSquare
Joined: 07 Aug 2009 Posts: 28 Location: New York
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 2:04 pm Post subject: |
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jdl wrote: |
Ah the stages of culture shock....
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culture_shock
Although there is no set time allowed for one to move through the natural and inevitable process of change whether it be a new job, new land, new relationship, new family status etc., the process being a process is measured in months and years rather than days and weeks for most individuals.
It is said we learn the most about our selves when we are under some stress; that is not to say that more stress equals more learning but rather that each individual must manage his or her response to stress in order to take advantage of the learning opportunity.
Our responses to a situation say more about ourselves than the situation. |
Ah, the standard routine. If you don't like something you must be in culture shock. It's different here, just wait a year and then you'll understand. It's the Middle East it's slow! Things don't change here, just relax!
If you want to describe what this is, then invent a term called institutional shock, because it has nothing to do with culture. The Ministries of Education and Manpower both take their strategies directly from UNESCO. They clearly are trying to Modernize and Westernize their institutions of higher learning and they are failing, mostly because they have placed their trusts in the Recruitment Agencies, and the nepotism and cronyism that surround those agencies. This has nothing to do with culture shock and everything to do with an environment that breeds corruption and cowardice.
What's happening in these schools happens in plenty of other places around the world. But rarely or never does it happen to an entire nationwide educational system simultaneously. If it happens in one Language School, you can just get a job down the road. In Oman, you can only give up and stay or give up and leave. |
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jdl

Joined: 06 Apr 2005 Posts: 632 Location: cyberspace
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 2:18 pm Post subject: |
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Stage Three?
Patience, with some time and a little self work (doesn't take much really), it will pass.
This is not to minimize the pain and anger one feels or the certain existence of frustrations with the way things are; but an understanding of one's natural responses to a new situation is a very positive step toward equilibrium.
Perhaps a little historical perspective can be of value here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Education_in_Oman
Prior to 1970 there were no hospitals, power grid, telecom, paved road infrastruture etc. outside the capital region. Quite an amazing accomplishment considering a 40 year time frame. |
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ThaneKerner
Joined: 13 Sep 2009 Posts: 139
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 3:00 pm Post subject: Re: The Rose Colored Glasses need to shatter |
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WellRoundedSquare wrote: |
I read a lot of posts and information on this forum before I came to Oman. I was incredibly excited to touch down in the Middle East and dive into a new environment.
However, I think that much of the advice offered on this forum (albeit genuine, encouraging and done with the best of intentions) is becoming increasingly out of date with the reality on the ground.
The idea that Oman is the last vestige of traditional tribal friendliness is a myth. That the students are the best in the gulf is a slope that is sliding more toward unjust arrogance with every day that goes by.
Oman is moving along the same trajectory that the Emirates, Kuwaitis and Bahrainis have slid down.
15 Years ago the Emirati's were encouraging, friendly, and genuine.
10 Years ago Oman took up this mantle.
I expect now it is in it's death rattle or has been entirely extinguished from the Gulf. I believe the only thing anyone can say about the facilities, faculty, or students in Oman is that "they're better than Saudi Arabia" which is in effect saying nothing.
The Recruiting Companies in Oman are the same bottom feeding, greedy *beep* you'd find tricking teachers into working into the abominable f aux schools in Vietnam and China. But most people don't have many illusions about them coming in.
In the end though the most tragic thing about teaching in Oman, is that the government run schools are completely fake. Whether the ministry of manpower is complicit in the facades created by the recruitment middlemen I do not know. What I do know is that these kids that desperately need fair education are getting nothing of the sort. Anyone who has been to China, or Taiwan, or Japan or really anywhere outside of the Gulf understands immediately that if the future of Oman rests in the hands of the children who show up at their secondary schools, this country will be swallowed whole.
The fact that the administrators are complicit to the whims of the recruitment companies, and simply laugh off the insane policies of Oman's government ministry as they pass off the burdens to their underlings is the most frustrating aspect of teaching here.
If you are a teacher at the end of your rope, who just wants some money for retirement by all means come to Oman and zone out for a couple of years. If anyone is thinking of coming here in their prime, for the love of the job, for the chance to experience a culture through communicating in the classroom, or to have a better idea of the greater middle east. Stay home, or take a pay cut and go back to Asia.
For teachers, the job here carries the same possibility as the landscape between Sohar and Salalah, rocky waste. |
Agreed. One goes to Oman for the $$. Nothing else. At least this is true at the MoM colleges. If you do go, be sure you get all the information you need to make an informed decision. Get your contract and read it, contact teachers on the ground at your target schools, read info here, and ask for info here. Do your homework before getting on a plane. |
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desultude

Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 614
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:28 pm Post subject: |
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Not all university jobs in Oman are placed by recruiters.
I doubt all recruiters are evil.
Not all mature faculty are waiting to either get enough money to retire, or to die.
Some of us are here to do our jobs well. Not to move the Earth, or accelerate the modernization of Oman, but to teach well, and enjoy our lives in a pretty spectacular place. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:18 pm Post subject: Re: The Rose Colored Glasses need to shatter |
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ThaneKerner wrote: |
Agreed. One goes to Oman for the $$. Nothing else. At least this is true at the MoM colleges. |
Really? Considering that Oman is by far the lowest pay in the Gulf and always has been, I can't imagine going to Oman for the money. If one is only looking for money with a limited CV, go to Saudi.
WellRoundedSquare: And I don't think the information here about these recruiter jobs has been through rose-colored glasses. I and many others have panned them since they appeared... and tried to warn people to have lowered expectations because of their poor managements and problematic teaching staffs since they don't seem to bother with things like interviews or checking credentials. Not to mention that many of their locations are well off the beaten path in places with limited amenities.
WellRoundedSquare wrote: |
Oman is moving along the same trajectory that the Emirates, Kuwaitis and Bahrainis have slid down.
15 Years ago the Emirati's were encouraging, friendly, and genuine.
10 Years ago Oman took up this mantle. |
Well I was in both the Emirates and Oman at those time periods and this doesn't quite match my experience. From the 80's the Omanis were the friendliest and most genuine of the Gulf Arabs - along with the Bahrainis. By the time I reached the Emirates in the early 90s, Emiratis were already competing with the Kuwaitis and Saudis on the arrogance scale. This is all related to national wealth differences. Omanis and Bahrainis will always have to work for a living whereas in the rest of the Gulf the oil wealth spoils them. (IMHO) Have both Oman and Omanis changed over the years? Of course. There was a big change between my first job in the late 80s and my second around 2000. That is only natural what with satellite TV and the internet arriving. Naturally what we consider to be good or bad changes will probably not agree with the Omani opinion of those changes. Yes, of course the students are no longer mostly innocent well-behaved village kids. One requires more classroom management skills now. To find the old traditional Oman - and it is still there - one has to venture farther and farther off the beaten track. (check out this link: http://pinaki.info/index.htm )
I am wondering how it is that you can claim - "rarely or never does it happen to an entire nationwide educational system simultaneously." As an apparent newbie to the Gulf and Oman, how can you already be so knowledgeable about the "entire system" and its history and changes. I would expect that you only know about your branch of the Ministry colleges and the present - which is only one subset of the nationwide educational system - and are incorrectly extrapolating that experience to the whole country/system.
As desu pointed out, there are lots of non-recruiter jobs in Oman if you have a good CV and can pass an interview. Sorry that things didn't meet your expectations. (and it does sound like culture shock to me... try not to let it ruin your chance to experience the good things Oman has to offer...)
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WellRoundedSquare
Joined: 07 Aug 2009 Posts: 28 Location: New York
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:28 am Post subject: |
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The inherent problem VS is that Omanis have to work. Yet they can't and don't as a whole.
Since Wikipedia seems to be the only source of information that is tossed about here, I'll give some updated information from the Ideation Center. Booz Hamilton's Middle Eastern Policy Research Center.
Oman as of last year has an unemployment rate of 15%. This would normally be pretty terrible, but the fact is that expatriates cannot become citizens unless they've been here for 20 years and they can't loaf about without a work visa.
So this 15% unemployment rate coincides with the fact that 70% of jobs in Oman are done by expatriate labor. So Omanis take up 30% of the work force and have a massive unemployment rate.
Things might move slower in Oman, but the birthrate certainly doesn't because more than 60% of the Omani population is under 20 years old.
So for you budding sociologists out there, what happens when you have massive unemployment and a huge young population? Add to the fact that the majority of educational institutions are being hamstrung by mismanagement and being "gamed" by self-serving recruitment companies.
Stay tuned I guess...I'm just going through culture shock, what do I know. |
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Pikgitina
Joined: 09 Jan 2006 Posts: 420 Location: KSA
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 1:46 pm Post subject: |
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Okay. But now you're there. And you will probably be there for at least a year if you've signed a one-year contract and intend to finish it. Don't you think it's worth it to try and find some good things to focus on and think about? Something that would make your time there at least bearable, if not enjoyable.
Also, many of us here in the Gulf and Oman are young and we CHOSE to come here, knowing the game and what things are about, and yet, choose to stay. The reasons are varied, but of course, the good salaries and generous leave (etc!) always have something to do with it. Personally, I prefer living and teaching here. I'd rather have a slightly out-of-hand group of students than a group of Taiwanese students who refuse to open their mouths in a conversation class, for example (and sorry for the stereotype).
Again, if you plan on staying, find a way to deal with it. I, and many others, know how you feel. Socialise, make friends, do things at the weekend and in the evenings that get your mind off things. When you're at work, perhaps try and focus only on your own teaching and what you can do in class. Maybe this is one of those few places in the world where the bigger picture doesn't really "matter" that much, simply because we, as foreigners, cannot change the system. But it's still possible to teach good lessons and perhaps help one or five students.
My intention is not to preach to you, just to say that I've really felt what you're feeling now and have come to terms with it and have found/am trying to find ways to make it work (even if it's just inside my little bubble), because I want to. It can be rewarding and some of them do learn and improve.
Good luck! |
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jdl

Joined: 06 Apr 2005 Posts: 632 Location: cyberspace
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 1:49 pm Post subject: |
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Actually, WellRoundedSquare, you know more than you think. Give yourself some credit.
As one continues to gain experience and some maturity in the work world all that which seems so foreign, different and 'wrong' will come into focus and a context for interpreting and integrating new information will evolve.
Gradually facts will become a means by which one can understand the world rather than the tools for supporting a strongly but narrowly held point of view.
Make the best of your stay in Oman.....enjoy, experience, learn.
Great advice Pikgitina |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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jdl

Joined: 06 Apr 2005 Posts: 632 Location: cyberspace
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 2:13 pm Post subject: |
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John,
Thanks for the ideation link. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 2:50 pm Post subject: |
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Dear jdl,
As you may have noticed, the Ideation Center seems rather upbeat about the region:
"Surrounded by tension and unnoticed by many observers, the nations of
the Middle East are building their own kind of sustainable prosperity."
But then, it's produced by a company that has a LOT of commercial interests there, and so, it could be considered, perhaps, to be a "puff piece."
Should we heed the words of Public Enemy: "Don't Believe the Hype?"
Regards,
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