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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 4:27 pm Post subject: |
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The phones were down completely for a week because of road construction near the college. This also affected their internet access. They are now in the process of catching up. I suspect that interviews are not the top priority in the middle of the semester. There is no large HR department to jump to your every whim and demand. They also read this board. Rants do not leave positive impressions...
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alter ego

Joined: 24 Mar 2009 Posts: 209
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 11:41 pm Post subject: |
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How did you become so good at having all the answers to everything going on in Oman? How would you know if "they" read this board? Who are they, anyway, your close friend? If you have a friend there and you know so much about what's going on, why not include some useful info that others here can use to make an informed decision about taking a job there?
This college posted job ads at least one month ago for short course positions beginning at the end of March or beginning of April. It's now the middle of March. If the phones have been down for a week, and you say this affected their internet access, why did I receive an email from them on March 13th? That sounds pretty fishy to me.
And why does what I write here need to leave a positive impression on anyone at Oman Tourism College? What I write here is supposed to be anonymous, isn't it? What you wrote sounded like some a veiled threat, like I should be careful of what I write. That's a laugh, really. My posts here have been on topic, and my own impressions how the hiring and interview process went for me. And yet you still have the smugness to suggest my impressions of them are less important than their impressions of me.
Of course I've already decided not to take a job there, so I could care less what you or anyone at OTC thinks of my so-called mild rant, which I admitted to in the first place. And I must also admit that you're one tough headmaster. I guess now I'll have to stay after class and write 100 times on the board: I shall not question the hiring practices of any colleges in Oman, I shall not question the hiring practices of any colleges in Oman...  |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:10 am Post subject: |
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Obviously you don't read well. I already posted that I knew people there. People that I have known for about 20 years and worked with for some years. Who they are is NOYFB. People who are polite often get answers to specific questions if I can get the details... people who insult and demand get exactly what they deserve...
Everyone in the Gulf is aware of this board and many read it. You are dead easy to identify. How many of their applicants are from China do you think? You even provided them with part of the emails you received. Your posting history is available for anyone to read.
Needless to say if you still wanted the job, I sincerely doubt that you would be getting an offer. They don't need people with attitudes like yours.
Good luck in your future endeavors.
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Buffalo Boy
Joined: 02 Oct 2009 Posts: 80
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:44 am Post subject: |
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I got my interview rescheduled for next Saturday. They also gave some clarifications about the phone and timetable problems. The position starts in September.
The pay is in the $3000 range- will this be enough to live on in Muscat? I have a wife and preschool age son. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:39 am Post subject: |
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Is this the total package or do you have to pay the rent out of that amount?
Either way you should be able to live on it and save some. It always depends on lifestyle, of course. What would take a big bite out of it would be also paying your son's school fees out of that amount once he hits school age.
Good Luck on the interview.
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Neil McBeath
Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 277 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:19 am Post subject: Oman Tourism College |
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"Everyone in the Gulf is aware of this board and many read it"
Are you sure?
My experiences have been that most people dismiss it with a shrug. I've just come back from TESOL Arabia 2010, where I used selected quotes from some of the more off-the-wall posts.
Judging by the laughter, this material was entirely new to the audience....
...as it was when I did the same thing, with different material, at the SQU Research Symposium last month.
People on Dave's often suffer from the frog-in-the-well syndrome. They think that the sky is as big as the mouth of the well. |
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boundforsaudi

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Posts: 243
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:43 am Post subject: |
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Sure they were laughing with you and not at you? |
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alter ego

Joined: 24 Mar 2009 Posts: 209
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 5:31 am Post subject: |
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veiledsentiments wrote: |
Obviously you don't read well. I already posted that I knew people there. People that I have known for about 20 years and worked with for some years. Who they are is NOYFB. People who are polite often get answers to specific questions if I can get the details... people who insult and demand get exactly what they deserve...
Everyone in the Gulf is aware of this board and many read it. You are dead easy to identify. How many of their applicants are from China do you think? You even provided them with part of the emails you received. Your posting history is available for anyone to read.
Needless to say if you still wanted the job, I sincerely doubt that you would be getting an offer. They don't need people with attitudes like yours.
Good luck in your future endeavors.
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Oh my goodness nice side rant. So it's okay for you to rant but not okay for anyone else? Your rants make a good impression and ours don't? It's okay for you to get a little combative here but not for anyone else? Oh, okay, I get it.
I never asked you to tell us the NAME of your close friend who works there, just to provide us (not just me, everyone who is or in my case was up for a job there) some useful insider information. Other posters in this thread have been polite to you and yet you still haven't posted any concrete details about the salary, the housing, the location, the teaching conditions, the work load, and so on and so forth.
And if you're so close to that friend of 20 years, why are you asking questions like this:
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Is this the total package or do you have to pay the rent out of that amount? |
Why not just ask your friend if the salary package includes a housing allowance or not? Surely this friend of yours, whom you appear to be conspiring with to discover my true identity and breaking my anonymity here, could answer such salary and housing questions for you.
In my opinion, you are one of the most insulting posters in the Oman forum. How do you know exactly what I deserve? Again, in my opinion, that's just an unbelievable comment to make here.
And how do you know I'm "dead easy" to identify? Why do you seem so interested in hurting my chances as a job candidate at Oman Tourism College? Doesn't your attitude here go against the forum guidelines of protecting the anonymity of all posters? Don't attitudes like yours make this forum a much less safe place to express our ideas and concerns regarding our careers as teachers? I certainly think so.
Aren't you crossing over the line of protected anonymity here? What are you doing, conferring with your friend to find out exactly who I am, and then providing the information to Marion so she knows who I am? That's what it sounds like you're doing. And that's just plain crazy.
Why are you taking this so personally, because I wasn't polite to you? Well, you're not very polite either to anyone who challenges your posts and stands up to your know-it-all mentality.
I stand by posting history here, and I'm smart enough to know that including a few personal details in my posts could give away my identity to someone inside the college. But you're not with the college. You have no association with OTC, except for a close friend who you say teaches there. I think you've over stepped your bounds (only the moderators can say for sure) by suggesting you have taken what I write here and used it against me, which means you're taking away my anonymity to the point that you feel justified in saying you sincerely doubt I'll be getting a job offer.
Huh? You use the acronym NOYFB (even though I never asked you to tell me the name of your friend), yet that's exactly what you're doing, which is putting your nose into the business of who gets a job at OTC and who doesn't. That takes the cake, man. That's stooping to such a low level of behaviour it's just plain sad. I feel sorry for you, VS.
You say they don't need people with attitudes like mine? How do you know so much about me and my attitudes, because of my posts here? That's just a bunch of baloney. And again, who are they? You say you have one friend there, does this mean you're using information collected here on Dave's ESL and providing it to more than just one person? And since you seem to be speaking for Oman Tourism College here, I could say the same thing: I don't need people with attitudes like yours, either.
Good luck to you, too. Rock on, kitty cat. |
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alter ego

Joined: 24 Mar 2009 Posts: 209
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 7:32 am Post subject: |
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Buffalo Boy wrote: |
I got my interview rescheduled for next Saturday. They also gave some clarifications about the phone and timetable problems. The position starts in September.
The pay is in the $3000 range- will this be enough to live on in Muscat? I have a wife and preschool age son. |
My best guess (since no one here, including those who supposedly have close friends teaching at Oman Tourism College, neither seem to want or are able to offer any real info) the $3,000-range won't include housing. Or it does include housing, but the base salary is around $1,000 OMR.
Either way, I think that's probably about as high as small colleges like OTC pay, which is pretty good if you don't have anything better. I saw what appeared to be some suitable apartments within a 30 minute drive from the campus for around $1,000 usd a month, not including utilities, so that puts you at $2,000 before your other typical expenses like travel (I hear buying a car is your best option, but you need money up front), food, clothing, and in your case school expenses.
The campus is located in an area where there don't seem to be many affordable apartments, so you might end up living a commutable distance from where you work, which means a lot of driving time. I guess that's okay. Just how easy it is to find a good, affordable apartment where your wife and child feel safe and happy is anybody's guess, since even those with close friends at OTC think posters must be polite to them to earn the right to such privileged information.
I think my wife and I could probably save around $1,000 usd a month in Oman with me working 40 hours a week at OTC. That's a lot of hours though and it's more like a regular office job than what I've got teaching in China, where I'm saving around $1,500 a month with a very flexible schedule (lots of in-between time between classes at home rather than a 40-hour straight grind) teaching at a polytechnic and working outside at a private language school and international hotel.
So it's not really worth it for me anyway. I'm sure a lot of people are probably happy and saving between $1,000-$1,500 a month depending on their lifestyles and so on.
Good luck, and if you do get the job, and if you ever decide to share your insider info on the place, please try not to dole it out as though you were a trainer at the zoo offering treats and titbits to only well-behaved animals with proper attitudes!  |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:15 pm Post subject: |
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Luckily I didn't have to do anything to ruin your chances Mr AlterEgo... you take care of that yourself and a fine job you did.
Basically the main group of people who spend time on this board are those who are looking for a job. Just keep thinking that managements around the Gulf don't read this board and continue to be yourself... polite and gentlemanly at all times.
It isn't my responsibility to provide you or anyone else with every tiny detail of the conditions of every employer in the Gulf. That is what interviews are for if you manage to get that far. People who are polite will often move me to do some emails for them... but for people who demand... not a chance.
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:30 pm Post subject: |
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My experience of the Middle East (20 years worth) demonstrated to me time and time again the value of this old adage:
"You can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar."
Leaving aside for the moment the question of who would want more flies, I saw so many examples of teachers who thought aggressiveness and pushiness would get them what they wanted.
I never saw that work.
On the other hand, politeness, courtesy, a smile, a genial attitude would often open many doors.
Of course, if it's not in one's nature to be this sort of person, I suppose a certain amount of hypocrisy would be required, but for those who are easy-going and considerate to begin with, it just comes naturally.
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