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Flightly
Joined: 31 Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: England
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:42 pm Post subject: Signing Your Life Away |
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I think you've really got to ask yourself if the accumulative amount of money that you can earn in this country if you sign and commit yourself to an ESL contract is that worth it if you knew that you'd be signing your life - or is it individuality? - away; where you become controlled, owned, where anything remotely dignified becomes stripped away; where your passport is witheld right up until the last moment.
If you're lucky enough to get fired, it could be because of two likely scenarios:-
you can't bring yourself to 'teach' under a rigimen where too much paperwork is involved,
or that you can no longer handle classroom situations where the students are lying and two-faced, or vice-versa.
But to put it simply, would you honestly sign your life away if you knew the prospects are as silent as the grave, are as a ghost town, are as a mortuary where everyone is far away from each other; a deathliness broken only by the rustling of palm leaves in gentle breezes or the drawn-out intermittent wailing from loudspeakers which signifies a call to join in one of the several daily prayer sessions? |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 12:52 pm Post subject: |
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.........................so you won't be coming back ? The fact that so many cannot make it here has an influence on keeping wage levels relatively high. Long may that continue. Please go on telling people how awful it is here. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:29 pm Post subject: |
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Sign your life away? Personally, i've never signed up for more than one year at a time. If it was as bad as you say it is, people would never renew. But they do. Often for several years longer than they ever thought they would
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But to put it simply, would you honestly sign your life away if you knew the prospects are as silent as the grave, are as a ghost town, are as a mortuary where everyone is far away from each other; a deathliness broken only by the rustling of palm leaves in gentle breezes or the drawn-out intermittent wailing from loudspeakers which signifies a call to join in one of the several daily prayer sessions? |
Did you submit this to the 6th form essay writing contest? You might even win it! |
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Sheikh N Bake

Joined: 26 Apr 2007 Posts: 1307 Location: Dis ting of ours
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:40 pm Post subject: |
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Cleopatra wrote: |
Sign your life away? Personally, i've never signed up for more than one year at a time. If it was as bad as you say it is, people would never renew. But they do. Often for several years longer than they ever thought they would
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But to put it simply, would you honestly sign your life away if you knew the prospects are as silent as the grave, are as a ghost town, are as a mortuary where everyone is far away from each other; a deathliness broken only by the rustling of palm leaves in gentle breezes or the drawn-out intermittent wailing from loudspeakers which signifies a call to join in one of the several daily prayer sessions? |
Did you submit this to the 6th form essay writing contest? You might even win it! |
Ha ha! How about the mosques "chanting in raspy, hideous screeching noises. If you�re in a residential neighborhood you can hear seven or eight mosques at a time; the result is a mixed cacophony of severely off-key screeching and yammering. It�s like seven mad voices in your head all at once and all trying to drown each other out and assume dominance, and you wonder if you�ve become schizophrenic. Or what the hell you�re doing here if you�re not crazy."
I wrote that about 13 years ago while I was enjoying my new work place of Dubai; now, back in the magical tragical kingdom, I've found new mental mechanisms to tune out the wails. As long as I get to keep going home at noon daily and adding to my retirement portfolio. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:42 pm Post subject: |
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Maybe I'm odd, but I actually like hearing the call to prayer (not at dawn, of course!) It's one of the few 'authentic' experiences in the normally sterile Kingdom. |
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Sheikh N Bake

Joined: 26 Apr 2007 Posts: 1307 Location: Dis ting of ours
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:48 pm Post subject: |
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The one near me likes to authenticate the destruction of my eardrums when I'm out jogging. Hey, I take in stride...like a starship trooper. Whatever that means. Oh--they're coming to take me away, ha ha, they're coming to take me away, ho ho, ha ha, hee hee! |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 1:52 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Flightly,
"But to put it simply, would you honestly sign your life away if you knew the prospects are as silent as the grave, are as a ghost town, are as a mortuary where everyone is far away from each other; a deathliness broken only by the rustling of palm leaves in gentle breezes or the drawn-out intermittent wailing from loudspeakers which signifies a call to join in one of the several daily prayer sessions?"
And the downsides are . . . . ???
Regards,
Silence is Golden John |
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Flightly
Joined: 31 Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: England
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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Of course I know that some people renew their contracts, and stay for several years, but I can't believe that even the 'long' stayers are foolproof from an onset of boredom. I thought one of the other teachers I was working with was, until my flatmate told me otherwise.
The fact that I'm now no longer there has caused me to reflect whether I really made the best decision for myself in going there in the first place. And why was my flatmate envious of my repatriation? The only conceivable reason why he's staying on is because of the Big Buck. He can't wait for the vacations to come, and then the rest to go.
You might think otherwise if you had to 'teach' under mountains of paperwork, had to rush to every class, had to lock students out, had your schedule changed more times than you've had hot dinners in a week, had your overtime pay craftily reduced, and had to get up at 5 a.m. every morning because the school is 30 mins away by car or van, and made some of your weekends off, short, and at least had some of your coffee breaks compromised.
I might add that it's now very nice getting up when I want to, and not being controlled by some heirarchical bigwig.
Hate to disappoint you, but I'm no longer in the 6th form. I didn't know my writing was that good ----- or is it that bad? |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:02 pm Post subject: |
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I can't believe that even the 'long' stayers are foolproof from an onset of boredom. |
"An onset of boredom" (sic) is hardly the same thing as 'signing your life away' though, is it?
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And why was my flatmate envious of my repatriation? |
I dunno. Ask him. Was there any particular reason why he could not have left himself at the end of his contract, or before that if he hated it so much? Or were his reasons for staying greater than his reasons for leaving, as they tend to be for those of us who decide to stay in KSA?
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at least had some of your coffee breaks compromised. |
Coffee breaks 'compromised'? WEll now that you mention it, maybe your life really wasn't worth living...
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I might add that it's now very nice getting up when I want to, and not being controlled by some heirarchical bigwig. |
It's called working for a living. Those of us not lucky enough to have won the lottery find that we spend a large part of our lives doing just that. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:41 pm Post subject: |
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Cleopatra wrote: |
It's called working for a living. Those of us not lucky enough to have won the lottery find that we spend a large part of our lives doing just that. |
Are there not working people everywhere in the world in all kinds of jobs living lives of "quiet desperation"? At least most people who walk out of Saudi at the end of the contract have some savings...
VS |
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Flightly
Joined: 31 Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: England
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:44 pm Post subject: |
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Because he hadn't, as yet, found a better position for himself in a nearby or another country.
So you would like to proctor tests on one of your days off and not see any overtime pay for that?
Hate to disappoint, but I'm quite capable of sticking out the work ethic, and that job thank you very much, but now that I'm no longer there, it doesn't apply at the moment. I've only been back a few days.
And hate to disappoint, my life's very fine, thanks.
If the KSA's OK for you, then bully for you. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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Next time you see a working stiff driving a bus, or a guy digging up the road for new pipes, or a waitress serving breakfast, ask them if they are "truly fullfilled". The world of work seems to be alien to you, as it is to many of the misfits I come across in TEFL-land.
Buddy, you have some growing up to do ! |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:55 pm Post subject: |
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So you would like to proctor tests on one of your days off and not see any overtime pay for that? |
Not especially, but there are lots of things I wouldn't like to do but yet have done as I'm not fortunate enough to be a millionaire. Among them are having to get a bus, metro and tram to some suburban office to teach for 2 hours, then have to return back to school for an evening shift. Thankfully, none of my jobs in KSA have required me to do anyting as onerous as that.
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Are there not working people everywhere in the world in all kinds of jobs living lives of "quiet desperation"? At least most people who walk out of Saudi at the end of the contract have some savings... |
Exactly. Most of us are not lucky enough to land our 'dream jobs'. Most jobs in KSA have their fair share of annoyances, but they tend to pay well and are not usually overly stressful. I'd still rather teach at some uni in KSA, with all the silliness and irritation which goes with it, than eke out a lving in some language school in Europe. Been there and done that, no wish to go back. But you wont' find me over on the European boards telling people they're 'signing their lives away'. Whatever works for you and all that. |
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desultude

Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 614
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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scot47 wrote: |
.........................so you won't be coming back ? The fact that so many cannot make it here has an influence on keeping wage levels relatively high. Long may that continue. Please go on telling people how awful it is here. |
Relative to what? I make as much in Oman as I did in Saudi Arabia. Now, it has to be kept in mind that there is no gender discrimination when it comes to wages in Oman (at least where I work_ this I know for a fact), and I know many men in Saudia who made more than I did, with considerably less education and experience.
Which is another point in favor of the OPs position: can you in good conscience work in a place that actively and overtly practices the most egregious forms of discrimination- not just in terms of gender, but in terms of race and national origin? It made me really angry that non-white workers, including fellow faculty, were paid less due to the color of their skin.
Yes, there is discrimination in Oman, but nowhere like in the Kingdom. I lived in the south of the US in the 50's and 60's- the discrimination and abuse there was less than in Saudia today.
You can choose your employers, etc, but in the end, you have your own conscience to deal with.
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desert_traveller
Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 335
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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anything for money man
we all have a price tag
(and now run for cover) |
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