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Capergirl



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 07, 2004 4:50 pm    Post subject: Re: In defence of the overweight Reply with quote

Otterman Ollie wrote:
The fact is I don't know anyone who is the correct weight for their height and who is happy they are ALL miserable . Too busy worrying about that ounce they just put on sad very sad .


I am the correct weight for my height. I know lots of people who are. The problem I seem to have is with jealousy from overweight people (not all, only some and mainly women). I have been accused of having an eating disorder. I also get the comment, "Oh, you're so lucky to be able to eat what you want and stay thin". Rolling Eyes First of all, I don't have an eating disorder. I don't diet, I don't make myself sick, I don't overexercise, and I certainly don't obsess over my weight. As a matter of fact, I don't even own a scale and only weigh myself at doctor's visits. Furthermore, I am not "lucky". I eat healthy food 90% of the time and I exercise. If I want a doughnut or a piece of pie, then I'll have it. When you eat right most of the time, you can indulge in treats and it doesn't make a difference. It is what you do the majority of the time that matters. If you eat at McDonald's every day, don't gripe at me about being "lucky" to be thin. I'd like to stay on this planet long enough to raise my daughter and see her accomplish her adult goals, so I take whatever steps necessary to keep the odds high that I will.

Sorry for the rant, guys. Razz I'm just tired of listening to this BS all the time. I certainly don't make snide comments to overweight people, so I don't see why some of them feel it's okay to make them to thin people.

To the OP: North America has cornered the market on obesity. There are many theories about the whys and the hows, but I don't have any answers for you. Nonetheless, I have seen Korean and Taiwanese women obsess about their weight every bit as much as Canadian and American women. They may not have the obesity rate we have here, but many do have similar poor attitudes and low self-esteem issues. Health, rather than weight, is the real issue, IMHO.
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Mark-O



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 07, 2004 5:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

... and now the issue of HEIGHT!

I hear that the Dutch are a lofty lot and all of those I have met have been tall (as well as ultra-polite, charming and linguistically blessed). The Bolivians on the other hand - more specifically the native Andean people - were pint-sized in stature. I was told that this is due to the generations of inbreeding - the only means of procreation in their isolated communities.

The myth of asian men being notoriously short was shattered when I went to Japan. I saw hordes of men who were tipping the 6 foot mark.
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denise



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 07, 2004 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Capergirl--

Regarding Korean and Taiwanese women obsessing over their weight--I have seen a similar trend here. Women who are slender and petite by just about any definition of the words still think they need to lose weight?!?!

A female friend pointed out to me that the models/mannequins here do not look as abnormally thin as they do in the States. I suggested that it was because the people here are generally so thin that models actually reflect reality, instead of creating impossible standards.

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Lynn



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 07, 2004 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Americans are the fattest people. I'm 5'6" (166.2cm) and with the exception of pregnancy or thyroid, I will never let myself become fat. I've given myself a limit(144lbs). I'm nowhere near that now.

In Japan and Korea, I found many of my female friends/co-workers to be the same size as me. My feet were bigger though, 8.5 (25.5cm)

In the states, no one has every been envious of my figure becaue I have a flat bum.
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Will.



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 07, 2004 10:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ireland was the place with the smallest, it was all those "little people".
America in the seventies was the place with the fattest people I was shocked at the size of them. The Uk is now approaching the same level as the Us was then.
Thailand seemed to have the happiest, nicest people.
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Shaman



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 12:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The problem with North America is the notion of consumerism. To consume - as much as one possibly can. The portions in a restaurant in North America usually border on the ridiculous notion that bigger is better. What a winning concept. Wink

I don't put much stock in the notion of height/weight ratio either. There is a vast difference between obese weight vs. muscle mass weight. Many professional athletes would be considered overweight by these generalized measures.

Shaman
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lostinparis



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 10:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've noticed there are also generational differences when it comes to height and size.

All the little vieux papies and vieilles mamies in France are really tiny little people. I'm 5'9" and I look like a giant next to most of them.

Also, all of my older Japanese relatives (grandparents, great aunts, uncles etc) from Japan are tiny people. But the new generation of Japanese in my family (most notably my two cousins who grew up with me in Los Angeles) are both over 6 feet.

Something has definitely changed in the diet to make people get so tall in two generations. Example: my Japanese grandmother is 5'2", her son (my uncle) is 5'8," his sons are 6'1" and 6'2." Wondering now what my cousins grandkids will look like! Maybe they can join the NBA.
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yaramaz



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 11:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think someone mentionned this before but I will mention it again: here in Turkey, the women are really tiny. Small in stature, small in frame, small hands and feet... I am 5'7'' and I feel enormous. I am also the same height as many of my male friends as well, if not taller. Yes, the men are small too- looking at the guys walking down the street in their painted on jeans, I wonder where in those micro-hips they find space for the necessary internal organs.

However, a thing to note: the kids are getting fat. My students stuff themselves with fat and sugar during every break and sometimes during the lesson if I dont catch them. They dont get much exercise, aside from phys ed. class- they are bussed in and out of the suburbs where they live in vast concrete blocks of flats with very few if any parks or green space or playgrounds. They do homework and play video games all night and weekend. They hang out at McDonalds during their free time. I'm not sure they will be as small as the older generations.

I am Canadian... but I have never liked junk food and have always exercised (for my sanity, mostly). I am well within the 'normal' weight range for my height. And yet... I am still bigger (taller, larger frame, etc) than many of the the Turks who live on lots of oily fatty sugary food and live a sedentary lifestyle.

Maybe it is genetic, maybe it is cultural.
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Stephen Jones



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 1:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

the main factor affecting height is nutrition in childhood. This explains the generational differences in Japan and Europe.
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Capergirl



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 08, 2004 5:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@Stephen Jones...I'm not sure I follow. Question
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yaramaz



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 6:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe he was referring to malnutrition in older generations which leads to stunted growth. Some of the older men and women here barely hit 5 feet in height. They grew up with more restricted access to nutritionally dense food, and certainly had no access to the excessive fats and proteins and simple sugars that their grandkids stuff themselves with. I heard this is similar to the elderly in Japan who endured years of hunger and deprivation. A more consistent, balanced diet leads to growth.
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Capergirl



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 11:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks, Yaramaz. Got it now.
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Shaman



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 1:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I read somewhere that calcium (ie. dairy) is not overly abundant in the Asian diet either. Bone density, formation etc....

Shaman
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khmerhit



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2004 3:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A lot of children in Cambodia have copper tints in their hair, caused (I think) by iodine deficiency, or perhaps general malnutrition in infancy.
Since most kids are thjin, anyway, you can really pick out the ones who didnt have enought to eat.
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