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Why is there so much negativity about every country?
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Spaceghost2



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 2:10 pm    Post subject: Why is there so much negativity about every country? Reply with quote

It seems to be that nearly every country or region's forum I click is full of negativity. Granted I am mostly interested in teaching in Asia but it seems every country has it's problems. The complaints seem to always outweigh the positive comments.

I'm sure this is down to people being more vocal when there is a problem and the ones having a good time have better things to do than post on a forum. I find it quite difficult to decide on a country because of this. Is the state of EFL really not that great around the world or is it limited to certain areas? Sometimes I feel as if I am trying to navigate through a minefield.

I have not been too interested in teaching in Europe as I am from the UK and would ideally like to go somewhere further afield but maybe employment conditions are better there. South America is another possibility but I have many friends from all over the region and most of them don't paint a positive image, which is probably why they are over here.

Every country seems to have it's share of shady schools, trying to sucker naive teachers. I want to stay positive and I know there are good schools out there that treat their staff with respect, but the impression I get from the forum is that these places are rare and the rest are like the Wild West.

Please let me know how you feel about this.
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denise



Joined: 23 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 2:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's not all doom and gloom. If you're properly qualified and present yourself well in interviews, jobs are easy to come by, and if you do a bit of research (including contacting current teachers), you can sort of weed out the bad ones. And after that, a lot of your experiences, and whether they are positive or negative, will depend on your personality and outlook. I have more or less enjoyed every place that I've been, but I am also realistic and I know that there will be annoyances--it's just a matter of finding things to balance them.

And yes, I do think it's far more common for people to post their complaints than their praise. I think it's part of the human psyche: we feel smarter or more competent or more... whatever... if we can point out flaws.

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Glenski



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 11:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've answered your own questions.

Not every country is perfect.
The complainers write more than people who are satisfied.

I would disagree a bit with denise, though, on what success you might have with good credentials. Even with some good research, you may land in a bad position. It's not always easy to tell.

Best advice is choose a country/region you find most interesting, and post specific questions about contracts or specific employers on this board, and hope that someone knows the answers to help you decide.

Few people IMO find themselves in a great job at the start. Keep that in mind.
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johntpartee



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 11:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I'm sure this is down to people being more vocal when there is a problem


That's it; 'nuff said.
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Justin Trullinger



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Location: Seoul, South Korea and Myanmar for a bit

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 1:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ever been anywhere, foreign or your own country, where people didn't gripe?

I've lived overseas for most of my adult life. If I didn't want to, I wouldn't. But sometimes I, and I think this is typical, need to vent.

A lot of what you see on these boards isn't in response to a generalized negativity- if people felt generally negative about life overseas, they'd go home. But sometimes they need to vent, and it's easiest to that where others can relate. This board is a place where a lot of people can relate to the struggles of life overseas, so people vent here.


Best,
Justin


PS- teaching overseas for a decade,a nd having a terrific time! SmileSmile
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scooby doo



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Culture shock. It hits almost everybody. This is a real condition and people don't realize how seriously it can affect them. Maybe that's a source of the negativity?
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 2:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's because the honeymoon phase ends and reality sets it. Speaking the language, blending in, getting accepted into the culture, moving up jobwise, etc, all take its toll.

People go with their rose coloured glasses on, but they come off fast. It can be tough living in a country for years, but never moving up because you were hired in-country, are white and not Asian, have a foreign ID number, so can't do half the stuff the locals can, or because you don't speak a language fluently.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 2:50 am    Post subject: Re: Why is there so much negativity about every country? Reply with quote

Spaceghost2 wrote:
It seems to be that nearly every country or region's forum I click is full of negativity. Granted I am mostly interested in teaching in Asia but it seems every country has it's problems. The complaints seem to always outweigh the positive comments.

Is the state of EFL really not that great around the world or is it limited to certain areas?

but the impression I get from the forum is that these places are rare and the rest are like the Wild West.

Even if you speak a language fluently, it's hard to "speak" the culture. I was in Peru nearly 6 years, and left once for three months, went back and finally left earlier this year. Towards the end it was very very difficult for me, and you'll see if you read the Peru forums. I had done everything I could to blend in, buy apartments, cars, get citizenship, change my name, go to workshops and conferences, be a speaker, learn the language, do an MA from there, marry a local, BUT jobwise I was always left behind BECAUSE I was in -country. And outside of the classroom, I was getting treated like a Peruvian woman, which meant men could leer, say sexual comments, or try to touch me. Granted, not all countries are like that, but they do have little things like that.

And TEFL probably has lots of grips because of pay. There are only a handful of good paying countries and it's hard for newbies to get into those. If they do, then work hours or treatment is often not as good.

A lot of the good jobs aren't advertised here, they're found through word of mouth or in-country advertising.

See, poeple think that with a passport from an English speaking country they can teach EFL, so there are lots of schools catering to those teachers and give them a place to live and 700 bucks a month. And that's how you get the Wild West
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GambateBingBangBOOM



Joined: 04 Nov 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 3:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you've ever been in the room with someone who is really very, very positive almost all the time, you've seen how a positive outlook on things is contagious. People naturally want to be happy around happy people.

The same is true of negativity. People come here to vent, and that's fine. But sometimes it can begin to get too much. In that case you need a break- a little pause from discussion boards. And this board is generally pretty good. The discussion board for JETs is really, really full of negativity and vitriolic attacks on other posters, their countries, and especially Japan. A