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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 6:15 am Post subject: |
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| MandyGirl77 wrote: |
Wow love reading this! Can I add a question?
Why have you NOT returned to your "home?" |
I want to one of these days (years), but, as mentioned previously, my quality of life would take a nose-dive. I need to save up a bit more money so that I will have a cushion and can afford to live paycheck-to-paycheck with part-time jobs and hourly pay back in the US. I don't want to end up in shared housing eating Top Ramen every night and worrying about whether or not I can afford to see a movie. I had enough of that lifestyle as a student.
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Rooster_2006
Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 984
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 6:58 am Post subject: |
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Main reason not to go home:
I think there's a special glory in becoming a successful immigrant. You start out with almost zero knowledge about the country in which you're living, but everyday, you become more and more knowledgeable. Your first breakthrough occurs when you speak the language well enough or have enough local knowledge to help out another foreigner. Eventually you "go native" and become an expert. It's the same kind of reward that a person would feel by pursuing a PhD, I guess. Once you become fluent in the local language and gain permanent residency, a huge number of awesome opportunities open up that either wouldn't open up at all back home, or wouldn't open up in the same way.
For examples of this, I look at people such as Thomas Blake Glover (Scotsman who "made it" in Japan during the Meiji Restoration), Debito Arudou (tenured professor in Japan, NJ rights activist), Stephen Revere (graduate of YSKLI's Korean teacher training academy, host of Arirang's "Let's Learn Korean"), Gary Rector (white guy who came to Korea in the 60s with the Peace Corps, naturalized, and is now a translator), etc.
For me, English teacher is just a temporary means to an end until I write my own success story.
I don't delude myself into thinking "the money is better here." I make about $1,200 a month. I'm taxed at 18%, leaving about $984 per month after taxes. I stay on this side of the world for non-economic reasons. |
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Shonai Ben
Joined: 15 Feb 2003 Posts: 617
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 8:13 am Post subject: |
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| why do I stay?........two reasons.......easy money and the women. |
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Teacher in Rome
Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Posts: 1286
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 9:11 am Post subject: |
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Since 1991, with a couple of years back in London and some travelling in Asia. 4 years in HK, 3 years in Netherlands, and in Italy since 2001.
I regularly go back to London for a shot of English-speaking culture, but wouldn't want to live there permanently. Ultimately I'd also like to buy a small flat in London - part investment against what might happen in Italy, and part temporary home.
Basil still the clear winner! |
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steki47
Joined: 20 Apr 2008 Posts: 1029 Location: BFE Inaka
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 9:23 am Post subject: |
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6 years total, all in Japan.
5 years straight, went back to the US for 6 months and came back last year. Real happy I did! |
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gaijinalways
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 2279
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 9:33 am Post subject: |
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I think the standard of living related with income is a big reason at the moment. The price of property is also very high too, but my wife's parents have helped us a bit with that.
Language and customs are not the main reasons I would stay here, but they're also not the main reasons I would leave either.
If I were to land a job stateside or get a business started that would support us at a similar level to what my wife is accustomed (been trying to work on that one), I would be gone in a heart beat. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 1:52 pm Post subject: |
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| Been teaching since 1998, all in Japan. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 4:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I had a spell back in Britain in the late 1970's and 1980's. Gave that up and returned to EFL-ing. Retirement is now on the horizon. I have made provision of a sort so that I can retire in genteel poverty. |
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jpvanderwerf2001
Joined: 02 Oct 2003 Posts: 1117 Location: New York
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 12:45 am Post subject: |
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Been living abroad since 2001:
Ukraine
Mexico
Argentina
India
Russia (currently)
Why haven't I gone home? EFL is a career for me, and I can make much more abroad than I could back in the States (where well-paid ESL positions are few and far between). I might go back one day; going to a different country or simply staying in Russia seem more probable prospects in the shorter-term, however. |
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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 3:15 am Post subject: |
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| scot47 wrote: |
| I had a spell back in Britain in the late 1970's and 1980's. Gave that up and returned to EFL-ing. Retirement is now on the horizon. I have made provision of a sort so that I can retire in genteel poverty. |
Genteel poverty? Is that what we can all look forward to if we plan carefully?
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