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natsume



Joined: 24 Apr 2006
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Location: Chongqing, China

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 4:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think I hear the students in my next class starting to bleat loudly, I need to rush off and tend to my pastoral minstrations.
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stefanreynolds



Joined: 12 Mar 2010
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PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 1:16 pm    Post subject: a few things to consider Reply with quote

firstly, a parent has the right to know what type of person is teaching their children , jpanes or not.
also, if you are proud of your lifestyle choices, should you not admit them to your employer?
and, do yu not have a duty to be honest with your employer?
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seklarwia



Joined: 20 Jan 2009
Posts: 1546
Location: Monkey onsen, Nagano

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 1:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you know the relationship status of every teacher in you area in your home country or any western English speaking country? Do you have to complete a form stating your sexual orientation, religion, political beliefs when you apply to be a teacher in your home country?

I'll tell you why you don't. Because denying work to a person based on these bits of personal information is discrimination.

Since public displays of affection are not really done as openly here as is normally the case in our home countries, if you were being respectful of the local customs, you wouldn't be exposing anyone to you orientation regardless of whether you were straight, lesbian, gay, bi, swinger or whatever. So your orientation would be even less relevant out here than back home.
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stefanreynolds



Joined: 12 Mar 2010
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PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 2:33 pm    Post subject: doesnt make sense Reply with quote

so why even worry about your same sex status, and why not just tell your employer the truth....?
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ShioriEigoKyoushi



Joined: 21 Aug 2009
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Location: Japan

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 2:58 pm    Post subject: Re: a few things to consider Reply with quote

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Glenski



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 3:18 pm    Post subject: Re: doesnt make sense Reply with quote

stefanreynolds wrote:
so why even worry about your same sex status, and why not just tell your employer the truth....?
You know darned well why, so please stop baiting people here.

You make veiled accusations about gay people being potentially dangerous to children, when you have nothing to back that up. I think this thread should be stopped, or you should be censured.

Just my opinion, though.
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stefanreynolds



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PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 4:22 pm    Post subject: calrification Reply with quote

its not my opinion that is important.... but your employers opinion...
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Mr_Monkey



Joined: 11 Mar 2009
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Location: Kyuuuuuushuuuuuuu

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So, if your opinion is not important why are you still posting here?
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peachy and danny



Joined: 04 Aug 2009
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PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 6:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, well! A bigot has finally infiltrated this message board! Boy, it's too bad gays don't have tattoos on their wrists so that you can track them. I hope this is not representative of foreigners in Japan. It's been so long since I've lived there, I guess I just assumed that homophobes belong in MY country (the USA). Hey stefanreynolds, I hear that the Japanese have a cultural prejudice against Japanese-Koreans. Why don't you show them how to hate the right way; the American way!
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Kionon



Joined: 12 Apr 2008
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Location: Kyoto, Japan and Dallas, Texas

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 6:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

peachy and danny wrote:
Well, well! A bigot has finally infiltrated this message board! Boy, it's too bad gays don't have tattoos on their wrists so that you can track them. I hope this is not representative of foreigners in Japan. It's been so long since I've lived there, I guess I just assumed that homophobes belong in MY country (the USA). Hey stefanreynolds, I hear that the Japanese have a cultural prejudice against Japanese-Koreans. Why don't you show them how to hate the right way; the American way!


Hey, hey. We're working on that. Okay, so Prop 8 hurt like hell, but at least it looks like DADT is finally on the cutting board...
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ShioriEigoKyoushi



Joined: 21 Aug 2009
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PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 10:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 11:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I "suggest" that all members contributing to this thread post only relevant to the topic of the thread and avoid comments in advance of personal agendas, trolling or simply baiting others.

If not, members choosing not to abide by this 'suggestion" will no longer be with us and the thread will continue assuming that it remains on topic and otherwise does not violate board policies, ToS, etc.

Members are requested to report inappropriate postings to the Mod Team as soon as possible by PM or Report Post mode.
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TokyoLiz



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Posts: 1548
Location: Tokyo, Japan

PostPosted: Sat May 15, 2010 2:29 am    Post subject: Trolls stay crunchy in milk Reply with quote

Momohime, like Shiori, I hope you got some value out of the information I posted above. For the most part, I have found that the Japan forum has been fun and sometimes informative. There are all kinds of people in this world and on the 'Net. I hope you meet the ones with whom you can have a meaningful dialogue about the cultures you come from.

Best of luck in your preparations.
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Cool Teacher



Joined: 18 May 2009
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Location: Here, There and Everywhere! :D

PostPosted: Sat May 15, 2010 3:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think its best to just say that you and a friend want to share an apartment. No need to rock the boat! Very Happy

P.S Ha ha! Briillinat post by ShiroriEigoKoshi! Cool You get 100 housepoints and a gold star! Very Happy
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