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veiledsentiments



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 3:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You must learn to read more carefully. I never said that one could not get toothpaste or shampoo in the UAE or the Gulf in general. This has nothing to do with 1990 or 2010... in the US or the UAE. In fact, your example proved exactly what I was saying. But, while you may be very flexible, not everyone is (or are you so young you haven't learned this yet?).

What I said was that if you have a favorite that you just MUST have, you better bring it. Especially for newbies... it allows them to have certain constants when everything else in their life is changing. But, perhaps you have been overseas to long to remember this.

VS
(Thanks helen1... I thought that my hearing might have been going... perhaps it depends on the nationality of the person hissing it at us)
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 26, 2010 3:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I get VS's meaning, but it's only for "sticklers"...such as myself. For example, it is IMPOSSIBLE to buy pre-shave lotion in the pan-Gulf region, So, if you want those whiskers to stand up before an electric shave...bring it. Luckily, a little goes a long way. The same goes with Coast soap. It's jes' sumpin' I gotsta have. So, the lil' missus makes sure that we have an adequate supply for me to be in all of my soapy glory.

If you can do without those certain individual items, then there's a lot to chose from. Back in the day, a Winston would suffice for a Marlboro...but there are some things that some folk won't substitute if they can help it...

NCTBA
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Iamherebecause



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Location: . . . such quantities of sand . . .

PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 7:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

On dress: I heard of one person who was criticised for letting midrif show at work. Or maybe she was fired? Speaking for myself I have sometimes worn clothes with short sleeves to work (middle of upper arm, not to elbow) since I arrived in the last century. No problem, no criticism. The only time I've heard of students complaining about teachers' appearance in feedback it was about a male teacher's hair.

On key products - there's nothing I can't find here these days although when I arrived (1999) there was plenty of stuff you couldn't get: sea salt for a salt mill, comfortable footwear, plain notepaper, greetings cards that weren't hideous. Available at the malls in Dubai maybe but not country-wide. I still buy most of my footwear at home. If you can't live without product X and it's also hard to get at home then bring it. If you can't live without products A, B, C, X, T and M etc - then maybe you are too set in your ways to live outside your home country.
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ummimraan



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2010 5:03 pm    Post subject: straight you shall get! Reply with quote

best work attire. . .if you are work for an international school regulair western judgment is fine. If you are working for one of the public schools it is either a skirt past the mid-calf, or pants with a shirt that covers the butt. Sleaves should be to the elbow. If you are a woman working in a boy's school they may require longer clothing, but I think this is the safest option. Many western teachers at my school (public school for girls) wear their normal clothes and purchase one or two abayas here that they use during school to throw on. This keeps them from having to buy a whole new wardrobe. I agree with veiledsentiments. . .as far as the dress code is concerned. I KNOW my principal is very particular about these things. Wink
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Neutrino Girl



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 11:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sheikh N Bake wrote:


I use www.drugstore.com occasionally. They deliver US products overseas via the US postal service. Here in a remote area of Saudi Arabia I received a good-sized parcel from them with various goodies including a four-month supply of EmergenC, a fizzy drink with not only vit. C but also a bunch of minerals and electrolytes. Shipping was $29


THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm nearly out of vitamins and my favorite lipstick that I can't get here...and now I can get them sent! Very Happy
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 12:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Neutrino Girl wrote:
Sheikh N Bake wrote:


I use www.drugstore.com occasionally. They deliver US products overseas via the US postal service. Here in a remote area of Saudi Arabia I received a good-sized parcel from them with various goodies including a four-month supply of EmergenC, a fizzy drink with not only vit. C but also a bunch of minerals and electrolytes. Shipping was $29


THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm nearly out of vitamins and my favorite lipstick that I can't get here...and now I can get them sent! Very Happy


Ok, just got onto the site, found one lipstick ($10) and the shipping costs US $57!!!! Shocked
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Sheikh N Bake



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 1:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think I may have confused the drugstore.com shipment cost with some other shipment via the US Mail express service for $29. With drugstore.com I ordered quite a bit of stuff including the four boxes of EmergenC, so it becomes worth it if you do need a lot of things. I don't remember what I paid for shipping. Don't they have a USPS option?
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veiledsentiments



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 1:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Neutrino Girl wrote:
Ok, just got onto the site, found one lipstick ($10) and the shipping costs US $57!!!! Shocked

Shocked indeed!! More reason to carry a few things in your luggage. Two shipments would nearly pay for an extra bag wouldn't it. (not sure what the excess baggage charge is these days...)

VS
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Sheikh N Bake



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 2:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The $57 would be a Fedex charge. As I said, if you order a lot of stuff, the Fedex charge becomes worth it. The fees don't go up much more than another $50 for a nice Care package.
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Opti



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 12:46 am    Post subject: Buying and shipping from the USA: MyUS.com Reply with quote

Hey Neutrino Girl - Here's a good company to use for shipping: http://www.myus.com/

As usual, it's more economical the more you ship. You will have to pay some duty because the duty guys always inspect couriered shipments (unlike the postal service), but you get your stuff FAST and reliably.
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Neutrino Girl



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 4:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sheikh N Bake wrote:
The $57 would be a Fedex charge. As I said, if you order a lot of stuff, the Fedex charge becomes worth it. The fees don't go up much more than another $50 for a nice Care package.


Yeah, it was FedEx and looks like a fixed rate for just one thing or quite a few things...so a nice big care package would make it worth it. I'm sure I can manage that. Wink
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Neutrino Girl



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 4:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sheikh N Bake wrote:
I think I may have confused the drugstore.com shipment cost with some other shipment via the US Mail express service for $29. With drugstore.com I ordered quite a bit of stuff including the four boxes of EmergenC, so it becomes worth it if you do need a lot of things. I don't remember what I paid for shipping. Don't they have a USPS option?


Unfortunately there is no option other than FedEx. But like you said, if you order a lot of stuff it's worth it anyway!
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Neutrino Girl



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 4:48 am    Post subject: Re: Buying and shipping from the USA: MyUS.com Reply with quote

Opti wrote:
Hey Neutrino Girl - Here's a good company to use for shipping: http://www.myus.com/

As usual, it's more economical the more you ship. You will have to pay some duty because the duty guys always inspect couriered shipments (unlike the postal service), but you get your stuff FAST and reliably.


I'll look into that, Opti...thanks!
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mishmumkin



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 6:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazycatlady wrote:
is it possible to dress like i normally do, and then throw on something long and flowing over my clothes for teaching? like keeping a big tunic and skirt in my office?

or do you need to show up on campus fully covered?


Best to be dressed appropriately on campus. Fully covered isn't necessary, but professional dresses is. People who teach in the segregated primary schools might find that they can be 'less covered' as everyone who works in the all-girl schools is female. For the tertiary job, someone made this suggestion above: skirt, t-shirt, jacket over hte top.s If you're teaching the women, then you can take the jacket off in the classroom.

As for shopping here, I will point out that I find the clothes more expensive than in the US (for the same things), and I've also noticed the quality of the Gap and other big name chains here is seemingly lower than their US counterpart. I don't know if QA for products sent here is different or not, but it seems that way. I'd also add that if you are above a size 12 womens US, shopping options are more limited.

For women, buying feminine products is trial and error. Some products are seemingly created for this market (or in this market), and they're not like what you might find at home. I've heard similar comments made about diapers, too. As said above, it is trial and error. You'll likely find what your preferred product or something comparable, but only after buying the wrong ones a few times. Smile If you're particular about tampons, bring a stash from home.

The selection of anti-perspirants is pretty decent...nothing like what it was when I first came in 1998. "Teen Spirit" was the only one on the shelf at Sharjah's King Faisal Spinneys. Smile Again, if you've got you're really particular, bring a stash for the first year. You can look for an alternative in the meantime. Same goes for hair styling products. Bring a stash until you find a suitable alternative.
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alien-resurrection



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 1:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Look everyone, the fact of the matter is that in the Gulf, there really is no such thing as a "straight answer". Rules, regulations and even laws here, ARE ALL NEGOTIABLE. If you are the sort of person who needs "Straight answers", then perhaps you shouldn't be here. This is part and parcel of living in Shari'ah land.
Part of the confusion and inconsistency, not just with clothing, but with so much else, is that basically, this part of the world was ruled by traditions, the whims of an emir and religious law. It is only recently that "laws and regulations" as we have come to know them in the West, have actually been instigated and so, are often haphazardly and inconsistently applied.
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