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Rakuten
Joined: 14 Jun 2010 Posts: 67 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sun Oct 10, 2010 6:50 pm Post subject: |
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My aim was not to put anyone on the spot here- nor was I directly calling anyone out, more making an overall claim in general about the particular question addressed by this topic.
That being said, I was more shocked than anything by the fact that so many not only admitted to not knowing or attempting to learn the language, but the fact that they don't even seem to care or regret that they've been living in a place for said number of years and still have a minimal grasp on the language. I went through 7 pages of this thread, expecting to see a few people respectfully in disagreement with the OP, and yet it seemed like the overwhelming majority were not only agreeing with the claims made, but also making an attempt to justify the fact. I was more so shocked by the overwhelming majority of ESL teachers not only not knowing the language of where they have been for 1, 2, 3, 4, 5? years and onwards, but also having little to no regrets for not having done so- and not feeling like it had any effects either way, negative or positive.
I'm wondering though, a common response was "I'm too busy with other things/pursuing other interests" and I wonder what other interests that any expat pursues in another country couldn't be enriched or made better/easier by also having a grasp on the local/regional language. Although language is a passion of mine, it's not my only interest. I love philosophy and traveling. One reason I opted to learn French was to be able to read the work of French philosophers in the native language/original text. I was so proud of myself when I finally was able to read Huis Clos in it's entirety, and understand it more fully than my English reading of it. The fact alone that I was able to do so, caused me even more pleasure and gave me a sense of pride, than even the content of the work itself (which was always one of my favourite works/plays).
While in Japan, I find that traveling around is infinitely more rewarding having a grasp of the language. Being able to read signs/maps as the more pragmatic, and having some of the most wonderful conversations/random encounters and meeting of friends through some amazing conversations and experiences when out traveling. Always though, in Japanese- as I found very few people outside of University Students/Study Abroad students studying the language have a strong grasp of English. The conversations I found myself having in English with Japanese speakers were often limited to a group of high/middle school students on a field trip at a popular castle/shrine and asking me to practice speaking with them/fill out a survey for their class project in English. Always, when a J-speaker found out I spoke Japanese, their preferred means of communication would be in Japanese, even if they did speak some English. In most cases, this was met with not only enthusiasm, but quite a bit of relief on their part.
However, these are limited to my experiences alone. I don't expect everyone to love language, but I just wanted to ask if maybe people who live in a place for an extended period of time give learning the language an attempt. Even though you may think it won't have an effect or is a waste of time, I strongly disagree with this- and think you may find that no matter what you are interested in, understanding the language and being able to more fully converse with people will only enrich and make what you like doing there, that much easier and more rewarding- even if you don't think so now.
Learning language takes time, but it's never something I've heard anyone express regrets about after the fact. Even if you are just teaching English for the now- and don't intend to be in involved with said country after your time there/in the future- it can't hurt the now, and you never know when it may come in handy. I guess my philosophy is why just "get by" with English, even if you can. Don't you want to spend however long of time you are there, doing more than merely getting by?
I didn't intend for my first post in this thread to sound hostile, it was more just shock, as I was surprised to hear so few regrets from many ESL teachers for not knowing the language, and not thinking knowing the language would enrich their experience in their country. Even if you don't think it's worth it, or will have any effect on your experiences, I ask you to at least give it a try and see if it doesn't make whatever else you like doing that much more rewarding as well. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sun Oct 10, 2010 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Rakuten,
I'm a voracious reader, about a book a week, at least. I'm surprised by how little my colleagues (English teachers all) read.
Do you think they are all just lazy?
Regards,
John
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mimi_intheworld
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 167 Location: UAE
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Posted: Sun Oct 10, 2010 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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Well, I'm still studying my Arabic. Even though apparently it's Egyptian Arabic and not UAE Arabic...but a girl's gotta start somewhere!
So I guess that puts me in the minority, but then, I've always thought we (English-speakers, but really everyone) need to learn more languages. When I went to school, learning a foreign language wasn't even a requirement for graduation...and that disturbed me, as I was studying two, added a third in university (which I have since let lapse - sorry, German-lovers) and keep picking up bits of new ones. I just think it's the right thing to do if you're going to travel: learn to communicate.
Arabic's going slowly, by the way. But I am very much enjoying the study! |
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naturegirl321

Joined: 04 May 2003 Posts: 9041 Location: home sweet home
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Posted: Sun Oct 10, 2010 10:41 pm Post subject: |
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Just a point on the "foreigner" thing. I've lived in Mexico for 9 years, speak Spanish, have a Mexican wife, have an apartment with the mortgage fully-paid, drive a locally bought (and built!) car, dabble in other business interests in Mexico, fully understand the culture to the point of thinking of writing a book about it, know more Mexican history than many Mexicans, etc, etc.
The point is, the only people who discuss my foreign-ness are my students. I'm grateful for that as I believe part of learning a language is knowing the culture it comes from. I always had the idea that living in a foreign country requires no compromise with the style of life you would choose in your country of birth. That is, most of us want the very best out of life that we can get. While I have absolutely no desire to apply for Mexican nationality (and I could right now) and in truth am not that enamoured of Mexico, I live here for the sake of my wife, and believe that I am as fully integrated as is possible. That wouldn't be possible if I didn't speak Spanish. |
I did the same in Peru. Even went as far as to get citizenship and contribute to books. I didn't like living there either. But different languages take more time to learn. Take Eastern ones, such as Cambodian or Chinese. Spanish and Italian are cake walks compared to those. |
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Perilla

Joined: 09 Jul 2010 Posts: 792 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 2:06 am Post subject: |
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| johnslat wrote: |
Dear Rakuten,
I'm a voracious reader, about a book a week, at least. I'm surprised by how little my colleagues (English teachers all) read.
Do you think they are all just lazy?
Regards,
John |
Nicely put John. Different courses for different horses. End of story. I can't understand why some people don't drink tea first thing in the morning. What's wrong with them? |
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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:18 am Post subject: |
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No, learning the language would not, in any remote way, help me with the other activities that I do, since the instructors use English. I actually started taking French lessons several months ago, just because I had that nagging thought of, "Well, I really should study another language..." But after a few 15-hour days that left me physically ill, I dropped French (not the local language anyway--but more appealing to me) and went back to my other activities, which were/are far bigger priorities.
I wasn't surprised at all to read the responses that were in agreement with the OP. I really think there are a lot of myths to living abroad: "It's the best way to learn the language," "You will immerse yourself in the culture..." etc. Sure, for SOME people in SOME countries/cultures, that may be the case. But apparently it seems that many of us realize that it is not always the case--somebody, a page or two back, even said something along the lines of "...and then I woke up and saw reality..."
I think people who categorize everyone who doesn't learn the language, have scores of local friends, marry into a local family, etc., as stupid/lazy have only ever had the luxury of living in places where it's common to do those things. Enjoy it while you can. If/when you move on to other places that are different, maybe you will understand the "lazy" perspective.
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riverboat
Joined: 22 May 2009 Posts: 117 Location: Paris, France
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 5:52 pm Post subject: |
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I've put a lot of effort into learning the language here, but then again I'm in France. And part of the reason I came was to learn the language.
I'd probably be surprised if someone who was living in a country that was French-speaking, Spanish-speaking, German-speaking, or basically where at least the alphabet was the same as English, didn't want to make an effort to learn the language to at least a pre-int level. The majority of teachers I come into contact with here make an effort to learn French, even if they're only planning on staying for a year. I've only met one or two who really didn't bother at all. I think that in these cases they did make an effort first, but gave up after not being immediately fluent after 2/3 months, and also realising that in fact it's perfectly possible to function here only speaking in English. That said, life is definitely a hell of a lot easier if you can speak French.
I can imagine though that in an Arabic or Asian country, where the language bears no resemblance to English whatsoever, the challenge would seem a lot greater and be a lot more time-consuming...depending on how long I was planning to stay, I probably wouldn't be chomping at the bit to struggle up such a steep hill, beyond the basics for shops, restaurants etc. |
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Iceman33
Joined: 08 Nov 2009 Posts: 91
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 1:29 am Post subject: |
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Native English speakers are often so intimidated with Arabic and Far East languages (and sometimes Russian, Finnish, and Hungarian, too). They really shouldn't be, even if they seem like a maze along the way. All languages can be learned fluently, provided you have normal intelligence and a strong desire to master it.
For French being "so much" easier, I know very few native English speakers who've, what I consider, mastered the language.
It is not linguistically wise to generally state that one language is easier than another. Comparing aspects of languages is much better and safer, once you've established the mother tongue of the learner and the language he is attempting to learn.
A native English speaker may pick up Japanese or Thai much more quickly than German or French, even if the "exotic" ones seem so bizarre. It happens.  |
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Insubordination

Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 394 Location: Sydney
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 1:40 am Post subject: |
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I don't want to judge or praise anybody. People need an incentive to learn a language. Showing respect for the host culture is not a strong one. Improving relationships and making daily life easier is.
If you decide to become a permanent resident/citizen, then not learning the language smacks of cultural imperialism. Some locals interpret foreigners living many years in a country and not bothering as a giant middle finger. Why should I? What I have is much better/more important. I don't want to associate with you. Maybe it's not true, but it's the impression people get.
Think of people in your home country who live in enclaves and don't learn English. What is the general attitude towards them?
I do think 'When in Rome...' is a good idea and respectful, but it depends if you're there for the long haul or just a working stint. |
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Perilla

Joined: 09 Jul 2010 Posts: 792 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 2:12 am Post subject: |
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| Insubordination wrote: |
| If you decide to become a permanent resident/citizen, then not learning the language smacks of cultural imperialism. Some locals interpret foreigners living many years in a country and not bothering as a giant middle finger. Why should I? What I have is much better/more important. I don't want to associate with you. Maybe it's not true, but it's the impression people get. |
This is oversimplifying a complex matter. If the country in question is monolinguistic and you marry into the local culture, live in the suburbs or the sticks and raise kids there, then yes, you have a point, and it would probably be difficult not to pick up the local lingo.
However, if the place in question is multilingual, the situation changes completely. In Singapore, Malay, Mandarin, Tamil and English are all official languages - which one would you pick? Maybe you'd stick with English?
And in any case, many long term TEFLers live in English-speaking enclaves, which often include plenty of English speaking locals too. No offence is caused because you don't really hang about among the 'local' population. There are many, many places like this - and they're increasing with the globalisation of English. |
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Sashadroogie

Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 11061 Location: Moskva, The Workers' Paradise
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 3:32 am Post subject: |
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| Iceman33 wrote: |
| ...provided you have normal intelligence and a strong desire to master it. |
This could be a whole other thread in itself. How much bearing, if any, does intelligence have on language-learning ability? |
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jonniboy
Joined: 18 Jun 2006 Posts: 751 Location: Panama City, Panama
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 7:12 am Post subject: |
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| Perilla wrote: |
This is oversimplifying a complex matter. If the country in question is monolinguistic and you marry into the local culture, live in the suburbs or the sticks and raise kids there, then yes, you have a point, and it would probably be difficult not to pick up the local lingo.
However, if the place in question is multilingual, the situation changes completely. In Singapore, Malay, Mandarin, Tamil and English are all official languages - which one would you pick? Maybe you'd stick with English?
And in any case, many long term TEFLers live in English-speaking enclaves, which often include plenty of English speaking locals too. No offence is caused because you don't really hang about among the 'local' population. There are many, many places like this - and they're increasing with the globalisation of English. |
Spot on! Riga is about half and half Latvian and Russian speaking and there's been a bit of a conflict over that for years. Some Russian students seem mildly annoyed that I know more Latvian than "their language" as though it's some kind of snub. Fortunately the situation doesn't often come up as any locals I hang out with usually want to practice their English with me rather than listen to my attempts at speaking Latvian.
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jonniboy
Joined: 18 Jun 2006 Posts: 751 Location: Panama City, Panama
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 7:29 am Post subject: |
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| Rakuten wrote: |
| I'm wondering though, a common response was "I'm too busy with other things/pursuing other interests" and I wonder what other interests that any expat pursues in another country couldn't be enriched or made better/easier by also having a grasp on the local/regional language. |
It's great that you're into these languages but I'd still say that you're in the minority. From my experience most people are more practical when it comes to language learning and most learners learn what they need to. The bulk of my students are there because they have to learn English not because they want to or because they genuinely like the language/"love how it sounds" or whatever. They're usually doing it for economic reasons because they think it will help them in their careers, or alternatively because they often travel to countries where Latvian and Russian are useless and they've got fed up with sign language as a means of communication. For sure there are linguaphiles among them who speak six or more languages but those people are the exceptions.
For me I fit firmly into the former category. Been here 5 years and each of the first three years I planned to exit stage left in the summer but stayed in the end so didn't put much of an effort into it. If I studied it now I'd probably be ready to start pre-intermediate but I don't plan to. I still plan to leave eventually and can't see the worth in speaking a language spoken by only 2 million in a sub-branch of the indo-European language family with only 5 million speakers. I know what I need to and if any other situations come up I can usually learn the relevant vocabulary. For example last year I got invited to a poker night by a Latvian guy I know. Some of his friends didn't speak English but it didn't take that long to become fluent in texas hold em in Latvian.
Spain was different but there initially I'd hoped to work in a non-teaching job and so over a two or three year period I worked hard at Spanish and had started the advanced level when it came time to move to Spain. Quite honestly in retrospect though if I'd known what the situation would be like I'd probably have put a bit less effort into it. It was really tiring working 0830-1715 and then having a quick bite before dashing to a class until nearly 9pm. |
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Phil_K
Joined: 25 Jan 2007 Posts: 2041 Location: A World of my Own
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 2:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Sashadroogie wrote: |
| Iceman33 wrote: |
| ...provided you have normal intelligence and a strong desire to master it. |
This could be a whole other thread in itself. How much bearing, if any, does intelligence have on language-learning ability? |
A common definition of the word "Intelligence" is "The ability to reason". Therefore, I would say that "intelligent" people have an advantage, given that they are more able to dissect the language and make sense of it. However, there are various ways of learning... |
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Sashadroogie

Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 11061 Location: Moskva, The Workers' Paradise
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Posted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Yet there are so, so many otherwise intelligent people who fail miserably to learn a foreign language, even when they really do try to. How many seriously smart computer programmers have we taught who will almost never be able to progress beyond the mechanical rudiments needed for their job? |
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