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feebleweiner
Joined: 23 Feb 2010 Posts: 17
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 1:41 am Post subject: Thanks for advice |
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Thanks for the advice. �My co has given their thoughts on it and it looks like if things get worse they will be no help. �If he keeps doing stuff I'm going to have a talk with his homeroom teacher and head English teacher. �I don't have a class with him till next week.�
I'm not an uptight woman. At my other school I've heard boys discussing me and caught em staring and there's a certain haha factor but I know when a line is crossed for me. �This kid is begging for a stomp. �
Also to whoever thinks I'm a troll... Really?. �I have things going on in my life that are even bigger than some kid with a tiny hard on looking at me. I'm sorry I couldn't be on here everyday but I came back, answered non trollishly. �Just cause a woman happens to have a sense of humor and picks a name like mine doesn't mean she's an idiot. �I've been working with kids/teens for years. I'm not going to lie on one for attention. �That's beneath me my love.� |
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feebleweiner
Joined: 23 Feb 2010 Posts: 17
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 1:52 am Post subject: |
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Infact that's one of the reasons why I DO NOT post on here as much as I would like because everything turns to a "troll hunt". �I'm here legally, got my Coe legally after much hardship, I got my visa the proper way and am working legally and i am asking for honest advice. �My god.�
My thing with this situation is I've worked with kids before but the respect level is different. Coming from a different culture i didn't want to do things the wrong way. �Like back home I can send a student out the class. Here? �Not so much. � I'm not totally green to the role of teaching but I am green to what is ok over here. �
I was simply seeking advice.� |
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Cool Teacher

Joined: 18 May 2009 Posts: 930 Location: Here, There and Everywhere! :D
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 5:20 am Post subject: |
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Well I never doubted you for a second feebleweiner!
Good luck iwht the job and don't let the d!ckheads get you down!
Glad you have such a sense of humour I think if we didn't it would drive us round the bend!  |
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 8:23 am Post subject: |
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| Really. No sense in getting tweaked over some little maggot kid. But hey, next time just blow them off. If not, they win. Can't have that. Good luck to you and remember: every day is a new day! |
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Cool Teacher

Joined: 18 May 2009 Posts: 930 Location: Here, There and Everywhere! :D
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 1:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Sweetsee wrote: |
| But hey, next time just blow them off. |
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southofreality
Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 579 Location: Tokyo
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Posted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:07 pm Post subject: Re: Thanks for advice |
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| feebleweiner wrote: |
| I have things going on in my life that are even bigger than some kid with a tiny hard on looking at me.� |
Well, at least you've shown you're a classy lady, if not a troll...  |
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Cool Teacher

Joined: 18 May 2009 Posts: 930 Location: Here, There and Everywhere! :D
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Posted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 3:38 am Post subject: Re: Thanks for advice |
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| southofreality wrote: |
| feebleweiner wrote: |
| I have things going on in my life that are even bigger than some kid with a tiny hard on looking at me.� |
Well, at least you've shown you're a classy lady, if not a troll...  |
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rxk22
Joined: 19 May 2010 Posts: 1629
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Posted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 1:29 pm Post subject: |
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| If I were you I'd make a Japanese size joke, and then laugh. Might shut him up if you make him turn red. |
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Vince
Joined: 05 May 2003 Posts: 559 Location: U.S.
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:16 am Post subject: Re: Thanks for advice |
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| feebleweiner wrote: |
| My co has given their thoughts on it and it looks like if things get worse they will be no help. |
What exactly were the co-teacher's thoughts? |
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:16 am Post subject: |
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| First, I'd like to apologize to the the OP if my comments were construed as insensitive or in any way dismissive. Also, having discussed it with someone more familiar with Japanese law than myself, I would urge you to contact the site www.houterasu. They can help you. People need to learn there are consequences for their actions. If you need any help ask. |
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TokyoLiz
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1548 Location: Tokyo, Japan
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:54 am Post subject: |
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| My bad. Thanks, TL! |
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feebleweiner
Joined: 23 Feb 2010 Posts: 17
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Posted: Tue Oct 26, 2010 1:57 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for the apology and I guess I can say sorry too. I've been really stressed and I did get a bit snippy.
I meant the company I work for. Their advice was wear looser fitting clothes. Lol right. I'm a 32D and that's a lot on a small framed woman. I'm going to check that link out but I only have a few more months at this job is what I tell myself. |
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TokyoLiz
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1548 Location: Tokyo, Japan
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Tue Oct 26, 2010 5:19 am Post subject: |
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Really? I didn't detect any snippyness. Either way, it's all good. However, if I were working there with you we'd sort that kid out.
Enjoy,
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