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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Mon Nov 15, 2010 12:34 am Post subject: |
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| I may just be one serious pistol pack'in mama |
And you may well be one really tough lady. However, I've seen some of the toughest ever brought down by PMU firepower. Many swagger in, thinking they can handle a place like PMU. Most of them leave broken down, their weapons useless against the underhanded techniques of warfare used against them. And if they weren't broken down, they still left with a sense of resignation, and a knowledge that some wars aren't worth the fight.[/quote] |
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Bebsi
Joined: 07 Feb 2005 Posts: 958
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Posted: Tue Nov 16, 2010 9:06 am Post subject: |
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| I may just be one serious pistol pack'in mama |
Or you may be just Agents 001-006.
Hardly 007 ... |
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John Carpenter
Joined: 31 Aug 2006 Posts: 42 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Wed Nov 17, 2010 5:43 am Post subject: What happened at the Courts! |
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| The short version is that I was terminated on the Wednesday, as from the Saturday so I had only the weekend to prepare everything. The toughest part was getting Arabic speakers to help me with translating but eventually it was all done and I went to the courts on the Saturday. I was told to come back in 8 days time on the Sunday and I had to inform PMU of this. On the Saturday before the court day, the Vice Rector rang to say that he had just found out about my situation and made an appointment to meet me that night. He never turned up. The 'court' was held around a table in a room and was all in Arabic and PMU was represented by Iyad who was the person I held most responsible for this situation, as his incompetence and lack of enthusiasm led to me staying for 28 days in Bahrain. He was aided by a lawyer who fortunately took over and was a most reasonable person. I was offered a settlement that included 3 months end of service pay and my September pay, but not 2 month's notice (as I was deemed to have been terminated for 'cause', ie, what i wrote on Dave's) and i did not get my expenses for staying in Bahrain. I took it and was happy to do so because they promised I would get this pay and an airline ticket and would be out in 2 days, and this is indeed what eventuated. All of this could have been avoided if the HR Department was accountable and if we could have sat down and talked it over. I was not 100% to blame but I was prepared to share the blame, and to have to constantly deal with a person who I complained about on many occassions during my stay in Bahrain was totally inappropriate. PMU needs to start putting people into jobs they can do and stop filling up important positions with friends of Issa who are not prepared to do the job, even if they were capable. I got home for my birthday and will spend Xmas in OZ for the 1st time in 10 years, and \i got my September pay, so I won and you, Iyad, will be the biggest loser. |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Wed Nov 17, 2010 6:11 am Post subject: |
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Happy Birthday...Merry Xmas... an' change yer location...forever...
NCTBA |
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NukeMom
Joined: 08 Nov 2010 Posts: 17
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Posted: Wed Nov 17, 2010 1:54 pm Post subject: |
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| I may just be one serious pistol pack'in mama |
And you may well be one really tough lady. However, I've seen some of the toughest ever brought down by PMU firepower. Many swagger in, thinking they can handle a place like PMU. Most of them leave broken down, their weapons useless against the underhanded techniques of warfare used against them. And if they weren't broken down, they still left with a sense of resignation, and a knowledge that some wars aren't worth the fight. |
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I was just kiddin about signing a contract. I wouldn't waste my lead on that pack of losers. Some battles aren't worth the effort.
John- Congratulations. It seems you walked away with a lot more than people on the board thought you would get. If those a-holes at PMU haven't learned a bit of a lesson from this experience, they are really out to Eid, permanently. As I suspect they are. |
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sheikher
Joined: 13 Jul 2009 Posts: 291
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Posted: Wed Nov 17, 2010 2:49 pm Post subject: |
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"The biggest loser", Mr Carpenter, is not Iyad.
The biggest losers are your former students who've lost a quality English language instructor, and whose parents, I trust, will direct their young men to seek future education elsewhere at a campus under competent management. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Nov 17, 2010 3:17 pm Post subject: |
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Sadly true Mr sheikher... so many of the tales of woe that we hear on this board ignore the fact that the students are the long term losers.
But... Mabruk Mr Carpenter... so glad that you are out of it and got most of what you deserved. Now you can relax and enjoy the holidays at home while you search for a more pleasant job.
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cheapshoes
Joined: 05 Oct 2010 Posts: 24 Location: Saudi
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 1:14 am Post subject: |
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| Thanks for posting this. I have an offer from a place that isn't giving its name. I'll be asking if it's PMU. |
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trapezius

Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 1670 Location: Land of Culture of Death & Destruction
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 11:26 am Post subject: |
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Congrats John... and Happy Birthday. Relax, and never come back here (except to KFUPM, I suppose)
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| The biggest losers are your former students who've lost a quality English language instructor |
True.
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| and whose parents, I trust, will direct their young men to seek future education elsewhere at a campus under competent management. |
Eh, that isn't happening. |
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sheikher
Joined: 13 Jul 2009 Posts: 291
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 12:09 pm Post subject: |
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To the orthopaedic specialist (above):
1. Are you attributing competent management to King Fahd University of Petroleum and Minerals?
2. May I suggest that that requires promotion, however covert, by Mr Carpenter's former colleagues, and students, preparatory to Semester 1, 2011? |
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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| and whose parents, I trust, will direct their young men to seek future education elsewhere at a campus under competent management. |
The sad part is that the young MEN can change to a more competent place, but the young WOMEN are stuck with what they get. Daddy wants to keep them nearby, so who cares if they get an education at a 5th rate unaccredited scam university?
Those lovely, intelligent women really do work hard for "degrees" that will mean nothing but another entry on a marriageability CV. It makes me want to cry. |
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 6:57 pm Post subject: |
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| And BTW....will anyone ever hire an "engineer" with a degree from PMU? Would anyone want to drive across a bridge designed by one? |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 9:11 pm Post subject: |
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| Mia Xanthi wrote: |
| Those lovely, intelligent women really do work hard for "degrees" that will mean nothing but another entry on a marriageability CV. |
Teta Mia, I like the word "marriageability CV", now the intelligent and smart saudi women are using their "marriageability CV" in Facebook and Internet online Chit Chat to promote their mariageability index and attract intelligent Saudi boys!!!!
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Please Teta Mia don't cry, because it makes them cry too!
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| Would anyone want to drive across a bridge designed by one? |
Yes, Issa will drive across a bridge designed by one of his Civil engineering students!
BTW, PMU is looking for Civil engineers to build their bridges, and Electrical engineers to fix their electrical system!!
http://chronicle.com/jobs/0000654522-01
http://chronicle.com/jobs/0000654519-01 |
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sheikher
Joined: 13 Jul 2009 Posts: 291
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 12:16 pm Post subject: |
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DRY YOUR TEARS, MAMA MIA! Here is one courageous Saudi woman!
http://www.emirates247.com/news/region/saudi-judge-supports-daughter-in-rare-verdict-2010-11-22-1.319643
Saudi judge supports daughter in rare verdict
Court refuses father�s request to force daughter out of university
Published Monday, November 22, 2010
The girl had filed a complaint to the court when she was told by the Jubail university that she could no longer attend classes at her father�s request.
A Saudi court has set precedence in settling family disputes in the conservative Gulf Kingdom when it rejected a father�s plea to force his daughter out of the university for disobedience, a local newspaper reported on Monday.
The court in the eastern town of Jubail upheld a request by the unnamed girl to pursue her study at the university after she was about to be expelled at her father�s request, Alyoum Arabic language daily said.
The girl had filed a complaint to the court when she was told by the Jubail university that she could no longer attend classes at her father�s request.
�She was prevented from attending some lectures and this caused her a psychological breakdown�.she tried to reach a cordial solution with her father but he refused and insisted that she leave the university,� the paper said.
�She then resorted to court with the help of her brother�she told court that she just wants to pursue her studies and that she had never been disobedient to her father�she said that the real problem was between her father and her divorced mother and that her father was just taking it on her.�
Alyoum, which did not specify the daughter�s age, said the judge upheld her request to complete her study at the university but told her she must always obey and be kind to her father. �It was the first verdict of its kind,� it said.
YOU GO, GIRL! |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:05 pm Post subject: |
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The story makes me want to laugh and cry in the same time!
It makes me want to laugh, because the girl's father divorced her mother and wanted to revenge by just taking it on his daughter!
It makes me want to cry because it was the first verdict of its kind in the �Democratic� Magic Kingdom.!
I think Teta Mia was right when she wanted to cry!  |
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