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ninjamon
Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 28
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 1:11 pm Post subject: UK or Japan long term? |
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Mrs Ninjamon and I have been immensely fortunate in recently coming into a sufficient sum of money that means we would be able to buy a 3 or 4 bed house cash in either the UK or Japan (Mrs Ninjamon hails from the land of the rising sun, I am English) and start a family. In either country we believe that we would be able to generate an income to live comfortably and raise a child. This leaves us a quandary - which country would be better to live in long term - Japan or the UK? Anyone care to share any insights regarding living in Japan (particularly raising a kid there) and/or Japan vs UK long term economic prospects? Should we go with Japan, Mrs Fafa's preferred cities are Sendai, Yokohama, Kawasaki, Kobe, Okayama or Fukuoka. In the UK we would probably look to remain in the East Mids where we could get a house in a decent area.
Mrs Ninjamon is a qualified primary and secondary Japanese school teacher with several years experience so would look to get at least a part time job doing that. I have a CELTA and 4 years teaching experience mainly in China, teaching all ages and levels but primarily primary school kids and university students. My Chinese is a decent level (can read a newspaper for gist ok, detail is a bit slower). My Japanese is elementary and other than a fortnight's holiday in Tokyo I have never been to Japan. Having said that I feel that I have a reasonable idea of what life would be like and also believe my Chinese would give me a head start on trying to learn Japanese as I already know the kanji and have experience of learning an Asian language. We have been married for nearly half a decade since when neither of us have set foot in a classroom and I have been working in a reasonably standard office job. I assume I would end up working in an eikaiwa and also assume it is highly likely I would never get anything better. I know this would be a tough choice whatever and have no illusions about that.
Any and all random advice much appreciated |
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inuzuki8605
Joined: 01 Dec 2010 Posts: 98 Location: America
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:36 pm Post subject: |
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Well, when it comes to you and your language skills, if you are willing to really learn Japanese, you can find an office job easily speaking with English speaking customers in customer services or translating documents or something like that. You may start out being a teacher, but you could do better if you got the language down.
As for the children, you just have to figure out what type of environment you want to influence your children. Out spoken, out going society of the UK or the somewhat more reserved and study study study Japanese society. Both have good and bad points. But the possibility of the kids being 100% fluent in both Japanese and English will be greater in Japan because they'll have to speak Japanese in day to day life but they'll have English classes from Elementary and you to practice English with.
I have no experience in raising children in the UK or Japan. I'm an American but I believe I will also have to make the same choice as you one day. I hope this helped. |
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Dark Machine
Joined: 30 Oct 2010 Posts: 24 Location: Liverpool, UK
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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I can't comment too much on Japan right now bar what I read in the Economist/Financial Times etc., I'm sure one of the Japanese residents will be along shortly with the low down on that. However as a UK resident I think I can comment a little on prospects here.
Currently, with you being older, having a grasp of Chinese and experience in an office, your job prospects here would strike me as being some of the best right now. The UK is on a big downturn currently, so it's the best of a bad bunch I'm afraid. The coalition government's policies have cut jobs everywhere, with almost 1million more people predicted to be out of work by next Christmas, so competition is fierce. Having said that, you have experience, and speak Chinese, which is what companies are looking for, you could probably get a decent job here quite quickly, not too sure about your wife, but maybe she could try for a 'public school' or University as they're the ones most likely to want native Japanese staff and run Japanese courses. Another downside is that outside of London, Jobs are being cut thick and fast. Crime is rising, and services being cut, so I don't think the environment is going to be brilliant in the medium term, and we currently have no idea where the UK will be in the long term. Could see recovery, or could end up like Ireland (bankrupt). Job opportunites for young people outside of London are very scarce, I myself want to emigrate to Japan/Far East to 'improve' my job prospects. Pay could be lower than you'd expect since so many people are desperate for work currently.
One thing I would say 'currently' is that maybe you should still try to get your kids British passports. Nothing against Japan but the British passport is much more valuable than the Japanese one right now, for getting into places more easily I mean.
Hope I've helped in some way, don't mean to be down on the UK, and it's certainly more receptive to immigrants than Japan is, but it's also a more dangerous place to live right now, with all the job losses crime is rising and prisons are full, so just have a long think about how long you'd want to stay. |
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ninjamon
Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 28
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 3:46 pm Post subject: |
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inuzuki8605 wrote: |
Well, when it comes to you and your language skills, if you are willing to really learn Japanese, you can find an office job easily speaking with English speaking customers in customer services or translating documents or something like that. You may start out being a teacher, but you could do better if you got the language down.
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Thanks for the response! Have you done this yourself, or do you know anyone who has made the transfer from English teacher to office job?
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Hope I've helped in some way, don't mean to be down on the UK, and it's certainly more receptive to immigrants than Japan is, but it's also a more dangerous place to live right now, with all the job losses crime is rising and prisons are full, so just have a long think about how long you'd want to stay.
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Thanks! I am currently living in the UK so am not sure that it is that bad, but I appreciate the feedback. The Chinese language skills are only really useful if I am willing to regularly travel to China and unfortunately through lack of use I would say I am no longer at a level where I could use it professionally. Have you spent much time in Japan? |
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inuzuki8605
Joined: 01 Dec 2010 Posts: 98 Location: America
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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ninjamon wrote: |
inuzuki8605 wrote: |
Well, when it comes to you and your language skills, if you are willing to really learn Japanese, you can find an office job easily speaking with English speaking customers in customer services or translating documents or something like that. You may start out being a teacher, but you could do better if you got the language down.
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Thanks for the response! Have you done this yourself, or do you know anyone who has made the transfer from English teacher to office job?
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One of my friends taught English when we went over as exchange students. He taught for a year and has been studying to get his language skills up. Just recently, he did an interview with a company for an office worker type position. He's waiting to here back but I was looking on gaijinpot.com and there are a lot of jobs there other than teaching you can do! I'm going back to Japan in March as a teacher, but I plan to work for a company later. ^_^ |
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Dark Machine
Joined: 30 Oct 2010 Posts: 24 Location: Liverpool, UK
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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ninjamon wrote: |
inuzuki8605 wrote: |
Well, when it comes to you and your language skills, if you are willing to really learn Japanese, you can find an office job easily speaking with English speaking customers in customer services or translating documents or something like that. You may start out being a teacher, but you could do better if you got the language down.
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Thanks for the response! Have you done this yourself, or do you know anyone who has made the transfer from English teacher to office job?
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Hope I've helped in some way, don't mean to be down on the UK, and it's certainly more receptive to immigrants than Japan is, but it's also a more dangerous place to live right now, with all the job losses crime is rising and prisons are full, so just have a long think about how long you'd want to stay.
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Thanks! I am currently living in the UK so am not sure that it is that bad, but I appreciate the feedback. The Chinese language skills are only really useful if I am willing to regularly travel to China and unfortunately through lack of use I would say I am no longer at a level where I could use it professionally. Have you spent much time in Japan? |
Unfortunately no. I studied Japan and East Asia for 4 years at University and went out there for 2 weeks over new years. I know plenty about Japan 'in theory' you might say, but not too much practically. Hence why I said hopefully one of our Japanese residents will pop into the thread soon to answer questions. I'm basically hoping to do what Inuzuki wants to do as well, go to Japan and teach, study Japanese hard, then hopefully progress to another job or management position. If not possible, then probably move on to China and do the same, afterwards maybe return to the UK or work for a multinational using my language skills. The way it's been going for me up here in Liverpool means I've started seeing my 20s as just a decade to upskill myself and gain world experience as much as possible. Not sure what it's like down by you but up here there's little to no work for young grads like myself, all the ones advertised mean you have to go to London and live on buttons, I think that if I'm going to do that, I'd rather do it in Japan than here.  |
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fluffyhamster
Joined: 13 Mar 2005 Posts: 3292 Location: UK > China > Japan > UK again
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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Hi Ninjamon. Your second language skills (Chinese, fledgling Japanese) will likely not bear much fruit in the UK. (It would be different perhaps if you had majored in one of them and stayed on in academia awhile, to which you could've then tried returning).
Hmm, you don't appear to say how or where you met your wife (and hence where she presumably wanted to be at at least that moment in time), or quite what she has been doing since, but I doubt if she will find as "good" (steady) work elsewhere as she did as a qualified teacher in Japan (though much depends of course on the acceptability of those qualifications in other countries...but you and her will know more about that than I do!).
Given the problems in both countries, I would personally consider different countries entirely (Aus, NZ, Canada, others in Europe even), and if your wife's qualifications don't quite make up the points for more or less permanently emigrating wherever then perhaps you could consider upping your own to help you both out (e.g. if you are a graduate, try to get QTS yourself, and if you aren't, consider doing a degree PT or something). It sounds like you are still pretty young and have time to work at improving your qualifications (and to be honest, just a CELTA isn't much nowadays is it) and prospects no matter where you end up deciding to go.
Anyway, it ultimately comes down to where you both want to live regardless of your exact prospects there (fate can always throw you a curve ball), and I know that I for one would choose Japan over the UK, even if that meant potentially just TEFLing until one's hair was as white as the chalk. (But I'm resisting starting to moan on about the UK LOL - I think we all know or are capable of inferring reasons why it is fast becoming a more and more unattractive place - or less and less attractive place, if you prefer! - to live even short-term. Dark Machine has it about right though when he says "Not sure what it's like down by you but up here there's little to no work for young grads like myself, all the ones advertised mean you have to go to London and live on buttons, I think that if I'm going to do that, I'd rather do it in Japan than here"!).
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inuzuki8605
Joined: 01 Dec 2010 Posts: 98 Location: America
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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Since your wife is Japanese but you yourself have never been here, I strongly suggest coming to visit for a while, and definitely spend some time in Japan with her family and friends. It is likely that your wife will show you a different side of herself under those conditions, and you will get a better appreciation for her culture. Heck, she may even change ("revert") to some ways of the old school instead of remaining as she is now (more international) as you know her.
Can't say anything about the economy of the Japanese cities where you are looking. I'm in Hokkaido.
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I have a CELTA and 4 years teaching experience mainly in China, teaching all ages and levels but primarily primary school kids and university students. |
If you don't have a master's degree in some EFL-related field, and a few publications, I wouldn't expect you to get any university positions here. Perhaps something PT, but even those are often requiring those qualifications a lot nowadays. If you are interested in looking at non-teaching jobs, tell us what you bring to the negotiating table, but bear in mind that the spouse visa will only get you a look based on the fact that you don't need the employer to sponsor you for a work visa. That glance will happen more deeply only if you have the right education or work experience and at least level 2 JLPT in most cases. Times are tough here.
Have you had the talk about kids? I mean really talk? Most Japanese moms quit their jobs (or are let go) and never go back, so your income would be the sole one. It's never nice to live as paupers when you are married with kids. Plus, "the talk" also means how many kids, how they will be educated (J school or international school or on British soil), whether they will be bilingual, what nationality they will keep after they turn 22, etc. |
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Angelfish
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 131
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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 12:28 am Post subject: |
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If I were in the exact position you're in, I would buy property in the UK and rent it out through an agency (minimal stress for you).
Live in Japan until your kid(s) are around junior high school age. Work on getting them bilingual in English and Japanese. Personally, I'd prefer to bring up young kids in Japan, older kids in England (or non-Japan). While you're in Japan, just rent. Your income from the UK can be ploughed into savings or you could use it in Japan.
Once the kids are around junior high age, I'd relocate back to the UK, to the property.
But that's just a personal opinion, no expertise. I'm a Brit living in Japan thinking of starting a family. |
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ninjamon
Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 28
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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 12:35 pm Post subject: |
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Dark Machine wrote: |
I'm basically hoping to do what Inuzuki wants to do as well, go to Japan and teach, study Japanese hard, then hopefully progress to another job or management position. If not possible, then probably move on to China and do the same, afterwards maybe return to the UK or work for a multinational using my language skills. The way it's been going for me up here in Liverpool means I've started seeing my 20s as just a decade to upskill myself and gain world experience as much as possible.
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I am working in a office job in the East Mids. I was trying to change positions but, as you say, the jobs market has dried up and what jobs there are have a large amount of competition. Redundancies are ongoing. I am in my early thirties so some of what you said reminds me of myself 10 years ago. My advice would be to be flexible, but ensure that you progress in each move. I moved sideways a couple of times - not a good idea. Try to get some management experience under your belt too - my lack of line management experience has held me back in the UK
fluffyhamster wrote: |
Hi Ninjamon. Your second language skills (Chinese, fledgling Japanese) will likely not bear much fruit in the UK. (It would be different perhaps if you had majored in one of them and stayed on in academia awhile, to which you could've then tried returning).
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I am not an academic - I got the job teaching at a Chinese university basically because their standards are not overly high.
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Hmm, you don't appear to say how or where you met your wife (and hence where she presumably wanted to be at at least that moment in time), or quite what she has been doing since, but I doubt if she will find as "good" (steady) work elsewhere as she did as a qualified teacher in Japan (though much depends of course on the acceptability of those qualifications in other countries...but you and her will know more about that than I do!).
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She was teaching Japanese in China. She has had to move around the UK a fair bit over the past four years due to my having to go where the work was. She has been unable to find work and is starting to exhibit signs of cabin fever. Part of the point of going to Japan is to be in a country where we both have a fair shake of being employed, even if the work is not ideal.
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Given the problems in both countries, I would personally consider different countries entirely (Aus, NZ, Canada, others in Europe even), and if your wife's qualifications don't quite make up the points for more or less permanently |
Thanks for the suggestion - it is really either Japan or the UK. Much of the motive in going to Japan is that it removes the language and cultural barrier for my wife, which has been a major issue for her. I am much more easy going and feel the barriers for me in Japan would be ok.
inuzuki8605 wrote: |
Hey! So I just came across this article on gaijinpot website. It's very relevant to your job question.
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Very informative! Thanks a lot!
Glenski wrote: |
Since your wife is Japanese but you yourself have never been here, I strongly suggest coming to visit for a while, and definitely spend some time in Japan with her family and friends. It is likely that your wife will show you a different side of herself under those conditions, and you will get a better appreciation for her culture. Heck, she may even change ("revert") to some ways of the old school instead of remaining as she is now (more international) as you know her.
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My wife is pretty old fashioned and I doubt her personality would change much on arrival in Japan. Indeed, it is her "Japaneseness" which has made living in the UK difficult for her. Ideally I would like to spend time in Japan first, but an extended holiday is not really on the cards. I very much doubt I'd be given unpaid leave and if I leave my job getting another of equivalent salary in this climate would be extremely tricky.
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If you don't have a master's degree in some EFL-related field, and a few publications, I wouldn't expect you to get any university positions here. Perhaps something PT, but even those are often requiring those qualifications a lot nowadays. If you are interested in looking at non-teaching jobs, tell us what you bring to the negotiating table....
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I don't expect to be able to work at a university in Japan. I work in university administration in the UK in a planning department. I have high level Access and Excel skills, some familiarity with SQL server. I also have some (minor) project management experience that I can point to. My work mainly involves predicting numbers, modelling, strategic analysis that sort of thing.
Looking at the JLPT level 2 appears to involve 1000 kanji and 6000 vocab word level. I think this should be doable for me in a couple of years (10 words a day over 2 years and I already know about 2 to 3000 chinese characters). Does this sound reasonable?
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Have you had the talk about kids? I mean really talk? Most Japanese moms quit their jobs (or are let go) and never go back, so your income would be the sole one. It's never nice to live as paupers when you are married with kids. Plus, "the talk" also means how many kids, how they will be educated (J school or international school or on British soil), whether they will be bilingual, what nationality they will keep after they turn 22, etc.
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The plan is one kid, the missus works part time, bilingual, Japanese school. Nationality would be up to the kid, haven't discussed.
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If I were in the exact position you're in...
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Thanks for the suggestion. However, I am far too bearish on the UK and UK housing to buy at the moment. I think if we move to Japan, that's that. A move back would only be due to some utter and totally unforeseen disaster.
Thanks for all the advice, apologies for the long post. Further advice/comments much appreciated |
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Bread
Joined: 24 May 2009 Posts: 318
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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 1:05 pm Post subject: |
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ninjamon wrote: |
My wife is pretty old fashioned and I doubt her personality would change much on arrival in Japan. Indeed, it is her "Japaneseness" which has made living in the UK difficult for her. |
Sounds like you should settle this the traditional Japanese way: janken. |
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Mr_Monkey
Joined: 11 Mar 2009 Posts: 661 Location: Kyuuuuuushuuuuuuu
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2011 12:32 pm Post subject: |
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Bread wrote: |
ninjamon wrote: |
My wife is pretty old fashioned and I doubt her personality would change much on arrival in Japan. Indeed, it is her "Japaneseness" which has made living in the UK difficult for her. |
Sounds like you should settle this the traditional Japanese way: janken. |
LMAO.
I'm in a very similar situation to you, Ninjamon - Japanese wife inherited a house in Japan. We have two little ones.
I've just left the UK and got back to Japan after four years away. My wife is an order of magnitude happier here than she ever was in Scotland, although this is partially, at least, connected to the fact that the climate in Britain gives her skull-crushing migraines on a regular basis - something that doesn't happen often in Japan at all.
I'm yet to complete my survey as I haven't actually gone to Fukuoka yet to do in-person job-hunting, but the internet sites I've looked at for jobs in Northern Kyushu are pretty depressing at the moment - only one of the ads I've seen recently offers remuneration above the 250k standard for full-time work, and the part-time positions are pretty shocking - there's one school on Gaijinpot offering �700 - 2000/hr!
The CELTA will help you find work, but if your wife can't find a decent job (and it will very likely be harder for her to find one if she's had kids) you might find that you will struggle to save anything once Japanese rent is taken into account, so that might be a factor to consider when deciding whether to buy in the UK or Japan. On the other hand, it's likely that the value of a house in the UK will appreciate, even if only marginally, whereas it's likely that the value of property in Japan will depreciate.
As far as citizenship goes, Japanese nationals are legally allowed to hold two passports until the age of 20 (18? I can't remember), at which time they must decide which nationality they wish to be. Of course, you could just register the births in the UK and apply for a passport at the British embassy in Tokyo and conveniently forget to tell the Japanese authorities that your kids have been issued them. If the authorities don't know, they can't force a choice on your kids that might violate their potential identity. That's what my wife and I did.
I hope this helps. |
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ninjamon
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2011 1:01 pm Post subject: |
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Mr_Monkey wrote: |
I'm in a very similar situation to you, Ninjamon - Japanese wife inherited a house in Japan. We have two little ones....I hope this helps. |
Thanks for that Mr Monkey. We don't have any kids as yet, I think we'd need a little time to get settled first. If we are having kids, the clock is ticking however (we are in our early thirties). Y700 an hour - that's what, �5?!? Minimum wage stuff in the UK. Mrs Ninjamon is looking into this, but the initial feel was that Y250k/mth would be necessary to make it work. This might be tough to get, but looking around it is not an unreasonable wage demand. Our main concerns revolve around work, health care and pension. Basically the trade off being a regular income in the UK amongst people we don't especially like, versus possible income issues in a country where I believe my wife will be happier amongst people that I have a healthy respect for.
Thanks for all the input everyone - further advice much appreciated! |
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inuzuki8605
Joined: 01 Dec 2010 Posts: 98 Location: America
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2011 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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Mr_Monkey wrote: |
Of course, you could just register the births in the UK and apply for a passport at the British embassy in Tokyo and conveniently forget to tell the Japanese authorities that your kids have been issued them. If the authorities don't know, they can't force a choice on your kids that might violate their potential identity. That's what my wife and I did. |
Hey! Sorry to hijack the forum but I can see myself getting into this situation in the future.
Mr_Monkey, did your wife have your children in Japan and you just registered their births in the UK or did she have them in the UK and you are raising them in Japan?
I'm from the USA but I'll be live in Japan shortly and I hope to find and marry someone there. But I want my children to be American as well as Japanese (Because that's what they will be, after all). |
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