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Oriented
Joined: 27 Apr 2011 Posts: 29 Location: China
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deessell2
Joined: 11 Jun 2005 Posts: 132 Location: Under the sun
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 1:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Why did you choose Vietnam as a destination? It is a harsh place to live, especially for a woman. I would pick somewhere else, if I was you. |
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Oh My God
Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 273
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 2:39 pm Post subject: Re: Decrepit Old Newbie Asks: Do I have a Rat's Chance in H- |
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A bit of background: American, native speaker with a B.S. Psy + M.S. HRM. Have been volunteer teaching ESL to refugees for 6 months here in Seattle and love it. Most definitely plan to take the CELTA (not sure yet if I'll do it in Chiang Mai or Saigon - am filling out the applications now.) I've got a bit of a nest egg (though not a fortune, 5 figures) and receive about 1k/mo from social security. Blessed with excellent health and the curiosity of a 12 yr. old - I started my own adventure travel company at 40 and at 60, backpacked solo for 6 weeks across South Africa and Mozambique. In short, not your typical grandmother of 6.
Indeed, have traveled widely (always off-the-grid) and I now look forward to the challenge of life as an expat in some g-forsaken rice paddy. I'm flexible w/ regard to teaching - though ideally I'd prefer part-time and/or tutoring, I'd likewise be up for full-time the first year to get some experience under my belt.
Am I utterly bonkers to think I could teach EFL in Vietnam at the dodderin' age of 66? |
No, not bonkers at all AND with what you've listed, IMHO you'll do extremely well.
Yeah, I can see the naysayers with their all too common generic consensus of the "young and beautiful" getting the best jobs but I'd submit that's not true but that they seem to get more chances than us older types. You're only eleven years older than me but with my abundance of white hair, I'm considered much older than my true age.
In VN edutainment is King! education + entertainment = edutainment
So your background, enthusiasm, and education should lead you to your desired results WHERESOEVER you end up at and indeed, some serious competition for your peers!
Hope to see you around and GOOD LUCK! |
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Kornan DeKobb
Joined: 24 Jan 2010 Posts: 242
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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I also want to lend credence to Mark in Saigon's comments.
I have been to 30 countries, but HCMC and especially Hanoi have to be two of the most stressful cities to live in. Absolutely EVERY aspect of life here is difficult, air, food, water, exercise, transportation, money, ripoffs, etc. I want to get out, but have not yet for two reasons:
1. I don't have anything better lined up elsewhere yet; and
2. The one bright spot, I have made some really nice friends here.
So know what you are getting into. If you are a walker or jogger, forget it.
Now, knowing all that, if you still want to come, I think you will find something. Enough schools need teachers. At the very least, you should be able to get some private gigs, but generally you don't just arrive and get them. You must put in time and get to know people who will then give you work or find it for you. |
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The Mad Hatter
Joined: 16 May 2010 Posts: 165
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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You are the kind of teacher applicant that makes life hard for established teachers here. You will come here, and you will be upbeat and approach your job with a positive attitude every day. So locals will hire you quickly and your students will pick up on your attitude and be pleased and comfortable.
you will get high reviews and make everyone else look bad in comparison.
You will be given just the same respect if not more so from the schools since they have no sense of long term commitment to teachers and will greatly appreciate your obvious zeal with you you go about you duties.
You may likely be considered for a management position or even a 'principal" or "DOS" position given your credentials and age, which will lend an air of professionalism, authenticity, and gravitas.
So the answer is yes, you should come and try to teach here. If sure beats volunteering back home. I am just a little concerned about the "doing celta in saigon " part. doing celta at some notorious schools is no fun at all. |
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Jbhughes

Joined: 01 Jul 2010 Posts: 254
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Posted: Thu May 05, 2011 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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So can a 66 year old lady be hired here then?
Can TravelnLass get a work permit should she want to go down that route? Retirement age in VN is 55 for a woman right? - surely this would be reflected in work permit regulations?
If a wp isn't available doesn't this mean that she will required to be flying to BKK every 3 months unless she's lucky enough to find someone who she can pay for the appropriate service?
TravelnLass - I advise checking if you qualify for a work permit or not and if not, becoming fully aware of the situation for those who are embroiled in the visa fiasco and deciding whether or not you want to be part of that (no offence to anyone dealing with visas without wps - having a wp is hardly a golden ticket either tbh).
One other point potentially not made is that age does command respect here, despite westernisation and eroding of traditional values - this does seem to hold. One other foreign teacher at my school (aged 55) readily admits that they have a very poor grasp of grammar and still gains respect from sts and good reviews from higher level classes who want the teacher to teach them. No idea about your knowledge of grammar or its teaching or any aspect of your ability as a teacher TravelnLass (neither is it my place to question either), I'm just making the point that age stills commands respect. |
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scorch
Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 12 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 12:27 am Post subject: |
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| I want to come to Vietnam to look for work in a year or two, but I find many of the comments about age to be misleading. I just can't believe that it can make such a big difference. I did a lot of research on various esl forums before I decided to make the move to Asia to teach English. I came to China at age 52, and got a job in less than 2 weeks. I became friends with a lady from England who was teaching in Guangzhou at age 66 (and she looked it, but her students loved her.) I am now 59 and teaching in Hong Kong. I also know a few other teachers in China who are well over 60. I feel the one mistake I made was to ask for advice on these forums. All they did was discourage me. Everyone has opinions, but nothing is written in stone. I plan on going to Vietnam or Cambodia in a year or two, and I fully expect to find a job. If I don't, my old employer in China told me I can come back and teach at his school anytime. He even came to visit me in Hong Kong, and wants me to come to his place in China this summer. I believe if you do a good job, stay happy, don't complain and develop friendships, you will be fine. I think relationships are much more important than "qualifications," regardless of the moral or ethical implications this may entail. I also believe it is much easier for older people to adapt to life in Asia. I believe that Chinese employers are good people and will treat you right. I have never been mistreated. I am hoping the same will be true when I go to Vietnam or Cambodia. I am confident that if I do a good job, age will not matter. These schools want to make money, and they need good employees to do it. I would advise anyone over 60 who wants to come to Asia to find a job to go for it. Your big advantage is that you have enough life experience that you don't need anyone to hold your hand. I don't believe employees want young teachers who they can bully and take advantage of. They want reliable teachers that they can count on and relieve them of additional responsibility and worry. And, contrary to what I've been reading on other posts, I think if you make a good impression during your interview, your age will be seen as an asset. A sharp, well dressed, clean cut, distinguished looking person looks like a teacher, and it sells. |
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LettersAthruZ
Joined: 25 Apr 2010 Posts: 466 Location: North Viet Nam
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 12:35 am Post subject: |
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TravlinLass.....I'll PM you with my opinion of Da Lat......apparently, expressing opinions about cities in Viet Nam upsets some individuals.  |
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Oriented
Joined: 27 Apr 2011 Posts: 29 Location: China
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 1:44 am Post subject: |
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Scorch said: "I came to China at age 52, and got a job in less than 2 weeks. I became friends with a lady from England who was teaching in Guangzhou at age 66 (and she looked it, but her students loved her.) I am now 59 and teaching in Hong Kong. I also know a few other teachers in China who are well over 60."
No one believes that age can make such a big difference, until suddenly one day, it does.
There's a lot of difference between 52 and 60 (or 66). I'd never tell anyone who's 52 they're too old to get a job in China, far from it! But 60 is a red line for the great majority of employers here. At 52, you're a seasoned employee; at 60, you should retire. That's how most people think.
That does not mean that nobody at or above that age, can ever get a job anywhere; it does greatly limit their opportunities. As I and others on this board have observed, it might mean only "less desirable" jobs in terms of location and pay are open to the 60-plus candidate. Many postings for more desirable locations such as Shanghai, Guangzhou and increasingly Beijing limit hiring once people get into their 50s.
It's also not well known to most people coming to China for the first time, that HR departments here often have far greater influence on who gets hired than the person who is apparently the hiring manager. They might be 'rubber stamps' in many Western companies; in China, they can and do veto the preferences of many line managers, and many managers are supervising people they might not have preferred to hire. So even if a director of studies wants to hire you, they might well be over-ruled by the HR department.
The lady you cite in Guangzhou and those others who are over 60 -- yes, absolutely, such people exist all over China. But they almost certainly got hired before the age of 60.
Scorch, you'll probably find that as you move through your 60s, it will become increasingly difficult to get new jobs. Most of us think that as long as we do a good job and are willing to work for the prevailing wage, we'll be OK, competitive with anyone. We believe that in our 30s, 40s and even 50s. And it's largely true for most people during those decades of their lives. But one day, we find it's not true -- and that's usually about the time we hit 60.
The stories posted by people on this board and other teacher sites such as those I linked to earlier and AJARN in Thailand, etc. testify amply to the barriers faced by older teachers. Those barriers are there, even for many people with great skills, experience, references and degrees. |
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mark_in_saigon
Joined: 20 Sep 2009 Posts: 837
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Posted: Fri May 06, 2011 2:14 am Post subject: |
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| but HCMC and especially Hanoi have to be two of the most stressful cities to live in. Absolutely EVERY aspect of life here is difficult, air, food, water, exercise, transportation, money, ripoffs, etc. |
I think the above comment is the main point. If we are good at what we do, we can find work in many places. So, I would never recommend HCMC or Ha Noi, UNLESS you have some very compelling reason to be in those cities. Mere income production is not enough, as you can do that in a lot of places.
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Could not agree more. Even the parks allow cars and motorbikes to intimidate walkers, although at least they are mostly free of them, but if they happen to be going down a footpath, they have primacy, get out of the way. Sidewalks are a freaking joke. You are rather forced to use a moto and live by their rules, which are not pretty.
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| if you still want to come, I think you will find something. Enough schools need teachers. |
Certainly, if you fit some kind of profile you will. It does not always revolve around skill either. A director told me of a very good Philippino lady she had to release because she was dumpy and the students wanted a white face. This is not all about qualifications or skills here. I am always amazed that the Viet Kieu, who speak BOTH languages fluently, are discounted rather than at a premium as they should be. They do not have white faces. Appearance matters a lot. If you tick off enough check marks on their list, you will probably be welcomed, if you do not, probably not. Not all of those check marks relate to your abilities. There is little doubt you can find employment. There is a always doubt if it will be to your liking.
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| you will get high reviews and make everyone else look bad in comparison. |
Guys, this stuff is never black and white. A statement like that should always include a qualifier.
Bottom line: yes, we can all get some kind of work, but we may find that it is marginal, minimal and disappointing. VN is a very difficult place to live and work, ESPECIALLY the big cities. There ARE some compelling reasons to be here, but for most of us, those reasons are not about the work itself. You will find that the expat teaching community is largely men. It should be pretty obvious why we come here in much larger numbers than women. If you have some compelling reason to teach in VN, fine, if you choose HCMC or Ha Noi, also fine, but I would not ask a dog to come over here, or a family member or a friend, or even someone I did not care about in the least (to the big cities that is) unless he knew what he was in for and understood that the negatives are very large. For him/her/it, that creature has to make a decision that something about this place makes all those negatives acceptable. Teaching English to the natives is not enough, in my opinion.
HOWEVER, beyond the obvious reason for why most people are teaching here, if you ALREADY have income from somewhere and are just padding it here, then this can be very nice. Average national income for them is like $100 a month or something. If you are already getting 10 times that from social security, you could take a job in a nice location outside of the cities, who cares what you get paid, and your $1,000 there goes a lot farther than it would in HCMC or HN, plus the air is not poisoned (as much), the traffic is not as stupid, the people are not as jaded about you and the overall experience is a lot more pleasant.
There are no great secrets here. If you study this country, or even this site, you will eventually figure all of this out. Posters who are in China, they may be experts on China, but unless they have lived in VN, I would say they are speaking from an overall regional perspective, what they say may have truth to it, but they could also be wrong. You will not find me on a China forum weighing in on what works or does not work in China. I have been pretty close to it geographically, but it might as well be the dark side of the moon, I am not qualified to speak about it with any authority. |
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snollygoster
Joined: 04 Jun 2009 Posts: 478
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 4:45 am Post subject: Oldie in Vietnam |
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I'm an oldie- plenty of years in Vietnam, Now out (escaped). Vietnam is definately NOT the place to live a quiet life-There are challenges and hassels every day. The only predictable thing is that there will be some sort of crap every day, only its variety changes. From being the target of maniac motor bike cowboys trying to frighten you as you cross on a pedestrian crossing as they run the red light, to the fermenting baby diapers in the lakes and canals, to the moron singing karaoke out of tune with the volume turned up to 12 out of 10, to hassels from the police-mosquitos, incessant noise-being seen as a walking ATM, and despised in spite of it, leers as drunks slobber dog meat fat out of the corner of their mouthes, to the vacant stares of the highly drugged heroine addicts from whom the police make bundles of money, to the sight of grown men peeing in the gutter while their friends giggle like little school girls as they sit about in their baby sized plastic chairs on the sidewalk guzzling beer.
All too much for me, and even after such a long time in Vietnam, when I see a movie about Vietnam (which is banned in Vietnam because it shows some of these things), am I "home sick" for Vietnam? Not a chance.
So if you like being treated as a curiosity, like being ripped off, like being despised, love pollution, can accept rampant corruption, then you will like Vietnam. Perhaps the tourism return rate of 5% says it all. |
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mark_in_saigon
Joined: 20 Sep 2009 Posts: 837
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 5:36 am Post subject: WOW! That is an interesting number. |
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| Perhaps the tourism return rate of 5% says it all. |
Never read that one. Do you recall where you saw that? That would be an interesting story to read. Of course, it is hard to say what a tourist is, those of us who live here come back and forth a lot, if they count us in there, then the true rate would be even lower.
In defense of VN, I would say that if you get outside of the major population centers (and the tourist areas), it can be a lot of fun, and quite nice. Of course, a lot of things are the same, such as the way they dump trash anywhere, but it always amazes me the difference in how we are looked upon where they rarely see us, compared to where they often see us. For me, the less they have seen us, the better the experience is for us who do get out there, and this is not a gradient, this is exponentially. The problem for most of us is that to do our business (teaching as well as our "personal business") the big cities are where the action is. I think the OP or almost anyone with adequate skills can find some work here (although not as much as expected, and maybe it will be a lot less satisfying than expected as well), but once here, we are up against reality, and reality is, this is not the land of milk and honey, as noted so colorfully by almost everyone who posts that actually lives here. |
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haller_79
Joined: 09 Mar 2007 Posts: 145
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 9:24 am Post subject: |
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| but once here, we are up against reality, and reality is, this is not the land of milk and honey, as noted so colorfully by almost everyone who posts that actually lives here. |
If you're only going for six months or a year what difference does it make? I never saw anything in the OP's post that suggested she planned to see out her years in VN. She has money and she wants an adventure, which is what ESL in Vietnam is all about really. Frankly I'm not even sure why she bothered posting, she has nothing to worry about. |
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mark_in_saigon
Joined: 20 Sep 2009 Posts: 837
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 11:12 am Post subject: |
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| I never saw anything in the OP's post that suggested she planned to see out her years in VN. |
First, she said she planned on moving "lock, stock and barrel". So the implication is a major commitment, not 6 months or a year.
Secondly, she states she is a decrepit 66 year old lady. Not at all the kind of profile for dealing with the difficulties of the major cities here.
Really, these kinds of threads tend to become discussions about the subject in general, and no longer address the OP, who may not even be reading this, perhaps has made her decision, or who knows what. But if you look at the number of views of these threads, you start to realize the information is accessed by many other people as well, the OP just got the subject rolling. Similar subjects have been opened before, and will again. The realities change too. For example the cars in the cities, as we get more, the traffic gets stupider. I guess they are forced to drive that way, but every year it is getting worse, and so what was true last year is not quite true this year.
I recently read a travel piece from the Washington Post about VN. Imagine how many people might have read that, thousands I would guess. The author was a well meaning person who painted a picture so far removed from reality it was laughable. She said when in HCMC, her husband and her were free to walk the sidewalks and just "to be". She called the motorbikes cyclos, she spoke of shopkeepers with perfect English, and said not one word about the garbage or pollution. In my opinion, the great value of these threads is they can give an honest picture of the realities for people who are seriously considering changing their lives. These people have to get their info somewhere, if they get it from the WAPO they are going to have some very long faces when they get here. If they read Daves ESL Cafe, they have an excellent chance at knowing what the reality is, and if they are truly decrepit ladies in their 60's (hey, I am in my 60's), then they can at least know what the real score is before they move over "lock, stock and barrel". |
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toiyeuthitmeo
Joined: 21 May 2010 Posts: 213
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Posted: Sat May 07, 2011 12:08 pm Post subject: |
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My contribution is based on on a teacher who has been gone for a few years now, and it must be noted that a teacher like her has not been hired since (whether due to policy or lack of interest is knowledge only the hallowed higher-ups have).
There was a brilliant and popular teacher at my school when I arrived, who I reckon was about your age. She was a delight to have in the teacher room and her students loved her to pieces. Energetic, positive, authoritative, relaxed, the whole package if you will.
She did her year here and traveled quite a bit as opportunity arose, and has since moved on to the Middle East, where she has been quite well compensated and satisfied as an educator.
I think Vietnam remains an option for you, but all of the points brought up previously are well worth contemplating. To echo myriad comments posted in this forum, you should certainly come here in the mindset of an experiment, with the ability to pick and choose your options, depart at will, and do it all with the smile that I assume you possess, gathered from your writings.
A practical concern is that if you should have any medical needs, emergency or anticipated, this place goes in the "cons" column on your list of options.
Cheers, good luck, and let me know if I can be of assistance in any way. |
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