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peewee1979



Joined: 30 Jun 2011
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Location: Once in China was enough. Burned and robbed by Delter and watching others get cheated was enough.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 12:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The "teacher" in question is maybe about 30-35 and the admin didn't ask him to inform on anyone. The program pretty much runs itself but he makes constant waves and they often audit his class because of student complaints. So he has taken it upon himself to drag others down with him as he knows he is going down. Not in his mind but he must think that by him ratting on others may buy some time.

The school told me they want him gone but don't want to fire him as they don't have another teacher to replace him and they don't want to pay the penalty so they hope he quits.

And yes he is American - why should that be a point of contention?

I sent an email to the fao department and received some replies both by email and sms.

The one that got my attention most said: "Stay away from him, he's dangerous".

He's one of those people that have openly complained about everything and everyone since day one. Nonstop and over and over again.

I'm sure you know the type - he's one of those people who tell you how rich and successful they are and they don't need the job and they have houses here and there and so much money etc etc.

So it's still a problem as he is making my China experience at this school bad.
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time to teach



Joined: 03 Feb 2011
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Location: Bangkok

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 12:32 am    Post subject: Re: The trouble making teacher Reply with quote

w.melon56 wrote:
One paragraph and you contradict yourself.

What is wrong with FACTUAL writing? It's called providing details. An American teacher is a simple detail of fact of the situation, but now you want less detail.

Then you end your writing asking for even "more details"

You see no problem in your own contradictions?

Good writing provides details.

A few too many shots today?


You're right, to a certain degree. But this isn't a newspaper; it's a forum where people share information about teaching jobs in China. Based on the nature of the post, the man's nationality is a mute point, because the post is about the man's nature and supposed actions, and that has nothing to do his country of origin or ethnic group. The OP�s post actually reeks of prejudice. He's tattling and bad-mouthing a man with a one-sided story, with only a few details no one else can corroborate. The entire post is hearsay, and the man in question, the colleague who�s allegedly causing all these problems, is really more of a fictional character than a real person, with no chance of defending himself.

My post asked the OP for more information, more details, because the man being accused has no other way to defend himself and deserves all the help he can get. I think the OP is responsible to satisfy the concerns of any doubters like me who know a railroading when they see one. The fact that he may or may not be an American is indeed a detail, but has no bearing on my decision to side with either the accuser or the accused.

Of course, in a quasi-fictional account such as this, the man�s nationality is a detail, but only a minor detail in regards to the context of the accusation. It makes no difference if the man is a Yank, a Brit, an Aussie, or a Kiwi. The OP wants to know what he should do, and my post suggested that the first thing he should do is provide more details regarding his side of the story, since that�s the only one available.

The responses here, including yours, seem to suggest that some would rather imprudently jump to conclusions and then make judgments or give suggestions without at least a few more details relating to the original post. I think common sense dictates that a few more of the so-called facts in the case, fabricated or otherwise, would help clarify the OP's accusations in what I consider to be a completely slanted and slightly biased story.

This sort of lynch mob mentality might be likened to snidely accusing someone you don�t know of drinking too many shots. I don't drink booze anymore; gave it up a long time ago. But I forgive you, because without a few more details, excluding my nationality of course, how could you have possibly known?
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Miles Smiles



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 1:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

time to teach:

The OP gave details that he thought were pertinent. He is asking for advice regarding how to handle this sort of person. He mentioned that he was an American. So what? What's the big deal? I'm an American. I don't feel offended.

What sort of conclusions do you think others will draw from the OP's post?

You're overreacting.

And it's a "moot" point, not a "mute" point.
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steve b



Joined: 31 May 2011
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Location: China

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 3:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would like to ask how the FT knows what is going on in other classrooms? Is he sitting in on other teachers? If so, stop it. Are students gossiping to him about you? If so, are you doing something wrong in your lessons that you need worry?

Send him to observe my classes - he will get plenty of ammunition because my style is unorthodox, but I can justify everything. As an instance, a couple of weeks ago three of my classes had a unit entitled "AIDS and homosexuality". I opened each of the lessons by announcing to the class that I was "gay" and asked them to tell the truth as to whether their opinion of me had just changed from five minutes previously. The approach made for an active discussion, I don't think any of my students believe I am gay and as far as I can tell nothing has been "reported".

I think the fact that anyone worries over what others may say about them displays either insecurity of their own tenure or just perhaps they really do have something to worry about.

Life is far too short to fret about gossip. As long as those that matter know the truth it is of little importance.
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peewee1979



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Location: Once in China was enough. Burned and robbed by Delter and watching others get cheated was enough.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 4:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just love how some posters turn this into a " I'm the one at fault with issues" thing.

While there are typically two -or more - sides to any issue I am simply presenting mine and what I experienced.

I have no reason to make anything up or embellish the truth. My job is simple - teach and do the best job I can do doing that. When another teacher causes trouble for me without any provocation there is concern on my part.

Today I met with the fao - actually not about this but to get my passport with a new resident permit ( yes, finally...) - and after the exchange she had a brief discussion about this matter telling me that he has zero credibility with the school and the students and in the event he said something negative about other teachers again they would not accept his words ( fao statement).

The fao also told me the students submit comments and ranking about the teachers and he scored the lowest ( not a surprise) and I scored number 2 ( YEAH!!!).

But the thread is about what I can do to protect myself against false accusations - that is serious concern to me. I can't say I like this job but I know it and get along well with the students and staff so I want the choice of my working here again to be up to me - not decided by some a hole who's falling into a hole trying to drag others down with him.
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steve b



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Peewee, I trust you did not garner the impression I was apportioning blame to any quarter?

Why worry about protecting against false allegations when you have been officially told no credence is attached to them? From the sound of it the "problem" will not be around much longer anyway. Just get on with your life and your job.

And it is common for students to give an end of semester report on all teachers (not just FTs) and the clout these carry should not be underestimated - students can (with FTs certainly) abbreviate a contract. Such a thing is happening here as far as I can tell. FTs who don't go the extra mile and try to attend corners, student concerts/parties etc when invited see this reflected in the "student opinion polls".

If you are number two I would suggest the only thing you REALLY need to worry about is getting to the top spot!!!
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peewee1979



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Location: Once in China was enough. Burned and robbed by Delter and watching others get cheated was enough.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 5:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Steve... ranking in the Top Three is ok for me.

I do my job and smile a lot.
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therock



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

peewee1979 wrote:


I scored number 2 ( YEAH!!!).



How many teachers are at the school? three? Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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nomad-ish



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 10:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i've got a teacher like this at my school too. he doesn't rat out the other FTs, however at meetings in likes to air out his problems with the school/staff/students/curriculum in front of everyone. makes for a very uncomfortable meeting. things he should be saying in private to the directors.

anyways, i would try to inconspicuously ignore/avoid this person and distance yourself from him. if you get involved with his trouble-mongering, the school might look at you as part of the problem.

good luck. bad co-workers, we've all been there.
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peewee1979



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Location: Once in China was enough. Burned and robbed by Delter and watching others get cheated was enough.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2011 1:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

therock wrote:
peewee1979 wrote:


I scored number 2 ( YEAH!!!).



How many teachers are at the school? three? Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


Six foreign teachers and I have no idea about how many Chinese teachers.
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Beyond1984



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 15, 2011 9:41 am    Post subject: False witnesses must eat the dust... Reply with quote

"he was going to start spreading rumors that I am having relations with students." Shocked -peewee1979

Isn't the Biblical penalty for bearing false witness death by stoning? If not, it should be Twisted Evil

-HDT
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mrwslee003



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2011 12:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think many of you got too sensitive and got the wrong perspective on this Ft who is advising the AO's (administrative officers) what he thinks of what is going on in the school: This Ft was hired to do a job, I think because this Ft have many years of teaching experience and the AO's want to know what his input would be to improve their school.

And being an AO with an open mind he loves to hear what he can do to improve his school. Nothing wrong with that at all. He might just said or request this Ft do whatever he has to do so that the AO would have the Ft's perspective on the school. So the Ft is doing what he is expected to do. Mind you the paranoic teachers think this Ft is ratting on them. If that were so then those teachers would have heard from their Bosses already, right? But none have and no consequences yet because that was not the objective of this Ft.

So chill it, paranoid teachers. Just go on and do what you normally do and let the Ft report whatever he sees. Unless of course in your normal day you are doing illegal things and unprofessional things.

There is a saying in Chinese "jin jin bu pa huo! Real gold does not fear fire!". So teachers, ct or ft, are you real gold or not?

Just be cool and enjoy your job and don't let others determine how you feel about your job. Because you have a strong feeling about your job and nothing someone else does will change your mind.
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Shizzngiggles



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2011 12:18 am    Post subject: cool it? Reply with quote

It's one thing to do your job properly, but quite another to have to do it in constant fear that one little screw up may have dire consequences.

If the one ratting all the time makes it known and is annoying then they need to be confronted before the job becomes a nightmare.

Real gold can with stand fire, but that doesn't mean that it wants to be thrown into the flames 24/7.
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steve b



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2011 3:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Assuming this incredible scenario were true, reporting areas for improvement in any workplace does not involve grassing up fellow workers unless they are doing illegal things or malingering. It most certainly does not include tittle-tattle.

This theory appears to be spurious simply because not only is the ratter on the way out but the AOs pay no attention to him.
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mrwslee003



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2011 3:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What I am saying is "fear" is unfounded. If all of the teachers are doing a decent job and your perceived trouble maker is giving you trouble means nothing unless your boss is reacting to his "ratting". Which seems to be unfounded as well. Because there is simply no "reaction" from your boss or bosses to you or any one of the teachers.

The rest of the teachers seem to be "psyched out" for reasons you stated but unfounded, no proof. I just feel these teachers are lacking in self confidence, self esteem, and self worth. Which leads me to question the
caliber of professionals they are.

Any tree that topples by a breeze does not deserve to stand.
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