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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2011 8:02 am Post subject: |
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sigmoid wrote: |
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- why are people so negative on this forum? |
Well, everybody's experience is different, of course. But I suspect that most of the negativity toward VN comes from older teachers who
a) have lived in VN quite a few years and remember how it used to be better
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b) have lived in a number of different countries and see how living in VN does not compare favorably.
If you're young and VN is the first foreign country you've been to or you've just arrived from teaching in some place cold and dull or the Middle East, then yeah VN may seem adventurous at first.
This may or may not be the case for you. I have no idea how long you've been there or where all you have visited or lived. Anyway, in general, I think these differences in experience may contribute to the differences in opinion. |
Hi Sigmoid,
Sadly I am not that young any more. Nor is Vietnam my first time living and working in a foreign country. It�s actually my seventh and I have also travelled through over thirty more. Needless to say, I have never been to a country that was perfect. Perhaps Vietnam now is not as good (at least for an expat) as what it was �back in the day�, but things change and you either adjust (and make the best of it) or you don�t.
You stated that people�s opinions will vary with their experiences. Perfectly valid point and I have no argument with that. However, I really don�t understand why people continue to do things that make them unhappy. Sure if you have a family here than that complicates things, but no one is forced to either come here or stay. Not that long ago I was fed up living in Hanoi so I spent $55 on an air ticket and moved to Saigon. I like living in Saigon, but if I didn�t I would have tried my luck somewhere else (most likely in another country). Life�s too short.
Indeed, the few �miserable expats� that I have met whist living here I think would be miserable anywhere. They can�t help it - it�s just the way they are. Moreover, in Vietnam, based on my experience, they are a tiny minority of the expat population. I can�t say the same about Dave�s. The �miserable� posters are, in my view, overrepresented on this forum and, I feel, often give potential new teachers a completely distorted view of what living here is actually like. The vast majority of expats (myself included) are happy with their life�s here, but I doubt a potential newbie would gather that by reading this forum.
God knows there are plenty of things to criticise this country about. Animal rights, corruption, traffic, noise pollution, pollution, littering etc. are a disgrace! I also fully understand the usefulness of forums such as these to vent. But, as I have stated before on another thread, the life of a TEFLer in Vietnam is, in my view, a pampered existence. The lifestyle we enjoy for the amount of work we do is extremely favourable. Please understand that I not talking about you Sigmoid, but some of the posts on this forum make me almost cringe. I honestly hope that many Vietnamese don�t read Dave�s. If I was a Vietnamese working seven days a week, 12 hours a day for $500 a year and then read posts by foreigners (who have nothing good to say about my country), who work part time and make about $2000 a month [largely based on their skill in being able to communicate in their native language], I would probably be inclined to view foreign teachers as a bunch of ungrateful, whining cry babies. |
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haller_79
Joined: 09 Mar 2007 Posts: 145
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Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2011 9:26 am Post subject: |
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I love Vietnam, I hate Vietnam, I'll never be the same again.
Does that sum it up or what? |
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Jbhughes

Joined: 01 Jul 2010 Posts: 254
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Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2011 10:11 am Post subject: |
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[quote=1st Sgt Welsh]
if I was a Vietnamese working seven days a week, 12 hours a day for $500 a year
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Are there really people in VN getting paid 30000 for a 12-hour day? :O
[quote=1st Sgt Welsh]
I honestly hope that many Vietnamese don�t read Dave�s.
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I hope that the people from this country that belie the others do read this (entire) forum and understand that there are many countries and people from those countries and that although there are differences, these differences can be celebrated, are interesting and often allow all of us to learn more about ourselves and each-other.
I'm not suggesting you disagree with my point, 1st Sgt Welsh, I'm simply making this point because I have 'miserable' tendencies and the aforementioned area is the main cause. I just take things day-by-day, overall this job and country are the right decision for me at the moment.
toiyeuthitmeo made a fun post recently with ways of dealing with VN - I forgot to add one:
-When you meet an older person, call yourself 'con' (no tone, vowel sounds like the 'a' in a strong 'was') and them 'bo' (up tone, vowel sounds like the 'o' in the English 'go') for a man and 'me' (dot tone, vowel sounds like air) for a woman.
-When you meet a younger person, flip this around - 'con' for them, 'bo' for you if you're a male, 'me' for you if you're a female.
-If they try to point out you're using them incorrectly, just say '<insert relevant pronoun for yourself> khong biet tieng viet nhieu' and smile. |
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The Mad Hatter
Joined: 16 May 2010 Posts: 165
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Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2011 5:09 pm Post subject: |
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Well sure they make low wages here compared to foreigners but that doesnt excuse blatant overpricing.
Part of that whole low local wage numbers scenario can explain why prices are going up all the time. There is no risk in overcharging since they can afford to lose business. Its just as good to overcharge a few customers than give a lot more an average or decent price.
The subway sandwich footlong costs about 1/3 more here than in the states. You have to agree that just doesnt add up. It should be cheaper. But things seem to be targeted at the prototypical rich traveller. The thought seems to be- if foreigners can afford it- then they can pay more.
Prices are always climbing here beyond what the market will bear. One reason might be that the corrective forces aren't there like in other economies. Property owners own outright land already long since paid for at bargain rate and dont really pay tax. They dont need customers, they can just keep asking higher and higher prices. If the shop or business closes, they just raise the rent and wait for someone else to open another biz. |
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just noel
Joined: 17 Jul 2006 Posts: 168
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:29 am Post subject: |
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1st Sgt Welsh wrote: |
If I was a Vietnamese working seven days a week, 12 hours a day for $500 a year |
I've never met any Vietnamese that worked for that little. If anyone did work for that low of a salary/wage, they would not be able to eat.
It's OK if people want to air the complaints. No place is perfect. |
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spycatcher reincarnated
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 236
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 2:52 am Post subject: |
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The Mad Hatter wrote:
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The thought seems to be- if foreigners can afford it- then they can pay more. |
I would say that if people are perceived as wealthy then they are charged more. Nearly all westerners would be classified as wealthy. Wealthy Vietnamese people are also expected to pay more.
Price discrimination (PD) goes on on a massive scale in the west also, but it is usually more cleverly disguised.
Go in to a coffee shop with coffees ranging from 2-6 dollars that are virtually the same. Wealthy people want the 6 usd cup of coffee. The reason for having the 6 usd coffee on the menu is just because some people are prepared to pay that much, so why not take them for a ride? Admittedly this is their choice. (officially this would be classified as product discrimination rather than price discrimination).
One which isn�t disguised is graduated personal income tax rates, which most people seem to think of as being fair. A classic example of rich people being told to pay more and because most of the people don�t fall in to these higher brackets they seem to regard it as fair.
Reduced fares for old people and students.
More expensive university education for out of staters and foreigners.
The concept of �opportunity cost� seems better understood in Vietnam than it is in the west. IE someone who earns 15 usd an hour is more likely to be prepared to overpay for a product because it is not worth them wasting 20 minutes of their time to walk down the road and buy the product elsewhere and thus save 2 usd. For someone earning 2 usd an hour the 20 minute trip is worth the effort. Traders in Vietnam seem to be aware of this concept and try to use it to their advantage.
Sometimes PD seems fair and sometimes it doesn't and I believe this usually depends on what you are used to and what your personal situation is. To me PD in Vietnam seems quite reasonable over all. |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 5:35 am Post subject: |
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just noel wrote: |
1st Sgt Welsh wrote: |
If I was a Vietnamese working seven days a week, 12 hours a day for $500 a year |
I've never met any Vietnamese that worked for that little. If anyone did work for that low of a salary/wage, they would not be able to eat.
It's OK if people want to air the complaints. No place is perfect. |
Sorry guys, my bad .I�d read somewhere a while ago that the average income in VN was about $500 per annum. Maybe that was an old source. That seemed low to me, but I figured most Vietnamese lived out in the countryside where there are few employment opportunities and the cost of living is very low. Anyway I am sure there are people in Vietnam who earn that and maybe even less. A quick search on Google (which, apologies again, I should have done before posting) states that the average yearly income is around a thousand dollars. That�s an average so some people are earning less and some much, much more. No matter how you cut it, the wages here for the typical person on the street blow.
Don�t want to sound like a hypocrite so I will state flat out that I would never have considered living and working in Vietnam if all I could earn was �local wages�. Nonetheless, my initial point still stands. We are a privileged group in this country and most people here would kill for the opportunities and lifestyle we take for granted.
Just Noel I have no problem with people complaining per se and, like I said in my earlier post, there are things about this country which get on my nerves as well (like you said, no country is perfect). For example, I am quite content to whine like a mongrel dog on any thread concerning the traffic. However, Vietnam is what it is and it will not change to suit us. Not talking about you Just Noel, but if people don�t like it here � go! Or stay and be miserable � not my problem. Posts stating that the food is terrible, the people are horrible, Vietnam basically sucks etc. I don�t find especially accurate. Guess what, although I wasn't so keen on Hanoi, I like the food, the people and Vietnam.
Don�t get me wrong, teachers who are considering moving to Vietnam should be advised of the potential pitfalls and negatives. Vietnam is not everyone, but no country is. However, I think that this particular forum, in general, often lacks perspective. Like I wrote in my earlier post, most expats I know living here are perfectly happy � we wouldn�t stay here if we weren�t. The extent of negativity on Dave�s, I feel, is not reflective of the mentality of TEFLers in this country in general. In reality, the �haters� are only a tiny minority. But, on this forum at least, they are extremely vocal and I see potential of them giving people considering moving here a completely wrong impression. |
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[email protected]
Joined: 27 Oct 2010 Posts: 30
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 9:01 am Post subject: |
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1st Sgt Welsh makes a good point in both of his posts.
I was here in 2008 and was making $600 USD more than what I am now for less work. Would I like to make more, of course. Have things went down a bit? Yes, but I still can't complain because I still live quite comfortably and never really have to worry about paying my bills. This is not the case back at home in Canada where we are heavily taxed, things are getting more expensive, too many things to pay for, and you have little savings after your paycheck.
Every country has its advantages and disadvantages. I believe those who complain about Vietnam have their right to do so, but I don't think they have the right to totally smear Vietnam and says that it sucks. They also must be thankful to the country that allows them in to an easy job, by our standards, and get paid quite well for it. I think that if ESL teachers were paid the same as your average local, then none of you wouldn't bother coming here, but you did.
There's a great saying back in the west for the immigrants who came there fleeing their own country to start a better life in the new one, but yet still had something to complain about it, "If you don't like it here, then go back to your own country." |
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sigmoid
Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 1276
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 12:24 pm Post subject: |
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There's a great saying back in the west for the immigrants who came there fleeing their own country to start a better life in the new one, but yet still had something to complain about it, "If you don't like it here, then go back to your own country." |
That's quite clever if you're under the mistaken assumption that there are only two countries in the entire world.
VN is just one choice of many and it used to be able to compete with easy visas, relatively high wages and plentiful work in spite of the endless annoyances and deprivations. Now with visa headaches, stagnant wages/runaway inflation and a diminishing job market, it's failing the test.
If you're still in VN and doing well, I sincerely salute you. You've achieved something that is very difficult these days. Enjoy it while it lasts though... |
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The Mad Hatter
Joined: 16 May 2010 Posts: 165
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 4:30 pm Post subject: |
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So this is called "opportunity cost"? Economic terminology has a way of making anything sound reasonable or neutral. If it is price targeted for wealthy locals also, doesn't that just show that its endemic societal problem. Why should tennis shoes here cost double what they do in Germany?If theyre made here? Or a nice dinner at a restaurant? When labor cost and food is much lower. And why should Doc Martins made here cost almost double at home? Just because wealthy locals have a car why does that mean they should be charged up the wazzoo for tax? The excessiveness ends up denying everyone else the opportunity to purchase goods that are seen as hip or desirable. Why not say then that this justification for PD is also justifying an increased gap in income, since the whole profit just widens the income gap? Its already much wider here than reasonable.
But as teachers, if we provide a service which is able to draw a higher market rate than what locals can provide then that is what the price should be and there is no moral problem with that. But theres all the impositions on teachers income and earning ability. All the boom industry sprung up to corral us and tap off our incomes. regulations and many hands in the till at schools living off of foreign teacher's abilities. Thats understandable, but then to have one's income systematically factored in all over the place by an attitude that nice things from foreign countries must be VIP cost charged isnt helping anyone. |
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The Mad Hatter
Joined: 16 May 2010 Posts: 165
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Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2011 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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I believe those who complain about Vietnam have their right to do so, but I don't think they have the right to totally smear Vietnam and says that it sucks. They also must be thankful to the country that allows them in to an easy job, by our standards, and get paid quite well for it. I think that if ESL teachers were paid the same as your average local, then none of you wouldn't bother coming here, but you did. |
There's another side to this story.
Just disagreeing isnt the same as smearing a whole country- but - People don't welcome criticism here - you know that.
Why should people be thankful for having to justify receiving money that is practically fought tooth and nail for and targeted at so many levels? I went to park in a lot at midday today and was charged 10,000. Why? This sort of thing is an ongoing ever rising cost.
Why is it an easy job? It isn't. By local standards its hard. Teaching English is hard work. We dont have an affordable home to go home to. Schools have no sense of commitment to teachers and will drop them at the slightest inconvenience. There is no retirement here. And there are all sorts of cottage industries set up to provide especially high cost service for our every need. If I had a $ for every time someone here peered into my wallet while I was buying to see how much I have I would be a rich person by now. This is just money envy thats all.
Of course no one would come work here if paid the same as average local. Instead of everyone setting sights at the perceived fictional level of foreign wage earners why don they try to raise the overall standard for everyone ? Heal the world make it a better place for U and 4 Me and the entire human race. |
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deadlift
Joined: 08 Jun 2010 Posts: 267
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 1:37 am Post subject: |
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You speak for yourself, Madhatter. You may think that your experience is typical, but it's not, at least according to several posters here and the dozens of teachers I've met around town.
I like my work (obviously I'm a wet behind the ears youngster), which is a secure position (I must be totally naive to think that!), and I am pursuing professional development with the support of my employer (becoming a robot for them more like!).
I have many very good friends, both foreign and local (only after my money, I know). I have found the local people that I have gotten to know to be friendly and generous (they're probably setting me up).
I regularly save between $600-800 per month (because I live like a monk, no doubt). I live in a great house (at the mercy of a rapacious landlord of course) and have a long list of very good cafes, restaurants, and bars that I like to frequent (serving boiled meat and plain rice noodles, all of them). I regularly purchase tailored clothes (paying well above the market rate, because how can I possibly know the value of anything, anywhere?). I've never been asked for, let alone paid, 10k to park my motorbike.
Outside of tourist encounters and markets, I can't think of too many places that apply price discrimination. The supermarket, convenience stores, restaurants, bars, cafes, many clothing shops, most bookshops and stationery stores, the bike-wash, the majority of parking lots, some taxis, and even the kid that sells me chewing gum...
... all have clear and consistent fixed prices. In my experience. |
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spycatcher reincarnated
Joined: 19 May 2005 Posts: 236
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 3:25 am Post subject: |
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Various quotes from The Mad Hatter:
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If it is price targeted for wealthy locals also, doesn't that just show that its endemic societal problem. |
I gave examples where price discrimination applies to wealthier people in the West, so I don�t really see the difference here.
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Why should tennis shoes here cost double what they do in Germany?If theyre made here? Or a nice dinner at a restaurant? When labor cost and food is much lower. And why should Doc Martins made here cost almost double at home? |
Totally different issue that I am not going to get involved in.
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Just because wealthy locals have a car why does that mean they should be charged up the wazzoo for tax? |
Very few people pay PIT and the government has to get revenue somehow. Taxing luxury items is considered a reasonable way of doing so. Many other developing countries are following or have followed this route, and believe this is the route the WB, IMF, ADB, etc. advise Vietnam to follow. I would also argue that in Hanoi and HCMC the traffic situation is a nightmare. Addressing this situation through tax seems appropriate to me.
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The excessiveness ends up denying everyone else the opportunity to purchase goods that are seen as hip or desirable. Why not say then that this justification for PD is also justifying an increased gap in income, since the whole profit just widens the income gap? Its already much wider here than reasonable. |
Vietnam�s gini coefficient is actually quite good (income disparity indicator), but I guess that as Vietnam gets richer this coefficient will increase.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gini_coefficient
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But as teachers, if we provide a service which is able to draw a higher market rate than what locals can provide then that is what the price should be and there is no moral problem with that. But theres all the impositions on teachers income and earning ability. All the boom industry sprung up to corral us and tap off our incomes. regulations and many hands in the till at schools living off of foreign teacher's abilities. Thats understandable, but then to have one's income systematically factored in all over the place by an attitude that nice things from foreign countries must be VIP cost charged isnt helping anyone. |
This is standard in developing countries, but I do agree that it is not fair. In the west people pay PIT and low sales taxes. In Vietnam most people don�t pay PIT and if they can afford poducts then they pay high sales taxes. Unfortunately the few people that do pay PIT also get clobbered with high sales taxes. |
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snollygoster
Joined: 04 Jun 2009 Posts: 478
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 5:01 am Post subject: Bad Things |
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Isnt it a pity, that a country as beautiful as Vietnam is with its natural beauty, and its mostly friendly and welcoming people, is remembered so bitterly because of the over- the- top selfish acts of a few.
I have left Vietnam, and I say I will probably never return because of those few idiots who seem to hold the power and give an otherwise lovely place such a bad name. Sure those people are numbered in the thousands, but compared to a polulation of 84m they are the minority- Its just such a pity that their selfish acts and loud mouthes are the ones we notice the most-after all, they are the loudest and the most obnoxious.
Some people think I hate Vietnam- No I don't- but I DO hate the minority with the big mouth and the obnoxious manners who seem to dominate every social situation.
When Vietnam has grown up, I would love to take another look-It needs to get rid of the "bullies" that disgrace an otherwise lovely place. |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2011 8:01 am Post subject: |
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sigmoid wrote: |
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There's a great saying back in the west for the immigrants who came there fleeing their own country to start a better life in the new one, but yet still had something to complain about it, "If you don't like it here, then go back to your own country." |
That's quite clever if you're under the mistaken assumption that there are only two countries in the entire world.
VN is just one choice of many and it used to be able to compete with easy visas, relatively high wages and plentiful work in spite of the endless annoyances and deprivations. Now with visa headaches, stagnant wages/runaway inflation and a diminishing job market, it's failing the test.
If you're still in VN and doing well, I sincerely salute you. You've achieved something that is very difficult these days. Enjoy it while it lasts though... |
Indeed, there are more than two countries out there. So why do people stay in one that they so dislike living in?
I think Choung Ma's comparison was entirely valid. How would many of us on this forum react if the boot was on the other foot? If there were immigrant Vietnamese living in, for example, Vancouver who complained about Canada the way that some of the posters on Dave�s �hate on� Vietnam they would be told by the locals, in no uncertain terms, that if they didn�t like it they should avail themselves of the opportunity to return to their old country. We all know this is true. I�ve heard similar sentiments expressed so often, I�ve lost count. Go to any pub in Europe, North America, Australia or New Zealand and tell a story about some Vietnamese immigrant (real or imagined ) who hates the people, the food, the lifestyle, the country, the sports, the music, the weather etc of their adopted homeland. Then listen to the kind, gentle, sympathetic, tolerant, patient and understanding concerns expressed by the punters .
But, unlike most Vietnamese, we can exercise the option any time we want to move and live in a modern, developed, wealthy country with safety nets. Yet another thing most of the people in VN would probably kill for. Once again not so much talking about you Sigmoid, but if someone doesn�t like Vietnam they can go home or try somewhere else. It doesn�t reflect badly on them, it just means Vietnam wasn�t for them.
Like I wrote before, family complicates things and I do have sympathy for expats who feel trapped here due to family obligations. However, for single TEFLers who are miserable living here, but do nothing to improve or change their situation, I�ll be honest and say that I don�t really feel that bad for them.
If someone honestly believes that Vietnam is no longer competitive as a TEFL destination (I personally couldn�t agree less, but that�s fine) than that person can go to China, South Korea, Taiwan, Argentina, the UAE etc in search of a better deal. Who�s stopping them? Sure some places pay better than others, but that becomes part of the pros and cons that have to be weighed. If a person won't leave their life here because they don't think it will make much difference (i.e. they won�t be happy either at home or in any of the countries where TEFLers are needed), than the problem�s not Vietnam � it�s them! |
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