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Finding a Japanese girlfriend....

 
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GaijinGaijin



Joined: 29 May 2011
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 12:37 pm    Post subject: Finding a Japanese girlfriend.... Reply with quote

What's the best way for a foreigner in Japan to get a girlfriend?

If at all possible I want to stay out of the bars/clubs/etc.

Work is not an option as there are no options at work.


I'm even willing to try a dating site, but it looks like those aren't a very good choice...


Hmmmmm... Any ideas? Question
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ciccone_youth



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 1:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you live in a big city you can find tons of desperate, gaijin hunter types at foreigner bars.

Just sayin'.
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ciccone_youth



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 1:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, and try Japan.guide.com/Friends.

Though I always get creepy old men messaging me. Might work for guys, though.
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GaijinGaijin



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 1:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks man. Already one step ahead of you with option #2.


The Gaijin Hunters are nice for a fun night... but I want relationship material.. haha, whatever the hell that means
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ciccone_youth



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 1:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually I'm a girl!

Well I know tons of Japanese girls who are dying to get into a serious relationship- usually after 25 years old, maybe closer to 30, you'll find so many.

Just try those websites or join a new activity, or go to an event. It's easier in big cities, if you're in a rural area might be more tricky.
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GaijinGaijin



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 1:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sorry for assuming you were a man... Laughing


Yeah, those are all good options, just wish I had a little more free time. I've made a few male Japanese friends so I'm hoping they introduce me to someone. haha

Maybe I'm just being impatient... I've only been here for about a month...
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ciccone_youth



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 1:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Geez. You'll prob get married within a year.

At least you're not a foreign girl in Japan!
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