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twg



Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:24 pm    Post subject: suggestions for an easier life in Korea? Reply with quote

Hey guys, I've been thinking.

I always see advice on things like contracts to avoid, classroom tips, places to go party, places to live... But I don't recall tips for making living here easier. You know, the small things that aren't all that important in the big picture, but can drive you batty if enough of them get out of hand.

What prompted me to think this was sweeping my apartment: I have so much dark dust on my unused shelves, behind the bed, etc, from the dirty air. I had the same problem in Ansan as well. Anything that didn't get used regularly was covered in soot or whatever the hell is falling from the sky here.

So, hint for an easier life in Korea #1 - Buy a hand vacuum like a Dustbuster or something. Those tiny brooms don't work worth a damn.

Anything else?


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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Buy an oven and learn how to cook simple things. You will save a ton of money, will be healthier, and will eat better.

Learn to read Korean immediately.

Buy a computer.

Don't think that you have to be friends with your co-workers. Let it happen naturally as at home. If you're needy, you will end up regretting it.

Shop online.
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xtchr



Joined: 23 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ditch your lace-up footwear, in favour of easy on/off shoes, otherwise the Koreans you've just dined with will be 200 metres away from the restaurant while you're still putting on your shoes and tying the laces.
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jlb



Joined: 18 Sep 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

blaseblasphemener wrote:
Buy an oven and learn how to cook simple things. You will save a ton of money, will be healthier, and will eat better.

Learn to read Korean immediately.

Buy a computer.

Don't think that you have to be friends with your co-workers. Let it happen naturally as at home. If you're needy, you will end up regretting it.

Shop online.


Seriously, I think we have the same brain. This is the exact same advice I would give.

Learning Korean makes life easier in so, so many ways and is easy to learn. I would learn a few basic phrases too.

Computer...internet is key! Having it at home to download music, movies and TV shows is great. check out www.peekvid.com

Get cable TV. There's a few English programs and it helps to pass the time if you have a spare half hour or whatever before work.

Don't spend too much time with co-workers outside of work. You'll get burnt out on this pretty fast. Find friends in other places, especially those who've been around a while. They can teach you a lot about restaurants, etc.

Definitely cook your own meals. You'll get sick of eating out all the time, especially with the kimchi everywhere.

Actually try to do a decent job teaching. If the kids are actually learning, it will make your life here seem less meaningless.

Don't worry too much about making Korean friends. Ideally, we all would but it's hard at the same time. I help my co-teachers with all their English questions and they help me with my daily life stuff so it all works out in the end. This brings me to another thing I guess...get along well with your co-workers!!! This is key to a stress-free life in Korea.
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Son Deureo!



Joined: 30 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good thread idea.

Buy a T-Money card so you don't have to waste time at the window or vending machine every single time you want to ride the subway.

Buy a bicycle, it's entertainment, exercise and transportation.

Dump your spice rack into your suitcase before you come to Korea.

Find things to do in your free time that do not involve drinking. (I'm not saying don't drink, but a lot of the expat social scene revolves around bars so it's an easy trap to fall into.)

Relax, you're not Korean, no one expects you to act like one. Accept it and enjoy it.
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leebumlik69



Joined: 05 Jan 2006
Location: DiRectly above you. Pissing Down

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jlb wrote:
blaseblasphemener wrote:
Buy an oven and learn how to cook simple things. You will save a ton of money, will be healthier, and will eat better.

Learn to read Korean immediately.

Buy a computer.

Don't think that you have to be friends with your co-workers. Let it happen naturally as at home. If you're needy, you will end up regretting it.

Shop online.


Seriously, I think we have the same brain. This is the exact same advice I would give.

Learning Korean makes life easier in so, so many ways and is easy to learn. I would learn a few basic phrases too.

Computer...internet is key! Having it at home to download music, movies and TV shows is great. check out www.peekvid.com

Get cable TV. There's a few English programs and it helps to pass the time if you have a spare half hour or whatever before work.

Don't spend too much time with co-workers outside of work. You'll get burnt out on this pretty fast. Find friends in other places, especially those who've been around a while. They can teach you a lot about restaurants, etc.

Definitely cook your own meals. You'll get sick of eating out all the time, especially with the kimchi everywhere.

Actually try to do a decent job teaching. If the kids are actually learning, it will make your life here seem less meaningless.

Don't worry too much about making Korean friends. Ideally, we all would but it's hard at the same time. I help my co-teachers with all their English questions and they help me with my daily life stuff so it all works out in the end. This brings me to another thing I guess...get along well with your co-workers!!! This is key to a stress-free life in Korea.


tritto!
Also, join a gym no matter what
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rothkowitz



Joined: 27 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="jlb"]
blaseblasphemener wrote:
Buy an oven and learn how to cook simple things. You will save a ton of money, will be healthier, and will eat better.

Learn to read Korean immediately.

Buy a computer.

Don't think that you have to be friends with your co-workers. Let it happen naturally as at home. If you're needy, you will end up regretting it.

Shop online.


We ALL have the same brain.Freaky.

At the start of each month I stock up on whatever I want to eat and cook at home to save money and it's a good way to unwind.

Learning to read Korean straightaway is a must and,at any rate,it'll help you spot the loan words from English.

A computer is handy-music,movies,teaching ideas.Just the basic stuff which is actually difficult to track down in Korea in physical form.

Co-workers are co-workers.Unless you naturally get along it's enough to see them during the week.

Shopping on-line-the wife does that,she picks up some handy stuff cheaply.

Be low-maintenance at work.People will leave you to your own devices.
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 7:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is it with advice to bring spices? Costco has basic spices. It's not like you can buy anything here to put all those wonderful spices in anyway.
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billybrobby



Joined: 09 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

3 appliances that you might not think you need but you'll really be glad y ou have: a humidifier, a rice cooker, and a vacuum cleaner.

Find the real grocery store in your neighborhood. Not the crummy one with concrete floors that Koreans think it's OK to shop in, but the real one with a wine selection and (gasp) salad dressing that isn't just pink mayonaise.

Tuna and rice. Learn it. Know it. Live it.
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EFLtrainer



Joined: 04 May 2005

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Son Deureo! wrote:
Relax, you're not Korean, no one expects you to act like one. Accept it and enjoy it.


Um... I'd edit this to:

Relax, you're not Korean, even if some - many? - expect you to act like one. Accept it and enjoy it. BUT, be flexible with little things that cost you nothing but help keep things smooth with the locals. E.g., bowing is OK.
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Dev



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What an ironic title for this thread.! "Rules" in Korea?

There are no rules for living in Korea. Well, no rules that Koreans are actually expected to follow except for etiquette rules on how to act towards old people (like pouring drinks with your right hand).

This can be quite freeing for the foreigner. You don't have to care about your neighbors or strangers on the street because they sure don't care about you.
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xtchr



Joined: 23 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Corporal wrote:
What is it with advice to bring spices? Costco has basic spices. It's not like you can buy anything here to put all those wonderful spices in anyway.


Not everyone lives near a Costco.
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twg



Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dev wrote:
There are no rules for living in Korea.


Here, I changed it just for you.
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ursus_rex



Joined: 20 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul, ROK

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't treat life here like you're a transient or a tourist. Come with the attitude that you're here for the long, not the short, haul (even if that's not the case). Make it your home, not a way-station.
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye

PostPosted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

don't take work too seriously .

Have a good hobby to pursue in your spare time.

Explore the country. travel, see and do stuff.
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