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Sincinnatislink
Joined: 30 Jan 2007
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We're not pigs. Our nuances are beyond female comprehension.
We're misunderstood. |
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Canadagirl
Joined: 25 Aug 2006
Location: Canada
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| Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 9:04 pm Post subject: |
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I do not agree that all men are pigs... just most. This being after the discovering of my fiances other fiance and two girls on the side. Sorry guys but my opinion of men is very low now. How can one man ask two women to marry him? Was he hoping one would say no? Especially after he asked me to move back to Korea for him and took me to meet his family. His mother called me her "Western daughter"!
So can any man on this forum explain why? |
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Sincinnatislink
Joined: 30 Jan 2007
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| Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 9:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Sincinnatislink wrote: |
We're not pigs. Our nuances are beyond female comprehension.
We're misunderstood. |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 3:25 am Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
| Sorry guys but my opinion of men is very low now. |
As mine is of women, although truthfully, it has improved a lot in the intervening years since my engagement.
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| How can one man ask two women to marry him? Was he hoping one would say no? |
Well, probably the same way one woman can say yes to two marriage proposals. Was she hoping that one of us would "forget" we were engaged and not marry her? |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 5:33 am Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
I do not agree that all men are pigs... just most. This being after the discovering of my fiances other fiance and two girls on the side. Sorry guys but my opinion of men is very low now. How can one man ask two women to marry him? Was he hoping one would say no? Especially after he asked me to move back to Korea for him and took me to meet his family. His mother called me her "Western daughter"!
So can any man on this forum explain why? |
Well, you're speaking after a very bitter pill was swallowed. Men tend to be hunters and predatory more than women. However, there are plenty of women who are gold diggers. I know of many cases where a man had a temporary set back and his materialistic wife left him. How many cases have you heard of women doing that? You have the good and the bad.
Of course, I don't expect you to be objective after being stabbed in the heart. I mean you went all the way back to Korea to meet his family and he did such a cruel, cruel, cruel thing; I feel for you and your suffering.
I am sorry you have to endure this, but you are fortunate not to have married a morally bankrupt person. So count your blessings though you may be thinking of your pain.
Cheers... |
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Dan The Chainsawman
Joined: 05 May 2005
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 6:33 am Post subject: |
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| Horse crap. All us homeboys just wanna stick the stink in the pink or whatever it they say. |
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Canadagirl
Joined: 25 Aug 2006
Location: Canada
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 11:37 pm Post subject: |
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I just have to wonder if there are any loyal men out there. Seems everyone I date is always on the lookout for his next girlfriend. I am not saying that women are better - but I am not looking to date a woman! I could never imagine cheating or lying to someone I realy love. When I am in love I can't even think about other men.
I guess my question is... where are all the good guys and how do I find one? |
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luvnpeas
Joined: 03 Aug 2006
Location: somewhere i have never travelled
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| Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 12:15 am Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
I just have to wonder if there are any loyal men out there. Seems everyone I date is always on the lookout for his next girlfriend. I am not saying that women are better - but I am not looking to date a woman! I could never imagine cheating or lying to someone I realy love. When I am in love I can't even think about other men.
I guess my question is... where are all the good guys and how do I find one? |
Are you a hottie? |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 3:36 am Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
| Seems everyone I date is always on the lookout for his next girlfriend. |
I'm only on the lookout for another girlfriend when I don't have one (currently on the lookout). If I don't like you enough to stay with you, thinking there will be someone better just around the corner, I wouldn't have asked you out in the first place. |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 6:07 am Post subject: |
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| I would suggest you be quite careful. Don't rush into dating some guy. Or if you do date some guy, keep him at a distance and play a little hard to get. I mean be friendly but don't give too much unless he really shows he deserves it. I mean you've already been burned; that was not a nice experience at all. I have had nurse a girl who was mistreated big time by some a**. I didn't do it because I necessarily wanted to go out with her. I thought she was nice, and I don't like guys treating girls like they are dog meat. Though, it does happen to guys. A buddy of mine was really put through the ringer by his gal. It happens both ways. We are not in the world of saints but there are good folks out there. |
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luvnpeas
Joined: 03 Aug 2006
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Canadagirl
Joined: 25 Aug 2006
Location: Canada
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| Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 11:52 pm Post subject: |
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No worries luvnpeas...
But are you saying if were ugly I would not have this problem? Are ugly people more loyal? |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:59 am Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
No worries luvnpeas...
But are you saying if were ugly I would not have this problem? Are ugly people more loyal? |
No, he was probably thinking something else. Of course, having a certain look often helps. But, I don't think attractiveness simply cuts it. It is much more complicated than that. People are so much more than being hot or not so hot. I've known many girls who were drop dead gorgeous and mistreated. No one is really immune from that. I am not sure he was paying attention to your story as much as wondering if you're attractive. But he seems like a nice guy. I think it all boils down to attitude and experience in terms of your luck.
In Korea, I hear cheating is worse than back home. I am not sure. But, I do recall sitting a bar with some mates and there was a married woman who was a mother and she was sitting with us. She wanted to hook up with one of our friends. I don't think that is cool, of course. There are a lot of pressures in Korea to meet the "right" guy or girl to please your family.
To conclude the bit are men all pigs, I can say plenty of us guys are good.
However, many of us are predatory, aggressive, think about our physical needs before the feelings of the girl and some may be quite rude to some girls in the street. I am sure there are some things some guys would do that if I saw them do that to my sister, I would be very, very, very upset.
So I would say before you do anything that you wouldn't want done to your sister, don't do it. |
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The Bobster
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 10:40 am Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
| I just have to wonder if there are any loyal men out there. |
Yeah, there are. But we hide ourselves because we know how valuable such trait it is that we possess. Oh, yeah, and also because some other girl found us first and will not let us go ...
Good luck, there might be one or two of us left out there. Keep looking.
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nautilus
Joined: 26 Nov 2005
Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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| Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Canadagirl wrote: |
I just have to wonder if there are any loyal men out there. Seems everyone I date is always on the lookout for his next girlfriend. I am not saying that women are better - but I am not looking to date a woman! I could never imagine cheating or lying to someone I realy love. When I am in love I can't even think about other men.
I guess my question is... where are all the good guys and how do I find one? |
How female  
Sweetheart there are many good and loyal men around. Its just that you probably consider them "too nice". |
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