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venus



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 11:27 pm    Post subject: A must read for foreiegners who want to understand Koreans Reply with quote

Hey.

There's a book out at the moment called 'The Geography of Thought.'

It covers HOW Asians (in the book the term is used to clasify people from far eastern countries, namely Korea, Japan and China) and Westerners (people whose culture can be traced back to Greek culture - USA, Western Europe, Australia and British Colonies) think differently and WHY.

I don't have time for a lengthy appraisal but the book points out that the differences in the way the two groups perceive the world are not SOLEY due to soical aspects (ie Asian = collective / rice farming culture / Western = lone hunters / fishermen etc with more personal agency / Asians see objects in context with their environment, Westerners seperate object from environment etfc...) but also due to the Physical make up of the brain.

I think EVERY ESL teacher in Korea needs to read this book.

It really opened my mind and made me realize that I often think some Korean practices / cultural practices etc are annoying or even ridiculous and that it is the idea that is different, thus ideas can be changed, so I get frustrated as to why they have such bizzare ideas so often...

And what this book has done for me is to make me realize that it's not just a battle of ideas - their ideas are outmoded / unproductive etc - but that they are just DIFFERENT. Neither of the two groups' ideas are right or wrong, they both TRULY perceive the world in uniquely different ways.

The intriguing part for me is that in a lot of their experiments Asian-American�s / European�s results were practically always in the middle between the Asian and Western results, suggesting that it is more than just societal and environmental factors that affect how different races perceive the world, that there is perhaps an organic explanation too�

It�s just totally got me chilled out these days, like when I think something my co-workers do or say or want me to do is ridiculous, I truly get it now � that to them it is totally reasonable, not just a �different idea� but is more entrenched than that, leaving me more open to co-operation with them.

A must read for anyone wanting to understand the Koreans they interact with and to be more tolerant and understanding.
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kermo



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're right. It's terrific. It's been discussed in recent months here:
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=71643&highlight=geography++thought

and here, a couple years ago:
http://eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=30587&view=next

and on another thread started by Ya-Ta Boy which I can't find right now.
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Cheonmunka



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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A must read for anyone wanting to understand the Koreans they interact with and to be more tolerant and understanding.


Well, for me it works both ways; when I encounter a bigot I treat him as a bigot.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:08 am    Post subject: Re: A must read for foreiegners who want to understand Korea Reply with quote

venus wrote:
Hey.

There's a book out at the moment called 'The Geography of Thought.'

It covers HOW Asians (in the book the term is used to clasify people from far eastern countries, namely Korea, Japan and China) and Westerners (people whose culture can be traced back to Greek culture - USA, Western Europe, Australia and British Colonies) think differently and WHY.

I don't have time for a lengthy appraisal but the book points out that the differences in the way the two groups perceive the world are not SOLEY due to soical aspects (ie Asian = collective / rice farming culture / Western = lone hunters / fishermen etc with more personal agency / Asians see objects in context with their environment, Westerners seperate object from environment etfc...) but also due to the Physical make up of the brain.

I think EVERY ESL teacher in Korea needs to read this book.

It really opened my mind and made me realize that I often think some Korean practices / cultural practices etc are annoying or even ridiculous and that it is the idea that is different, thus ideas can be changed, so I get frustrated as to why they have such bizzare ideas so often...

And what this book has done for me is to make me realize that it's not just a battle of ideas - their ideas are outmoded / unproductive etc - but that they are just DIFFERENT. Neither of the two groups' ideas are right or wrong, they both TRULY perceive the world in uniquely different ways.

The intriguing part for me is that in a lot of their experiments Asian-American�s / European�s results were practically always in the middle between the Asian and Western results, suggesting that it is more than just societal and environmental factors that affect how different races perceive the world, that there is perhaps an organic explanation too�

It�s just totally got me chilled out these days, like when I think something my co-workers do or say or want me to do is ridiculous, I truly get it now � that to them it is totally reasonable, not just a �different idea� but is more entrenched than that, leaving me more open to co-operation with them.

A must read for anyone wanting to understand the Koreans they interact with and to be more tolerant and understanding.


Yeah, Fan death...it's not just wrong, it's different!

I'm really starting to hate cultural relativism.
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Darkness



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

where can i get a copy of this book?
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JeJuJitsu



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:56 am    Post subject: Re: A must read for foreiegners who want to understand Korea Reply with quote

venus wrote:
Hey.

There's a book out at the moment called 'The Geography of Thought.'

It covers HOW Asians (in the book the term is used to clasify people from far eastern countries, namely Korea, Japan and China) and Westerners (people whose culture can be traced back to Greek culture - USA, Western Europe, Australia and British Colonies) think differently and WHY.

I don't have time for a lengthy appraisal but the book points out that the differences in the way the two groups perceive the world are not SOLEY due to soical aspects (ie Asian = collective / rice farming culture / Western = lone hunters / fishermen etc with more personal agency / Asians see objects in context with their environment, Westerners seperate object from environment etfc...) but also due to the Physical make up of the brain.

I think EVERY ESL teacher in Korea needs to read this book.

It really opened my mind and made me realize that I often think some Korean practices / cultural practices etc are annoying or even ridiculous and that it is the idea that is different, thus ideas can be changed, so I get frustrated as to why they have such bizzare ideas so often...

And what this book has done for me is to make me realize that it's not just a battle of ideas - their ideas are outmoded / unproductive etc - but that they are just DIFFERENT. Neither of the two groups' ideas are right or wrong, they both TRULY perceive the world in uniquely different ways.

The intriguing part for me is that in a lot of their experiments Asian-American�s / European�s results were practically always in the middle between the Asian and Western results, suggesting that it is more than just societal and environmental factors that affect how different races perceive the world, that there is perhaps an organic explanation too�

It�s just totally got me chilled out these days, like when I think something my co-workers do or say or want me to do is ridiculous, I truly get it now � that to them it is totally reasonable, not just a �different idea� but is more entrenched than that, leaving me more open to co-operation with them.

A must read for anyone wanting to understand the Koreans they interact with and to be more tolerant and understanding.


And another apologist is born...

But riddle me this--why are there none of these bizare behaviors present in say, SE Asia?

The brains in Southeast Asia must also be different than Koreans' brains, huh?
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epey82



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 10:32 am    Post subject: Re: A must read for foreiegners who want to understand Korea Reply with quote

And another apologist is born...

But riddle me this--why are there none of these bizare behaviors present in say, SE Asia?

The brains in Southeast Asia must also be different than Koreans' brains, huh?[/quote]

And another idiot speaks...

What are you talking about? It's not about their brains being different. It's about cultural differences. SE Asia has a much different culture than East Asia. Not to mention a history of Western rule (British occupation of India).

I don't think that people understand that culture goes so much deeper than we think. We don't always have to look for a biological explanation for behavioral differences in people.

I really appreciate someone trying to be positive and understanding about the cultural devide and how not to lash out against it. I would love to check out the book.
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SarcasmKills



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 2:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Decent book, but rather dry and even preachy at times.
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JeJuJitsu



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:21 pm    Post subject: Re: A must read for foreiegners who want to understand Korea Reply with quote

epey82 wrote:

What are you talking about? It's not about their brains being different. It's about cultural differences. SE Asia has a much different culture than East Asia. Not to mention a history of Western rule (British occupation of India).


Hey, the OP is the one that used "organic" in their explanation, not me. Perhaps OP was misusing the term, whatever. Explain then why Thais are "normal" compared to the Koreans, as they have never been ruled by outsiders. Not trying to be argumentative, I'd actually like to know how the book explains SE Asians being quite normal in behavior, yet the Koreans so bizzzzare, since I've heard this "Asian mind" theory thrown about to explain Korean oddities.
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Yu_Bum_suk



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To conduct any sort of test one would have to use Asians adopted into white families. Based on the ones I've met, I doubt the above-stated thesis would hold.
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venus



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SarcasmKills wrote:
Decent book, but rather dry and even preachy at times.


I agree. It's very poorly written and INSANELY repetetive. But it does make you think outside the box, well it made me think outside mine and I'm glad of it...

I'm not an apologist. Again there are just so many people who can only polarise things. "He's saying he tries to understand and accept aspects of Korean culture, thus he accepts ALL and EVERYTHING... he's an... um, ooh, lets make a term that classifies him as a set, definable, fixed entity... ah, erm - He's an.... an.... 'APOLOGIST!!!!' YES!!!"

I don't like what those Righties are doing so I'll react against the most extreme features of what they believe by believing the extreme opposite and become a Leftie - hey cool, I'm a leftie, I have my own group - (and miss out other possibly relevant stuff in the middle and even in the regions in the not so extreme areas of the Right...) Glad my mind isn't so fixed.

Fan death is ridiculous, yes. So too in my opinion is the oriental medical notion that western medicine is wrong in isolating the symptomatic locale from the rest of the organism instead of looking for a whole body explaination. Western medicine (in my opinion) is more effective in most (not all) cases, which is why it has become the world standard.

But, for example, the notion that when I go into class my students should automaticaly show me respect and obedience (a western notion) is not accepted here. Here the teacher should over time, become friends with his / her students. It's impossible to say either is correct... And I now know how to go about trying to make my relationships with mine better...

Yawn, is all I can say to you.

The reasons why S.E Asians are classified as different is due in part to language as Asian languages are classed apart from Euro-Indian Languages, the term 'Euro-Indo' suggesting (to me) some cognitive, perceptual (categorical) simmilarity. Possibly (only possibly) S.E Asians might be classified as being culturally somewhat in the center of the two extreme polarities of East and West, having some simmilar qualities of both groups. I don't know enough about the subject though to be honest...

Anyay, if you haven't read it, give it a try. It might not make you believe in fan death, but might help you along the road of undestanding why Koreans will collectively believe such a ridiculous notion and how that's not going to change and ultimately, they're just different, and there are tons of reasons that you did not grow up with that they're different and it might just help you accept the differences and work around them even if you don't 'get them'. Because you can't change them and not wanting to do so or thinking you should does not make you an apologist.

Just my opinion...
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kermo



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
To conduct any sort of test one would have to use Asians adopted into white families. Based on the ones I've met, I doubt the above-stated thesis would hold.


There were tests given to Asian-Americans, given "priming" to evoke their Asian heritiage, and without. The results were interestingly different.
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Milwaukiedave



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Venus,

Thanks for the suggested reading. I've never heard of that book before, but I'm definately going to see if I can find it. I'm headed back home in a few months, but I still think it would be a god idea for me to read it. I'm married to a Korean and sometime get frustrated at the differences in the way we think. Maybe it will help me to be a little more understanding and patient (although sometimes I doubt I can be either).

Have you read "The Koreans" by Michael Breen? If you've been here long enough you will totally identify with what he says. I laughed through the whole book.
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
To conduct any sort of test one would have to use Asians adopted into white families. Based on the ones I've met, I doubt the above-stated thesis would hold.
My adopted little brother--born in Seoul-- knows less about Korean culture than I do.
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venus



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Milwaukiedave wrote:
Venus,

Thanks for the suggested reading. I've never heard of that book before, but I'm definately going to see if I can find it. I'm headed back home in a few months, but I still think it would be a god idea for me to read it. I'm married to a Korean and sometime get frustrated at the differences in the way we think. Maybe it will help me to be a little more understanding and patient (although sometimes I doubt I can be either).


You can pick it up in What the book, Kyobo, Bandi & Lundi's...
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