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teachinkorea
Joined: 13 Feb 2007
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 3:59 am Post subject: Korean people:Nice, Nasty or Neither |
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I've been researching info about Korea and the place seems to appeal to me (based on what i read, not on experience). However, i've noticed there are alot of posts referring to Koreans as racist and rude and the employers are trying the screw the foreigner. Whilst there are negative posts about diff . races , negative comments about Koreans seem to be the most common.
Any opinions? How do you find Koreans in general compared to Japanese.
When i lived in Japan, there were some anti-gaijin sentiment but this was overshadowed by japanese people who really wanted to get to know caucasians. |
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Missile Command Kid
Joined: 17 Jul 2006 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 4:23 am Post subject: |
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It's a typical insular culture, in my opinion. Some Koreans are xenophobic, others are overly excited about foreigners. I think the problem with hagwons lie with the fact that most foreigners consider them to be places of education, whereas hagwon owners consider them to be businesses. This difference in perspective can cause problems sometimes.
I've never met any xenophobes, but genuinely caring and friendly people who wanted to help me adapt to Korea. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 4:34 am Post subject: |
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Whilst there are negative posts about diff . races , negative comments about Koreans seem to be the most common.
Any opinions? How do you find Koreans in general compared to Japanese.
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The squeaky wheel gets the grease. Is this news? No, it isn't. It is far more common for someone to get pissed off and come on here and post about a crappy experience they just had at the supermarket than it is for someone to post the nice encounters they had that day.
I cannot compare Koreans and Japanese since I have only spent 3 days in Japan.
I'm having a hard time resisting the impulse to write a tirade about people who think in generalities and groups of people, but I'm going to bite my tongue.
In my experience, and in the experience of MANY people who have posted MANY posts saying that the vast majority of their encounters with Korean people have been positive, don't worry about xenophobes among Koreans. You are just as likely to have problems with wacky Westerners as you are with nasty Koreans. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 4:48 am Post subject: |
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Both.
But waaaay more of the former than the latter. |
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Rteacher

Joined: 23 May 2005 Location: Western MA, USA
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:00 am Post subject: |
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I've been in Korea for around five years, and I've encountered many more nice people than nasty ones. Practically no contest ...
And (since I'm in Korea...) I'll boldly state that Koreans are much nicer than the Japanese ... |
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Trevor
Joined: 16 Nov 2005
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:19 am Post subject: |
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Compared to who? I think you have to have a control group.
If your baseline is, say, the U.S., then Koreans are considerably nicer. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:29 am Post subject: |
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If your baseline is, say, the U.S., then Koreans are considerably nicer. |
Which portion of the 300,000,000 are you talking about? If you are referring to Californians or New Yorkers, then you may be right. If you are talking about Midwesterners, then I don't see all that much difference. |
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huffdaddy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 5:30 am Post subject: |
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Trevor wrote: |
If your baseline is, say, the U.S., then Koreans are considerably nicer. |
Where in the US? Versus where in Korea? |
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ChopChaeJoe
Joined: 05 Mar 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 7:21 am Post subject: |
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A coworker once told me that she didn't have to say please because she was korean and i was a foreigner.
never did her a favor again, i actually stopped listening to her and now only communicate with hand signals indicating for her to shoo fly shoo.
On the average tho, ost are nice. |
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Kimchieluver

Joined: 02 Mar 2005
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 7:24 am Post subject: |
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Dokdo Vs Alcatraz |
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passport220

Joined: 14 Jun 2006 Location: Gyeongsangbuk-do province
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 8:47 am Post subject: |
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Exclude Seoul bus and taxi drivers and I would vote for nice. |
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Paji eh Wong

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 12:23 pm Post subject: |
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Individually pretty nice, collectively bipolar. |
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jaderedux

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Lurking outside Seoul
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 1:33 pm Post subject: |
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Paji eh Wong wrote: |
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Individually pretty nice, collectively bipolar. |
Best explanation I have ever heard!
jade |
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polonius

Joined: 05 Jun 2004
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 3:02 pm Post subject: Nice Koreans |
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I have experienced many instances where a Korean would go out of their way to help a foreign teacher of mine. Example, a 70 year old Korean man helped me carry a Turkey 1/2 a kilometer to the subway. I am in decent shape and was managing fine. Another, saw that a teacher of mine was lost and confused. He flagged a cab, took the teacher where they needed to go, then paid for the cab.
I would say they lean more to the nice end of the spectrum. But remember there are a$$holes in every culture. And if you walk around with an attitude, odds are, you will be greeted with an attitude, and that is worldwide. |
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luvnpeas

Joined: 03 Aug 2006 Location: somewhere i have never travelled
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Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2007 3:37 pm Post subject: |
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Some are nice. Some are nasty.
Duh.
Maybe you should rephrase the question. |
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