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traxxe

Joined: 21 Feb 2007
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Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 9:10 am Post subject: |
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Sounds like you both have some growing up to do emotionally still...
Man, I figure if you can take her at her absolute most terrible. If she is on the rag and verbally insulting you, being a mega bitch... and you still want her around and don't want to just walk out. Then marry her.
If not, let if go.
To me marriage is looking at someone at their absolute most terrible and if they still seem to have redeeming enough qualities in your mind then give it a shot. Marriage is putting up with a lifetime of the bad too... and as looks and sexual desire fade naturally all you are left with is personality and compatibility...
There is no make up sex for 60 year olds... or if there is... I don't want to know about it. |
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Zoidberg

Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Location: Somewhere too hot for my delicate marine constitution
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Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 4:19 pm Post subject: |
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| gsxr750r wrote: |
Well, now I got a text that she never actually told her mother, and I can take as long as I need, but our relationship will be difficult from here, she thinks. We'll talk on Friday.
Games, games.... guess I'm guilty of that, too. |
Man, I hate the "I did something crap, how are you gonna deal with it?" test/game. Annoying.
However, her playing this card shows, in a rather convoluted way, that she still wants you, and is scared that your "I'm not ready" is actually you saying "I don't love you". Which seems to mean she will wait, but she is not entirely confident of your reasons for waiting. |
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